As I was sitting in bed post sex with one of my main plates, she beings to look at me and say, “you know the reason I like you so much is because you’re honest.” She then proceeds to say how all the other guys either lie about the fact they talk to other women, about their jobs, how much money they make, and a plethora of other things. This is the third plate to offer appreciation of my honesty in the past couple months.

Now I’ll be honest I haven’t always been the honest Ab I am today but after truly swallowing the red pill after 3-4 years post discovery I’ve learned the value of honest.

LYING IS BETA. Yes you can lie and it even may help you inflate your value because most times a girl won’t press you to see if the lie is true or not. But ask yourself “why am I lying to this girl?” Most likely it’s to impress her to get inside her pants. Or you’re trying to seem like you have more status or social proof than you actually have. Can you see how this would be stifling to your growth because you will see these lies make work short term and you’ll stop pursuing your goals as hard because you are getting pussy somewhat.

HONESTY IS A VERY STRONG DISPLAY OF IDGAF ATTITUDE AND CONFIDENCE. A girl can identify you as a alpha simply by you telling her things that YOU and HER both know will work against you to fucking her by social norms. Telling a girl such things like you’re unemployed, or implying you fuck other girls, even saying you aren’t looking anything serious would be a no go for most beta males with hidden tactics. But showing a take it or leave it attitude triggers women’s intuition telling them “I fuck other girls so I can be this honest with you because I couldn’t care less if you stay or go.”

THE TRUTH WILL COME OUT EVENTUALLY. Anyone who has lived long enough in this world knows this to be very factual. Now if you’re the kind of guy who likes to have ONS and not keep plates for long go ahead and lie it’ll work for those things. But if you’re a male whose time is valuable and you can’t go out often and get girls to your standards who have the looks, sexual experience, submissive attitude and other qualities you’ve come to love from being a true alpha, you can’t afford to keep breaking plates every two or three weeks.

So before you lie to that girl you just met on tinder or at the bar remember YOU are the prize and no matter what situation you’re in you are STILL the prize and she should be the one chasing you. Lying to a girl is seeking her validation and is inherently very beta and is coming from a place of scarcity because “oh if I don’t lie to this girl I won’t get pussy this day”. Stay discipline and focused out their kings.