[~45F] "Where did all the good older guys go? How is an older woman supposed to compete against so many single young women all out to find themselves a partner?"

Incel4Life · 2018-04-10T12:54:07+00:00

She spent the good looks of her youth on hunky Chads that didn't want to settle, and now she looks like this. You laughed at the beta who thought he had a chance with you, while you got plowed by the hunks. But now at 45, old-looking, and infertile, the betas laugh at you.

AijeEdTriach · 2018-04-10T12:17:21+00:00

Not through choice...

So women have no agency again this week. We need a flag system to figure out what the talking points for the week are.

I have a proposal to help us identify the mood of the week:

White Flag: We women were wrong, we just want a good man now and are willing to go full TradCon. wink

Blue Flag: Poor us, men should feel sorry for us. Boohoo.

Green Flag: Men are evil. Why do THEY get to date younger. Screeee!

Red Flag: It is not MY fault. I had to get a job/play the field/have fun/do stuff. Now I want to settle down and it is them - the MEEEN who are all yucky and bad. gags

Black Flag: Well, I might as well just double down on chad hunting. I hear that is an over 50 singles event at the local hotel bar. sigh - gulp - toke

[deleted] · 2018-04-10T13:31:29+00:00

Oh dear. All those young women are taking the nice men. Which is precisely what you did two decades earlier when you had something to offer. Will this lead to some introspection? Not ever.

polakfury · 2018-04-10T13:59:52+00:00

dude she is done at 45

Westernhagen · 2018-04-10T14:40:14+00:00

I will admit there are single older men out there. I have been on many dating websites to be able to come to that conclusion but have you seen some of those men?

Wait, you look like THE ZOMBIE WITCH FROM LEFT 4 DEAD and you're saying "have you seen those older men"? AYFKM???

Is it that once most people - men and women - hit the age of 40 they turn the off switch in taking care of themselves both physically and mentally?

Have you looked in a mirror lately?

The men in my recent past (up until a few months ago) have all been at least 19 years my junior. Why you ask? Because younger men still have that drive to be fit and healthy.

Also, they are horny and will dump a fuck into a garbage can so long as it has a vagina.

Let's be realistic ... why would a young man stay any longer than five ~~years~~ minutes with a woman almost twice his age when he could have someone younger?

FIFY

AllahHatesFags · 2018-04-10T15:35:18+00:00

You squandered your chance to end up with a quality guy your age when you wasted your 20s and 30s riding the cc. No quality guy is going to want a 45 year-old single mom with an astronomical n-count.

JohnQPubliq · 2018-04-10T23:23:22+00:00

How is an older woman supposed to compete against so many single young women all out to find themselves a partner?

Your not supposed to be competing. You were supposed to get married by age 20 and have kids. You fucked up and there is no solving your predicament without a time machine.

A woman trades her youth (sexual exclusivity with one man during her prime fertile years age 15-25, the only years you were ever attractive) for the obligated loyalty and resources of a man for the remainder of his entire life. He gets 10-15 years of your youth and beauty all to himself and children that are unquestionably his because you were a virgin and then he spends the ENTIRE. REST. OF. HIS FUCKING. LIFE until age 90-100 taking care of you.

Thats what marriage was since the dawn of human civilization and it was always a shit deal for a man. If you take Genetic integrity (virign) off the table and you take away exclusivity (the only 10-15 years of your life when you were actually fuckable) off the table and then you come to a man at age fucking 30 with a miles of strangers dicks run through you expecting him to continue to hold up his end of the deal for his entire life.......

No hymen, no diamond whore. I would rather spend the rest of my life celibate or turn gay rather than waste my money and my time on you.

"b-but arent you afraid of being alone?"

Nope. I would rather spend the rest of my life alone and die alone than be with someone like you. I give no fucks.

athotisathotisathot · 2018-04-10T16:20:28+00:00

I will admit there are single older men out there. [...] but have you seen some of those men?

The men in my recent past (up until a few months ago) have all been at least 19 years my junior. Why you ask? Because younger men still have that drive to be fit and healthy.

Holy Double Standard Batman! How can these women have such an unbelievable lack of self-awareness?

HodlingSteady · 2018-04-10T16:47:21+00:00

This proves how women never figure out what men want. Even at 45 years old, she has no clue. In that long rant of hers did she mention anything that she could do to make a man's life better? Nope. She wonders why she can't get her "Thor". You would think at 45 years old a desperate woman would fake it when she's writing about herself online. Nope. Just a long rant about herself. Go email her guys, you'll get a 45 year old with kids who has no free time for your needs, no money, no prospect of getting money, and wants to go dancing. Sounds great.

Long_Range_Shooter · 2018-04-10T15:54:29+00:00

Remember all those guys you blew off when you were young and pretty? They remember you.

houseoftolstoy · 2018-04-10T16:46:57+00:00

"Where do you go to meet a decent bloke that still has drive and ambition, is fit and healthy and NOT taken?"

In your 20s, where you left them.

Advice that needs to be given to any young woman who wants marriage and children:

Don't screw around with a bunch of different guys in your 20s and then expect Mr. Right to show up when you are in your 30s, but instead date with marriage in mind and find him earlier.

Be consistent with your goals, what a concept! It's a lot easier to be married to a man your age in your 40s when you pursue him in your 20s. If you look for a real quality guy when you have the most to offer, he is a lot more likely to be appreciative of you in the marriage rather than try to shame him into a relationship later on when you previously overlooked him and now have far less to offer.

[deleted] · 2018-04-11T02:55:48+00:00

Top comment from the article:

"Where do you go to meet a decent bloke that still has drive and ambition, is fit and healthy and NOT taken?"

In your 20s, where you left them.

battyryder · 2018-04-10T16:59:05+00:00

Horrible, hollow, sunken eye's, like a skull. Yuk.

ClockworkOrange92618 · 2018-04-10T17:57:30+00:00

"How is an older woman supposed to compete against so many single young women all out to find themselves a partner?"

she seems to be connecting the dots but can't find the last two dots, which are:

An older woman cannot compete against so many single young women all out to find themselves a partner.
There are no good older guys left for an older woman.

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2018-04-10T18:06:40+00:00

She looks like she was really hot in her 20s.

LimousineLibtard · 2018-04-10T19:20:28+00:00

I'm 37 and don't fuck with women over 28. It's not worth it for some wrinkly dried up old bag with all the associated emotional baggage.

She had plenty of time to lock down a good man but spent it riding the cock carousel and stretching out her wizard sleeve instead. I have no sympathy for her and wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole.

mydikishomofobik · 2018-04-11T12:23:41+00:00

Let's say, hypothetically, that I got rejected by chicks my own age in HS and in my 20s. Let's say they were all fucking the same small number of "cool guys" and excluded me from the tight young pussy fuck-fest.

Then, let's say years later, I found a way to get access to tight young 18-25 year old pussy. Meanwhile, the girls who didn't want me before got old and accumulated lots of baggage. They've accumulated lots and lots of baggage because it was so easy for them to get sex and boyfriends when they were young. They have children from other men, emotional baggage, hang ups on past relationships, etc. Plus they don't look as good as they used to.

Why would I, hypothetically, waste time on the dried up old punani that didn't want me when I was younger? Why would I not just fuck tight young fresh 18 year old pussy to compensate for not being able to fuck them when I was younger?

ButtsMacGillacuty · 2018-04-10T19:40:34+00:00

I'm single. Not through choice but because of location, time and budget restraints.

Here we go, rise of the female incel. When women start shooting up schools and workplaces as much as men they're not going to be able to blame "toxic masculinity" anymore.

[deleted] · 2018-04-11T01:58:51+00:00

Here's a quarter now go downtown and have a rat chew that thing off your face

goober_boobz · 2018-04-10T17:59:43+00:00

"Where do you go to meet a decent bloke that still has drive and ambition, is fit and healthy and NOT taken?

toysjoe · 2018-04-11T00:24:50+00:00

So what the hell were you doing when you were young?

Cristoff13 · 2018-04-11T11:13:05+00:00

There is a simple rule anyone, man or woman, who complains about "why aren't the people who should be interested in me aren't?" should learn. The answer is, simply, that they are above your league. Whether this is fair, or even makes sense to you, is irrelevant. That's just the way it is. Berating them that they should be interested is going to achieve nothing.

Obviously the men she considers her equal - the fit, healthy, successful, ambitious men - can do better than her.

mrcs84usn · 2018-04-11T16:03:46+00:00

Hey, look at the bright side. She's been sport-fucking dudes that are 20 years younger than her. So she's staying in the rotation.

[deleted] · 2018-04-10T17:22:03+00:00

Bitches be having the first turn at tic tac toe and putting the X in the middle.

The__Tren__Train · 2018-04-10T18:30:44+00:00

I know a single guy who is about her age... he looks absolutely fantastic.. never married (too smart for that).

he has women his age and older chasing him constantly.. and women in their 20's pining after him too.

he uses testosterone and some other goodies to maintain his physique, as any man his age should IMO.

lorum_ipsum_dolor · 2018-04-11T12:44:46+00:00

Hamster 101

"I'm single. Not through choice but because of location, time and budget restraints."

Translation:

I'm single and it's not my fault. I choose to live here but that's not my fault. I choose to spend little or no time trying to date but that's not my fault. I choose not to live frugally so I'm broke but that's not my fault.

hollybegin · 2018-04-11T13:09:15+00:00

How is an older woman supposed to compete against what appears to be so many single young women all out to find themselves a prospective partner?

Don't worry. We don't want to date them either.

heyheyitsdatboi · 2018-04-13T02:52:09+00:00

A 40+ year old woman calling herself a “girl” should be a red flag

oh_no_aliens · 2018-04-18T12:34:41+00:00

I tell my kids take care of yourself first, because if you can't, how can you expect to take care of someone else?

And that's where she fucked up.

I-am-the-lul · 2018-04-14T05:49:25+00:00

"Where do you go to meet a decent bloke that still has drive and ambition, is fit and healthy and NOT taken?"

In your 20s, where you left them.

If you a woman who claims to be traditional but is over 30 and still not married, odds are you rode that CC hard right until you hit that wall.