I believe that a shit ton of people become disillusioned with dating because they do not know how to accurately judge their league. The biggest two examples are short men and fat/chubby women. I’ve seen a lot of guys say that they’re average looking (and thus deserve an average looking girl) then come out and say they’re below-average height. Or they’ll say that they have 9/10 jacked bodies and deserving of a girl with a 9/10 body only to leave out that they’re 5’4 flat. It’s an unfortunate truth but a truth nonetheless that height is VERY important for male attractiveness. No matter how your face looks or how jacked you are, if you’re short you MUST dock some points off of yourself and date accordingly.

This also goes for chubby girls. I can’t even COUNT the girls I know who believe they because they have big tits and ass, they’re high tier women deserving of an equally high tier man. They forget that those huge tits sit atop a belly and that fat ass is... just that. I also know a lot of big girls with pretty faces that thing they deserve a pretty boy to commit to them. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work that way. Just like height is extremely important for male attractiveness, weight (or a healthy amount) is extremely important for female attractiveness. If you’re overweight, you need to dock points off of yourself and date accordingly.