CMV: women take sex for granted.

Mrs_Drgree · 2020-02-16T05:42:19+00:00

Removed for OP abandonment

SherbertBacon · 2020-02-16T00:52:34+00:00

Let’s face it; sex is fun,

Not always, women get pleasure out of it less often than men, on average, if it's with a new/strange partner.

This should make them happy but they don’t seem to care about it at all.

It's almost as if they care about more than just having casual sex with near-strangers. Hmmmm.....

Women don’t see sex for what it is.

Sure they do. For what it is to them. A pregnancy and STI risk. A social risk (being labelled slut, etc.). A danger risk. An emotional risk (oxytocin and pair-bonding for women happens with sex).

If you practiced a little empathy you'd see your argument is completely ineffective. It's like arguing that Muslims take bacon for granted.

Orange_Paisley · 2020-02-16T00:05:18+00:00

We value sex - with men we like and want to have sex with. The fact that random men we aren’t attracted to, and barely even know, want to use us as a masturbatory aid, is not sexy.

Bekiala · 2020-02-16T01:32:54+00:00

To better understand what it is like for a woman to have sex, visualize having PIA sex with another man where you are the recipient.

There may well be many men who would want to do this with you. I doubt it matters how much these male partners want to show you a good time; you still aren't going to find the situation appealing.

superlurkage · 2020-02-16T03:22:55+00:00

Women can have this amazing, extremely validating fun ANY TIME they want.

Lol have you even talked to women? Like 95% of sex for women is pretty fucking dull and bad.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2020-02-16T00:11:29+00:00

Sex is rarely "amazing" for most women this is just solipsism and porn goggles

innerglowrp · 2020-02-16T01:28:14+00:00

Sex is worthless, even repulsive, if not with someone you want.

poppy_blu · 2020-02-16T01:37:02+00:00

So I see that we’ve moved from “society should take away women’s rights so they’re forced to fuck men like me to survive” to “women should be like men and fuck anything then I wouldn’t be a Virgin.”

IDk, is that an improvement?

ontherailstoday · 2020-02-16T03:12:17+00:00

We see casual sex for what it is. Sex with a man. Many of whom are kinda crap and even the ones who aren't crap you don't necessarily want to risk babies with or risk them trying to worm their way into your life and start controlling you. Some are into that crapshoot, other's aren't.

Just think of all the sex with men that men are refusing to take advantage of day in and day out. All you gotta do is get on Grindr, dude. Don't want to do that? Then stop judging women harsher for their opinions about sex with men than you judge yourself. If men and women are so truly interchangeable that you feel you can accurately comment on the value of women's experiences having sex with random men , then they are interchangeable enough for you to go take a dick up your butt and love it, then stfu about sex.

NarniaFox · 2020-02-16T00:25:30+00:00

Sex is great and dangerous too. I like how men are all for high sex drive, but want to have legal abortions available for them. They would never be available for women. We can't just decide that we don't want children, we have to deal with consequences of sex by risking our own health and fertility.

Also, men want to have sex with a lot of women not because they see women as valuable of "passing their genes", but because they have low standards, some of them just want to rub their dicks, not to have sex in a full sense, not to be intimate and close to other human being. Being desirable by these men isn't a compliment or benefit, it's a headache.

Also, maybe men are better at sex in the US, but in Russia there are plenty of women who can't find a partner who is good enough at sex so he'd be worth the trouble. A lot of guys just repeat what they see in porn and it isn't a right approach. Some of them just don't give a fuck about women's pleasure too.

Ornery-Box · 2020-02-16T01:43:35+00:00

Seems like you're the same kind of person who thinks pounding a chick with your dick over and over again as hard as you can will "get her off". Maybe stop watching porn and start living in the real world.

Mulkvistee · 2020-02-15T23:54:09+00:00

This is like saying not eating out of a trashcan because it's available means a woman takes food for granted. Some things are gross, risky, and not worth the hit to your self respect in partaking.

WicGoingAnonymous · 2020-02-16T03:34:15+00:00

Let’s face it; sex is fun

Yes, it is.

probably the most fun two people can have

Uhu, preach!

Women can have this amazing, extremely validating fun ANY TIME they want

...wait what?

Euhm...

I can have "auwch that hurts, can you not do that?" sex anytime I want. Not the amazing extremely validating type of sex.

grizzlyalmighty · 2020-02-16T05:06:30+00:00

Men will fuck anything, THAT is why y’all wanting to fuck us doesn’t mean anything jfc

findingfemininity · 2020-02-15T23:56:56+00:00

95% of men that women interact with daily aren't worth reproducing with and most women don't get any pleasure from fucking strangers.

ReignRain95 · 2020-02-16T03:51:50+00:00

women cant go fucking any random basement dweller, women take more risks having sex than men.

Yokowi · 2020-02-16T05:49:24+00:00

I just love how men always "know" better what it's like to be a woman,than women do :D Why do Ya'll even keep trying to explain anything? Men don't care about what a woman has to say,unless it's their mother. :D Any other female is dumb and irrelevant gold digger,who withholds sex from them :D

PennnyLame · 2020-02-16T01:59:58+00:00

It’s weird that you seem to confuse a) “lots of strangers want to fuck me” with b) “amazing/fun/validating” sex. It is possible for both men and women to have b)- if they are attracted to/attractive to their partner, compatible sexually and neither has some weird emotional baggage. Just because women have a) doesn’t mean they have b).

GennyX · 2020-02-16T05:34:04+00:00

Just because women aren’t having sex with you doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy or appreciate sex.

AnarchoNAP · 2020-02-15T23:49:58+00:00

The insistence of men on birth control use contradicts this.

AggravatingTartlet · 2020-02-16T02:22:02+00:00

> Every woman has a line of guys who want to give her a fun time.

Every woman has a line of guys willing to use her body as their masturbation toy. She gets nothing out of it but the risk of pregnancy, STDs and being called a slut.

41013 · 2020-02-15T23:54:57+00:00

We don’t orgasm as much as/with men.

Thus, it is not as enjoyable to us.

teibe · 2020-02-16T00:20:34+00:00

Sex is not fun, it's a burden and not validating at all for women. It can be nice but only under specific circumstances, circumstances that men find boring. Plus men not only don't appreciate the women that fuck them they actually punish women that have sex with them by calling them sluts and damaged goods. They may not say this directly to their faces but even online we pay attention and take note. The only way I can have value and be respected by men is to not fuck them.

OpenURMind1 · 2020-02-16T02:37:41+00:00

I quite enjoy sex with the right man. Anytime anywhere.

lilsaihah · 2020-02-16T00:29:33+00:00

The only way I'd see this really being proven or disproven is if we took a good hard look at what women do when they're turned down for sex. Someone who takes something for granted gets really pissed off when it's taken away from them.

For what it's worth I do think a lot of women take men's attention for granted, and you could make a decent case that men's attention and sex are one and the same.

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says_harsh_things · 2020-02-16T01:39:44+00:00

Be a Chad. Get 2 or more girls interested in sex with you at one time. The novelty of uggos wanting your dick being validating disappears.

Title	CMV: women take sex for granted.
Author	puticingontop
Upvotes	6
Comments	198
Date	February 15, 2020 11:45 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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