TDLR;
https://archive.is/tU2NY
skinny, fit 45 yr old women posts pictures to a subreddit, redditor asks how to approach her, she says she would be impressed if a man approached her in general, men are feminized and that she wants a the guy to be dominant and approach her. Absolute shit storm ensues.
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To begin with, a decent looking, fit 45 yo lady posts pictures in a sub dedicated to asking 'am i sexy?' (surprising, but she looks 10x better than the fat 20 yo feminists running all over the place).
A redditor compliments her and asks:
In what way's should a guy approach you? Or do you want to catch more guys check you out?
She responds with:
If guys just made the first move at all id be impressed these days. Men are feminized now though, those days are done.
My first thought was, "yeah sounds about right, you might be 45, but you look decent enough to be approached", reddits responses was as follows:
Why should we have to? If you're interested in a guy, why can't you make the first move?
Whiny-ness levels are off the charts, her reponse (yes its worth the read, TRP left and right):
Because its a turn off to me, and if im turned off from the first second how would it ever work. A huge part of my attraction to a man is his masculinity and dominant nature... If i have to make the first move those things are gone for me right from the start, then there is no sexual tension or attraction. Polarity gets me, feminine/masculine, dominant/submissive, aggressive/receptive, otherwise the energy is dead... If i make a move it would be subtle, nothing more than eye contact, maybe a slight smile, a tilt of the head. If a man doesn't pick that up and make a move its dead in the water. It is what it is. You can't help what you are sexually attracted to. Its like trying to tell a man to be attracted to an overweight woman because its 'whats inside that counts' regardless of the fact that he normally gets hard for slim fit women, its not going to happen. Same for us, women are generally attracted to strong masculine men, especially beautiful feminine women, thats how nature made it.
I don't think you could get much more redpill than this. This is the unspoken attraction that women experience and if you haven't picked up on this by now, then what are you even doing when you talk to a women. Their response just screams of butthurt, she gave you great advice, to grow some balls and be the one to initiate and of course the response was:
You're hot. You're just very entitled and judgmental.
Apparently saying that fit men like fit women is being judgmental. I'll end the discussion between them with this last response:
You asked me why i wont make the first move, i told you, sorry it wasnt the answer you wanted but it was the truth. Im naturally attracted to what im attracted to, its not a choice... i just asked for a man to take a risk and make the first move. 20 years ago this wasnt even a debate.
Summary
If you haven't already, learn how to initiate with girls. It should be obvious by now that a dominant, goal oriented guy is going to be more of a turn on than one who sits back and expects them all to chase him. I know that some may complain by saying, "she's a 40 yo who hit the wall, she just wants attention from guys, this doesn't prove anything!!", but really her point stands pretty clear and it obviously applies pretty well with a lot of our new generation of 'men' and the fact that it strikes a nerve with so many people just stands to prove it even more. In general, great read, and shows reddits reaction to a feminized women.
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