I used to tell myself proudly, I did not waste time on social media, only to later realize the irony of my blind paradigm. Reddit IS social media, it may not look like conventional social media, but it is in fact social media.

Social media is terrible because it is addicting and a coping mechanism. Since most users are lurkers; they get that dopamine high from merely sitting by doing nothing. This only lulls you into being lazy and reactive, instead of taking charge of your life and fulfilling your potential. Please reconsider your Reddit habits, I have personally wasted thousands, if not more, hours on being a filthy lurker. Next thing you know you'll be a cuck because you weren't being proactive in managing your women and life.

One tool I use to manage internet distractions is a FireFox extension, Intention. It sets time limits on your surfing and like it's name suggests: forces you to be intentional in your actions. That's where accountability and responsibility tie in. That's when you realize you need to take control. Not let the social media algo's do that for you.

I have written in a journal for a week now and it has really made coherency of my life. Time I would have wasted here. Be Intentional in your time, boys. You might think your time is not worth much but that's False. You can really be something you want, if you put intention and work into Your time.