I rode the CC and now I need to settle down because the wall is coming. Where are all the good men?

40moreyears · 2018-02-28T21:36:54+00:00

The lie that men won't care about promiscuity if they are "modern" will create a lot of lonely women in the future.

Bestoftherest222 · 2018-02-28T23:25:36+00:00

Casual sex no longer feels sexy and dangerous—more like used and rejected. I used to skip home on cloud nine after sex, but I think I’ve reached my threshold. I don’t want to be the girl who guys only use for sex, I want to be their girlfriend. Sigh…

She stumbled upon some knowledge there, but she doesn't realize she is the problem. She brings nothing but pussy to a relationship and she gets upset that's all a man wants. Now her pussy is used up, she is old, she probably doesn't have a decent job, and now she wants her used up pussy to get her a quality man.

Xoramung · 2018-02-28T22:36:44+00:00

I am crying online and hoping someone will "man up" and marry me...

..... NO!

MauveSuitCrotchet · 2018-02-28T22:17:44+00:00

Note all these descriptors she uses.

Sad Bitter Alone Single Empty Inside

GrandYam_HomeRun · 2018-03-01T01:43:20+00:00

Do these women realize that going CC pretty much automatically makes you a gamma girl?

That getting the "man of your dreams" pretty much goes up in flames and from that time on you are going to have to settle, and settle hard to get married?

In the beginning, I would often say that I’m not ready for a relationship or that I only wanted to focus on myself right now, which was actually totally true at the time. I really did feel that way, but now that I’ve been single for basically a year

Listen Carol. You can't take a year off in your prime. You can barely afford to take a month off in your prime. If you need that much me time to get ready to be in a relationship, maybe you don't belong in one. It shows you are really not committed to the end game. And that shows too.

Buy cats now...

or later...

doesn't matter. Kitties are coming home with you.

hodltaco · 2018-03-01T05:13:12+00:00

“4. HOOKING UP WITH RANDOMS MAKES ME FEEL EMPTY INSIDE. Casual sex no longer feels sexy and dangerous—more like used and rejected. After a few hookups, I began to look for potential long-term partners and was often rejected because the guy was only looking for, well, a hookup. I used to skip home on cloud nine after sex, but I think I’ve reached my threshold. I don’t want to be the girl who guys only use for sex, I want to be their girlfriend. Sigh…”

“ I would walk down the street and think, “Get in line, boys.” However, that attitude has worn off. Now I’m thinking, “Why doesn’t anyone want to date me?” I’m starting to get desperate and that’s not cute.”

BECAUSE YOU’RE A WHORE! A used whore. Your vagina smells like The Salvation Army.

AWALT AWALT AWALT AWALT AWALT AWALT AWALT AWALT AWALT AWALT AWALT AWALT

NabunagasRevenge · 2018-03-01T08:31:38+00:00

10 IT’S NOT CUTE ANYMORE. 'I used to feel like a hot commodity when I first entered the singles dating scene. I would walk down the street and think, “Get in line, boys.” However, that attitude has worn off. Now I’m thinking, “Why doesn’t anyone want to date me?” I’m starting to get desperate and that’s not cute."

Leave it to cunts to try and make being a slut "cute "

Just4yourpost · 2018-03-01T06:49:46+00:00

All this in just a year?! Talk about a fucking drama queen.

0kool74 · 2018-03-01T19:53:42+00:00

Nothing.....and I mean absolutely NOTHING this day and time is more of a paragon of psychological study than the "where are all the good men" question. Not even the Trump grabbin' em by the pu$$y or the feminazi "that guy is raping me with is eyes" has more depths and black holes to explore than the ex cock carousel rider who's lamenting hitting the wall and not being able to find a guy to supplicate her shitty life choice consequences.

But, as DEEP as that hole of study can go, there really is only one simple answer for that question......they're in the friend zone where you left them!

Cavannah · 2018-02-28T23:08:13+00:00

Bitter harridan-in-the-making doesn't understand why not establishing boundaries and not investing in herself or setting goals for self-betterment isn't getting her what she wants

BluepillProfessor · 2018-03-01T17:15:19+00:00

Get in line, boys

This is one of the most disgusting attitudes I can imagine. Having this attitude alone should be more than enough to deny her a LTR for the rest of her life.

The men are lining up darling and they are happy to take what you provide- pussy. Nothing more, nothing less.

Can I have a MEOW!

MauveSuitCrotchet · 2018-03-04T02:09:46+00:00

Other articles by the same woman.

My personal favorites:

The Reason I’m Single Has Nothing To Do With Me
I Think A Guy Should Pay On A First Date—Here’s Why
It Makes Sense Why My Dating Life Is In Shambles Considering I Came From A Broken Family
I’m Happy With My Boyfriend, But I Can’t Help But Wonder If * Someone Better Is Out There
Dating Would Be So Much Easier If I Were A Guy

RadicalAsceticMonk · 2018-03-02T20:08:54+00:00

When my last relationship ended, I was actually really eager to get back on the dating scene.

Of course you were. In fact, I'm willing to bet money on the fact that your eagerness to "get back on the dating scene" was one, if not the main, factor in your break up. Your beta boyfriend was too boring, too comfortable, not adventurous, the spark just wasn't there.

Being single sounded super fun to me—I could go out to clubs with my friends, finally see what Tinder is all about, and just start fresh. It was awesome at first, but now that a whole year has gone by, the novelty has worn off and I think I’m ready for a relationship again.

This is exactly what goddamn children think about their toys. And this thot thinks about her own life in those terms! Remarkable. No foresight, no planning capability, no ability to have a self-reflective thought. Tee hee, dating sounds so much fun! Tinder sounds exciting!", she thought, without realizing that her excitement could be very short-lived. She just didn't care, because Billy Beta was just sooo boring! and she needed adventure in her life! Why should her think about the risks and implications of going back to the dating scene? Why should her think about how most other thots that are banging the club life are just miserable, hedonistic, entitled bitches? "I don't need ~~safety gloves~~ no self-reflection in my life, I'm ~~Homer Simpson~~ a woman!"

Also - how sad is the thought that she wants to latch on some poor, needy simp not because she's into him, but because she's tired of being single and slutty. Bravo. Top notch relationship material here. Until she gets bored again.

\1. I’m tired of going out.

Then don't go out, you blabbering fool.

I’ve always been a bit of a homebody, but ever since I’ve been single, I’ve forced myself to go out several times a week because that’s just what single people do, right?

What kind of mindless drone do you have to be to "force yourself" to do something (supposedly) for fun just because "it's just what people like me do"? I know that calling other people "sheepish" is overdone these days, but... jeez, lady, go grow a fucking spine! Didn't you feminist sisters supposedly fought so you could determine your own fate? Patriarchy my ass, leave women alone, and they'll find something to blindly submit to.

It was fun in the beginning but I’m honestly almost at my limit. I’d much rather cuddle with my lover than pass out drunk on my bed and wake up shivering. I’m ready for a change.

Gee, it's like being an irresponsible semi-alcoholic club banger is a bad idea or something! But I suppose that people in your life advising you to not do that were just slut shaming you, so that's ok! Too bad you only realized it now, after what seems to be a year of boozing and sluting and destroying your physical and mental health. Well, YOLO, right?

\2. Online dating is starting to lose its novelty.

Well I'll be damned. I remember when online dating was something for losers. Of all the problems with online dating (unsafe, shallow, akin to a "meat market", etc.), your problem with it is "the novelty worn off"? That says a lot about wat kind of shallow, vapid, trend-slave person you are.

When my last relationship ended, I was like a kid in a candy store, swiping day and night, getting high on the attention I was getting.

Well, I'll be damned. This is too perfect to be true. I'm getting punked by this article, ain't I? Fess up, which one of your MRA mysoginistic pigs wrote this?

It felt good at first to have a pretty much bottomless pit of guys to date, but after a few months of going on dates that didn’t pan out, I began to feel defeated and started wishing I didn’t have to go through this BS just to find a boyfriend.

>bottomless pit of guys to date

>to find a boyfriend

She really doesn't have a damn clue about what she's blabbering about. Lady, what you're doing is like a guy going to a brothel to find his next wife. Online dating apps is supposed to be a way to find quick sex, not commitment. It's a simple concept to grasp, really. I don't go to a restaurant to purchase a new GPU for my computer. I go to the bakery to stuff my gullet with food.

\3. It’s starting to get sad.

"Starting"? If you hade a single spec of self-awareness, you'd realize this was sad since day one.

When I first became single, I felt reborn. I felt like the whole world was my oyster.

Oh yeah, back to the cock carousel, so much fun!

I fully embraced single life and did all the things a singleton is supposed to do — I went out dancing with my friends, went on dates with guys I met online, took a chance on guys who randomly asked me out, and even hooked up with some randoms.

What's the difference between "guys who randomly asked me out" and "hooking up with some randoms"? ...anyway, again with this "things singles are supposed to do" shit. Lady, you're not "supposed" to do shit! Hell, I have to point again, feminism was supposed to give you womenfolk fre agency. You squandered it by simply exchanging "listening to your parents/husband" with "listening to societal pressures", which frankly is part of what teenagers do (replacing the "following the parents" with "following the group"). And these women are the ones calling us "manchildren" because we don't "live like adults are supposed to". Well, ladies, neither do you!

It was fun and I felt a new found freedom that I didn’t have when I was in a relationship, but it’s starting to lose its thrill. There comes a point when being single should end, otherwise, what am I even doing?

For "being single to end", you'd need to have at least a bit of self-awareness and respect for your boyfriend, but you clearly can't do it - you dumped your last one to "have fun" and "do what single people are supposed to do", after all.

\4. Hooking up with randoms makes me feel empty inside.

Again, many people could have told you that, but that would be "slut shaming".

Casual sex no longer feels sexy and dangerous — more like used and rejected.

That's because it is like being used and rejected. But it is also like using and rejecting. Don't you dare to play the "I got played!" card, lady. We all know you enjoyed those meaningless, random fucks very much at least as much as the "randoms" you were banging did.

After a few hookups, I began to look for potential long-term partners and was often rejected because the guy was only looking for, well, a hookup.

Somehow I'm sure these guys are at fault here, right? Anyway... you were doing "hook-ups" in search for "long-term partners"? How does that make any sense in that thick head of yours?

I used to skip home on cloud nine after sex, but I think I’ve reached my threshold. I don’t want to be the girl who guys only use for sex, I want to be their girlfriend. Sigh…

Haha, wow. You fully realize that these guys are just hooking up for easy sex, and you still want to be their girlfriend. You know, we have a saying among men that goes like this: "Don't try to make a housewife out of a whore". Well, you're searching for the gender-flipped version of that: a manwhore turned "Mr. Perfect". Probably because those guys look gorgeous and sexy and dreamy and give you the ~~tingles~~ butterflies in the stomach. Well, guess what? Precisely because these guys are all these things, they won't stop being manwhores. Specially not after the sexual market is filled with younger versions of you day 1 after your break up: single, free, willing to do hook ups and have easy sex. You girl friends made the bed, now you have to lay on it. Enjoy!

ransay3277 · 2018-03-07T18:45:28+00:00

Perfect description of a woman realizing she has hit the wall.

wathon2 · 2018-03-03T15:54:33+00:00

Except it's so easy for a woman to hide her past promiscuity.

This is why men should assume that ALL women are sluts, until proven otherwise.

freckledfox01 · 2018-03-28T19:01:18+00:00

Something tells me she will grow bored of marriage too when she discovers it's not always holding hands and cuddling.

Title	I rode the CC and now I need to settle down because the wall is coming. Where are all the good men?
Author	AllahHatesFags
Upvotes	102
Comments	41
Date	February 28, 2018 9:11 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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