In the event of a divorce, men get raped primarily in two areas. Alimony and child support. The division of assets is not that big of a deal. The no fault divorce can actually work to his advantage.

The justification for alimony is that it is like unemployment insurance. The woman needs an income to maintain the lifestyle she was accustomed to while she was married. This applies mainly in areas where the woman stayed home and did unpaid for work like popping stuff in the microwave. So if the woman is working she does not have justification for alimony.

The second reason is child support. Who gets child support is determined by who gets primary custody. Who gets primary custody is determined by who was the primary care giver before the divorce. This highly biased article shows how the career woman "helplessly stood by" while her husband showed the judge how he was the primary caregiver. Presumably the "poor" woman got divorce rapped.

http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/11/17/more-fathers-getting-custody-in-divorce/?_r=0

So if the RP guy has a job where he is a consultant for example and worked out of his house he would be the one spending more time with the kid. If he doesn't feel like cleaning up messes or changing dirty nappies, he should hire a maid. I am not an accountant but probably this can be tax deductible. A certain percentage of the house is an office the maid cleans the office. Then maid then could do office duties like light data entry and delivering messages.

As for career women being bitches, not willing to marry down financial wise. This is the biggest shit test out there. The problem is most men feel inadequate if they do not make more money then the woman. This is repeatedly reflected in many of the posts in TRP here.

The RP man does not whine about the system, he figures out how to use the system to his advantage. He also has the motto, hope for the best, plan for the worse.

This is also an example of instead of making assumptions do some research. My interest was sparked because I mentioned in another post I knew a few men who had sole custody. A person replied that was a miracle. So I decided that I should determine why they got sole custody.

Spend a few dollars verifying my info discussing with a lawyer. So ask a young lawyer how much a consult costs. Usually it is $20 to $50 for an hour. But most lawyers enjoy discussing law and many times he will go over that time limit.

Whether or not you have kids is a personal choice. I am not going to advocate one way or another. I am saying "if you decide to have kids".