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There are attractive women on OKCupid, but they’re probably not talking to you. They get one hundred messages per day. They’re on OKCupid for a cheap laugh and an ego boost, and if they do catch a “pump and dump,” it’s by cooler guys than you.

For the mongoloids, there are two types of woman on OKCupid. You can tell a lot about them by their profiles the questions they answer the pictures they choose.

She’ll have charming and adorable shots of her face perfectly angled and zoomed-in tight. She understands the beauty pedestal, and she wants to swing for the fences and knock it out of the park. She wants you to fall in love… and you do. Just a little bit; a fraction of a fraction.

You think, this girl with this very pretty face, making adorable and charming expressions… this girl could be my girlfriend. We could domesticate. I could come home from a long day at the office, to her pretty face and adorable expressions, and we could discuss how we both enjoy the same movies and food, how we both think animal abuse is horrifying, and how we would like to implement a plan to engineer a master race by sterilizing those who test under a yet-to-be-determined IQ threshold.

We could have this life together because she has a pretty face and we like the same movies.

Then you get to her last picture and she’s a big fat fuck, and you can reverse engineer what happened from there. This is what I call the “reality shot.” She didn’t start out posting this type of picture… it’s at the end of her line of photos for a reason. It certainly would never be her profile picture.

What happened here is that she is too fat for the type of man that her pictures are attracting. She is too fat to pump and dump. She is too fat for this man to even bother being polite. The gap between her pictures and her reality was too wide, and she has experienced serious and humiliating blow-back too many times to attempt this ruse.

Her punishment is the last picture in her line-up of adorable, endearing, carefully framed and angled pictures. The reality shot. Her punishment is that reality has become inescapable.

It’s not that other girls match their pictures, it’s that they match their pictures to a slightly more reasonable degree in order to garner a pump and dump. They show up on the date, and the man secretly registers disappointment. He then assesses the damage and decides, “since I’m here anyway I may as well get sex out of it.” While the gap between her pictures and her reality is immediately evident,it isn’t wide enough to dismiss sex. He fucks her, she’s happy, he doesn’t text her again, he’s a jerk… now her job is to find an equally attractive non-jerk.

Only that last part never happens, and this is why you see a lot of the same girls on OKCupid year-after-year; very likely for eternity. That attractive non-jerk doesn’t exist, and she isn’t getting enough negative feedback to readjust her expectations.

American culture is built on this kind of symbolic incoherence. We don’t need substance or meaning; our symbols take precedence over what they’re intended to mean. The selfie is meant to be representative of reality, but it has become indicative of nothing. The selfie has replaced reality for the modern woman. Reality has become secondary.

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