Posted this on /r/redpill but it got removed because I don't have enough karma:


For a woman to exercise hypergamy, she needs to know her own value. She needs to be able to determine "who is the best man that I can get".

A woman learns her own value by seeking validation in various forms.

If she can get beta orbiters to follow her, she reassures herself of her ability to attract a provider.

If she can fuck commit zina with an alpha, then she reassures herself of her ability to attract a man with strong genetics.

But the paradox is that every time a woman seeks validation, this in and of itself lowers her value in the eyes of the very high quality men she hopes to attract.

If a woman seeks validation from betas on social media, posting trashy pictures, then many alpha providers are not going to view this woman as being a good mother for his future children.

If a woman seeks validation through sex, she has increased her body count. Men intuitively know: the higher the body count, the less likely she will be a good mother/wife.

Ultimately, women objectify themselves, seeking validation in order to reassure themselves that they could lock down a high quality man when the time is right. Men happily enable this woman to objectify herself. Betas can worshiper her as they desire and alphas get the sex that they desire.

But paradoxically, this accomplishes the opposite objective and it lowers their value, so they can't accomplish the real feminine imperative which is to lock down a high quality man.