Because they're the ones being judged and shamed, by basically everyone around them. Every single act of judgment reminds them of how low they've fallen, and they don't like how that feels. People who've led good, successful lives welcome or at least don't care about other people's judgment because for them judgment is followed by validation instead of shame.
Of course, it can get more complicated than that - people can be successful in one area and a failure in another. And that's when you see a demand for selective judgment - only judge them on their strengths, not their weaknesses. Classic example is the high-earning slut. She's fine being judged based on her income, she knows she did well and loves to talk about her job. But don't you dare judge her for spreading her legs for a small army's worth of men.
At the end of the day though, it all boils down to a pretty simple behavior - everybody wants validation, nobody wants to feel shame. The main difference is how willing someone is to accept responsibility for themselves.
Bullshit. I treat my husband like his ass is made of gold. I dont just tell him I love him, I back it up. He does the same for me. I'm not saying we dont ever fight or disagree, but when we do, we work it out. And we both apologize to each other afterward because 1) it takes two to argue, and 2) our relationship is more important than our pride.
I have had 3 kids. I was married at 18. My first daughter at 19. She died when she was 2. My second daughter was born 2 years later. 2 years after that my husband was killed by a douchebag drunk driver. It was 5 years later I got remarried and had another daughter. Then had my tubes tied. So I'm sorry that my kids are from 2 different dads but I do not think that puts me in the slut OR thot category.
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There's also the rod, IUD, diaphragm to prevent little humans.. It's a choice.
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Because they're the ones being judged and shamed, by basically everyone around them. Every single act of judgment reminds them of how low they've fallen, and they don't like how that feels. People who've led good, successful lives welcome or at least don't care about other people's judgment because for them judgment is followed by validation instead of shame.
Of course, it can get more complicated than that - people can be successful in one area and a failure in another. And that's when you see a demand for selective judgment - only judge them on their strengths, not their weaknesses. Classic example is the high-earning slut. She's fine being judged based on her income, she knows she did well and loves to talk about her job. But don't you dare judge her for spreading her legs for a small army's worth of men.
At the end of the day though, it all boils down to a pretty simple behavior - everybody wants validation, nobody wants to feel shame. The main difference is how willing someone is to accept responsibility for themselves.
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Bullshit. I treat my husband like his ass is made of gold. I dont just tell him I love him, I back it up. He does the same for me. I'm not saying we dont ever fight or disagree, but when we do, we work it out. And we both apologize to each other afterward because 1) it takes two to argue, and 2) our relationship is more important than our pride.
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I have had 3 kids. I was married at 18. My first daughter at 19. She died when she was 2. My second daughter was born 2 years later. 2 years after that my husband was killed by a douchebag drunk driver. It was 5 years later I got remarried and had another daughter. Then had my tubes tied. So I'm sorry that my kids are from 2 different dads but I do not think that puts me in the slut OR thot category.
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