So I read this post and thought to myself ..."maybe they should stop being beta". But idk I guess giving up is trendy these days. Then I had another thougtht

At the root of all the crying about AF/BB is the thought women don't sexually desire their BB. Now obviously women do like their bf's and find their meh bf's somewhat attractive. But the real question is whether she would have hooked up purely based on SMV(looks, charm, status, voice etc). In other words men are wondering if women are only fucking their BB's because they are compensating with with RMV traits(beta comfort, money etc).

So this a post to address that concern.

Is it fair to say most women wouldn't have swiped right on their husbands ?

Is it fair to say most women wouldn't have hooked up with their husbands?

Do most women end up marrying men they are less sexually attracted to than the men they hooked up with?

If yes, do you think men would feel a way if they found out their wife doesn't see them as hookup material?