Being alone is bad enough to when you add it a social penalty to it as well it does mess with you.

One thing that helped me break out of my dark hole in high school was learning that no matter how high I achieved the popularity would never be enough and even those who are popular aren't too talented

It was much better on my psyche and I was actually starting to live a life but I'm finding it hard to just say it doesn't matter that I'm a virgin or not because clearly it does if I want to date in the near future.

When you're 17 or even 18 it's cool to drop all the sex and dating and focus on other things in your life but then you hit 23 and realize you don't have anything to offer sexually.

My biggest frustration is the backlash against long-term virgin men simply because if you live in a American city or Society you're bound to find some type of stigma against men who are single or can't get a date..

It's like being kicked out of a club for having a different color shoe on and everyone inside laughing at you because they somehow passed the long and difficult journey of getting different color shoes,

No one should end up a pull against another gender and no one should be hateful enough to get violent but it's easy to see how these guys turned up the way they do and it's not because of the rejection or even women it's because Society it's proving their worldview true