So I'm part of a church group of singles and the dynamics between men and women are very odd. Guys are a little socially awkward but I don't hold it against them good guys. However women tend to stay to their groups and clicks. They seem to avoid talking to most men like they don't need men or don't like men. I get some may have bfs but it's seems the ones who are single are scared or put off by 95 Percent of the men. You would think that members of the opposite sex and at church would want to form relationships but it seems everyone is confused. A lot of the members are in their 30s so you would think they would find it important to find a mate. A lot of guys have been rejected in the group and I wonder how beneficial it is for me or others to approach these women.
The Bible studies are great and one of the positive things in my life but I wonder how things got the way they are were there is a strong divide between men and women in this group. Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated and I just ask that we keep it in a positive mind frame or context.
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