The more you try the less attractive she finds you, so where is the line between pursuing and focusing on yourself/ignoring?

MadeThisinTheHosp · 2020-12-28T02:10:08+00:00

The goal isnt to give girls 0 attention, its to give girls 0 validation. You can talk to a girl without complimenting/"simping" 24/7

BlondeHornyElf · 2020-12-28T02:46:43+00:00

u can show interest in her sexually and interest in getting to know her but don't come across as desperate or like you need this to work out, or even that you'll be butthurt if it doesn't.

always be cool.

pukima_sial · 2020-12-28T03:42:04+00:00

Balance my guy. Push and pull. But always prioritize yourself first.

throw-away-1709 · 2020-12-28T07:14:27+00:00

100% on yourself.

2020-12-28T12:49:48+00:00

Find the healthy middle ground between being a complete fuckin stalker and acting like she doesn’t even exist.... don’t worry that middle ground is real

RP_utiliser · 2020-12-28T04:03:45+00:00

Push pull is gold. Compliment very rarely but when you do make sure it’s something that isn’t really shallow. You can validate them a little after sex

OttoVonBismark71 · 2020-12-28T06:55:20+00:00

It's the same with fishing. You have to learn how to reel a fish in. This takes practice...knowing how much attention to give, when to draw back, and when you've got a hook. I believe Mystery spoke a lot about this.

ppanther92 · 2020-12-28T18:29:14+00:00

Well, obviously of you don't "invest" in a girl, she won't even recognize you in many cases. Men still have to be the active part. But the difference is if you leave the inpression that you are a try-hard whose goal is to please her or if you are there for a good time with her. Like she has some value to you (and you demand her to show that).

Title	The more you try the less attractive she finds you, so where is the line between pursuing and focusing on yourself/ignoring?
Author	St31nway
Upvotes	29
Comments	14
Date	December 28, 2020 1:45 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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