Summary: AWALT basically. I took a backpacking trip to Thailand and was completely blown away by the amount of hypergamy of the girls that were there (I don't mean the locals, since I had limited contact with them, but the tourists). On my second day, I was kissing with a girl. Then her friend and she go to the bathroom, come back half an hour later and they are making out with other guys. I was completely stupified.

Body So I took a trip to Thailand. Couldn't get any friends to come with me, so I decided to do a little traveling by myself. Basically I live in the biggest sausage fest in the world and decided to go to some party destination, while also soaking in some culture.

A little background on me: I am now in my early 30s unfortunately. However I am in great shape (muscles and a six pack and 6'1) and have been involved heavily in self-improvement. I have always been a shy guy and a bit introverted, but socially very normal with above average humor skills. I speak 6 languages fluently and have a great position in a job that people my age wouldn't be able to get normally

However I've always struggled with women. I was raised in a normal family and have always been very respectful and helpful to everyone. I am the type of guy that people would call if they needed help and I would come and help out, volunteering and all that stuff as well. I used to be very naive and used to believe that you had to be nice to girls and all that romantic comedy stuff. This means I basically wasted my university in girl terms (since I was so naive). I slowly came around and slowly came to realize the reality of it all and started becoming quite successful with girls. However then I got the offer for a job that you can't refuse and moved to a new city and a new job that basically quadrupled my salary. However the city is a sausage fest and my social life went downhill.

OK now back to the trip: Day 2: I think I went out the first night as well, but don't quite remember what happened, so not much I guess. The second night I met some people at the hostel, including some girls, and we went out.

There were two potential targets, one was a prettier girl, but quite early it became apparent that she liked this one guy in the group and so from experience I knew that I wouldn't be successful and backed off. I started concentrating on this one girl who was showing interest and it seemed like a sure thing.

Later at like 3 or 4 in the morning, I started making out with her. I thought I had sealed the deal. Nothing could go wrong. Boy, had I underestimated the hypergamy of chicks.

She then went to the bathroom with her friend, leaving me, the pretty girl and the other guy. The pretty girl quickly went into action and literally forced herself on the guy and they left pretty quickly. So I am sitting there alone and wondering WTF happened to the other girls. It doesn't take 30 minutes to piss even for girls. Then suddenly they come back and they are making out with two other guys! I was stupefied, I had seriously underestimated the force of hypergamy. I thought I had seen it all...apparently I hadn't. Even if you think you had sealed the deal, you can literally turn around and find yourself staring at the chick you made out with 5 minutes ago, making out with another guy.

I actually met the girl a few days later on one of the islands that I was on. She wanted to hang out, but I wanted to have nothing to do with her. She kept repeating that it was "just a kiss" and I should "act like an adult" about it. If acting like an adult means accepting a girl you are making out with or dating or whatever, making out with another guy in front of your eyes, then I want no part of that. I am all about respect and loyalty. I would never do that to a girl (but maybe that's my problem) and expect the same in return.

Day 4: I was now on the islands and had met these two girls. One of the lessons here is that you need a competent wingman if you encounter two girls, otherwise the pull of hypergamy or the girls not wanting to be separated can overcome your efforts. Here it was the first thing.

These were older girls around 29 and teachers. I had literally done everything right by game standards. I had them laughing...etc. and bounced them from bar to bar, where we sat and drank. However towards midnight I had made the mistake of discussing more serious topics like the economy and culture and probably killed any attraction that I could have created. They were telling me how they hate all the chav guys that they always meet. They told me about this one club they go to back home, where all the guys are drunk idiots. I thought I was in, since my competition that night was going to be exactly what they were describing. Another mistake I made and a very elementary one: never listen and believe girls when they say they like or don't like something in guys.

The girls were quite lost and didn't know that there were some dance bars on the beach and I thought that the best thing to do was to take them there to dance. We got there and the first thing they commented was that the guys in the bar were just like back home doing awkward dancing and weird drunk antics. I thought great, I am way better than those guys. Immediately these girls were literally attacked by these chavs from left and right. That was the end of it and the girls didn't even bother to check back in with me. A bit later I saw them making out with some guys who were basically half my size with no muscle and the only thing they did was do hooting sounds and down shitloads of buckets... My self-esteem went down the drain...

Day 6: Joined up with some American guys that were staying at the hostel I was staying at. Talked 2 Russian girls into coming with us down to the beach bars. They had very poor English skills and since I am fluent in Russian, I was talking to them in that language all the time. I had it on lock-down, nothing could go wrong, right? :)

I always laugh at the guys who describe Russian girls as more "traditional" or whatever. Since I speak the language and know the culture, I can say that AWALT...

We were in the bar and classic PUA theory says that if you ignore the girls, they will start getting attracted by you and come to you by themselves... LOL... :) I was hanging out with the American guys, really cool guys and we were just drinking beers. I periodically checked in with the Russian girls.

The only competition was some retarded looking chav guys, which I thought was no competition, since the girls spoke almost no English and all the English chav guys could do was some basic hooting sounds anyways.

So I am shooting the shit with the American guys, with the Russian girls in the background. I thought nothing could happen, since at least the language barrier would be strong and I had the huge advantage of speaking their language. So at one point I turn around when I see the two Russian girls making out with these retarded looking chavs... Anyone who ever mentions the words "Russian girls" and "traditional" in a sentence should immediately slap themselves after doing it. :)

Day 11: I had been avoiding Thai girls the entire time. A lot of them had been coming up to me, but since I was travelling alone, I was kind of scared that they could rob me or something, so I largely avoided them (plus in Bangkok there is also the ladyboy issue and you don't always know who is a chick and who isn't).

However probably most of those girls would not rob me, although it seemed that at least some of them were semi-pros that could give you freebies. That is why I always laugh when I read all these stories how some guys who travel to these countries and slay local chicks portray themselves as some big pick-up heroes. Literally it isn't that hard. If you are a Westerner and not a total social retard, you automatically get "alpha" status and AWALT plays in your favor. So you can literally be slaying girls every night, even if you can't do stuff back home.

So going back to the story, on my way back to Bangkok, I met these two Thai girls coming back from their vacation, in their late 20s and with good jobs.

If anyone says that you have to spend money on girls in these types of countries, then they are doing something wrong and most likely hanging out with goldiggers or semi-pros. There are plenty of girls that will pay for themselves. These girls invited me out for drinks and paid for my drink, drove me around Bangkok...etc. And let's just say the story had a nice ending with one of them.

Day 12: I was awakened in my hostel at 5 in the morning after coming back from a party, by a group of girls talking loudly about how many guys they made out with and who they slept with. I don't know, but since I am more of a conservative guy I would be ashamed of discussing this type of stuff even with my buddies and probably wouldn't even want to do all the stuff these girls were doing.

Conclusion/Lessons Learnt

Lesson 1: AWALT

Lesson 2: AWALT

Lesson 3: AWALT

Lesson 4: I would write AWALT one more time, but I guess you get the point. Lesson 4 is that when travelling you need a good wingman, otherwise you risk losing the girls. There is always the danger of losing the girls due to attacks of big groups of travelling chavs or mother hens. Actually it might also be even better to go in a group of 4 or 5 guys, with at least one of the guys being an ugly guy willing to take the scraps in order to take care of the ugly girlfriend. At one party I was doing quite well with one girl, when she was suddenly pulled away by her ugly friend in order to dance with her. That force is very strong, no matter how much rapport and attraction you built with the girl you were talking to.

Lesson 5: Age is a huge thing and if you are a bit older, then you will have a much harder time at these party vacation places, especially without a wingman. I was talking to a girl, who was quite receptive, when suddenly her friend came and violently shoved me away, saying that the girl I was talking to was "only 18".

Lesson 6: I am a big advocate of self-improvement. I used to think that the fact that you are built and intelligent would be a combo magnet which would draw the girls in. It usually doesn't quite work that way. Even girls that are relatively smart are very primitive in their behavior. A lot of times they go for guys which just leaves you shaking your head. It's not even alpha guys, since I am way more alpha than those guys... can't quite put my finger on it, maybe it has to do with my age and being a little bit too smart for my own good when talking to girls. Maybe I need to start having much more primitive conversations... Do self-improvement for yourself, don't do it because you want girls. You are more important than any retarded horny slut.

Lesson 7: The age factor is huge. It was hard for me to get younger girls. Looks and age are much more important factors than game.

Lesson 8: If you are paying for drinks and all that BS for girls in third world countries, then you are being played or are just getting with the local ghetto trash. I had local girls buying me drinks (but these girls were a bit more from the upper class than the usual girls that the average Western tourist meets).

Lesson 9: Thai girls prefer more quiet type of guys than the loud, drunk chav types that Western girls seem to prefer. I had Thai girls coming up to me all the time and some of them literally abandoned the chavs that were trying to chat them up in order to talk to me. For Western girls I was bottom of the barrel, but for Thai girls I was at the top.

Lesson 10: Concepts like respect and loyalty have no meaning in today's world. I sometimes feel like being the last knight lost in a world with no morals.

Some questions that maybe some people could help me reflect on: 1) How do you get younger girls, if you are an older guy (I am early 30s)?

2) What are some tips to not lose girls who are in twos, when you are travelling solo?