Some time ago I started to invest in my personal image. So I started grooming myself, working out (weight lifting) and buying clothes.
However, it looks like most women don't care about that. They care about the height, the face, the chin, how wide is your back, your eye's color, etc. Nothing I can change about myself.
And I'm not talking about some hypothetical theory of what women want. It's all over my social circle. Ugly guy with nice chin? Pretty guy. Average guy that tries to look better? A tryhard. Even a girl said my looks are not natural becuase I go to the gym.
It's depressing, everthing's fixed on traits dictated by genetics.
And this made me think, is weight lifting worth in that regard? Because it looks like there's no point if the goal is about aesthetics.
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