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[–]dingusfunk259 points260 points261 points 4 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link
And women wonder why some men end up being stalkers. They've been cultivating that kind of behavior for centuries.
[–]churchchannel105 points106 points107 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Honestly never thought about the connection, but damn your right.
[–]TheRabbitTunnel100 points101 points102 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
This goes way beyond men being stalkers.
"Toxic masculinity" is the idea that some gender roles associated with masculinity (eg, not showing emotion) are harmful to men. To a degree, this is true. Its not healthy for men to bottle up their emotions.
However, the reason it exists is because women are attracted to it. Women are attracted to emotionless men. Women like dominant, aggressive males. If women want "toxic masculinity" to go away, they should take a look in the mirror and change.
That wont happen though.
[–]churchchannel53 points54 points55 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Also spot on, all of the toxic traits that feminists complain about exist to such a degree in large part because women prefer to be dicked down by men with those traits.
[–]macheagle5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Great point and fully agreed. I’ve wondered too - what’s the scientific explanation for women liking emotionless men? Is it because they are more likely to have good composure and calmness in times of crisis, making them good leaders and mates? Not to mention the mystery factor. What else?
[–]TheRabbitTunnel6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think its because the emotions that are unattractive are associated with beta males.
Women arent turned off by all emotions, just the ones associated with "inferior" males, evolutionarily speaking. Depression, desperation, anxiety, etc were generally the emotions of betas.
[–]macheagle2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed, great points.
[–]0signal04 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
From what I've read the greatest men in history were fairly emotional. All the artists (obviously) but also leaders. Saul the king literally met David because Saul was afflicted by depression.
[–]rainydistress8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, bitches lead guys on and waste our time like crazy. This one girl literally showed so much interest, sent me nudes and kept asking me when we're gonna get it on. I called her to my place, she came over and was just scrolling insta on her phone and acting weird, then left. Wtf.
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[–]zeus1136 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What if he's rich like Christian Grey?
[–]Considered_Dissent6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This 90 second sketch shows the difference.
[–]evergreen3531 points32 points33 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Men with psychopathic traits are more desirable to women, Canadian researchers say
[–]leviathanch8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Wow. That means I should be hyper attractive then! I'm too psychotic to serve in any army because when I snap people might start dying, I've got an above average IQ (140) and just recovered from a mental breakdown with full-blown hallucinations of me shapeshifting into a humanoid reptilian. Maybe I'd have a chance with those hot Portuguese women after all then if I went over there?😂
[–]evergreen3515 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sorry, no. Big difference between psychotic and psychopath. I hope you get better, my dude.
https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/psychotic-psychopath-difference
[–]leviathanch6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Already better now than I was in a long while.
Thanks for the well wishes. ^^
[–]Praline13222 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's not being sociopathic. You're had a psychotic break. Totally different things
[–]leviathanch0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well. Yeah. Was just all the shit around me back in Switzerland.
I essentially already tried to do my own thing like 6 years ago when MGTOW wasn't a thing yet, but that only resulted in me basically being bullied out of any interesting job and my family was terrorizing me as well.
When I tried to have a relationship it only made things worse. Sex is totally overrated BTW. Everyone who comes with "no fap" and this stuff basically just can go away again. If your only drive is your sexual drive, then we're in two totally different ball parks of problems anyway.
I tried it out with the first person I met who agreed, after having waited for years for nothing for this one person I ever really felt like a moth drawn to a light, my entire life.
Only after I ran away to China and started a career as electrical engineer and found a psychiatrist who basically did put me back together, I'm now able to be as effective as before all this psychological terror from my environment started.
My family is a bunch of fucking narcissistic control freaks who have the guts to call me a narcissist after I now defend myself and keep a distance.
I'm pretty stable now, but I can't promise that there wouldn't be casualties if I ever visit my family again, so I stay the hell away in China. Especially considering that my dad has those violent outbursts and I've now got training in mixed martial arts and might accidentally just break his back when he comes at me again and wants to beat me. (BTW: Hence my PTSD which lead to the psychosis)
[–]Merc3060 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol definitely depends on your SMV
[–]Ocjab95 points96 points97 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
One of the main reasons I broke it off with the mother of my children. I'm done playing these dumb ass games. You want to play? Go play with kids! I'm getting too old for this shit, too tired and done.
[–][deleted] 29 points30 points31 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Good job man.Hows your money ever since u broke it off?
[–]Ocjab10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I could if I wanted to, but never been a big fan of steak.
Sushi is more up my alley!
[–]221344841 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I dont know about your country, but in mine i can have top class 3 week aged sirlion (1kg+ (2.2lbs)) for the price of sushi raht would count as a dinner
[–]bmoney68973 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You can eat steak all the time if you cook it at home, obviously much cheaper!
[–]fuckoffplsthankyou21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Dunno about him but my bank account doubled in a year.
[–]Cuntfart900014 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Women are an expensive pet. Dogs are much better and cheaper.
[–]fuckoffplsthankyou6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've never had a dog but I do enjoy them. I will definitely agree that every dog I've ever met has been more honest and loving than most women.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Niceeeee bro keep getting that money
[–]Ocjab3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well, still working on that, ever since I broke it off, I have been working on creating an unique mobile app for my future company. Which took me about 2-3 years to make so haven't had much of income yet. Now that the thing is at a first release candidate, I'm waiting for end of april to come around so I can finally start the company. I'm not at the optimal amount of capital that I wanted but I'm done waiting after 2-3 years. Although, I'm trying to find myself a job for the oncoming 4 months. Just to get some extra capital for it. We'll see.
Tbh, I have been looking for an investor/partner but I want a mgtow for this but those are impossible to find in the wild, with the "First rule is, we don't talk about fightclub" deal, hahaha!
Also, I'm a minimalist so I don't really need money for me personally, the company is more important to me because I want to make it big with multiple locations and a franchise to make it grow even faster. I'm ambitious!
[–]Devourercoc76 points77 points78 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Can't lose if you don't play.
[–]wwstewart18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well, I just lost the game...
[–]squeegypeegy15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn it’s been years!
[–]SilkySullivan64 points65 points66 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They used to call us thirsty, and now they are mad we don’t chase after them.
Of course they really only want certain ones to chase them.
[–]BoxofMistakes[🍰] 41 points42 points43 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Remember this when a woman says she just wants to settle down
[–]Fantoche_Dreemurr20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
More like men realize they,re the prize so they have no reason to chase
[–]WyoDoc2914 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Chase and catch a sexual harassment charge? Nah.
[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Men don't chase me boohoo, also i can't stand when i get hit on and i don't want to"
[–]FrancoNore10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I actually love this metaphor. The game of tag is fun when someone is within tagging distance. The chase may be fun when you know they're right there within your reach. But tag certainly isn't fun if the people you're chasing are 100 yards in the distance and don't even let you get any closer. That's no fun at all and if im even gonna bother chasing someone it's gonna be someone who's close and able to be caught. That's what so many don't understand
[–]slab_of_beef9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just commenting to say how much I hate the way she spelled her name.
[–]Mr_M0t0m07 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's all about attention. Femoids crave it and men chasing them makes them feel that they are getting attention from us.
Don't play the game, boys.
Starve them of attention.
[–]Capptotayusb1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
H
[–]BlackBoxInquiry6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because, we're people, not a game. Since there's a lack of communication, respect and care for us as Men, that's fine - we just won't play by those 'rules' anymore. Fuck it. Can't act human, don't come knocking...probably a gold digger too.
[–]ImstarIordman5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I could see playing tag if there was only one person.
[–]motherfucking_sisko5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As if i didn't need reminding why i'm glad i quit the sexual marketplace. 😆
[–]mctwist4464 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I had an assignment in psychology class this year, the task was to teach the class something. I basically was asked to talk about conversation in 2019. The class then moved to the topic of game(picking up girls). I said if you like women you are in luck because they outnumber us. A women in the class said, so you only get the easy girls, because you don't want a woman. I said your wrong I want women, if one woman doesn't work I can go find others. But you as a woman don't approach so it's like you listen to your music on shuffle(with no choice but to skip), while I listen to music where I can choose any song, and make a playlist of my favorite ones.
[–]Fist_of_the_mad_gods5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Let's say you play the game and chase her down, what's after that? Shit test after shit test after shit test after shit test after shit test after shit test after shit test. Then the divorce. No thank you.
[–]Touchfree3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Isn't " chase" categorized as stalking? And it's considered toxic behaviour that men do these days? . Women are confused.
[–]MoonshineGuy8594 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cause no means no and can result in being fired, vilified on social media, or criminal charges.
[–]Roary933 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because if men persist they're labelled as a creep, but if they don't, it's your fault for not being attracted to them. Can't win either way
[–]Brian4372 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Woman: why don't you call me anymore?
Man: you got a restraining order against me.
Woman: so?
[–]ModerateAltMiddle1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I pursued a woman in college. She was online and had a boyfriend she was looking to cheat on. I messaged her and instead of having sex with her like she wanted, I spent the night coaching her on relationship skills and how to fix the relationship (Out of honour. I really wanted to fuck her). I asked her if she would like to be just friends instead (because through talking that night, I learned we had a TON in common and got along well). She said no. I respected her and stopped contacting her. I would see her around campus and say "Hi" in a friendly way. I'd ask her how her day was, but I'd never linger longer than a few seconds. Never held a full conversation, simply because I wanted to respect her wishes.
3 months later, she messages me saying she and bf broke up. She went on a date with me, fucked me, told me I was the best sex she ever had and the first time she came during sex, and then asked me to not talk to her after a week of gassing me up and gushing over me. I was heavily against this because she was basically my dream girl in every way. Once again, I asked if we could at least be friends since we had so much in common, but I respected her wishes. She wanted zero contact. I am absolutely heartbroken, but I do as she asks. No more messages. No more calls. No more dates.
Smash cut to a few days later, I'm riding past her on my skateboard as usual but this time I don't say "Hi." I just ride past after making glancing eye contact with her.
I get home from class to realize I have a message: From Her stating
"Hey, you didn't say 'Hi' to me today. ): "
[–]zennacko0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The carrot dangle is real.
[–]larag56781 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Cause fuck you that's why."
[–]1nfinitus0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Saw this tweet too, surprisingly most of the replies had a hint of redpill.
[–]CaptainTarantula0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've seen similar reactions in cats. If you pursue one, it will keep away. If you don't care about it, it will try to cuddle.
Chase? I got better things to do.
[+]Ukhupa-11 points-10 points-9 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Some men like the chase as much as, if not more, than the actual contest. I'd say it's a combination of ego, outwards display of value and social skills and, well, thinking that they must have sex with every attractive woman they lay their eyes on.
I get the appeal of the back and forth but, yeah, a line has to be drawn somewhere.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, men are some of the biggest masterminds on picking up social cues. Reading out of women's minds to determine whether they make genuine romantic reciprocations or simply pretending in attempt to confuse us for their own amusement comes to us like a second nature. /s
[–]Ukhupa1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I never said we were.
a line has to be drawn somewhere
That was my point. A man should learn to realize when he's being led on and is only inflating a woman's ego by chasing her.
Well, tell that to SIMPs who have been brainwashed into doing so. There're incapable of drawing the line due to their conditioning.
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