Not looking their best, not taking care of their bodies, their teeth, not exercising, dressing sloppily, not having goals, not caring about anything at all, etc. I know we talk about the “not giving a fuck” vibe that is attractive, but that’s more in terms of women. You’re supposed to care about yourself and be the best version of yourself. That’s what being a man is all about. Women who at the very least pretend to love a man who can’t even care for himself properly are doing no good and are contributing to the de-masculinization of society. It’s surprisingly common too. I keep telling myself I’m gonna get jacked af in the future and make almost every female swoon. But then I remember I’m already in better shape than like 80% of guys my age, and many girls are with guys who don’t take good enough care of themselves. If it’s “true love” then I guess that’s cool. But if it’s not, and they’re pretty much just using the guy for his assets that he provides (betabux), I can’t respect that. Females deserve to fuck with the most alpha guys (who also take proper care of themselves) they can get.