I am fully on the self-improvement path. I am on good terms with mymale colleagues, they invite me to lunches and let me know when they are going for smoke, I'm guessing they value my conversation? - It may not seem much but these things never happened a few years ago, suddenly people want to be with me.
Before I get to the topic title, to be more accurate, the older women like me, they are very forward with their compliments and have broad genuine smiles but sometimes I suspect maybe it's a mom vibe?
So the girls at work in my age group they are really avoiding me, they can't even look in my direction, they could be doing the rounds chit-chatting with everyone and I am skipped. Is it a shit-test? This is just chit-chat we are talking about. They offer to make coffee to everyone and skip me. It seems purposeful and I don't understand it.
When I am 1 to 1 with them they are perfectly fine all smiles and we talk normally then in public setting it's the cold shoulder.
[–]theUnBannableHulk113 points114 points115 points (22 children) | Copy Link
[–]555654t45655572 points73 points74 points (19 children) | Copy Link
[–]thrwy7547911 points12 points13 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (1 child) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]thrwy754791 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]2319Skew64 points65 points66 points (14 children) | Copy Link
[–]555654t45655521 points22 points23 points (13 children) | Copy Link
[–]Sora2637 points38 points39 points (12 children) | Copy Link
[–]Kaamii61 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (1 child) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]AmericasNuma1Douche1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]RodDiddy0 points1 point2 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]majorketone4 points5 points6 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]Sora262 points3 points4 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]RodDiddy0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]i-am-the-prize1 point2 points3 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Kaamii60 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]VigilantSmartbomb1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (1 child) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]theUnBannableHulk26 points27 points28 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Endorsed Contributorleftajar146 points147 points148 points (12 children) | Copy Link
[–]monky-loves-you53 points54 points55 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Hungboy696942021 points22 points23 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]White_Phillip1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]redditaccount99844 points5 points6 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]Endorsed Contributorleftajar22 points23 points24 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[+]redditaccount9984-6 points-5 points-4 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]mortalcoil15 points6 points7 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]redditaccount99840 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]mortalcoil19 points10 points11 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]redditaccount9984-2 points-1 points0 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]watchguy45115 points116 points117 points (8 children) | Copy Link
[–]redditaccount998420 points21 points22 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (6 children) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]johncillo32 points33 points34 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] (3 children) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]failingtheturingtest18 points19 points20 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]johncillo7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]clickherebaby3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Greaterbird1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Flamergoh22 points23 points24 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[+]redditaccount9984-7 points-6 points-5 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]jrr6415sun2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]redditaccount99842 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]iamRRading21 points22 points23 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]when_its_too_late10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]adomuzas48 points49 points50 points (28 children) | Copy Link
[–]Casd1214 points15 points16 points (27 children) | Copy Link
[–]adomuzas15 points16 points17 points (24 children) | Copy Link
[–]animal-mother1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]theyearsstartcomin0 points1 point2 points (22 children) | Copy Link
[–]animal-mother3 points4 points5 points (21 children) | Copy Link
[–]theyearsstartcomin1 point2 points3 points (20 children) | Copy Link
[–]animal-mother2 points3 points4 points (19 children) | Copy Link
[–]theyearsstartcomin0 points1 point2 points (18 children) | Copy Link
[–]animal-mother0 points1 point2 points (17 children) | Copy Link
[–]theyearsstartcomin0 points1 point2 points (16 children) | Copy Link
[–]Tiberiuss71 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]AldoTheeApache1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Coolguy169919 points20 points21 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]drunkPKMNtrainer4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Mickusey0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] (1 child) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]foreignobjectfound3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]2319Skew3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]RedPillAlphaBigCock2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Hedser915 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]0_0Sup1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]poortrait1000 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]omega050 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]cfbovernfl0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]HurricaneHugues0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]guyfromthe0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]7K60FXD0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Whitefarmer0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]VigilantSmartbomb0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Throwawayboss110 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]peacemakerzzz0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link