Dude...preference is preference. You can’t choose what you’re attracted to. I wouldn’t pursue women that are extremely heavy, just because it increases my odds of being in a relationship—I don’t find them attractive.
We’re just hardwired the way we are. I’ve bailed on plenty of women that “just didn’t do it for me”—most being women I didn’t feel much attraction to, but gave it a shot anyway.
At 6’2”, she represents a fraction of the population, herself. Why don’t you focus on the other 98%, and not worry about what a literal giant prefers?
I have plenty of short/average-sized friends, that absolutely KILL it, and some of these dudes aren’t even attractive. You’re over-thinking this shit.
I know that the consensus is that a tall woman may set extreme height standards that would be unrealistic for a shorter woman, but I disagree somewhat. Nearly every woman wants a tall man, so no matter how tall this woman is, she's still competing for the tallest guys against every other woman who values that trait (which is almost all of them).
Most guys don't care that much about a woman's height, although she's practically a giantess so that limits her prospects a bit. She would be much better off by ditching the height requirement, or at least being willing to date guys of average height. I dated women who are taller than me and it's no big deal. Some guys even prefer tall chicks.
To me, this is comparable to what FDS says about "leveling up." The idea is that the higher a woman goes in things that increase a man's mate value (like career, education, and wealth), the higher she can set her standards. Obviously it doesn't work that way, because men don't place value on how good a woman is at being a man. Height on a woman is like that: being 6'2" is a great trait for a man to have, but it does nothing for her, so using that as an excuse to have an extreme height requirement for men isn't justified.
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Dude...preference is preference. You can’t choose what you’re attracted to. I wouldn’t pursue women that are extremely heavy, just because it increases my odds of being in a relationship—I don’t find them attractive.
We’re just hardwired the way we are. I’ve bailed on plenty of women that “just didn’t do it for me”—most being women I didn’t feel much attraction to, but gave it a shot anyway.
At 6’2”, she represents a fraction of the population, herself. Why don’t you focus on the other 98%, and not worry about what a literal giant prefers?
I have plenty of short/average-sized friends, that absolutely KILL it, and some of these dudes aren’t even attractive. You’re over-thinking this shit.
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I know that the consensus is that a tall woman may set extreme height standards that would be unrealistic for a shorter woman, but I disagree somewhat. Nearly every woman wants a tall man, so no matter how tall this woman is, she's still competing for the tallest guys against every other woman who values that trait (which is almost all of them).
Most guys don't care that much about a woman's height, although she's practically a giantess so that limits her prospects a bit. She would be much better off by ditching the height requirement, or at least being willing to date guys of average height. I dated women who are taller than me and it's no big deal. Some guys even prefer tall chicks.
To me, this is comparable to what FDS says about "leveling up." The idea is that the higher a woman goes in things that increase a man's mate value (like career, education, and wealth), the higher she can set her standards. Obviously it doesn't work that way, because men don't place value on how good a woman is at being a man. Height on a woman is like that: being 6'2" is a great trait for a man to have, but it does nothing for her, so using that as an excuse to have an extreme height requirement for men isn't justified.
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At 6‘2 she gets a pass on height requirement. Y‘all may not like it but you’d probably be too insecure to date taller anyway.
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