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Here is the story.
So the guy fucked up in his teens and knocked a girl up. 15 years later, this kid who might as well be alien to him, rocks up on facebook demanding a relationship and demanding his money.
He chooses to not respond, especially after she becomes hostile, and looks instead to protect his assets and his own family, whom he's actually known and cared for his life.
Now whether you agree with this action or not, look at the response in the comments.
The women are raging. Absolutely furious. How dare this man refuse a girl his money? They act almost as if its not his money, but her rightful money. Like, how dare a guy protect his assets, a man's money only exists to pay for women.
Look at this answer her:
So, to answer your question... this dude, like my father, helped create a life and now has an obligation - even if it's expensive, inconvenient, or harshing his mellow with his newer, better kid. If he can't manage emotional support, he should stay away, not jerk her around, and do the bare minimum by giving material support. Help with college tuition, pay child support, throw cash at the "problem" if he can't be a dad. If you can't be a parent, be a benefactor. Life is expensive and the kid didn't ask to be born.
So like, even if we don't want your emotional support or an actual fatherly relationship, we still want your bucks? Notice how they offer no leniency towards a man, a man has no right to regret his past decisions. He must forever be held accountable! Or so they think.
Imagine if it were a woman. A woman is always allowed to regret her decisions. Even if she didn't bother using protection. Even if she's had five abortions, she should still be allowed to have another one for being careless. If a woman doesn't want her baby, she can throw it up for adoption, even anonymously, so it will never ever haunt her again! Can you imagine any one of them for a second daring to criticise a woman who makes such a decision? Of course not. A woman should never be held responsible.
But a man who makes one mistake must pay for it out of his pocket, because that money is a woman's entitlement! Look how they so easily self-insert into the daughter in the scenario. They can so easily see themselves hungrily pawing after the money.
If this story is true, then props to the guy for looking out for himself and his family, and not letting some stuck up teen brat screw him over for dollars.
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