Hi.

Long story short, I noticed that when I am talking to girls that are students for example and they came to my hometown for a short period of time OR when I am talking to girls online that don’t live in my hometown I am doing it much better, I am in my frame and simply outcome independent and I can f close.

BUT when I am talking to some cute girl online that is living in my hometown and she has for example 200 followers on instagram, small amount of likes I kind of go back to blue pill me and start thinking “she is different, she likes attention” and I just act needy and I am too careful with her so I kind of filter myself because I think that she is different then the others.

How can I fix this?