Sometimes i listen to women as they try to victimize themselves and make every action they take not their fault but some abusive amorphous evil guy and i am amazed. i saw this post in raised by narcissist and i was amazed by how every thing going wrong in her life was her husbands fault.

-I want a divorce, to live on my own and co-parent respectfully with my husband. I love him very much, but I am not in love with him.

This is because he hasn't been emotionally supportive of me ever since my pregnancy, when I started experiencing major health problems, and the guilt from his constant berating me for starting to let the house slip a little due to the pregnancy. Which caused me to experience depression and anxiety again, after I had tried so hard to heal from my previous situation.\

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the shit is impressive