I'm currently seeing two women, a girl I met out drinking with friends and a co-worker who won't be my co-worker for very long anymore because her contract is ending.

Bargirl has the same interests as I do, but is very clingy and jealous. Co-worker has an IDGAF attitude and is hard to estimate. I've been seeing both for a couple weeks now. Mostly movies and bonetown.

I've been clear about not wanting a relationship at this point in time to both of them.

I've also been very indifferent about when I message both women back, which isn't a problem for co-worker, but bargirl is getting nervous about it. She asked me to go for a walk today, which I declined because I had to see someone. Her response? "Haha, 'someone'". I didn't reply.

A few hours later, now bedtime, I get this looong text from her telling me how she doesn't understand me and she feels like second choice etc.

I'm not sure how to respond. It's starting to feel like too much effort. I thought I was clear about not wanting a relationship, but her jealousy seems to be acting up. She has a feeling I'm seeing other people, which is true.

What do you guys think I should do?