Expat business man is utterly destroyed and drained out of his entire life savings by a sweet feminine thai woman.

Whisper · 2015-09-02T19:22:25+00:00

There is no escaping the necessity for game.

Being tall will not save you.
Being handsome will not save you.
Being huge and cut will not save you.
Being rich will not save you.
Being famous will not save you.
Being hung like a rhinoceros will not save you.
Being good in bed will not save you.
Being Chad will not save you.

Equality does not exist. If you do not have the mental game to control women, they will control you. Your woman is either your slave or your master. There is no middle ground.

romegas314 · 2015-09-02T17:12:00+00:00

Many years ago I remember reading a blog written by an expat living in Koh Samui, talking about his relationships with Thai women. He made the point that after every breakup, they would take everything. Literally -everything-. He gave the example of leaving one day after breaking up with his girl, and coming back to their shared space to discover that she had her family come over and take everything including the washer/dryer, oven and refrigerator. Goddamn.

Regardless, the expat knew it was coming and was cool with it; he explained that it was a cultural thing, and that it was viewed by the Thai women and their families as the tradeoff / payoff for the years of having sex with the barbarous foreigner. Like you say in your lesson learned: be vigilant (and know what you're getting into).

2015-09-02T18:48:15+00:00

If you are Beta and spineless, purchasing one ticket and coming to Thailand will not change that. If you are smart and are applying red pill principles you can transform anywhere on the fucking globe, and under any circumstance. This chap obviously is blindly and terminally beta, therefore no nuts. In Thai culture men are expected to behave like men and if a bitch is out of line you have to check the hoe. It can be like 50 cent music video at times, but once you establish your frame kingdom peace is resumed. I fucking love this place and will probably die here, if I play my cards right.

meng88 · 2015-09-02T19:12:03+00:00

Wow western women are amateurs in comparison - they only take half.

2015-09-02T20:00:48+00:00

On his tombstone, it shall be written: "But she seemed so traditional and non-Westernized!!!!

redparadigm · 2015-09-02T20:06:50+00:00

From the director notes:

"I was working in Khorat, a town in the Issan region of Thailand in 2006 when I met Ted. I had just rented a room in an apartment block where Ted was living. I was surprised to find someone like Ted in a poor, unfashionable part of Thailand. Three weeks earlier Ted had separated from his Thai wife. He’d lost everything and didn’t have enough for an airfare home. There was no one at home who could bail him out and he was living on borrowed money.

Ted seemed to be quite overwhelmed by his situation. But despite his circumstances, he was good company and a great story teller. What’s more, his story challenged things I thought I knew.

I’d been to Thailand before and seen foreign men with younger, attractive Thai girlfriends. I had always assumed it was simply a form of prostitution where the men had the upper hand because they were relatively rich.

But Ted’s story was one of exploitation where the tables had been turned. What’s more, it seemed that his story was not uncommon in that part of the world. I began interviewing Ted on camera about his relationship with Tip. However, at the same time, things were still happening quickly for him, as he tried to stave off destitution by various means. So the film became comprised of both retrospective and unfolding events.

A few months later, I went with Ted to Tip’s village, Krasang. He was at the point of being unable to feed himself and hoped that Tip would give him back some money. I met Tip on that visit, but it wasn’t until a few months later that I could invite her to participate in the film. Although wary at first, she also wanted to tell her side of the story.

We also met some of the many other foreign men living in Krasang who had married local women that they met in bars at Bangkok and Pattaya. It was great to hear both men and women’s points of view.

We were also lucky enough to meet Mint, who was Tip’s best friend. Although they came from neighbouring villages, Tip and Mint first met while working at a bar in Bangkok.

Mint is a charismatic and forthright person. Although it made the edit difficult, we felt we needed to include her story to illustrate the desperation that drives the women. We couldn’t get that from Tip anymore, because by the time we met her, she had already benefitted from her marriage with Ted.

Mint also introduced us to Yahmo, a local female deity who became a minor character in the film. Yahmo’s statue and shrine stood in the town square. Along with other local Issan women, Tip and Mint prayed to Yahmo, especially for help in finding a good man to marry. According to local folklore, several hundred years ago, invading foreign soldiers arrived at Yahmo’s town. The population was defenceless as the town’s men were away fighting on another front. When the foreign soldiers began to loot and pillage, Yahmo devised a plan whereby the local young women pretended to lust after the soldiers. They arranged a party for them, flirted with them and plied them with alcohol. When the soldiers were relaxed and drunk, the young women killed them with the men’s own swords.

The Yahmo legend was a great metaphor for Ted’s story. It also said much about our characters, that they esteemed a ferocious warrior woman who used sexual charms to turn the tables on men.

I am deeply grateful to Screen Australia, who made the film financially possible. I am particularly grateful for the support, experience and patience of our long-suffering project officer Claire Jager.

We have remained friends with Ted, Tip and Mint since the film was shot. I am happy to report that after a few very rough years, Ted is now leading a successful and single life in his native Wales."

redpillbanana · 2015-09-02T19:21:07+00:00

Number one rule for bar girls: you can take the girl out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of the girl.

born_to_end · 2015-09-03T03:56:39+00:00

I partly understand why aging/ugly betas head out to SE Asia or Eastern Europe in search of "love". If they've got the cash, blowing a fair amount on a temporary "girlfriend" experience to soothe the loneliness is one thing. But these poor fools honestly believe that their bar whore is a snowflake and then give them everything. I feel for them but only in the sense they were too fucking gullible to believe that a dirt poor, uneducated hooker was worthy of their trust in the first place.

From what I hear, SE Asia in general is nothing but scams, committed by male and female. I'm heading out there for 2 months soon so guess I'll find out.

2015-09-02T21:57:55+00:00

You also see ex-pats who end up homeless in SEA, and resort to begging, etc, just to get by. Don't be that schmuck.

Ensure you have enough cash to catch a flight back home.

MonkeyDFreecs · 2015-09-02T23:43:56+00:00

I keep warning those idiots that Asian women are no different from women from the rest of the world but you realize they're aren't really MGTOW or Red Pill they're just simps.

combatmechanic · 2015-09-02T22:31:19+00:00

Saw this play out over, and over, and over, and over again while I was there.

Pro tip: Fly in, have fun, and leave.

cocaine_face · 2015-09-03T19:36:57+00:00

"When youre divorced at 32 like i was there is not much for you besides women with children and emotional baggage" He says this as he dates a former prostitute with children and emotional baggage.

Life is what you make of it. You give up and this is what happens to you.

I too went to Thailand as a recently divorced 32 year old. Difference was I went to see what life was like, not surrender to the sad life of another fat old dude.

faded_jester · 2015-09-02T19:11:11+00:00

Women tend to stop asking and start demanding immediately after moving in. As the wonderful and wise Tom Leykis said.....don't ever let them move in....ever. Don't give them a key either. As long as they know you can drop them in a second and it won't affect you in the least they generally have to behave at least a little. Of course this doesn't apply to all women or the super demanding snowflakes. Just a general rule of thumb as it were.

aiguo888 · 2015-09-02T18:21:12+00:00

Doesn't matter how beta or alpha you are - a western foreigner has no place in Thailand. You'll forever remain an outsider and be barely tolerated, even if you speak thai. Desirable girls are extremely traditional and would never get with a foreigner under normal circumstances. Foreigners get the leftover like single mothers etc.

Notice how none of the village guys look like they have a remotely healthy relationship?

The UK is pretty depressing for average joe and with the strong pound it's a no brainer for lots of guys to try to settle down there if they can't make the big bucks in London.

Smart guys buy a condo in BKK (a questionable investment but better than a property in your wifes name) and hustle online to cover the bills, but generally most long term expats are about as low end as the country itself and more often than not don't even speak the language.

tomysotomayorfuxboys · 2015-09-02T19:33:26+00:00

I didn't watch the video, but I'm assuming it is "My Thai Bride", which I've seen before. His 1st mistake was choosing an unattractive older woman, who was probably "damaged goods" and well-practiced in the art of manipulation. I'd rather be one of those old guys with an 18, 19, 20, 21, 22 year old g/f or wife.

tomysotomayorfuxboys · 2015-09-03T09:02:22+00:00

AWALT. The advantage of some foreign countries is it is easier to find women (especially younger, more attractive women) for sexual relationships. Flying halfway around the world and having passport to a wealthy country is the equivalent of driving a luxury SUV. It'll get you lots of attention from the ladies, and lots more chances to enter into sexual relationships with them. However, once in a relationship with a woman, it is basically the same thing anywhere in the world. In this case, the guy made a mistake by choosing an older woman (older women are typically more damaged and more experienced in manipulation) and in giving her control over all his money and assets. Once she had that, she had no more use for him. If he kept her dependent, on the other hand, then she would have been unable to behave that way.

sardinemanR · 2015-09-02T19:18:45+00:00

It always amuses me that on one hand there are Americans that can state "rape crisis" and "wage gap" and all the other nonsense the media portrays is bullshit, but then on the other they buy the whole "women are oppressed in those other cultures!" BS the same media touts.

Women are not oppressed anywhere. Never have been, never will be. They occupy a special privileged role. The only difference is just how unchecked the privilege is and how insistent the state is on destroying men in favor of women. While the West is the worst at it, all cultures protect their women.

So when Billy Beta heads out to Asia to get some easy oppressed poon, he gets crushed by that "oppressive to women" society that actually has its women's back. This is true in all areas, Asia sure, the Middle East too. There is nowhere you can go where society will allow you to just impregnate women and leave.

Except ironically, if you play your cards right in the West. Being a thug works out a lot better here than elsewhere. And with easy access to birth control and a stupid female population that gives away its prime sexual years and doesn't even want to get pregnant, we have the most access to pussy in the world in history right at your doorstep. The betas can not compete in the sexual market place and have an inherent idea of superiority so try to prey on foreign women. I have no sympathy.

trplurker · 2015-09-03T06:36:46+00:00

Well other then OP trying to frame it as "see SEA women are evil too!", this is about a weak ass dude who thought he could go play a different game somewhere else, and got his shit pushed in.

Women, on an instinctual level, are the same all across the world. They all have the same basic drives and desires, the only thing that's different is how each culture restrained and focused those. So a women who's more "feminine" just means she is using her female submissiveness as a form of power to manipulate men. All women seek manipulate men, so unless a man wants to stay celibate for the rest of his life, he needs to learn to deal with that manipulation.

As to why men go to places like SE Asia, it's because the average cost of pussy is lower. You spend a fraction of what you would in the west to receive better experiences. Unless your a complete fucking fool like the guy in the video was. You can get attractive 19 year old girls fucking you every way imaginable, inviting their other 19 year old friends to participate in those adventures, at a cost in both status and resources far below what that takes in western nations. Of course if you go full beta on them, they will do to you what any women would, complete evisceration.

If your looking to "marry" a SE Asain girl, do not pick a fucking bar girl. She's had more foreign dick run through her then ten university sorority girls. Instead have friends, yes local men who are actually your friend, introduce you to someone's sister, niece, daughter / ect. She'll be young, unmarried with no children, and her family will be looking for a long term financial solution instead of a quick hit & run. Date her and don't fuck around cause this is business and her family will fucking kill you if you try to "hit it and quit it". I know some colleagues of mine who've done this, all happily married for over a decade with children.

Bar girls make fun "sorta-GFs", but are absolutely trash for committed relationships.

2015-09-03T07:36:00+00:00

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Dr_HoaxArthurWilmoth · 2015-09-03T09:20:19+00:00

Absolutely no sympathy.

If you don't do your research before you visit Thailand, then you get what you deserve.

This dude would have been a loser if he went to North Korea.

2015-09-02T21:00:28+00:00

I'm expat. Traveling lot through European countries.

One thing is sure: Thai women are gold diggers. Almost without exception. Luckily I'm not attracted to their physique.

Also, most of them are very manipulative, ten times Western women. I just avoid them in big circles.

Edit: expecting downvoting from blue balled American boys, who still believe that women are different somewhere else.

darkrood · 2015-09-02T18:15:06+00:00

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Title	Expat business man is utterly destroyed and drained out of his entire life savings by a sweet feminine thai woman.
Author	redparadigm
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Date	September 2, 2015 4:55 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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