TL:DR - Your beta side will always be there, the journey is about overpowering that with positive emotions and positive social feedback. Abundance is King, Frame control

A real strong TRP principle was cemented for me today. Chad is not real, he is an ideal, I can't be him. But the journey is not to be him, the journey is to cement in your mind positive feedback and emotions that the beta way of life is not for me.

This started with an eye contact exercise I did last week. I made a promise to myself after meditation on a sunday that for a full week I was going to hold eye contact until the girl or guy I was talking to broke it first.

Of course this started with me being way to aggressive with it, then I was to submissive and needy with it, then I found the middle ground. The result was not only do I have pretty damn good eye contact now I cemented in my brain that my initial instinct that I have been following does not give me the result I want, it no longer works for my goals.

So I meditated on that realization and I came to this conclusion. That beta instinct is always going to be there, but now with the eye contact thing my mind INSTANTLY shuts it down.

So recently I dropped a plate that I currently live with (TRP hard mode engaged!). Not for nothing I fucked up a lot in the relationship, but I have learn so much that even the small amount of backlash I'm getting is totally worth the knowledge I have gained. In any case she is trying the whole "We need to talk later" then she will go out all night and come back late so as to try and make me worry about "the talk". I bring this up because until about 2 weeks ago I would have been anxious and worried about "the talk". Even if I didn't show it to the world, deep down it would be killing me. Even now, I still get a bit of a surge of worry but it is quickly shut down by the fact that I don't care. I've noticed this has caused her to try literally ever trick in the book, I have text from her about false rape accusations, how she is talking shit to every girl I normally interact with. She'll go on and on about how "hitting on girls is not attractive" etc. It just makes me laugh now.

Having the blue pill veil lifted allows me to enter this frame. I know that everything she is doing is because she views me as a beta that got one over on her and now she is trying her hardest to pigeon hole me into that role. That fact that she is doing all these things shows me that she can't fully do that in her mind. She is trying her hardest to beta shame me and keep me from increasing my SMV in relation to hers.

TRP is not about manipulation, or getting one over on women. It's about giving you the knowledge, the rule set of this social game we all play, so that you can maintain a frame of abundance and stoicism. It's about giving you insight into how to relate to the feedback you are getting. Women and game in general do not give solid feedback, there will be a time where you fuck up ever single step of the way and still get laid at the end of the night. With TRP you now can properly analyze interactions with women and improve. TRP frees you from the outcome dependance, because you realize that the outcome is mostly based on things you can't control!

Once you get here, it's very enlightening. Women notice you are aware of these things and being aware of them allows me to have much more fun with them.