"I [Male] don’t have any children but want them. This woman has a young daughter and wants another. She described our future. I declined."

anyoneinamerica · 2019-05-06T18:35:01+00:00

So..........She gets to decide shit, she gets to decide when to take power (not responsibility), and she is supported and encouraged to take power/control by 'society'. If you don't want to lose power/control, then make more money and give her everything that she wants.

Thanks but NO. I already have a boss. If I wanted another one, then I would get a second job.

ransay3277 · 2019-05-06T18:34:58+00:00

Jeez... Haven't even dated her once and I'm already in divorce court.

attongirdeaux · 2019-05-06T18:10:39+00:00

The second post " I made a little girl..." written so coldly.

Devilsgun · 2019-05-06T18:20:29+00:00

Fucking delusional. Worthwhile women don't set the terms

Autisticus · 2019-05-06T18:48:20+00:00

LOOK AT THIS UTTER LEGAL FUCKING DOCUMENT. FUCK FUCK FUCK. FUCK OFF.

NickTesla2018 · 2019-05-06T19:19:52+00:00

A zero return investment. She just wants a guy to fund her lifestyle. No thanks. GYOW

Chairman_Ellen_Pao · 2019-05-06T19:16:13+00:00

This is the actual "True Love" that AWALT feel, but will never put it in these words (They couch it in emotional, "romantic" terms instead). This particular one for whatever strange reason decided to spill out everything like it's a fucking contract for an LLC business venture. Bitch, you are RUINING it for all the women out there by revealing the truth. Stop. Take it back before the men catch on!

ATUNRASE · 2019-05-06T18:43:28+00:00

Dis bitch crazy

Global_MGTOW · 2019-05-06T19:25:49+00:00

Where do you people find these nuts? This woman is fucking crazy, I feel bad for that child.

SelectAirline · 2019-05-06T19:34:58+00:00

It is unlikely that you will do many things better than me.

This woman is the walking embodiment of Dunning-Kruger.

She has it all figured out, she's better and more accomplished than anyone, and with such unmatched intelligence and drive nothing can stop her from living the exact sort of life she wants. Oh wait...

moroots · 2019-05-06T18:23:02+00:00

She should have died hereafter; There would have been a time for such a word. — To-morrow, and to-morrow, and to-morrow, Creeps in this petty pace from day to day, To the last syllable of recorded time; And all our yesterdays have lighted fools The way to dusty death. Out, out, brief candle! Life's but a walking shadow, a poor player That struts and frets his hour upon the stage And then is heard no more. It is a tale Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury Signifying nothing.

— Macbeth (Act 5, Scene 5, lines 17-28)

AncapGhxst · 2019-05-06T18:40:21+00:00

Lots of letters but they say absolutely nothing

lurkerhasarisen · 2019-05-06T20:36:23+00:00

What a loon. Any woman who talks about an "equal partnership" should be avoided, and that goes double for a woman who tells you she's going to fight you for the reigns in advance.

Somebody has to be in charge, and if it's not unambiguously you, it's her. You'll have 100% of the responsibility either way, and you do not want that without the matching authority. If she's not following your lead, you're her bitch, and despite the fact that she fight to be in charge, it won't make her happy... and if she's unhappy about having the lead, she'll make sure you're unhappy, too.

OldFashionMarine · 2019-05-06T19:04:57+00:00

Who in their right mind would read all of that dribble...? If she has something to say than call......! Looks like other people got that text.....i.e. bcc. Fuck that shit, she doesn't even respect you enough to talk face to face. PASS that hoe on....

Aldabruzzo · 2019-05-06T21:03:26+00:00

Words words words more and more words....

"I don't have to bring anything but my pussy. You want my pussy. So I make the rules."

Words more words more and more words words words wordswords....

All you need to know is what's in italics up there.

smfuel87 · 2019-05-06T21:20:39+00:00

Yeah... well, in the business world one partner isn't literally incentivized to negate their end of the contractual obligations, deliberately run the "venture" into the ground and get rewarded for doing so, consequence free...

Only within marriage contracts will you see this bullshit.

Within marriage, women only stand to benefit from it if things go well, yet do not stand to deal with any of the fallout and repercussions if it fails to work, or if she makes sure it doesn't work. Only the man will be required to be responsible for it's failure.

AbrocadoPie · 2019-05-06T20:49:14+00:00

She sees herself as an investment. A single mother used goods.

The only proper response : "I would rather invest in Zimbabwen currency than a failing venture like you"

moorekom · 2019-05-06T18:39:09+00:00

Not even gonna bother reading this drivel. Next.

ThisIsWhyTrumpWins · 2019-05-06T20:30:22+00:00

She used a lot of words to say nothing of value.

Vinky_Stagina · 2019-05-06T23:44:39+00:00

I couldn't get through all of that. She tried so hard to sound intelligent, it's just not working.

Narcissist456 · 2019-05-07T00:57:40+00:00

She’s literally out of her fucking mind.

MetaCognitio · 2019-05-07T04:00:55+00:00

When I hear someone talk of how “women have done the majority of the work throughout history” I now run for the hills. This is that emotional labor talk where some woman think they are the only ones contributing anything to the relationship.

There are some valid points and it is enlightening to see things from woman’s perspective. This is the start of a discussion. However most of the articles I read about this are so one sided as if the man is a 7 year old that needs his ass wiped and a woman to do everything for him. They discount everything the man does for her and paint a picture that is so skewed it hurts.

A woman like this will see herself as the prize and not be happy with anything you do because she thinks she is the only one adding anything to the relationship. I wish we would have a day without men where we all just stopped doing anything so the people that act like men just sit on their assess all day and think about oppressing women would shut up.

Both men and women contribute irreplaceable value to the family and the world.

oooKenshiooo · 2019-05-06T18:33:08+00:00

Well... At least she knows what she wants.

anonmymouse · 2019-05-06T21:15:03+00:00

word salad large enough to feed an entire 3rd world village

I'm not sure she's even sure what she's saying.

DeeplyDisturbed1 · 2019-05-07T00:51:04+00:00

Any man who dates her deserves everything he gets.

thefilthyhermit · 2019-05-06T22:29:38+00:00

TL:DR

JavascriptIsTerrible · 2019-05-06T23:39:27+00:00

Congratulations.
I have seen ugly things on this sub, but this woman manages to be representative of everything I would hate to have in a partner.

JonathonWally · 2019-05-07T06:03:59+00:00

“I’m better than you at everything, give me a lot of money or I’ll boss you around and make your life awful, also, I’m better than you.”

5shad · 2019-05-07T07:58:08+00:00

She has to be the queen of all red flags.

Fa3eShift · 2019-05-06T22:18:16+00:00

Da fuq is this shit.I have a feeling that cersei from GoT wrote thease shit messages.

RamenProfessional · 2019-05-06T23:12:41+00:00

Absolute nightmare.

Afghan_Whig · 2019-05-07T00:51:52+00:00

What the fuck did I just read?

RegiusGeralt · 2019-05-07T00:53:53+00:00

I stopped reading my eyes hurt.

Perrero · 2019-05-07T02:07:05+00:00

I've seen bots with more joy, emotion, and kindness

bitcoin-optimist · 2019-05-07T02:44:06+00:00

Nice to see women come with EULAs now.

MikeRocksBoat · 2019-05-07T17:36:42+00:00

Sounds like she's summarizing the divorce paperwork.

E-roticWarrior · 2019-05-06T22:53:16+00:00

This is a psychopath steer clear!

Ranidaphobia · 2019-05-06T23:26:29+00:00

What level of psycho message is that from her. Wowza

Xxtourlife · 2019-05-07T00:53:14+00:00

Well...She was not thinking like this when she was used by Chad.

Chad is legendary.He is the one and only who filters out the Thots.

panda_ammonium · 2019-05-07T00:58:13+00:00

This is what you get when a garbage goes to college.

anon_likes_tendies · 2019-05-07T01:16:16+00:00

good grief. my head hurt after the first paragraph. I'm glad I turned my wife lesbian.

JZSquared · 2019-05-07T01:34:16+00:00

The Lunatic Manifesto :P

Stahlboden · 2019-05-07T06:12:15+00:00

they don't stop coming

and they don't stop coming

nomadedigital · 2019-05-07T07:32:28+00:00

This burned my eyes.... Thank you, but I prefer to spend my money here at Costa Rica scratching my balls and watching the sea...

[deleted] · 2019-05-07T08:24:15+00:00

Translation: "I'm going to take control regardless of the circumstances as the criteria are arbitrary and I set the agenda."

BluepillProfessor · 2019-05-07T15:41:48+00:00

TLDR (Her): I hold all the power and I intend to keep it. I may let you do some things provided I approve and you can show mommy you are competent.

TLDR (Reality): I am a delusional, arrogant, entitled twat who will ruin your life.

TheObelisk · 2019-05-07T18:59:50+00:00

I've never before seen the dynamic of a relationship described in such a way as to portray it as so terminally boring. I bet she's fun at parties. Additionally, the sanctimoniousness of it all was nauseating and just text-book self-adulation. And to say that if a guy doesn't have a college education he is incapable of comprehending 'power shifts, negotiate equitably, or even enjoy the conversations where i negotiate for power takeover from time to time,' is just stupid. Power, control and judgement are a constantly on this woman's mind-- not a good sign to any man.

ChiTownBob · 2019-05-08T02:15:48+00:00

OH HELL NO.

This woman SCREAMS gold-digger. Add in narcissism and she's just another NPC.

bk6830 · 2019-05-09T10:58:16+00:00

She thinks and speaks like a politician. It's all vague promises, bullshit and smokescreen. Stay away from this ghoul if you don't want to lose your money AND your soul.

Thor-Loki-1 · 2019-05-06T23:01:50+00:00

This isn't a real person.

Has to be a bot of some kind.

Blogginginvicecity · 2019-05-07T01:33:29+00:00

This wordplay got her jobs via LinkedIn, so why shouldn't it get her this new, high paying, long term escort (with a kid!!!!!) position?

Maverick0_0 · 2019-05-07T04:23:38+00:00

Yikes. I feel bad for her daughter.

MGTOWManofMystery · 2019-05-07T04:36:16+00:00

Why in the world does OP want children? Makes no sense to me.

strangerthing7 · 2019-05-07T06:24:54+00:00

TLDR

Cristoff13 · 2019-05-07T23:52:54+00:00

Its written in the language of intersectional feminism. She's asking for a submissive male "ally" to help reverse the power imbalance of the Patriarchy.

Guncriminal · 2019-05-08T06:14:39+00:00

(Pikachu Face)

animalmother2017 · 2019-05-09T21:33:49+00:00

Damn. Is this from a dating site or legal zoom?

[deleted] · 2019-05-10T04:02:04+00:00

Fuckin loony woman

BluepillProfessor · 2019-05-10T15:58:44+00:00

This was written on Prozac or some other happy pill.

trueleft1 · 2019-05-14T15:24:39+00:00

She has a very, very clear view of what she wants. I respect that.

BullTopia · 2019-05-22T05:20:39+00:00

Too many words.

Title	"I [Male] don’t have any children but want them. This woman has a young daughter and wants another. She described our future. I declined."
Author	kevin32
Upvotes	356
Comments	108
Date	May 6, 2019 5:57 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/blfe3r/i_male_dont_have_any_children_but_want_them_this/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/i-male-dont-have-any-children-but-want-them-this.345847 https://theredarchive.com/post/345847