I’d like to talk [20M].

Red-Curious · 2020-03-23T05:36:53+00:00

Locked until edited for Rule 2 information and more information on what advice you actually need. Also, while there are certainly a few people I would endorse for personal, one-on-one chats (ex. mods, /u/TheChristianAlpha, other ECs), it's generally a bad idea to open the door to a 3k+ community and assume that whoever randomly says "yes" will be a reliable source of information. We have ECs for a reason.

IsAllThisReal · 2020-03-22T17:30:37+00:00

Vague. Post specific things you want to change or are struggling with. Your foundation is your relationship with God, and the mortar holding the stones together is self-discipline. Nearly all 'red pill' teaching can be boiled down to 'don't be weak, instead be strong'. Are you physically weak? lift weights. Are you weak-willed? Develop strong will through self-discipline. Are you spiritually weak? Build faith through reading the word and hearing biblical teaching.

You know what you need to do. You know you need to waste less time and spend more time building yourself spiritually, physically, and mentally. But you need to choose to do it all the time. This comes from desiring strength more than you desire comfort. Jacking off and playing video games is comfortable, but leads to you being a soft, weak man. Lifting weights and reading your bible leads to you becoming a strong, driven, unshakable man.

rocknrollchuck · 2020-03-22T18:06:15+00:00

If you want focused advice, then the details should be included in your post so they can be addressed point by point. Have you read the Sidebar yet?

hopeunseen · 2020-03-22T21:35:05+00:00

Read the sidebar. Lift. Apply the sidebar. Then come back and post. It's that simple.

AlanNoles · 2020-03-22T17:22:43+00:00

Read the sidebar and start in the 100s and 200s. Please also post your stats and say a little more about yourself.

Are you single or married?

What is your body weight and BF %.

Also look at our OYS thread and start one. That was the best thing that helped me in the beginning.

Welcome to RPC.

Title	I’d like to talk [20M].
Author	operationveritas
Upvotes	8
Comments	7
Date	March 22, 2020 5:04 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RPChristians
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