I know this will be a super tough pill to swallow and NO one will want to admit to it but most guys really only notice girls who are out of their league. This is why it’s so commonly believed that “the average girl only likes Chād.” No- the average girl does not. YOU just think that attractive girls are the average.

And I’ll admit, I don’t even blame dudes for this. There are more attractive girls than there are attractive guys, let’s just be real. But just because there are a lot of attractive girls it doesn’t mean that they’re now the average. Plain girls exist (girls you DON’T notice) and they’re the ones you should be going for. Once you do, you’ll find that it’s easy to get sex, love and human connection and that you don’t need a rulebook. And guys who are unattractive (short men unfortunately included) would do well with objectively unattractive girls- ones they definitely don’t notice but should.

When you’re complaining about women only sleeping with the top 20%, you’re complaining about girls who can actually get them: attractive girls. Most men are NOT attractive so a little standard-lowering should be in place.