Well, it’s official. Covid 19 will still be a big part of your life in the first part of 2021...
Which means depending on where you live, still no bars...
Still no clubs, Still no lounges, Still no places you can reliably find hot girls to approach.
And if you've been in the game for a while... then you know that whenever you get out of a long term relationship or even just decide to take a break from game for an extended period of time - your skills deteriorate...
Game is a muscle that needs to be actively exercised or your skills will atrophy... just the way it is. You either use it or lose it.
So does that mean you have to drive to the mall to cold approach 10 girls a day??
What if I told you there’s a “hidden” supply of hot girls all around you that you can walk up to and game... that just about no one else is approaching effectively?
Have you ever noticed that your eyes automatically move towards hot girls while you’re walking down the street or going about your day to day life?
Sometimes you and the hot girl walk past each other. Sometimes you walk past them from behind, sometimes they pass you if they’re in a hurry.
Point is, have you ever considered that you can actually have a conversation with these girls walking past you every day instead of just staring at them for a brief moment? (And even avoiding eye contact if you’re beta enough lmao)
The only problem is, it’s not that easy to stop a girl that’s on the move... Sure you can approach them, but most of the time they’ll just keep walking... after all, it’s Covid-19... and strangers are dangerous! Sigh...
Meaning you’ll have to chase after them and walk with them like a low value beta.
Don’t believe me? Try it out. Try approaching a girl on the move in 2021 and you’ll see how difficult it is to get them to stop and have a conversation with you, unless you live in a rural area or something...
Until a week ago, I thought that girls on the move were off limits. I mean, they have places to go right? And besides, they all have masks on... they’re probably scared of Covid-19...
And every time I approached them, it only seemed to reinforce that fact. The majority of them didn’t stop when I approached.
They just kept walking... and walking...
And these are girls that seemed open to being approached, not the ones with earphones on lol
Sometimes, I’d follow after them and continue talking to them, walking side by side, but I don’t think a single approach like that worked out.
I mean, I was clearly chasing after her and the girl could see that... she’s not stupid, she knows she’s higher value than you if you chase that hard and follow her around like a dog on a leash...
I tried a bunch of different approach strategies too.
I tried walking up and tapping them on the shoulder. I tried walking up and telling them they’re cute, walking up and talking about something interesting in the environment...
Nothing seemed to work. Everything I did only seemed to reinforce my belief that these girls walking around from place to place were not meant to be approached. They had places to be... people to see...
And that’s when I met Dan: The Salesman from Costco who single handedly taught me that there’s a better way...
If you ever met me, you’d know that I almost never stop when homeless people ask me for money on the street, or salespeople approach me at Costco.
I had the mindset that I don’t have time to deal with that shit.
So looking back, I probably missed out on some cool offers from the Costco reps that I genuinely would have enjoyed. Probably missed out on interesting conversations with homeless people too.
Dan from Costco was different though.
Dan was able to get me to stop and listen to his sales pitch...
(I think it was home delivered water or something)
When it first happened I didn’t even know what hit me. I just sat there and answered question after question about how I pay for water, how much water I drink a month, etc.
I was like, how the fuck did I end up in this sales pitch? This usually never happens...
And then it hit me. Something about Dan’s approach compelled me to physically stop walking and listen to what he had to say.
I waited for him to finish his train of thought and immediately told him what was on my mind. I told him that I almost never stop when salespeople approach me. And I told him I wanted to know how to do exactly what he just did to me.
Dan looked at me like I was autistic. LMAO
I laughed and told him I’m utterly serious. I wanted to know his secret on how he could get people to stop what they’re doing and listen to his sales pitch.
I even offered to buy a 3 months supply of his water delivery service on the spot no questions asked if he was willing to help out.
So there I was jogging back in the middle of Costco and walking towards a very confused Dan again so I could try to figure out exactly what he was doing differently from everyone else.
I noticed several differences immediately.
- First, he waved to get my attention when I was like 8 yards away. This meant that I noticed him from a distance already
- Second, he held out his hand in a stop sign ✋ about 4 yards from when I was on top of his sales booth, and delivered his opener. “Excuse me real quick, I have a question. How much are you paying for your water every month?”. This meant that I had plenty of time to stop instead of continuing to walk like I usually do.
Do you see how intelligent this kind of approach is?
Usually homeless people just ask for money at the last second when you’re right next to them, making it super easy to just keep walking past them.
Dan, on the other hand, waved to grab my attention from a good distance away, and delivered his opener from 4 yards away, meaning it would be socially weird for me to not stop.
He turned the tables.
For all those homeless people on the street, it would take active effort on my part to stop and engage them in conversation.
With Dan, it would take active effort on my part to keep walking.
People LIKE taking the path of least resistance. Myself included. That’s just the way it is.
The funny thing is, Dan himself didn’t even know how brilliant his approach was. He was just doing this shit naturally.
I didn’t care though. He taught me everything I needed to know. So after I paid for a 3 month supply of his water as promised...
I immediately tried this out on a hot girl who was walking into Costco from her car.
Like I said, usually girls on the move are very difficult to stop and have a conversation with, especially during the Pandemic.
But this time, I followed all the steps.
- I waved at her from 8 yards away and smiled. She smiled back.
- I held out my hand in a stop sign ✋ and opened her indirectly, “excuse me real quick, I was on my way to the XYZ restaurant it’s supposed to be right here but I can’t find it.”
- Blah blah blah, “oh by the way, you have a creative and artistic vibe. Are you an artist?”
I kid you not. Full 20 minute conversation in the Costco Parking lot. Tons of flirting and swapped Instagrams at the end.
I repeated this exact technique on 5 other girls over the past week (making sure they noticed me from a distance, and delivering my opener from 4 yards away with my hand held out.
Every Single One Of The Girls Stopped In Their Tracks. And had a conversation with me.
Already have dates lined with with 2 of them
Covid-19 made it so the path of least resistance for a hot girl is to keep walking when a stranger approaches them.
But when you simply make sure they notice you as you approach, and give them enough time to stop, They Will Stop Every Time. They won’t know why they stopped, but they’ll stop.
Because it would take active effort on their part to keep walking. And almost everyone takes the path of least resistance.
If you’re too scared to even approach a girl, then this technique isn’t for you. Learn the basics of daygame first by approaching girls waiting in line or girls standing still that smile at you as you make eye contact with them.
And if you’re too scared of Covid to approach, then by all means continue monk mode. I don’t have anything against men who try to do the right thing to keep others safe.
But if you’ve been at it for a while...
If you’re sick and tired of this lockdown bullshit...
If you want to exercise your daygame skills on women who were previously off limits because they’re walking too quickly, I urge you to use what you learned to immediately get every single girl you approach to at least stop and have a conversation with you.
Nobody else is approaching them in such a calibrated way.
So Why Not You?