Consider this more of an informal survey to see where some Christian men stand today.

It's interesting how what was considered "high" or "low" a decade or more ago has changed and how perspectives have changed, and whether one's sexual past matters more or less to men now.

If you were single again (or are currently) and dating a woman with the intention of marriage, where would you draw the line on the number of sexual partners you'd accept in your potential spouse before nexting or keeping her?

Virgin / 0 sexual partners.

Up to 3 sexual partners.

Up to 6 sexual partners.

Up to 10 sexual partners.

Up to 15 sexual partners.

Up to 20 sexual partners.

21+ sexual partners.

Or fill in a specific number instead of a range, if you prefer.

For the sake of this "survey" let's assume the number you find out is accurate, even though we know most women lie about this all the time.

Also for the sake of this exercise, assume the woman you date has the qualities you're looking for. You're reasonably sure she's Christian, solid in her faith, attractive, etc.

Is the number of no matter to you as long as she has most everything else you're looking for?

Or is there a point where you say, it doesn't matter how good she is in other areas, I'm out, wish her well and look for another?

I'm curious to know your thoughts.

For me, while I'd put a strong emphasis on finding a virgin or a woman with 3 or less sexual partners, I'd consider a woman with 4 to 7 if she was great in other aspects, had truly repented and was walking with God, had other things I was looking for, etc.

Anticipating the replies:

Before this post gets derailed and goes way off topic, let's get this out of the way. Yes, we know that God forgives, the "it shouldn't matter" crowd is out there, and the "insecure, incel, small d, racist, sexist, xenophobe, homophobe" accusations are slung your way for asking this or thinking it plays a role.

Thank you. Noted. Now let's see if we can find out the sexual standards some men hold today and if they've changed any.