I have a RP theory which may be painstakingly obvious however it may help you.

This doesn’t need much of a back story but some men feel that without women they are hopeless. I’m personally a bit like an addict, I get very excited when I get a couple dates lined up.

I have a problem with my tinder, where I’m constantly on it. Liking, chatting etc. It’s a bit sad ha, but hey its fun. However lets rewind. In June I broke up with my gf, and I didn’t get butthurt, but just decided to take a break. I went out like 2-3 times since then, saw mates but constantly focused on training and just relaxing. Amazingly I got laid twice in that process of minimum effort, however one was on my vacation.

My point is leading up to my vacation, I didn’t care. I didn’t want to go out. I’d come home, read, watch a movie, play a video game, relax. Let me tell you it was honestly “the best period of my life.” Honestly it may be the time of my life. I know it sounds insane but I was so at peace.

Then my vacation came along, and I started drinking, I started partying and I came back mid august and was still “chasing the buzz.”

I still train, but I’ve got ants in my pants, I’m back on tinder, I’m back on the horse a little but I miss the relaxed me. I wont say monk mode me as I wasn’t hurting from my breakup, I was relieved if anything.

So my friend who is very BP picks me up and is stressed about work, friends etc and especially girls goes on about how “I got a drought going on, I just want a gf, etc” all that bollocks.

And I just turned to him and said the following “mate, to be honest it sounds like youre not content with your life. For me, my best times of recent was just being alive. Reading a book, watching a film, going to the gym and work. Eating right. It’s the simple things. I look forward to a date with a pretty girl just as much as I do sitting in my underwear on a Friday night playing video games.”

He couldn’t believe what I said, but he got it. Whether he took that on board is up to him.

Lifes too short. Its very easy to get upset “oh I’m alone, oh I got no girl” all that shit. But hey, there will be a time (assuming you make the move, look the part etc) that pretty girl will be joining you for a drink but it is NOT the be all and end all of things. Life is more then a pretty face and a pair of tits.

You must be content with yourself, but I am not advertising sitting on your ass and doing fuck all for the rest of your life.

I am telling you to just fucking enjoy it. Enjoy your own company, and the simple things. Perhaps my relaxed period motivated me to tinder and get dates etc.

Your mind is a powerful tool. I’m no poet but I know what I said has a profound effect on me.

But it’s a balance, tonight it’s a Friday night. The BP and feminazis/sluts are like “WHY YOU STAYING IN!! GET DRUNK PARTY”

No thanks, Im tired, I’m going to relax after my final of my 5 gym sessions this week and drink a bourbon after my steak dinner with my book. Magic.

And tomorrow? Probably a tinder date or a plate. Ok shes a 6.5 but she’s got great tits and is DTF. Life is simple when you make it simple.