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"...And Candy Cheats Again"

by OmLaLa on /r/TheRedPill
14 August 2015 01:37 PM UTC
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TL;DR- A girl who cheated on me cheats with me.

“…And Candy Cheats Again”

“It is necessary to the happiness of man that he be mentally faithful to himself. Infidelity does not consist in believing, or in disbelieving, it consists in professing to believe what he does not believe.” ― Thomas Paine, The Age of Reason

I dated this cute chick named “Candy”.

Together almost 6 months just as TRP really started to click. One post had me thoroughly convinced LTRs were stupid. Still believe it to this day. I think it was one of u/Whisper ‘s posts. Love the guy. Smart shit.

Anyways, I dumped her ass soon after reading that. No call, no text. Just stopped seeing her. Hurt like shit but it had to be done. Think she was cheating with some Chad, shit like that. Focused on me, moved on.

So last week me and Fine China [Plate] went to the mall and bump into Candy. She's with some guy. Mike I think. We kept it brief and left.

She called that night. Wanted to talk about ”us”. Wanted “closure”. Says she looks at our pictures and thinks of me. Asks if I do the same. Nope. I’ve moved on. She hung up.

Next day she’s at my door. Won’t leave ‘til I talk to her. But what about Mike? “We’re just talking. We’re not together like that.” Okay, sure. I hear her out.

She goes on about the good times we had. How nice our time was together. She misses the “old” me. The "me" that put up with her shit. That bought her shit because “that’s what guys are supposed to do”. That came by Every. Single. Fucking. Day. for hooours on end just cause that’s what a ”good boyfriend” does.

That guy’s been dead a while now. Tough break.

She had to ask who Fine China is to me. Like a cheap cologne I could smell that jealousy a mile away. “Are you two dating now?” “Is she better than me?” I tell her we're just fucking and we hang out sometimes. And yeah she’s better. She cooks for me. Candy never did that shit.

That bugged her. She threatens to leave. Says she doesn’t have to put up with being insulted. I open the door. Say I don’t do games. You asked for my opinion, I gave it. Now leave or don’t. She leaves.

So that night she’s at my door again. Fine China’s over so we talk outside.

“I don’t know if I can ever see you as a boyfriend again…but I think we should at least be friends.” Okay? Ask her what kind of friends. “Friends that, you know… 'do stuff'.” She means fuck.

She asks if we can “do stuff” tonight. Fine China’s over, another time.

The next night she’s at my door, we “do stuff”, she’s asleep. Her phone goes off like 5 times. It’s Mike. I read a few texts. He’s her boyfriend. Poor guy had no idea.

Best part? She’s got me listed as her best friend “Miranda”. She told him Miranda was going through some shit and needed a “true friend” tonight. I’m Chad now.

LL- Through overcoming a woman’s perceptions of your former self and all her shit tests that’ll accommodated those opinions, you can ideally fit any role in which she deems you suitable. Past is harder to overcome than simply starting fresh with a new woman, but it can be done with time, frame, consistency and most importantly through dominance/control of the situation.

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240 upvotesSkorchZang4 years ago

It's such a satisfying aspect of women's caprice - that is, if she ever cheats on you, you can bet your ass she's going to cheat on the guy she cheated on you with.

It's almost never as personal as the guy on the receiving end tends to think it is. It comes from habitually giving women way too much credit that they never deserved. Most of the time, the infidelity has nothing to do with our guy or his qualities, she's just "being herself"...

157 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

good to see you're not holding them back from discovering themselves, that would have made you a misogynist

3 upvotesnewls4 years ago

As a side note I find it amusing that whenever somebody here regales about how their ex said they wanted to "discover themselves and who they are", nearly all of the new guys reading it say "holy shit that's exactly what my ex said, word for word".

Is this phrase a thing among women? Or are all hamsters just as homogeneous as we say they are?

6 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

women for the most part defend each other even if they dont know each other and if they are obviously in the wrong. they will also do it for the government. this is toxic femininity, the consensus reality, hive mind borg collective

1 upvotesMr_Andry4 years ago

While this is true, women are also the most vicious when in competition with other women. This is hugely beneficial to a man, as long as he can be subtle about inducing the competitive spirit within her.

-60 upvotesfuckedyobitchthrowaw4 years ago

I just recently sleep with one of my friend's girl(keep your morality to yourselves shitlords, it's TRP. I didn't persue her at all, she literally just walked into my bedroom and started undressing & no sane man could resist a hb7-hb8 in a situation like that)

Anyways, this is the first time I ever cheated with someone, I've never cheated on a girl or with a girl that had a guy fyi, I would rather break up with a girl than cheat and never ask if they have one. There was a time when I would have been disgusted with her actions, repulsed, judgmental pre TRP or even in my early days of TRP, akin to the anger phase.

Now, she's just a chick acting out on her primal desires, nothing more, nothing less. She's not a slut, he'll she's actually dated this guy for 7 years since high school and truthfully only sleep with 6 guys. #5 and 6(me) happened within the last 4 months. I do get "cheating" now though. I use to be a whiteknight holier than though beta. After having sex like that, it is by far thee most intense fucking you can do, and I'm into all kinds of hardcore shit, this makes everything else look like vanilla missionary. The overload and intensity is just insane. I completely get why girls cheat and how they get addicted to it.

Oh and yes, once a cheater, fucking yes she will always be a cheater. That shit is a drug make no fucking mistake about it.

She is just a chick though that is so utterly repulsed by her beta that she is acting out on her desires for other men. He's a somewhat close friend but after reading TRP he is literally the poster child of a beta. Super insecure, constantly text her, she can't stay the night with her friends, gets jealous and freaks out over any guy even showing a semblance of interest in her. Oh and he's also cheated on her to which just justifies her hamster even more. I literally see her cringe when he blows up her phone.

As for him, do i feel bad about it? Hell ya, but what i feel even more is pitty. Pitty for him and how he use to be a somewhat alpha guy who has turned into the shell of a man. Once you swallow the pill it hurts to see your now beta friends and can so easily predict the path they are walking down. If he finds out then so be it, i accepted that. Personally,if we get caught, i'd rather lose a friend but save a man from a future of adultery and self loathing and all the other shit he is walked the path towards. It's a fucked up dynamic when you know TRP, reach the acceptance phase and have slept with a friends girl, I can not find a word to describe it.

In the end she's just a chick being a chick, he's a beta feminized by society and I'll be the asshole the destroyed their relationship somehow because she came into my room when i was just trying to sleep.

60 upvotesChrisBenRoy4 years ago

I would say that abundance mentality should give you the ability to turn down advances from your friend's girl, if you were any good of friends to begin with.

32 upvotesmarty2k4 years ago

Exactly. "Who could turn down an HB 7?" A guy with options, that is such a scarcity mentality. The only guys who sleep with their friends girls are desperate or sociopaths.

19 upvotesStrokeGameHusky4 years ago

Most of the time, it's both. There is no reason to fuck your friend's girls, wife's, or daughters. It is desperate and unnecessary.

TRP preaches self improvement. It preaches to be an Alpha. Not to be an asshole. Stop confusing the two.

An Alpha doesn't fuck his "friend's" gf. Ever. How does that help you improve? It doesn't. Stop being an asshole.

-2 upvotesGrandmasterHurricane4 years ago

Sisters and moms are fair game.

-11 upvotesBooksofMagic4 years ago

An Alpha doesn't fuck his "friend's" gf. Ever.

Where do you get this? This is YOUR morality. YOUR bro-code. A true Alpha learns the truths of a situation so he can play the game to win.

This is the reality you live in. Getting mad at the rules of the game does you no good. IF you want to win, play the pieces as you are given them, not as you imaging how things should be. Real life has not morality. Wake up from your Disney dreams

-4 upvotesDannyDemotta4 years ago

Whats that? Do i sense some feminist shaming tactics? "You do/believe x, i dont, so you must have Y disorder"?

Do you motherfuckers just think the sidebar only applies outside of this sub? Fucking apply that shit. Dont say stupid shaming shit just so people throw you upvotes.

You can make your point just as easily without accusing someone of having a mental disorder, which is HIGHLY insulting to people who do deal with them.

12 upvotes996394 years ago

What's that, someone hamstering their inability to tolerate criticism by trying to label it all as "shaming" ? Not all criticism is a "shaming tactic", you need to grow a thicker skin and learn to stand up for yourself instead of crying for teacher.

Anyway I disagree with you about banging your buddy's girl. A man treats his friends with respect, and I think only a thirsty and disloyal little shit would go behind his friend's back. Personally I would prefer my friends go through with it and tell me after so she can't deny it, but I would expect to discuss that beforehand.

1 upvotesBooksofMagic4 years ago

Do i sense some feminist shaming tactics

Yup. Seems old habits are dying hard with this one.

35 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

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6 upvotesDannyDemotta4 years ago

Bro Knighting is exactly the opposite of TRP, dude. No 2 ways about it. Only one hamstering is you. Get off your high horse and stop using "omg thats not RP" as some kind of insult.

OP is an RP asshole, yes. You're acting like a beta bitch.

9 upvotesKaelteth4 years ago

Oh jesus christ. Get a fucking grip.

We're fucking men. Our word is our bond. Quite bluntly, being a man means treating the other men in our lives with honor.

Parent is acting like a fucking woman without agency - "no sane man could resist a hb7-hb8 in a situation like that". May as well be saying "oh, I never intended to sleep with Chad...it just happened".

And here you are, white knighting for this loser douchebag.

Please fuck off.

1 upvotesBooksofMagic4 years ago

And here you are, white knighting for this loser douchebag.

Hey pot - are you calling the kettle black again? You are defining White Knight with your little angry tirade about morality. Don't like what he did? Too bad. Stop empathizing with people who have ZERO impact on your life. Focus on the lesson of his story, not the fact he is violating some bullshit Bro-code.

Look after your own shit before you start raging on others. It's the boyfriends fault for not being a high enough value man, not OP for taking advantage of the situation in front of him. It's all in the sidebar. Read it.

edit: grammar and stuff

9 upvotesTom_The_Human4 years ago

If a friend's girl did that to me, I'd tell the friend she's a cheating whore (and depending on the friend, I may also fuck her).

34 upvotesOmLaLa [OP]4 years ago

Yeah its one thing to fuck a girl whose dating some dude you don't know. But your friends girl...

I'm as amoral as the next guy, but that would tell me he's not really your firend.

10 upvotesChrisBenRoy4 years ago

In this case I'm thinking "friend" is a guy he whom he knows his name and nothing more, otherwise this fella is a pretty big scumbag with no self discipline.

0 upvotesTom_The_Human4 years ago

Some of my friends wouldn't really care that much. If it was someone close, I wouldn't.

1 upvotesOmLaLa [OP]4 years ago

It's one thing if you've established that beforehand. It's another if you acted assuming they wouldn't care. That'd be betrayal.

3 upvotesGrandmasterHurricane4 years ago

TRP isn't some free pass for your shitty sense of morals, we're not a bunch of dirty fucking pirates. Check your privilege, you shitlord.

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2 upvotesBooksofMagic4 years ago

Yes, young Jedi. let the anger flow.

Soon you will realize that this is not the OP's fault that his friends girls is cheating with him - it's the boyfriends for not being a high enough value man to prevent this from happening.

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2 upvotesBooksofMagic4 years ago

Yup. Lots of beta boys around here that are just raging about him taking advantage of her, when both he and this girl are just doing what they are biologically programmed to do. He didn't ask her to fall on his dick, he's just enjoying the ride.

-1 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Oh and yes, once a cheater, fucking yes she will always be a cheater.

She wasn't alone. You're a cheater, too.

3 upvotescurveball214 years ago

He's not a cheater. Cheating implies you are breaking a deal with someone. He's not.

Edit: sorry got lost in the thread, thought you were responding to OP and not guy who couldn't resist his "friends" girlfriend.

-2 upvotesBooksofMagic4 years ago

I see a lot of butthurt folks taking stabs at your character here but all I'm hearing is the cries of anguished Beta Boys that are still unplugging as they are spoon fed horror stories of other men getting screwed over. Their empathy for these faceless, unknown men are a direct result of their fear of being in the situation where their girl is fucking around on them with some other Chad.

Bottom line is that you are just a dick she's falling on because she's following her biological imperative because AWALT. The reality is that it is your friends fault that this is happening, and you are just taking advantage of the situation. Your friend is not a high enough value man to keep this women on the straight and narrow and that's on him, not you.

Men: Taking responsibility for the role you played when a woman cheats on you is all part of the 'owning your shit' mentality that is talked about often around here. Stop blaming the other man, start improving yourself to ensure you are strong enough to prevent it from happening in the future.

I do concur with the opinion that this guy is not a very close friend, however, which is why you are letting this happen.

-3 upvotesiLLprincipLeS4 years ago

u fuckin' w0t m8?

eh. nice b8 m8. fuck it, make a real account, troll's got talent.

in other news, it's good this guys are still plugged in and are bitching that their(yours) worst fears might come to fruition, that's what you wanted, right?

but you see, let the me dark enlight you, each story has a grain of truth. there are wolves like me who already did what you said you did. and you know what happened? again.


-12 upvotesKyfhoMyoba4 years ago

if she ever cheats on you, you can bet your ass she's going to cheat on the guy she cheated on you with.

I'm sure no on on this sub ever reads a tabloid, and I only glance at them while in a long line at WalMart, but this is exactly what happened with Affleck and Garner, and with Shelton and Lambert.

170 upvotesCopperFox3c4 years ago

The first time I realized I was being Chad was a transcendent moment for me. One of those "holy fuck, I can see everything clearly" kind of moments.

I wasn't even trying to be Chad, just applying red pill principles. That's the moment you finally see first-hand the machinery underneath the guise we call "romance" or "love" or whatever. The script of male/female human mating behavior, humming away like clockwork. The moment it goes from being theory to your reality.

44 upvotesIGoYouStayTwoAutumns4 years ago

This should be its own post right here, with comments galore. "Tell us about the first time you realized YOU WERE CHAD"...

25 upvoteshirjd4 years ago

You can be like chad but you will never actually be THE chad. Ive heard enough blasphemy today. Praise his thunder.

3 upvotes2SidedTriangle4 years ago

The praise his thunder made me actually lol

13 upvotesilikeurbootyimnotgay4 years ago

When her husband called that I didn't know about. Oops.

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16 upvotesblacwidonsfw4 years ago

I keep weekends open cause I'd rather go out with my buddies and meet new chicks then re-do old ones.

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15 upvotesblacwidonsfw4 years ago

I get the biggest and only Shit tests from long term plates for it. "Why don't you ever have time for me on the weekend? why don't you ever take me anywhere on trips like you do with your friends?"

3 upvotesCacTye4 years ago

When her husband called, knew she had driven six hours to have dinner with me and go to a swank hotel, and believed her when she told him we were just friends.

1 upvotesdotadodger4 years ago

when i was 17 and someone gave me a list of 7 girls who wanted me.

-2 upvotesJ_Dizzle10004 years ago

I have a friend who will find a cute girl he wants to hook up with, will put in work for a week and then find out I was fucking them after he was trying hard to get with them.

Also had a few times in my frat where I would bang a chick in my room while her "bf" was at the party drunk.

Makes me wonder how many times shit like that has happened to me though.

9 upvotesSyzmatiq4 years ago

NGL dude, that makes you seem like an asshole. If he's your actual friend, don't do shit like that. Bro's aren't people you should fuck with. You don't seem like 'Chad', you seem like a cunt.

5 upvotesJ_Dizzle10004 years ago

True, but I can't help it if I find out after I hit that he's been trying too. Plus all our friends know if I bring girls around they have first crack at it, but if they're striking out, I take a shot at it.

I have friends who have girls that have tried to hook up with me I always turn them down and let my friends know. I ain't about that bad karma. Got me back once a few years ago and I learned my lesson.

1 upvotesLuckyluke234 years ago

Its just all the same man.... i mean if you can do it then someonw else can do it to you.

Just dont get but hurt when it happeneds and know you are going to loose a few on the way.

33 upvotesneveragoodtime4 years ago

That was a brief moment for me. I was in an LTR, told her I wasn't going to be exclusive any more and she didn't care. I started fucking this other girl who knew I was fucking others and didn't care. The LTR asks if I'm fucking new girl, and like an idiot, I lie "no." Pretty much stopped talking to her after that, but I'm quite confident if I had been a man and said "hell yeah," I would have been on the path to a threesome. Exhibit brutal and consistent honesty with women like OP and you will be shocked by how much they let you get away with and want more.

20 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Seriously, it feels like being Socrates in his time where his beliefs were considered a threat to the state. Or Copernicus and Galileo's discoveries being considered "heretical" to the church.

These men were that tiny fringe portion of the populous who had uncovered this unknown knowledge for the first time that very few people knew or understood. They were seeing their theories and understandings of reality unfold before them repeatedly under the nose of the ignorant masses.

TRP and its principles have a very similar dynamic. We're seeing everything unfold and as you say witnessing these theories "humming away like clockwork" while TBP masses stand on the sidelines and shout "misogynist" "woman hater" and other things; much like the Athenian court condemning Socrates or those who followed the church condemning scientific discoveries in the enlightenment.

7 upvotesElodrian4 years ago

Socrates drank hemlock and Galileo spent his life under house arrest...

16 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

You're missing my point. Whatever happened to them; fact is the masses demonized their beliefs as "heretical" even though they were the truth because they wanted to hold on to the fantasy that the church or state created for them.

Just like Blue pillers who want to hold on to their blue pill beliefs and demonize those who took the red pill and took in this newly found knowledge.

10 upvotesElodrian4 years ago

I get that. My point is that the heretical truth tellers might be exonerated by history but things tend to go poorly for them within their own lifetimes.

3 upvoteswarjesus4204 years ago

Have you had white knights or other blue pillers "burn you" online. That's today's equivalent

1 upvotestrpftw4 years ago

In that case you're right, I wouldn't compare myself or anyone in TRP to those great minds of the past. I'd simply consider us smart cunning men who figured shit out while being constantly criticized by society.

5 upvotesStrokeGameHusky4 years ago

when being "Alpha" goes wrong....

6 upvotesNidStyles4 years ago

A lot of alphas need to learn to just keep their mouths shut.

2 upvotesMr_Andry4 years ago

It takes a strong man to be able to smile and not reply.

Sigh. I'm not that strong yet, but it's a goal.

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17 upvotesRealRational4 years ago

I find that you have to be at a pretty stable place mentally to be able to handle acid. And on a related note, a lot of girls can not handle acid.

lol, yeah. I find that to be the case with all psychedelics. Your Ego wants to fight the trip, but you cannot beat the trip. Either you yield or you have a terrible experience.

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4 upvotesRealRational4 years ago

Unless you have some cool ass chicks it's usually better as a guys-only sort of thing.

Completely agreed, I do know one girl who's hot and "chill" enough to do stuff like that. I like her a lot, but sometimes knowing her is depressing cause it acts as a reminder that literally every other female I've ever known is, by comparison, terrible.

1 upvotesRealRational4 years ago

I just noticed your username too, assuming that's a reference to the games. How cool would it be if you turned out to be one of the developers, haha.

3 upvoteskaspell4 years ago

This is so true. Even at my worst hallucinagens have been like my annual trip to church. Spiritual in good ways... and fun. The only time I experienced some with a gf and she freaked out and tried to ruin my trip. SHe was not prepared for the beach

14 upvotesOmLaLa [OP]4 years ago

So... what was the activity?

3 upvotesNidStyles4 years ago

I've seen the same dynamic with lsd. There are a lot of people out there that shouldn't touch it. I pretty much used to swim in the stuff, as it was the only drug I have ever actually enjoyed myself on. The rest make me feel sick or paranoid.

2 upvotes_the_shape_4 years ago

a lot of girls that I've tripped with can not handle acid.

What girl would want to take a drug that shows her her own hamster in all its glory?

62 upvotesrpdoomed4 years ago

I was fucking a plate, and one night I got done, got up, and I saw a picture of her and her boyfriend, who was in the army and away on deployment. I laughed, and I realized I had become Chad and Jodie all at the same time.

26 upvotesDude2194 years ago

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21 upvotesDis_mah_mobile_one4 years ago

You could easily amend that to "not be in a serious relationship while in the military" and it'd be totally valid.

26 upvotesWhisper4 years ago

LTRs can be discarded and replaced with no damage other than the emotional. Marriage, not so much.

18 upvotesStrokeGameHusky4 years ago

I'm quite sure I don't have to tell you this, but don't marry a military chick. It's like marrying a soriety ho, but instead she was bunking with 95% dudes for 2+ years, and MMFs in abundance.

Source: plated an AF chick, great sex, but wanted me to punch her in the face while fucking. Also, wrap ur dick.

9 upvotesDude2194 years ago

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7 upvotesStrokeGameHusky4 years ago

I am not from a military background, (tried but can't do to a digestive disease) but I always keep in mind most military chicks have a very male mindset. The plate of mine did, she messaged me on fb, I fucked her that night. No longer playing her bc she became very possessive/jealous (male mindset)

I have never knowingly been Jodie, bc I try and respect the military as much as possible, when it comes to other men, I try to live by the golden rule as much as possible (do unto other as you would have them do unto you)

You are right about the socially awkward/loser type. She mentioned this many times. She probably enlisted expecting them to all be captain America Chads...

6 upvotesn8dawwg4 years ago

Can confirm. After I finished AF basic and went to tech school, there was about 350 newbs that came in that week. OF those 350, I would say only about 40-50 were women. Most definetely there were tons of fucking losers. This one guy was about 27 years old and got arrested for stealing YuGiOh cards fromt he base BX.......... fucking loser.

3 upvotesvengefully_yours4 years ago

You are in Charleston, aren't ya! Lots of sluts on and around that base, ah the memories of mammarys. I would guess you're Travis, but he got married to a thick girl... So it can't be you.

0 upvotesUniversalFapture4 years ago

Ouch bro! That guy is defending our country. You don't mean to tell me you didn't feel a little bad?

1 upvotesDude2194 years ago

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1 upvotesUniversalFapture4 years ago

Whoops. Did i reply to you?

4 upvotesRobertCarraway4 years ago

Couple years back I turned down the opportunity to be Jodie. Buddy was giving us both a ride back to my place and I said screw it - take her home - I'm not going to do it. I don't really blame men for going for it, but we talk a lot about brotherhood here, and for those of us who are legitimately disgusted by this culture a good course of action is to get her to be ready to cheat on him with you and then humiliate her by turning her down. She then suffers all the shame of being ready to cheat combined with the shame of rejection without any sexual pay-off.

Screw these hoes, I get more fulfillment from being an honorable man who has enough opportunities with women that I can afford to put cheating hoes in their place. This is much more rewarding than an orgasm.

-1 upvotesUniversalFapture4 years ago

That Man is defending out country. You don't mean to tell me you didn't feel just a little bit bad? I know you didn't know at first, but come on bruh.

2 upvotesareyounew4 years ago

Defending the country from who? What a stupid comment.

-2 upvotesUniversalFapture4 years ago

Whoever our enemy may be. How is that stupid ? Your a moron if you lack respect for a soldier. Nobody wants to be gone so long. Nobody wants to be put in harms way. If it weren't for war we'd be probably be speaking German right now

3 upvotesMr_Andry4 years ago

I don't mean to disparage men and women of the military, but they are not defending our country, or freedom, or any of that. They are mostly defending certain international business interests.

When an opposing military force starts threatening our borders, then we might be able to again say they are defending their country.

2 upvotesUniversalFapture4 years ago

What international business interest? Explain

3 upvotesMr_Andry4 years ago
  • Military industrial complex
  • Oil conglomerates
  • Construction contractors
  • Wide variety of smaller companies who can sell in markets that get forced open

Remember these two facts:

  1. The US has the largest economy in the world by far. With a population of 320 million, the US GDP is 7 trillion ahead of China who has a population of 1.3 BILLION.
  2. The US has the largest military in the world by far. More than the next ten countries combined.

The US has more military bases around the world than anybody in history, yet we aren't rushing into Syria to stop the violence. Nor do we rush into the African nations where there is violence. Nor are we rushing to crush IS. Occasionally the world pressures us to contribute to those causes, but the area we really rush to put boots on the ground are the countries that we can exploit for resources.

2 upvotesReclusiveHermit4 years ago

finally see first-hand the machinery underneath the guise we call "romance" or "love" or whatever. The script of male/female human mating behavior, humming away like clockwork.

It's an amazing realization. Everything we hold dear about "romance" and "love" is just the product of 50+ years of marketing.

160 upvotesHumanSockPuppet4 years ago

This field report illustrates a very important principle:

Whenever a girl interacts with you of her own volition, sex is on the table.

Remember, women are constantly surrounded by men who are looking for an opportunity to get with them. Women don't have to go out of their way to get male attention. So when they do, something is up.

Candy didn't have to come over multiple times. She didn't have to talk with you. She didn't have to interact with you at all.

She came because she was impelled to by her biology. She was testing a theory that she wasn't even consciously aware of. The theory that you are a Chad that she let slip through her fingers.

Now that she has re-categorized you, you are free to use her as you see fit. So, do just that. If you want her to continue serving you in this way, never let her believe she is satisfying you more than any other girl you're seeing. Tell her she's "doing all right," with a tone of mild disinterest. Make her work for even the smallest compliments. She now works for YOUR satisfaction, and if she fails to do so, she knows that you've got Fine China (and who knows how many other girl) lining up to make a fool of her.

Congratulations. You are The Chad now.

41 upvotesKaelteth4 years ago

Exactly true.

I have an ex in my past (way past, since I'm married 20+ years now) named Amy. Amy sucks dick like a champ, but is otherwise a typical well-past-wall single mom of 4 from 3 different baby daddies that might have once been a HB7 but has long since slid into a 4-5 at best.

Amy goes through a cycle of purging me from her life, and then months later coming back, looking for me to leave the wife (or not) and ride the D. I refuse, she gets offended, purge, and the cycle keeps going. I don't ever initiate any contact, its always her, always "innocent", and then always about wanting to take the dick out for a ride.

When she comes to me, sex is always on the table. Same with any woman that voluntarily comes and approaches you...she WANTS to fuck.

Be Chad :)

27 upvotesdr_warlock4 years ago

The medium is the message. The fact she is approaching you is the message. Watch what she does, not what she says.

9 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

That's one of the best articles I've ever read. Changed the way I view just about every situation

5 upvotesfour20wenty4 years ago

Please tell which article you're referring to, kind sir.

11 upvotesfuturemo4 years ago

Probably this one http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/06/the-medium-is-the-message/

1 upvotestrpftw4 years ago

Very intriguing. One thing though the blog seems to say that covert comms are "a different form" but in my opinion the women's preference for covert comms comes from evolutionary fear. Rejection, abandonment, left-behind, lack of attention, that is what women fear. They learned to use psychology as children because doing it like a rational man in a frank manner will immediately lead to devastating consequences of depriving them of resources. They are built by evolution to avoid confrontation, use passive-aggressiveness, and to dodge any male rage that could be directed onto them.

Could you imagine a tribal cavegirl communicating overtly her hatred at something established in the village to the tribal chieftain or expressing that to the chieftains wife? What do you think happened to those rational talking women?

11 upvotesStrokeGameHusky4 years ago

Can confirm. "The medium is the message"

She didn't have to talk to you face to face. At your home. At night.

She could've easily had texted you/called you to get the "information" she needed.

She wanted to speak to you f2f, so she could see you again, watch your reactions, and in her case, hopefully get fucked.

Source: BA in Communication Studies

13 upvotesBowlOfCandy4 years ago

Whenever a girl interacts with you of her own volition, sex is on the table.

Too many male hamsters overlook this principle based on the expectation of always having to initiate. This rhetoric only serves to challenge your abundance mentality. There is nothing wrong with initiating, but you have to know your worth - your time.

Female sexual strategy is based on them having something we want, (sex), and them giving it out selectively to maintain it as a high quality commodity in the supply/demand chain. That is their frame, if you align to it you "get" what you "work" for.

You must define the context of the relationship, not her.

13 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Whenever a girl interacts with you of her own volition, sex is on the table.

This was a big realization for me. Literally a 100% correlation between a text from a girl and us fucking within 48 hours. They just have to save face by using symbols and placeholders ("we're just getting coffee").

Let's get coffee never means coffee.

4 upvotesTaeTaeDS4 years ago

The most important bit about the re-categorizing it is that you have to think it yourself. It's no point acting like you're Chad T because you've gone monk mode or something but you have to believe it yourself. You got to tell yourself you are and believe it.

5 upvotesZerwas4 years ago

Whenever a girl interacts with you of her own volition, sex is on the table.

These are true words of wisdom!

In college I met the roommate of a friend for and went to a party with her.

After that she did a surprise visit on my birthday. Needless to say she brought a personal gift.

Also: When you are aware of this any potential fear of rejection is obsolete.

2 upvotesaguy014 years ago

Whenever a girl interacts with you of her own volition, sex is on the table.

Strongly disagree.. women love to 'interact' with their orbiters, by asking for favors and complaining about their problems.

1 upvoteswillowhawk4 years ago

True, except if her orbiters where cold ass fuck with her and "opened the door to leave" she wouldn't be banging to get let back it. Quick whine, there back orbiting extra hard. Or she gains extra validation from other orbiters and the old one trys to claw back in.

1 upvotesMr_Andry4 years ago

True. Context matters. If you're not an orbiter, then the point applies. If you're her good friend who listens and comforts her after some alpha kicks her out the door, then yeah the point doesn't apply to you.

75 upvotesbea5tly4 years ago

In society today you either die a BP or live long enough to be a Chad.

Good read, I love how easy girls with bfs are. Its like no commitment either which I love. The biggest chad moment I've had was picking a girl up from work, getting a blowjob while driving and came in her mouth. Then dropped her off to her house with her bf outside waving. And I saw him kiss her.

10 upvotesTrpidation4 years ago

The biggest chad moment I've had was picking a girl up from work, getting a blowjob while driving and came in her mouth. Then dropped her off to her house with her bf outside waving. And I saw him kiss her.

Mind sharing a bit more on this? I'm curious how all this went down, no pun intended. What was the relationship between you and this chick? What happened in the car leading up to the skinflute symphony?

5 upvotesbea5tly4 years ago

The relationship was we drunkly hooked up once and we were just snapchat friends (I always seen her mirin my snaps). Then one day she said she needed a ride home and I told her ok but your going to give me a bj. She agreed and that was that. TBH I didn't know she had a bf til I dropped her off. She told me later she told her bf that I am her best guy friend and he didnt need to get her that day as I was already in the area.

6 upvotesTrpidation4 years ago

Lol that's fucking classic. Excellent work, sir, I'll be using this as a reference.

31 upvotesdr_warlock4 years ago

What people here will find is that when their ex dumps them for being beta and branch swings to chad(s), chad pumps and dumps her, then she goes looking for beta bob for security. This is the time she will most likely reach out to you and you can test TRP.

Chad theory/instructional posts coming soon to a screen near you.

6 upvotesGrandmasterHurricane4 years ago

Nah dude. Honestly, the best thing to do is bypass her altogether. If a girl dumps you for Chad, she probably had already fucked him.

You need to have self respect and completely erase her from your life for life.

1 upvotesMuhguul4 years ago

Nothing makes me respect myself more than making sluts feel stupid, so I would fuck her, then chuck her.

2 upvotesGrandmasterHurricane4 years ago

I have an ex that cheated on me with her "best friend". The dude she told me not to worry about because "we're just frans". He played her and she came crawling back after she left me.

Never took her back or asked her why she cheated. I deleted her off FB without blocking her and went no contact. I have a new number since then. It's been 3 years and she still attempts to talk to me via FB every now and then even though she has a bf. I'm the only person who ever walked out of her life like that.

I left a hole in her soul that no amount of cocks or material things can fill.

3 upvotesNebulose114 years ago

I think you should design some matching pants/jackets to go with GLOs shirts. The two of you combined bring a fantastic knowledge database to TRP.

7 upvotesOmLaLa [OP]4 years ago

You (u/dr_warlock) and u/GayLubeOil could also make them "GLO"-in-the dark.

That'd be neat.

9 upvotesdr_warlock4 years ago

Bluepillers called me a 'second rate GLO' in their sub awhile ago lol.

51 upvotesCyralea4 years ago

Good shit. It's kind of funny how fast the transition can be. Chad is the caricature of the uber alpha, a non-existent entity that just exemplifies our ideas. Going from being a beta that gets walked all over, however, to the guy women are willing to cheat on their boyfriends with can happen rather quickly.

31 upvotesdr_warlock4 years ago

I have two posts in queue about (1) what I learned from being chad and (2)how to test TRP with your exgf (be her chad). It is the most important experience newbs will acquire and is a major eye opener, especially if she was his innocent unicorn who was a prude in bed.

4 upvotesfpsdr0p4 years ago

are you going to be posting it soon? would love to read it

31 upvotesdr_warlock4 years ago

Still working on it and will require at least two posts due to the character count limit. It's very extensive, detailing what to expect her to say (and the alternatives), why she says it, what her thought process is, how to arrange a meetup, how you should respond and why you should respond that way, the mindset you need, the new feelings that it will evoke and how to deal with them, how to counteract asd and lmr, how to fuck her correctly, how to act right after sex, how to leave the scene post coitus, and how to make it FWB.

11 upvotesfpsdr0p4 years ago

can't wait to read it bro. will keep an eye out for it.

3 upvotesthefisherman19614 years ago

I'm really looking forward to reading those.

12 upvotesJaghiro4 years ago

While reading your text, I always thought "His name was Robert Paulson"

12 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

His name is Chad McThundercock.
His name is Chad McThundercock.
His name is Chad McThundercock.

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Lol, really?? Quickly?? I wish someone would've told me that sooner

9 upvotesCyralea4 years ago

Yeah man. A big part of it is the little mental switch over from "I'm a beta nice guy" to "I'm the Chad". Telling yourself you are the former cements the idea that you always will be. You can't really get far until you change your mindset from "I'm a loser" to "I'm a winner".

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

labels are important. Don't let someone label you as Beta Brad, or unsuccessful, or limited. Once you accept the label, you accept the frame. It will color the entire way you view your opportunities.

3 upvotesKyfhoMyoba4 years ago

Going from being a beta that gets walked all over, however, to the guy women are willing to cheat on their boyfriends with can happen rather quickly.

And back the other direction even quicker. I just realized that I was Chad with the girl I lost my V-card to, and in beta limbo within a few weeks.

42 upvotesDre9954 years ago

I am become chad, the destroyer of vagina

2 upvotesLondon-Bananas4 years ago

"I think we all thought that in that moment, one way or another"

20 upvotesMyLittleAtomBomb4 years ago

Time to add to my growing list of red flags:

Chicks named after carbs.

0 upvotesxfLyFPS4 years ago

Add chicks with stripper names.

33 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Its often said its much easier to start over with a new woman then to change an old ones perception that you "turned alpha from beta"

While thats true, OP shows how its done. Preselection, negging, holding frame, and abundance mentality.

Well done you could've ended up like Mike.

Dont be Mike

12 upvotesMentORPHEUS4 years ago

Plate to GF is a common and uncomplicated transition.

GF directly to plate usually doesn't happen in one step though. There needs to be a breakup "reset period" after which a new relationship is started on the new terms. Note: Her hamster still likely won't see it as a "new" relationship; how you work this can be a big factor in success or failure at re-plating.

4 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

I found its easiest after about 4 months. Its long enough for them to not hate you entirely, but not be over you entirely. Instead they end up hating themselves because they're fucking someone they somewhat hate. Its kind of funny to watch them try to hamster it away.

4 upvotesOmLaLa [OP]4 years ago

GF directly to plate usually doesn't happen in one step though. There needs to be a breakup "reset period" after which a new relationship is started on the new terms. Note: Her hamster still likely won't see it as a "new" relationship; how you work this can be a big factor in success or failure at re-plating.

He's right u/theultimatecad.

Read "The RP Guide to Defeating the Enemy: Attraction". It covers all that shit.

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Oh I agree. I post regularly at MRP and see the long hard road it takes to reclaim power in a relationship if one didnt establish his terms at the onset

Dont get married.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Very very uncommon, women can't go backwards in lifestyle, men in sexuality

1 upvotesdr_warlock4 years ago

Its often said its much easier to start over with a new woman then to change an old ones perception that you "turned alpha from beta"

/u/Rollo-Tomassi explains this well in his post The Quick Fix. Hint : there is no quick fix

61 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

There goes my hero. Watch him as he goes

7 upvotesFarOrAMess4 years ago

I fuckin' love your posts, OmLaLa. Just wanted to say that. Very eager for your future plans (the dating sites post & YouTube stuff).

13 upvotesOmLaLa [OP]4 years ago

...and I fucking love you fucking love reading my shit u/FarOrAMess.

I also love covering online dating. It's a new frontier. A lot of my future stuff'll cover it in more depth. Hope you'll read that shit too.

4 upvotesBaconEggsAndSleaze4 years ago

Hey, /u/OmLaLa - I have no idea what "friends" on reddit means, but you're one of them.

13 upvotesOmLaLa [OP]4 years ago

Yeah. We tighter than leggings on college chicks.

14 upvotesnantucketghost4 years ago


8 upvotesGrandmasterHurricane4 years ago

Got some bad news for you bruv. She probably had a side of guacamole while with you and your couldn't even tell. Maybe some chips too? Seviche even?

A girl like that can never really stop herself.

6 upvotesMuhguul4 years ago

So true. Don't know how people go around boasting being alpha while they are in a LTR with a slut. And that's what she is.

20 years ago? I'm sure that your salsa lost it's kick a while back. What's that thing we say around here? AWALT? Yea, your girl isn't special.

6 upvotesMGHOW_ATL4 years ago

"Nah, we're not dating, just fucking. And she's way better than you. Wanna learn some new tricks?"

6 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

A wise philosopher once said that these women be not loyal. And then he made that statement into a lyrical song and spread the message to every scholarly man out in the world, right after his boxing match. He danced a jig of happiness as his message spread. Another man, one with long braided hair, but nonetheless a good scholar, aided the man in his research on women. He also spread a message, while donning golden chains to gather attention. His message quoth that why should a man give a woman his heart when she would rather have a purse. The listeners to his message realized the man was right, even though his voice was wheezy, and he was quite young. They all proclaimed AWALT

6 upvotesOmLaLa [OP]4 years ago

I doth believe you have failed to accurately provide quotation of said philosopher. I doth remember his exact words to be "these promiscuous harlets be-eth not of the trustworthy variety".

Please do practice correct citations, old sport.

2 upvotesVeqq4 years ago

he/she/it doth, I do. (thou dost) these harlets be

17 upvotessxerra4 years ago

I’m Chad now.

Holy shit, that was an awesome thing to say, send shivers down my spine. I need this kind of stories to constantly remind me I am on my way to better me.

3 upvotesmiladmaaan4 years ago

Great post, this was my favorite part by far.

4 upvotesCrotch_Snorkel4 years ago

Cheers buddy! Good field report

5 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

" I’m Chad now."

Sweet writing, you have potential!

6 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

I had this, and I let my "morals" get the better of me. That slut could suck cock better than a high-dollar hooker and I let her go all because I "felt bad for the other guy".

I guaran-fucking-tee she's blowing some guy other than her husband/whoever... it's just somebody other than me. Ah well, I'm still somewhat new at this. I'll get it eventually. And if I die at the hands of a jealous husband... well, there are worse ways to leave this world I'll tell you that much.

4 upvotesOmLaLa [OP]4 years ago

Key here is you're recognizing and learning from your mistakes. Good luck out there.

4 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

I went through the same thing with a girl who had a boyfriend before and learned that it's honestly not even worth giving a fuck about. Men who put up with shitty women deserve to have it happen to them, because they're the dudes that reinforce the idea that it's okay for said woman to have all these "guy friends" and shit that they're secretly fucking or have attraction for.

Plus it's happened to me a bunch of times since I first started dating until I discovered TRP like 2 years ago. That's what happens when you date a fucking shitty woman because it's "important to be open minded" and "trust her" SMH.

"Trust" what a fucking con-game that is. Trust and loyalty are things that are earned, not just given out. Oh well, I learned through my stupidity, naiveté, and desperation not to be that way anymore.

3 upvotesholytrpbatman4 years ago

Bingo. Any guy that puts up with the shenanigans deserves the end results. Had a fling with a bird, two kids and a fiance who kept putting off the wedding. He found out, she kept at it for a while till I next her. Goes back to him. A few months later I see her at the store, next day she's at my house. A few weeks and he finds out again. A year later he married her. When I run into her at the store again, he'll deserve it even more.

At one point I even told his brother to tell him he's an idiot if he marries her. Turns out she was (and probably still is) blowing the brother...

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Betas "trust" their girlfriends. Alphas don't give a fuck. Guess which ones get cheated on?

5 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

"I'm Chad now"... That is some powerful shit I wish I could upvote more than once

4 upvotesF_Dingo4 years ago

She’s got me listed as her best friend “Miranda”. She told him Miranda was going through some shit and needed a “true friend” tonight. I'm Chad now.


3 upvotesRedKnight19904 years ago

Fascinating. One of Rollo's laws is if a woman wants to have sex with you, she will find a way. Candy here is literally throwing herself at you and wanted to fuck even with another girl over.

Good job, OP, you took control over the boat and made yourself the captain.

5 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Cool story bro. Would read again.

13 upvotesWhisper4 years ago

And this, class, is why /u/OmLaLa is distinguishing himself as a rising star around here.

I usually advise hard nexting women who see you as a beta. Because you're starting from less than zero. It's better to begin with a fresh woman. In fact, I write snarky comments about how impossible it is to dig yourself out that hole. But of course, that's not really true. Like so much around here, it's an colourful exaggeration intended to instruct. It keeps novices away from the oneitis who had them on a leash.

When you get good enough, you start to realize the true power of standing your ground. 90% of game is standing your ground. Women take their cues for what is acceptable from others. Women will accept just about anything you act unashamed of, and all but murder you for the slightest annoyance if you apologize for it.

  • If your girl "catches" you eyeing another woman, and you protest your "innocence", she'll soon have you not allowed to talk to other women, including all your female (former) friends.
  • If your girl "catches" you eyeing another woman, and you confirm her suspicions and then dress her down for daring to try to control you, you can soon have her helping you pick up other chicks for threesomes.

Same woman.

/u/OmLaLa had no advanced techniques here. No special trickery. Just an abundance mentality and no fear of "losing" her. When you can discard a woman with no distress at all, standing your ground is easy.

Free yourself of the desire for her in particular. Then free yourself of the desire to score or "win" by getting her. Free yourself of the desire to be a "Chad" instead of a "Chode".

Learn to regard standing your ground as a higher form of victory than getting laid. If you can do that, I promise you, you will never be thirsty again.

6 upvotesOmLaLa [OP]4 years ago

Holy shit, u/Whisper. Got me blushing over here.

5 upvotesdapowa4 years ago

Watch, I bet Whisper escalates.. Kidding.

6 upvotestomQrsd4 years ago

I wonder if you've changed physically over the time

17 upvotesOmLaLa [OP]4 years ago

I have. Take my appearance a lot more seriously.

3 upvotesOsoto_Gari4 years ago

I'm at the start of my journey- but taking my appearance seriously is one of the first things I took on board.

3 upvotesChrisBenRoy4 years ago

Can confirm. Last girl I dated I was your standard BB boyfriend. She cheated on me probably at least 3 times. Found TRP after, learned a lot. Not long after we broke up she started working at my building, got to talking a bit, eventually she came over and we fucked. Next night her new b/f was calling my house all pissed about it because she told him we were getting back together and he was trying to tell me that "I've been fucking her for awhile and you're a good dude and don't want to see you get hurt blah blah blah" even showed up to my house. Little did they both know I was just taking the easy pussy closure and my new TRP awakening.

Also, after we broke up and had sex outside of our "relationship" she did shit in the bedroom she never did before, I got more road head from just picking her up and taking her to my house the few times we fucked than she gave me blowjobs in our relationship, and she swallowed which she never did before. Par the course.

3 upvotesdoveenigma134 years ago

Being Chad is kinda nice when you leave all that BP conscience shit behind.

As I'm typing this I see the top comment showing that if she cheated on you, she will cheat on the guy she cheated on you with. Sometimes she cheats on him with you.

Just don't fall back into her trap.

3 upvotesMrRexels4 years ago

She had hooker name, what were you expecting?

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Now it's Mike's turn to become Chad.

3 upvotestallpaulguitar4 years ago

I was a chad in college. Girl ask me over to watch a movie. Mean girls drinking game. Her bf doesn't please her in bed. I didn't talk the whole night. She tried to impress me with knowledge of music. I'm a musician. Take her up to her room. Rail her out. Pictures of her bf all over her room. Says she will break up with him. I don't care. We do this for months. Bf is clueless. Amazing sex. She hasn't ever had it rough. I don't feel bad for her bf. He was a beta who after learning what I was doing never confronted me. Once he talked to me about Pokemon. We were in college. Lol

3 upvotesThe_Nekt4 years ago

The last bit was gold congrats on your transformation.

3 upvotesrabbitriven4 years ago

Do you ever think that if you knew she had a boyfriend who was close you would still do it?

I mean I love what I learn here and all, and apply it always, but sometimes I feel there are lines for me. Especially with this topic. I know if she'll cheat she'll cheat, but I just feel I rather not be THE guy. But I can see me scrapping that if this was a girl who I knew before.

I don't know it feels like I need to have some morals, and know I would be pretty pissed if I was on the other end. But then again, I probably would realise.

Dunno what hit me from the story, the fact that her phone goes off 5 times and this guy has no clue, lmao. Whats everyones opinion?

5 upvotesOmLaLa [OP]4 years ago

As high value as I am (or at least think I am), even if I was with a low value woman dated me and a higher value man came along and tried to fuck her, he'd succeed.

Understanding this is key. You'll never be "the best", she'll never be happier with lower if she can get higher.

AWALT implies that all women have the propensity to cheat. And if she's faithful now it means you're the highest valued guy with her range.

2 upvotesrabbitriven4 years ago

I totally agree with you. in a lot of circumstances that would be the case. But is there never a boundary to which it's possible for a woman to reject a higher value man? I have heard stories of wives doing that (rejective actors/celebrities) and I can never place that on the AWALT scale.

Hope you understand why this is a bit frustrating to me, it's a part of the pill which I've swallowed but is going down really slow. Extremely frustrating because I know (to an extent) it's true, but at the same time want to refuse it because it's so frustrating to think.

2 upvotesOmLaLa [OP]4 years ago

ASD would be a strong motivator not to. If a celeb approaches her in a crowd amongst her peers she might turn him down to save face. But should she be near him on multiple occasions, well... let's just say privacy opens a lot more things than doors.

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Had a genuine good laugh at the ending. Very nice.

5 upvotesOmLaLa [OP]4 years ago

To u/akjoltoy, who wrote the following comment to myself and TRP yet quickly deleted it without giving me a chance to respond:

Hardcore man. Dump a girl just because you realize you're in a LTR.

No one is as sex motivated as the people in this sub pretend to be.

You're just guys who got hurt and learned the wrong lessons from it.

There's trash and quality in both genders.

Pretending all women are garbage and that acting like a stonecold dickhead is the best way to get laid is just your defense mechanism against the fact that in the REAL world, you have to actually play games to get ahead.

You have to do a mix of telling the truth and lying, of being yourself, and being someone else. Of playing games and being real. Of trusting people and being a dick.

This people in this sub are so unbelievably pathetic it's unreal. Every one of your posts reads like a virgin trying to prove he's not.

If (and this is a colossal if) this shit is face value true, then it's unbelievable because we've got a gathering of like a thousand guys with sex drives at the 3 standard deviation mark.

Statistically that's just impossible.

Unbelievably transparent and pathetic.

Here’s u/OmLaLa’s response:

Hardcore man. Dump a girl just because you realize you're in a LTR.

Dump a girl because I realized I'm in a bad LTR.

No one is as sex motivated as the people in this sub pretend to be.

Understanding sex and chasing it are two different things.

You're just guys who got hurt and learned the wrong lessons from it.

And what's the right lesson? Keep trying until I "find the one? Ignoring that divorce rates in the U.S. are nearing 50% for couples between 20 and 39?

There's trash and quality in both genders.

I'm not arguing against that.

Pretending all women are garbage and that acting like a stonecold dickhead is the best way to get laid is just your defense mechanism against the fact that in the REAL world,

Not once have I said or supported that "all women are garbage". I've said "all women are like that", meaning there's no special batch of women that operates outside a certain parameter.

You could say AMALT that on a ton of topics. A need for sex for instance.

You have to actually play games to get ahead.

Dating, marriage, relationships. It's all a game. Your there to get something you want whether it' sex or validation. To think it's anything but is willing delusion.

You have to do a mix of telling the truth and lying, of being yourself, and being someone else.

I'm me at all times. If anything I'm more honest then most because when all I want from a girl is sex, I tell her that from the start. She's a big girl, so I'll leave it up to her on whether or not to sleep with me.

Of playing games and being real.

See above.

Of trusting people and being a dick.

I trust people that have earned my trust. Trusting every person that hops into my life is a recipe for failure. I wouldn't trust every gun to fire or every car to start because I want them to.

This people in this sub are so unbelievably pathetic it's unreal.

How? You should throw around baseless insults.

Every one of your posts reads like a virgin trying to prove he's not.

If that's the only way you can read it, maybe you're perception is limited to that of a virgin or a sex depraved individual.

If (and this is a colossal if) this shit is face value true, then it's unbelievable because we've got a gathering of like a thousand guys with sex drives at the 3 standard deviation mark.

Every guy has a high sex drive. Weaker men deny this fact because they're taught it's something to be ashamed of.

Statistically that's just impossible.

Look up the average man's levels of testosterone compared to a woman's, then look up the range of a man's possible testosterone levels in correlation to their libidos and make that statement again.

Unbelievably transparent and pathetic.

Again, baseless.

You came to us for an answer. Don't leave before we can give it to you.

5 upvotesmusclebound924 years ago

Not to be a goody good and add morals to the equation, but if I was in your position, which I have been in similar ones twice, I would tell Mr. Mike. Fucken use a friends phone or leave a note on his car, who knows. If the sex is good with this ex girlfriend and is something you want to hold on to, I say be discreet in telling him. Being cheated on like that is a shitty feeling, no matter how tough someone is. Tell the poor guy what he probably already knows, and let this bitch know that she is not in control of the situation or her attempts to manipulate men. Its the right thing to do, and I would want a guy to do that for me. Men should look out for one another, fuck, tell him about TRP, maybe this will open his eyes to the vast, awesome world that can be his if he wants it. Good luck, and great fucken post man.

2 upvotesthefinn123454 years ago

Come on guys the real question is - did she improve ?

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Anyways, I dumped her ass soon after reading that.

Because women want what they can't have, alpha widows are created by the dumping, not the pumping.

Well played.

2 upvotesEmpyMagazine4 years ago

Lol, I remember the scene from the Highlander where the hooker walks into Kurgen's room."Hi,I am Candy."

2 upvotesucfgavin4 years ago

Just be careful about Mike...it sounds like he already knows whats up. Make sure you call her on her bullshit and lies (you know she is going to lie to him).

2 upvotesAntixD4 years ago

"I'm the chad now" You funny motherfucker I love you

2 upvotesmrmeyhemn4 years ago

same sort of story with my last LTR. stopped being her friend, she came back wanting to "be friends", found out a couple of months later that I was her chad. nsa sex? good times, enjoy!

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

I'm not saying this is a fabricated story but it does read like TRP porn.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Dude, even if it is fabricated.. Any guy who's gone to college or had a social life in their 20's knows this shit happens all the time.

One of my plates has an LTR that's FB official right now. We just hook up when we go out and run into each other and BF isn't around (same social circle). One of her good friends wants to fuck too and she's all over my instagram, yet is in a steady LTR.

My roommate has been fucking some girl who lives with her BF and carries out her rape fantasies with him. He also banged this other chick in our social circle and when she left he said "Oh and tell (boyfriend) I said what's up dude" with a shit eating grin.

My last girlfriend wound up cheating on me with her best friend's boyfriend. Literally threw that friendship under the bus and our relationship for just one night with Chad. She also tried to make out with my other roommate at a party we had, but the kid's really my true bro, said no and told me I should dump her. Wish I listened to him and dumped her on the spot, but I was all hopped up on blue pills back then.

slootz exist and they're out there in high numbers. Don't let the assumption that a story on here might be fabricated sway you from that truth. I see stories and I think "yeah that's probably made up" too, but it's important to just let it be and reinforce TRP concepts through it.

1 upvotesVlauer4 years ago

That feeling when your plate's bf calls her right after you fuck her... For now I've been able to "channel" Chad's spirit from time to time, but I'm working on fully becoming Chad.

Great post as always, OmLaLa.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Lol or when her cell phone is vibrating with texts from BF on the lamp table next to the bed while you're pounding her vag to orgasmville.

1 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

Just a warning to any new guys out there who think they might find themselves in this sort of situation. Your frame better be rock fucking solid.

I found myself in this same sort of situation, with the ex wanting to talk things out and "hang out." So I had her over to my place, showed her how good I was doing without her (if I tried to explain how good I'm doing in comparison to back then, you guys wouldn't believe me) and I was dominant and all that good shit.

To make a long story short, I fucked her probably better than I'll fuck any girl ever again. What happened right after that? She got me to talk about my emotions and I watched in horror as she completely smashed through my frame that I'd been building up for months. I'm back to a good point now, but I'm still rebuilding. It probably isn't worth doing this unless you absolutely know that you feel nothing towards her.

For those of you who know for a fact that you can get away with it? Do it. The ex is the easiest lay of your life.

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

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2 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

You're right. And actually, I'm glad that I got myself into that scenario. My frame may have been broken, but only because it wasn't solid in the first place. I welcome the breaking of my frame. While it's painful and it takes time to build back up, I'd rather have a faulty one knocked down rather than let it go unchallenged and have it hurt me in the long run.

Something tells me that the frame I'm constructing now will be much more permanent.

1 upvotesiLLprincipLeS4 years ago

wasn't there some girl fox, or something that you said you would write about? get back on track son, you playin' this chundercock and the girlies game, jizz you should know better!

all right, show over. no new knowledge can be extracted from my telling. this comment has meant nothing.

really, unless you actually get something from this appreciation comments that's it. i wasted your time. but still seeing that 2nd chapter story about fox or whatever was her name from the freak show gathering would be nice.

2 upvotesOmLaLa [OP]4 years ago

It involves piss and cum. That's your teaser trailer. I'm having to rewrite it.

0 upvotesrazorwan4 years ago

The biggest mistake here is anyone seriously dating a girl named "Candy." Sounds like a stripper off the bat.

-2 upvoteskorben_manzarek4 years ago

Anyways, I dumped her ass soon after reading that. No call, no text. Just stopped seeing her. Hurt like shit but it had to be done. Think she was cheating with some Chad, shit like that. Focused on me, moved on.

You had a relationship, and then out of the blue you just cut off all radio contact? Why didn't you say didn't want to see her again, like, in person?

6 upvotesOmLaLa [OP]4 years ago

Why should I need to? Why should I care what she thinks about it?

5 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

In Greek Mythology, Cupid (male God of erotic love and desire) told Psyche (the most beautiful mortal woman) she was never to look at Cupid and become aware of his identity for he was a beautiful God and wished this to remain a secret. Psyche's sisters believed she is with a hideous beast as told by the oracle and they convince her to kill him.

Well one night she goes to Cupid's palace with candle and knife in hand. She shines the candle onto Cupid in order to kill him in his sleep but instead the light reveals the most beautiful God in existence and she is so stunned by his beauty that she spills candle wax on him. He awakens and realizing she violated the one boundary he set, makes no excuses and just flies away. He makes no attempt to contact with her or give any reason why he left. Just up and go.

This story in my mind illustrates a male instinct we have that we have the absolute innate right and ability to up and go and give no excuses about it. Now there is more to the story and that is Psyche regrets it so much that she has to go through Hades and escape Cerberus to win him back (perhaps analogous to Candy overcoming covert communication to fuck you Omlala) with triumph of other tribulations and eventually wins him back. But the main gist is if any girl fucks up a big enough boundary you can just up and leave just like Cupid did.

3 upvotesPartyTimeMentats4 years ago

and Psyche got off light by Greek Myth standards.

1 upvotesunassumingusername74 years ago

You don't owe a cheater an explanation. She knows what she did.

Besides, it'll just be a huge shitstorm. Why bother?

1 upvotesSementeries4 years ago

No she won't, she'll rationalize everything and tell everybody "I don't know what happened. We just broke up."

1 upvotesunassumingusername74 years ago

That's true, and it makes it even less necessary to talk to her. She won't even fucking hear you over her hamster.

-2 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

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7 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

no he won't learn that way, he has to find out and lose his faith and stop giving to these hoes

2 upvotesAtlas4054 years ago

would You give Your hand for this "guess" ?

3 upvotesPrimemale4 years ago

He'll just hate on you and not candy, ''you must have tricked her/seduced her'' etc.

Focus on yourself and stop worrying about all the mikes in the world, either that or don't fuck candy when she's got a boyfriend. Don't half ass your morals, i.e. I'll fuck candy but then tell mike what a hoe she is, that's even more spiteful. So yes in summary I think that would be a bitch move and also quite pointless drama that you could probably do without.

4 upvotesmightysultan4 years ago

Not bitchy but you are risking your safety. Other than sociopaths, too-attached betas are the most likely to commit violence due to relationship reasons - though they do for opposite reasons, as the sociopath strikes to claim territory and the beta strikes for "honor".

3 upvotesAtlas4054 years ago

like the whole military is full of betas

3 upvotesmightysultan4 years ago

I've always entertained this issue but never said it out loud.

2 upvotesRPmatrix4 years ago

like the whole military is full of betas

I've always entertained this issue but never said it out loud.

I have, and usually get my arse kicked by most of reddit, it's highly unpopular to criticize the US military here, and it's not something I've considered saying here at TRP as it has now been mentioned, I sadly concur!

How can any man who's "following *another person's orders" ,, even though he may also give them to others, ever feel to be "his own master"?

That's not to say there aren't exceptional men in the military, but to surrender my liberty to another for love or money is something I cannot/will not do, ever.

"I'd rather be a free man in my grave than living as a puppet or a slave, it's better to die on your feet than live on your knees"

IMHO That guys are joining the military just to have a job that they think is like a RL CoD and they will come out 'badass alphas' is something i wish I knew how to change, but how do you explain to an 18yo and 'bulletproof' guy, chomping at the bit to "get going" with his Life where "death is not an option", the reality of what they're getting into and the highly likely results of doing so?

and this situation is exactly what TPTB want ... To seize control of these kids minds before using them and then throwing them back into a world they have little help re-adjusting to.

IMO it sounds many ways worse than being in prison IMO!

It's frightening to see the effects or our own indocrination of our kids that has come directly from the desire to 'make money' on everything.

In many ways these 'self entitled' people here in the West are just as deluded as a teen suicide bombers we hear about in the East, we're just being fed different types of bullshit which leads to different ways of "showing the crazy"

This world is moving very fast compared to 30yrs ago, and the more I look at the world from a RP perspective, the more I begin to see a LOT of very confused young women who are really struggling to find their feet into today's world

Many have had no decent male role models after often being raised by their mothers, (who are often successful which is how they could afford to have the kids BUT the price paid is a loss of time with them) so they turn to common sources of 'socially approved role models", who are usually some type of celebrities, who give them no useful advice leaving them so they still have No idea about much, who's speaking the truth, who they can trust and so on, and so they 'run with the pack' for safety's sake, not becoz they really want to.

I believe the RP community is part of the first seminal steps in changing this current 'male vs female sexual agenda' into a more functional way for both men and women, I have heard some great ideas put forth by my younger friends about possible changes

Hey OP, nice post btw, although these days I rarely hard next a person, but when I was younger, I think I was less caring of other people's feelings. These days I know how shit "flows on" and I avoid starting it in the first place when I can

cheers bro


1 upvotescarnage_panda4 years ago

Because one dude cannot solo a platoon. You don't win wars because you have a mythic soldier, which doesn't exist btw. Rambo is complete fiction. Like your hopes and dreams.

1 upvotesterabyter90004 years ago

Like Tyler once said or maybe it was Jeffy, for a chode it's LIFE OR DEATH. They will get violent and go crazy.

4 upvotesKaelteth4 years ago

Not necessarily a bitch move...but more of a case of "Why spend the effort?"

Who gives a shit about Mike? Mike is irrelevant, and we can't force-feed Mike TRP. If Mike is happy being a beta provider to a cheater, let him be happy.

All telling Mike does is make Candy suffer. Why? Who gives a shit? Use her, then forget her.

2 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

It would be entirely possible that she would aim rape allegations against dude in that situation, especially if Mike (or any BB) was in the process of being locked down by Candy (or any other deceitful trollop).

0 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

I dated this cute chick named “Candy”.

I think that's all you had to say for most of us to get a picture of where this was headed..

2 upvotesiLLprincipLeS4 years ago

a girl with a dick that it can be sucked? i bet you wish now you did not make that comment.

3 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

"a girl with a dick that it can be sucked"


I was referring to the fact that her name has her destined to the following careers; stripper, hooker, bartender, or hooter's waitress.

EDIT: Or that sl00t who let's you save your progress in the first Donkey Kong Country on SNES.

0 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

you can ideally fit any role in which she deems you suitable.

Here's where you fucked up; you're still peacocking to her tune. Regardless of if you're Chad or Charlie.

-1 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

She thinks that she can fuck you back into a relationship with her. And she's more than likely right given your history.

Should have done the sensible thing when she refused to leave and called the police and told them your ex is outside, is refusing to leave, and is insinuating that she's armed.

-8 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago


i'm the guy with the drink

-13 upvotes • [deleted] • 4 years ago

This is the most interesting and amusing part of this subreddit, atleast I think so. Real life experiences. All those theories, biology this, bla bla bla that, nothing beats a real life report of some Beta Bux turning into an Alpha Fucks. Great post.

-10 upvotesmike64524 years ago

you didnt wanna be a bro and text the mike guy? I feel i gotta watch out for fellow mikes...

15 upvotesOmLaLa [OP]4 years ago

Nothing gained from being a "hero".

2 upvotesmike64524 years ago

maybe show mike the ways of TRP

4 upvotestuzki4 years ago

How do you think that will end? Mike will say "oh thanks man, gosh!" No. That is not what would happen.

6 upvotesPrimemale4 years ago

Chad doesn't care about mike, he's too busy busting his nut in candy.

2 upvotesNebulose114 years ago

Mike will learn when that paternity test comes back negative on all three of his kids with candy.

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