I just remembered a moment where I remembered soemthing my ex did to me. It’s always stayed in my memory but I didn’t think much about it given the night it happened we were pretty frisky (no sex involved at this point).

He crashed in my dorm, and while we were sleeping he was touching me down there. He didn’t touch the clit part but the labia majora part. I didn’t think much of it if I’m being honest. I believe that consent should always be given and asked for before touching intimate parts. I kinda feel dumb for posting this cause it’s been so long that it happened and it hasn’t really affected me at all.

But, I’m wondering... is it common for guys to do this while sleeping at night with another girl? Also should that indicate any warning signs? To be fair he was very inexperienced when it came to women so I let it go when it happened.