"Before I agreed to hookup with a guy, I told him I was an anti-rape activist, that I know the chief of police, and to not get creepy. He replied that he was not okay with how I assumed he was a bad guy, and that we shouldn't date anymore. I was in a rage!"

weiner_floppy_weiner · 2018-04-13T14:20:39+00:00

Also note after the guy completely reasonably stated he wasn't cool with being assumed to be a creep, she called him a fuckboy.

So this chick goes out of her way to tell him she knows the chief of police, "knows her rights", all but calls him a rapist, but he's the fuckboy? OK..

misterF150 · 2018-04-13T14:07:56+00:00

That really gave me a big smile. She will be posting on R/datingoverthirty and wondering why good men aren't interested in her.

where_muh_good_mens · 2018-04-13T14:13:09+00:00

There was one time, one guy, knowing what I did and what I talked about, he made consent part of foreplay,” she recalls. “You know, very intentionally asking, ‘Is this okay? Is this okay?’ It was cute. It was great.”

Consent part of foreplay? You mean, he didn't want to be your next victim. You turned your man into a weak piece of slim tip toeing around your castle walls like a worm. And if it was so great, why aren't you with him now? Why was he "that one guy" and not "my husband or lover", because you despise him for being inferior to you. You could never respect a boy that asks for permission, but you have to make your witch hunt look positive in some way, so you spin your terrible sex as proof of how feminism has treated you so great.

The thing is, I don't think women actually buy this crap. Women know what they want from sex and I have never met one that enjoys performance anxiety in the bedroom. This article is just jerking all the other feminists off so they can sit around their lonely lives pointing to how right they are.

IAintThatGuy · 2018-04-13T14:36:21+00:00

‘This is the work I do, I know the chief of police ... so, don’t try and get creepy; I know all my rights.’

"Before we hook up, I'll warn you not to falsely accuse me of rape, or try to pin the kid you're maybe already pregnant with from another guy on me".

weebkilla · 2018-04-13T14:13:18+00:00

It's refreshing to see a man stand up for himself. I think we found a 'good man'. ;)

sleepyweaselisawake · 2018-04-13T14:32:01+00:00

She's advocating herself straight out of the dating market.

Consent is always, always necessary. If a woman says No, offers even the slightest resistance, or isn't ethusiastic about the prospect of sex with you, cool it down and back off. Never, ever, ever try to coerce a woman into sex. Never, ever, ever force yourself on a woman. The only power you have in that situation is to walk away from it. Protect yourself gents, a rape accusation can ruin your life.

weiner_floppy_weiner · 2018-04-13T14:39:06+00:00

“Nobody ever explicitly said, ‘Oh you’re a survivor, we can’t date,’” she told me. “But they’d assume that I was just doing this for attention, or more frequently they didn’t want to deal with it. It was too much. They assumed I’d have a lot of needs.”

correct assumptions

TEMystic · 2018-04-13T15:35:30+00:00

So she aggressively tells her date not to be a creep and threatens him with her knowing law enforcement... And they guys is supposed to be ok with that? Having a mature talk about how you like them or are/aren't comfortable in the situation was not possible?

Turn that around and imagine the male version of this: "You better not be lying about birth control. I know an abortion Dr that can take care of it for you so don't think about being a money grubbing baby momma." It's the same thing, super agro and uncalled for if you're on a date with someone you actually like.

I don't even go on dates unless I would bang them. No one is twisting girl's arms, if you aren't into a guy don't go on a date! If you aren't sure then meet for lunch not at 8 at night. Fucking idiots.

[deleted] · 2018-04-13T15:51:29+00:00

Anti-rape activist = a woman who's happy to assume that the man was guilty without having to worry about anything problematic like evidence. At least their DNA will die with them.

ButtsMacGillacuty · 2018-04-13T16:13:34+00:00

“Honestly, even if they’re supportive, even if they say all the right things, and really want to discuss my job, it makes me feel weird about hooking up with them,” says Sofie Karasek, a recent UC Berkeley graduate and co-founder of End Rape on Campus. (She’s also involved with the UC Berkeley lawsuit and has a large part in the campus rape-culture documentary “The Hunting Ground.”) “It’s like, ‘Oh, we were just talking about rape, and now we’re going to hook up.’ It’s just weird.”

White Knights make my vagina dry up.

BluepillProfessor · 2018-04-13T16:14:08+00:00

an instinctual, indignant protest: Not ALL men!

Stay away from that beam she is projecting because it will blind you from more than a light year away.

she says there were men who wouldn’t approach her or date her after recognizing her, or learning of her work (as an 'anti-rape' activist)

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!! Thanks for that. What is that feeling? I think it is hope.

They assumed I’d have a lot of needs.

I can feel the needy vibe combined with rage producing arrogance and pathetic entitlement all the way through the internet. Wah! I should be able to bad mouth men all day without consequence. I should be able to make false charges and then sue the college and boys should just step up to be taken down one at a time.

Nah, we're good.

feminism,’” she explains, which often puts people on the defensive.

What! Men don't want their lover or girlfriend to be attacking him all the time? Why not? You man children! Man up and hook up with this slut boys. Are you man enough?

Nope, guess not.

One time, I agreed to meet with this guy at 8 or 9 at night. Before we met, I said to him, ‘This is the work I do, I know the chief of police ... so, don’t try and get creepy; I know all my rights.’ And five minutes later, he was like, ‘Actually, I’m really not OK with how you just assume I’m a bad guy. And I get very bad vibes from that, so we shouldn’t hang out anymore.

Good job mate. Now the rest of you thirsty fucks- THIS is how you treat a feminist. Just smile and say:

"I'm out."

I was in a rage

Because rage is very attractive in a woman? Sweets, just because women get off on harassing and abusing men until they lose their shit does not mean that men appreciate abusive women. Just because the Vinky Stajinas hook up with jerky abusers doesn't mean we like our women to be abusers.

These women need to be avoided, ostracized and made an example of. Some people are not destined to do anything but serve as an example to warn others. Take your 8 y/o daughter to the local crazy cat ladies house and tell her what happens. Show her what happens.

even if they’re supportive, even if they say all the right things, and really want to discuss my job, it makes me feel weird about hooking up with them

Only the "nice guys" make me feel "weird." The hawwwt fuckboys only make me feel weird when they leave me young, dumb and full of cum and they "enrage" me when they refuse to even fuck my well used flappy slot.

intentionally asking, ‘Is this okay? Is this okay?’ It was cute. It was great.

It was not cute or great. I told him that was what I wanted and he gave it to me but for some reason the sex was just not that good. I guess it was just the chemistry...ya know, sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't. It just happens!

EconomistMagazine · 2018-04-13T16:32:39+00:00

No one is pro rape.

Feminists have redefined the word to mean whatever they want. Anything is rape, men cannot be raped, you can change your mind after the fact to say you're raped, and no proof is necessary.

Men shouldn't hook up with women like we've done in the past. It's a dangerous place.

Bing_Bang_Bam · 2018-04-13T15:53:29+00:00

It's fascinating how with most women, 1+1 doesn't = 2. They are able to make up a pretend reality as they go along. What we are dealing with essentially are sociopathic children with elevated rights over the people that have to protect and deal with them.

Avoid at all costs.

ButtsMacGillacuty · 2018-04-13T16:11:00+00:00

“Nobody ever explicitly said, ‘Oh you’re a survivor, we can’t date,’” she told me. “But they’d assume that I was just doing this for attention, or more frequently they didn’t want to deal with it. It was too much. They assumed I’d have a lot of needs.”

Women who claim they've been raped DO have a lot of needs. Women think it's noble to burden the men in their lives with the baggage of a sexual assault. We all need support systems but women feel no need to do ANY of the work themselves and will just wait until they can find a man to do 90% of it.

Don't even get me started on women that have regret sex and claim sexual assault out of a narcissistic need for attention.

Aerohank · 2018-04-13T22:24:04+00:00

I love how she just admitted she got enraged when a man withdrew his consent for a hookup and then proceeds to shame him.

PeonSupreme · 2018-04-13T15:44:49+00:00

How dare you not let me control you utterly!!!!!! /s

ronm4c · 2018-04-13T18:52:51+00:00

“I mean, what, should I be carrying gold stars now?”

Absolutely not, but you can put the noose away and try to know someone before pre determining their guilt.

houseoftolstoy · 2018-04-13T18:50:16+00:00

If you feel the need to bring up to a guy that you are trying to hook up with that you know the chief of police and that he should not "try and get creepy," there are some things that may be wrong:

You cannot trust the guy you are talking with. I don't tell the mechanic "don't break my car" when I bring it in for repairs or tell the plumber "don't flood my house" because I trust them to do the job competently. If I didn't, then I would not hire them. So here's a concept, don't sleep with someone you don't trust!
If this is not with just one guy, but with practically all guys you have tried to hook up with, maybe don't go hooking up with guys at all. Is it so foreign to restrain yourself from one night flings, especially if you have great fears of it going wrong? But no, women like this author are apparently entitled not feel afraid while putting themselves in a position that they know will likely make them afraid. Just like how someone who is afraid of dogs is entitled to not have to see any dogs when they go to the animal shelter.
She just plain has no trust in anybody with anything. I don't know why she would even attempt such interactions if this is the case, but I cannot rule out this possibility
She is just plain crazy.

Westernhagen · 2018-04-13T19:19:21+00:00

Warner's passion stems from a personal trauma: In 2013 she was sexually assaulted at a fraternity party. "I decided not to report it," she says. "I didn't know how—when I looked at the university resources, it seemed so complicated and in favor of supposed perpetrators."

Heh heh heh, she probably fell in love with her rapist and didn't report him because the orgasms were so powerful.

ButtsMacGillacuty · 2018-04-13T16:14:08+00:00

Looks like Chads are starting to wise up.

JohnnySkidmarx · 2018-04-13T23:28:26+00:00

I hope all of these bitches are truly miserable when they’re alone in their 40’s.

cycloneous · 2018-04-13T16:15:52+00:00

This is the work I do, I know the chief of police ... so, don’t try and get creepy; I know all my rights.

So here's what I would have responded right off the moment she her implicit threat. I hate when people threaten me, whether implicit or direct.

That's great you know the chief of police, whopee-f-cking-do; on YouTube I am a doctor! It is awesome you know your rights, I am big U.S. Constitution guy, we can discuss this on our date. I am not sure why you're implying I am creepy guy, but okay. Just so that know you, I am a Wing Chun Kung Fu practitioner of 3 years, a 2nd degree brown belt in American Kenpo Karate, 3 year practitioner of arnis stick fighting and spar on a weekly basis. So if you or your cop buddies decide to get creepy with me or try anything stupid, I guaran-damn-f-cking-tee you, I will kick their a$$ and your a$$ six ways to Sunday. Now what was that restaurant you wanted to go to again??

anonmymouse · 2018-04-13T20:54:37+00:00

I bring up rape before they even touch me, I don't know why none of them want to continue the relationship??

uh, well, maybe it's because you clearly have a very unhealthy view of sex and wear that on your sleeve like a crazy person. maybe stop accusing the guys you're interested in sleeping with of being rapists?

13104598210 · 2018-04-13T14:49:00+00:00

Wew lad.

Starcruiser28 · 2018-04-13T16:02:47+00:00

An old post/article. But still a very bad way to communicate, she was looking for control and he basically told her to stroke off.

Charles_The_Grate · 2018-04-13T16:03:03+00:00

I regret I only have one upvote to give this.

AllahHatesFags · 2018-04-13T18:31:50+00:00

Any men that these THOTs would find attractive, even the most alpha Chads, will see that shit and decide she's not worth the inevitable false rape accusation that will come out when she finds they don't want to commit to her or break up with her. Bitches like this are the problem and have ruined many innocent men's lives. Fuck them, they deserve to die miserable and alone.

Throaway_carioca · 2018-04-13T18:42:17+00:00

They’re out there fighting the good fight, but do they also get to hook up like normal college students?

They really don't how it's to be a man

mgtownigga · 2018-04-13T23:24:59+00:00

in her delusional head, she thinks that he was afraid he'd rape her/is a rapist, but in reality he just knows that he's playing with fire if he dates her. I mean she's already on the offensive and showing her crazy before they have even done anything. If i was in that situation, i'd dip as well. Anyone that wrapped up in that sort of shit is bound to look for rape everywhere. 'if youre a hammer...every problem a nail', etc.

pm-me-ur-nsfw · 2018-04-13T14:54:05+00:00

probably belongs in /r/thatHappened

marian5567 · 2018-04-14T03:25:32+00:00

The " is it okey this? Is it okey that?" part it's terrible. Imagine doing foreplay like that? It's so neurotic that you can't get a boner under that circumstance.

[deleted] · 2018-04-14T09:12:11+00:00

I'm a woman and I think that's fucked up. Like if a guy told a woman "I will put away my wallet and I know a lawyer in case you want to steal my money. Oh, and I get to buy condoms in case you want to have a baby and poke holes in them."

Reptilesblade · 2018-04-14T05:08:23+00:00

If I met or went on a date with a woman who said that my interactions would end with her right then and there. I would simply get up and walk away without any pleasantries or an explanation. If I had ordered anything to eat or drink I would either immediately cancel the order or pay for it and take it home to enjoy. I would not pay for her meal. She's a strong independent young woman who don't need no man. Which means especially a man's money.

Actually scratch that. I might tell her that last part lol.

DoesntGetWhatIronyIs · 2018-04-14T05:43:24+00:00

Happy cakeday

stringedbeams · 2018-04-14T09:34:36+00:00

anti-rape activist

it just screams that she is overly sensitive and more likely to construe things as "rape" that aren't

I mean, who is a "pro-rape activist", anyway?

[deleted] · 2018-04-14T09:53:06+00:00

Just another hopeless useless slut. See how she freely discusses "dating" and hooking up with scores of men. What a fucking whore. And it's what most young women do these days. I'd die before i ever settled with of them. I'm only here to increase their n-count.

zestytacoz · 2018-04-14T19:54:07+00:00

Haha, this one is a classic

JamesMercer1 · 2018-04-16T17:12:00+00:00

What is it with this writing style and verbiage in these articles? From the beginning, it’s so clear how narcissistic and pretentious these “authors” are that I can’t even read more than a few sentences without feeling disgusted. Thank goodness I got you guys here in the comments to brief me on the article!

oh_no_aliens · 2018-04-18T11:10:28+00:00

There 👏 is 👏 No 👏 such 👏 thing 👏 as 👏 rape 👏 culture 👏

boipussy69 · 2018-04-18T12:39:01+00:00

If you make yourself seem like a difficult person right away, no one will want to talk to you. It's simple.

JanFromAccounting · 2018-04-19T16:21:15+00:00

Cause there’s nothing sexier than thinly veiled threats to get you in the mood

wrongthink_bad · 2018-04-13T18:32:36+00:00

but do they also get to hook up like normal college students?

Hahahahahahhaahahahahahahahahhahaahhahaahahahahahahahahaha fucking cunt I genuinely hope she actually gets raped