"You must pay me $200,000 a year to be a stay at home mom."

BertTheWelder · 2019-04-17T00:18:29+00:00

200k as a nanny. Uh huh.

n00f · 2019-04-17T00:28:42+00:00

Isn't staying home the benefit?

Cooking a meal one hour a day, laundry 2 hours twice a week at the most. Cleaning up 20 minutes a day. Dishes 10 minutes a day.

Taking care of children can be difficult, but thats part of being a parent.

I'd trade my 45 hour work week and 5 hours of driving for that at any moment.

shrinkshooter · 2019-04-17T00:35:06+00:00

That man will have to pay me to be a full time mother

Golf clap, lady. You've figured out a sexual and social agreement that harkens back to the literal dawn of our species. Well done, a true pioneer in philosophy right here.

If I have to give up my hopes, dreams, and career to raise a child

Unless you're in the top 15-20% bracket of income in the country, you're doing that no matter what. Actions have consequences and things that require a lot of time, effort, and dedication require sacrifices. You are not going to live life as a super hot upper management mother raking in shit tons of cash and getting hit on by all the thirsty alpha Chads who absolutely must have you in their lives. As a woman, having a child IS your hope and dream, or else we wouldn't have an absolute epidemic of women going batshit insane from panic after hitting the wall childless and/or freezing their eggs. You know how many driven career women get past three decades and then decide they'd rather give that up willingly to have and take care of children instead of soullessly slave away in an office like the men do? LOTS.

Additionally, can we point out how much of a cunt this makes you sound in relation to your child? Like being a full time mother to raise your own kid is a punishment, like you're giving up being some super hot international model or famous actress if you take care of your own spawn all the time instead of handing them off to random strangers whom you pay to take care of them. There should always be one parent at least who is always around for the child; if it's not gonna be you, then YOU better fork out your mad mulah-making skills earned dough to your husband, and pay HIM to spend all day taking care of the kid(s). Betcha would absolutely not tolerate that bullshit, would you?

funkyjunkymonkey · 2019-04-17T00:27:31+00:00

This proposal doesn't make sense on the face of it.

If there is a dude out there somewhere who is willing to pay $200k for a live-in nanny, that's what he's going to pay for, full stop. Surrogate mother + nanny = get to be a dad and meanwhile he can also get all the benefits of being a RedPiller or MGTOW at the same time. Why on Earth would he pay $200k AND give up RP/MGTOW AND make himself vulnerable to divorce rape in the bargain?

aussielander · 2019-04-17T01:06:44+00:00

Let's do some math. I've already outsourced the spouse so I can speak to this.

Food:

I can make my own food. I meal prep and buy from Costco in bulk. I eat out one night a week so let's say $200 a month plus my groceries but let's just use the $200 if she saves me from going out. Let's be real though she's a net loss in the food category since we'll have to go out more often, I'll be feeding two, and no way she's happy eating chicken and broccoli 5 nights a week. I also do intermittent fasting so I only eat one meal a day. I'll give her the $200 benefit here though to be kind. So that's $2400 a year.

Sex:

I pay thai gogo girls $100 a night. Flights, hotels, and girls cost me $4000 twice a year. So that's $8000 a year to keep me happy.

Maid Service:

I pay $150 a month for maid service. That's $1800 a year.

Childcare:

I don't have kids but the most expensive daycare is $2500 a month in my city. They teach your kids English and Chinese plus they do lots of tutoring and education. So let's say $30,000 a year for bespoke childcare.

Bitch it's still only a quarter of your salary and I don't risk divorce rape. I get to fuck 19 year old gogo girls every year who don't get ugly or fat.

I'm starting a new hashtag since these women seem to only speak in hash tags #OutSourceTheSpouse

AnUtterManiac · 2019-04-17T00:46:44+00:00

The greed and entitlement are stunning. Bet she expects quarterly bonuses and paid vacation too - someone else can look after the kids while super mummy goes to Ibiza for party season to hop on some cock and get away from the 9-5 grind.

My guess is hot stuff over here can at most cook a ready meal and knows not to shit on the floor. Fully domestically trained my ass, more like domesticated like the fucking cow that she is.

Jesus_Faction · 2019-04-17T00:52:22+00:00

take that nanny job then, bitch

Blackfysh88 · 2019-04-17T03:14:16+00:00

Pay me to be female. That’s what I read.

keithrockz · 2019-04-17T01:04:09+00:00

The day they come up with an android that can give men a realistic sexual experience,its all over for them

lorem6300118 · 2019-04-17T02:03:19+00:00

If someone already offered her that job at that pay, why is seeking that same job through marriage, for something she was already offered?

Unless... she isn’t telling the truth 😮

LibertyBaron · 2019-04-17T07:07:13+00:00

She talks about "domestic life" like it was an entire science field that requieres "training" and being a nany as an actual "career". Yeah, you need a phd to do the same basic activities that any human being was able to do since the begining of humanity.

She was offered a deal that even a surgeon would consider at a very unusual age (most of those "upscale nannys are 45+ with experience raising kids of some european royal house, not a barely literate retard) but she wont accept the offer. Lie detected.

This is very funny: "giving up my hopes, dreams and career to raise a kid". Lady: it is not "a kid" is your kid!!, you dont have a career, and what are your dreams anyways? Changing diapers? Give me a break.

Hillarysdilddo_2016 · 2019-04-17T04:12:41+00:00

if I have to give up my hopes and dreams and career to raise children

Well there you go bitch. Don’t have kids. Bye.

Any man dumb enough to reproduce with a bitch with this attitude deserves all the raping he gets.

[deleted] · 2019-04-17T02:13:36+00:00

I think she’s confusing 200k with 20k because there’s no way any 1% would pay that much for a demanding nanny when they can just hire an old Hispanic woman

pablosito · 2019-04-17T02:53:47+00:00

“I was offered 200,000$ to be a nanny but you know... didn’t have the right benefits so I passed. Now I just subscribe to “seeking arrangements” having sex with older men for money. NO THAT DOESNT MAKE ME A PROSTITUTE!”

beatles-lover · 2019-04-17T10:17:16+00:00

The main problem I see here is that this woman sees it as a chore and a sacrifice to focus her time and energy on being a mom.

There are a decent number of guys out there who are financially successful enough to give their wives an allowance of $15k a month, but of course any such guy is going to shy away from a woman who sees the relationship purely as a business transaction.

Edit: Of course even if this girl were devoted as I described, I doubt that she is beautiful and young and slender which is obviously an additional requirement.

mr_kuk · 2019-04-17T08:58:23+00:00

Give up her hopes and dreams of a career as a CC riding low level HR assistant. Seriously gais, stop oppressing her, okay?

houseoftolstoy · 2019-04-17T14:51:41+00:00

If I have to bribe you in order to have you as a wife and mother to our kids, that tells me you would make a terrible mother. I am assuming with the entitlement to being paid 200k, you would consider that "your money" and still expect me to pay for everything anyways. What a great deal!

On one hand she prices herself out of the market for the majority of guys based on the capability of earning an additional 200k, but I doubt even the men who are capable of providing that money would be jumping on this opportunity.

tharkyllinus · 2019-04-17T08:12:18+00:00

A whore wife.. when you really can call your wife a whore.

[deleted] · 2019-04-17T08:40:29+00:00

Years later, post-wall, she'll be saying "Tired of guys who won't commit to me. Are there any good men out there?"

OldFashionMarine · 2019-04-17T09:17:51+00:00

Lol.....I wonder what her "hopes and dreams" are that she's giving up to do what she's trained to do....? GTFO....

ogrilla99 · 2019-04-18T06:01:42+00:00

This is the inevitable consequence of years of indoctrinating girls that being a mother is "the hardest job in the world". No it's not. It may be the most *important* job in the world (along with being a father), but it is not the hardest.

Especially not in modern times when cooking entails an hour of prepping food from the grocery store vs. spending all day literally threshing wheat yourself before being able to make bread. And washing clothes entails putting a load in the machine and catching up on your soap operas for an hour vs. hauling the clothes to a nearby river and pounding them against a rock for a few hours.

If this woman has spent years listening to her feminist sisters tell her that being a SAHM is the hardest job in the world, then why are we surprised that she expects to get paid like it is one?

Of course, she'll get a rude awakening when even guys who could easily afford that salary pass her up in favor of a woman who views the chance to stay at home and raise their children as a *privilege*, not a burden, and stays grateful to the guy for being able to give her that chance.

Rememberthecodex · 2019-04-17T00:52:08+00:00

Just take a nanny and fuck her after you go home.

lorum_ipsum_dolor · 2019-04-17T10:17:27+00:00

I'll give her tree fiddy.

bobik314 · 2019-04-17T11:56:49+00:00

She has right to this but men have right not to accept that.

AncapGhxst · 2019-04-17T14:29:56+00:00

Your payment is a roof over your head, food on the table and the ability to raise kids instead of going out into the world and doing work. No one is gonna pay you 200k a year to be a nanny that's absolute bull.

DisdainForSluts · 2019-04-17T14:55:04+00:00

She's calling a bluff to enhance her image as a potential wife. She's probably a high body count slut.

WiseMonkeyGoodMonkey · 2019-04-17T15:48:28+00:00

It's so nice when a prostitute is this up front about things. I find the intellectual integrity to be a refreshing change of pace. :-p

Emervila · 2019-04-17T16:52:43+00:00

Trained in all areas of domestic life= I know how to make sandwiches for good!

DeeplyDisturbed1 · 2019-04-17T23:18:55+00:00

If I have to give up my hopes, dreams, and career to raise a child

Yeah. Tell that to Chad. Go ahead. I dare you. Good luck cupcake.

ChiTownBob · 2019-04-18T01:02:41+00:00

Don't marry career women unless you believe in polyandry.

Profitglutton · 2019-04-18T02:50:42+00:00

When she hits 40 with no LTR prospects in sight she’ll be breaking her bank for in virtro just for the chance of having one child as a single mom and will be extremely miserable while paying the iron price for what she’s doing now.

BluepillProfessor · 2019-04-18T15:38:24+00:00

She would be lying about the $200K even if it included sexual access. As claimed she shows herself to be a petty, stupid, pathetic little liar with the emotions and mind of a spoiled child.

Tailtappin · 2019-04-18T21:50:25+00:00

Ha ha ha ha ha...idiot.

Yeah...because any guy that has 200k kicking around wants to waste it on somebody who knows how to put a shirt in a washing machine as a "nanny" and then give up my own weekends to take care of the kids I'm paying her to.

P.S. Your dreams stopped at that same washing machine if that's all you can do.

PapaLouie_ · 2019-04-19T07:48:03+00:00

Does she not get how marriage works? She wants a husband that can afford this ludicrous shit to basically give her a $200k allowance.

JaxJags904 · 2019-04-22T21:47:46+00:00

$200k to nanny? What are you doing posting this, go take that job!

loneliness-inc · 2019-04-17T15:13:19+00:00

If I have to give up my hopes, dreams, and career to raise a child,

Bitch, your hopes, dreams and career is to raise a child and be paid for it!

Title	"You must pay me $200,000 a year to be a stay at home mom."
Author	kevin32
Upvotes	200
Comments	71
Date	April 17, 2019 12:14 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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