I (24M) started seeing a girl I met at the gym that I hadn't seen since high school. She is really incredible, we always have good discussions on all kinds of subjects and we have the same passions and interests. She has been alone for 1.5 years and I asked her why she was still alone. She replied that she feels really strong alone and that being in a relationship means being vulnerable and a little emotionally dependent. And that it would put a brake on her projects. She told me about the last two guys who dated her and whom she dismissed since they fell in love. I am not in love except that I have a lot of interest towards her, it is rare women with whom I get along as well . What should i do? Because I know I will end up being sad if I keep seeing her and she doesn't want a real relationship although we always have a good time and she seems to have a lot of interest toward me.

I think she has fears of losing her liberty , and being vulnerable since her ex wasn't a good guy with her.