Those who made it what is your sex life like?

Jekawi · 2020-12-26T22:48:35+00:00

Firstly, what's pair bonding?

Secondly, the amount of sex is honestly different couple to couple. It's common in long relationship for sex to wane (from both sides or one side), but not in everyone. It depends on both people in the relationship. For some, having sex once a week is good, others, everyday, other every month, etc. I'm sure there's some scientific answer but yeah, all different.

Tommynopants · 2020-12-27T01:23:04+00:00

I have sex 3-4 times a week in my healthy loving relationship. If we go a long time without seeing each other we will fuck once a day for a while then back to 3-4 a week. I don’t like to fuck too too much because I feel like a zombie and have low energy if I do.

WestAtmosphere · 2020-12-27T01:17:12+00:00

Idk im in my 20s and havent had sex in 6 years LOL. Psa am a woman. 😊

RedPillDetox · 2020-12-28T00:19:55+00:00

What entails "normalcy" is fallacious because every individual has different experiences and contexts. Don't look at how much "normal people" get laid because that's hard to quantify as it depends a lot on who you ask. The issue isn't really on the amount of sex you're having, or what's realistically attainable, it's if you're doing it in a balanced, healthy, non toxic way. If you have a decent outlook on women, feel integrous and are having sex for pleasure/intimacy rather than external sources like validation then it's irrelevant if you're having sex once a year or 5 times a day.

TheOneTrueSnoo · 2020-12-27T01:21:21+00:00

I mean that’s a hard question to answer. I’ve had relationships where 2 times a week was the norm. Others were more or less.

I’m single currently. When I’m actively looking I usually meet a new partner (on average) once a month or once a fortnight. I tend to have repeat encounters rather than one night stands and I usually meet through apps.

Now that one person a month is the one I sleep with. I usually have some good interactions with about 3-4 others, but for whatever reason those fizzle out. Of those 4, usually 2 will be sexting.

What I’ve learned personally is that planning for future me (I.e. not moving to sexting, but moving to meeting women first) actually results in me getting laid more often. Sexting fills an immediate need for both people but it’s kind of like eating dessert before dinner. Sometimes it spoils your appetite.

I was never in red pill. The only book I’ve ever read on the subject is Models by Mark Manson. You can still sleep with a variety of women regularly while being deeply honest about your intentions. Many women are just in a place in their life where they want a cool dude with a good dick and a good sense of humour

Vatican87 · 2020-12-28T18:47:17+00:00

Sex after marriage dies down heavily, basically living together is probably going to be your worst nightmare if you yourself is a sexually active person. Head over to r/deadbedrooms and take a look.

tiposk · 2020-12-26T23:40:27+00:00

What is a realistic frequency of sex that is doable for both sexes in a healthy person in his/her 20-30s?

Around 80 times a year among people in their 20s, which also includes those that are unpartnered. I'm sure that the average frequency would increase if average only couples are surveyed. That said... you should forget about average and focus on finding a partner that wants sex as often as you do. You're an individual dating individuals.

Title	Those who made it what is your sex life like?
Author	lajos93
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Date	December 26, 2020 10:34 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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