The reason your turn ends, sooner than later. Or, how women try to rob you of your value.

Women are like water, slowly eroding at the rock that is the man until it crumbles, and then their water flows to new rocks.

AWALT, they will ALL try to make you change. They’ll soften you up, try to spend a lot of time with you, shit test you, and every now and then pull some bullshit to see how you react.

This isn’t a guide on how to keep a woman. Instead, ensure you are the type of man that women want to keep.

In my experience, the main factor that leads to the end of the relationship, be it short or long term, is how much value you’ve let her rob you of.

You’re in top physical shape? Diet on point?

She’ll tell you how much muscle doesn’t matter, she’ll cook you calorie rich food, she’ll avoid complimenting you on your progress.

You’re confident, assertive and full of yourself?

She’ll shit test you, make jabs at your self esteem, especially during arguments. Not to break you, but to see if you’re actually as unbreakable as you present yourself.

You have a rich social life? Hot female friends that make her feel threatened?

“You don’t spend enough time with me”, “Cut them all off”. If you follow any of these orders she barks at you, consider yourself castrated, as you’ve handed over your balls on a silver platter.

The longest, most fulfilling relationships I’ve had, where the girl was infatuated with me for years on end, were ones where I didn’t lose what made me attractive in the first place.

The ones I got cheated on in, the ones where I got monkey branched, where ones in which I did everything she wanted, where I became her “ideal” version of me.

And spoiler warning, her ideal version of me wasn’t exactly getting the pussy wet.

You don’t need to be perfect. Nowadays the average man pays to see shitty nudes, follows 100 Instagram models, and is his girlfriend’s dog.

A healthy body, confidence, mixed in with a little bit of narcissism and ego, and you’re a cut above.

And if(when) your turn does inevitably end, if you kept building your value, you’ll come out of it better than you entered, and you’ll have no trouble finding another.