Tl;DR from the top comment itself: Guy discovers his soon-to-be financee is cheating. Discovers texts and photos. Sets up elaborate proposal including candles, glitter, and rose petals. Has her read a rhyming poem that ends with him asking who the other guy is. She looks up shocked, he bails without a word, and gets into his car and drives off holding a pink dildo.
Second top comment with 2209 upvotes:
Gotta love living in a culture where a man would deem it necessary to document that he didn't trash her house or beat her before he confronts her for being a cheating whore. Why do you suppose he felt the need to do that?
With a reply of 1154 upvotes.
Because a crying woman is better than actual evidence in western society. Go ahead, just google what happens when a woman gets violent and the cops show up. Edit: I wonder how much downvotes I can lose by mentioning theredpill(Linked here) is about acknowledging this sort of shit for self-preservation.
1k+ upvotes despite the mention of the red pill sub-reddit?! What has the world even come to now! :(
Backstory: Decent guy. Goodlooking, fit, well groomed, smart, not a total beta finds out that his soon to be wife is actually a whore through her facebook account and stuff. She's been pretending to be in love and all the jazz but she's been fucking a guy called Thomas Roo behind his back.
She sends Thomas the same nude pics that she sends to her fiance . Fucks him. But hides it from the guy in the video. This guy even had requested her to just tell him to walk away if she wants to be with someone else. But no, she wants to keep the beta husband as well as the boy toy on the side. Guy feels devastated cuz of the sham she tried to pull off and plans to dump her shamefully and record that he has not done any physical harm to her or her house to protect himself from the police.
A sixteen minute video but well worth the watch and something everyone will be able to relate to on here. This setup is a few weeks after he realizes she's a whore. You will she the feeling of pure freedom and liberty when you see him escape out in the end and play the music in his car as he drives away.
Video in question: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-KGfp2aTnHs (Needs login)
Summary: Don't get married. Enjoy the watch! Cheers
She isn't even pretty. He can easily get a better looking whore.
Clichee confirmed: tattoos = slut alarm.
To be fair, he is in UK. Let's be honest, that's a 9.5 in the mother country.
Best comment: who the fuck is thomas roo
Oh my...that is perfect. It even includes the dildo!
I was like. Wtf is he doing with a pink dildo? Makes me laugh just thinking about it.
Rides into the suset with a pink dildo classic!
The excitement she showed during his proposal, despite knowing she's a cheating whore, should really say everything.
I'm also getting some "men are the real romantics" vibes from this.
The grandiose display of roses and candles and poems and shit is straight out of the blue pill handbook. That's what men want to believe women are attracted to. Be the Thomas Thunderoo.
I'm willing to bet it never even crossed her mind until the big reveal.
Men are romantics pretending to be pragmatics. Women are pragmatics pretending to be romantics.
♂ Whoa. That's right up there with Warren Farrel's quote about "Men's greatest weakness is their facade of strength, and women's greatest strength is their facade of weakness."
This needs up vote. That's really contributing quote you presented us with. Thank you.
(Seriously)
You can just put "/s" at the end, that means "seriously."
Yw :)
Brilliant observation.
From this day forth I propose we change Chad Thurdercock to Thomas Thunderoo
Thomas Thunderoo is just Chad's British cousin.
Rather Australian than British. A lot of Thunderoos hopping around the outback!
I see you've played knifey spooney before
She didn't cheat. It didn't really count. She doesn't love him, it was just sex, and they aren't married yet anyways. Also, it's not like she doesn't have feelings for him
I'm surprised you can't see what an asshole he is for putting her through that trama
trama = drama + trauma?
I'll allow it.
It's like a tragesty, like when a moron driver crashes into a beautiful car you lovingly restored, or when that own to earth hot chick lets herself go over the summer and becomes a fat gelatinous troll with pink hair.
It's a tragedy, but because it's due to the incompetence or neglect of another, it's a travesty. When combined it's a tragesty.
Ahahaha I don't know how anyone who reads this thought this was serious... Although in women's minds it often is serious.
Really don't get the downvotes
stupid people take it literally
And be safe and put the /s
Be safe and wear a condom and vette properly.. fuck people looking to get offended..
You can vette then properly, she can pass all of it flawlessly, and as soon as you commit she will do the same thing they all do. It's only a matter of time and opportunity.
/s spoils every sarcasm, it's a stupid practice.
Just throw a whole bunch of them...
/s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s /s
Enough sarcasm for you all?
Also a lot of fuckin faggots are seeing TRP now
its the people following the trp link in the comments of the video post
Still don't get it.. someone needs to edit that video and put those cartoonish puffs of smoke coming out of her ears when the hamster explodes..
My bad, I guess I wasn't in the right mind set when I commented. Sorry man.
sound of the world's tiniest violin playing for the poor unmarried cheaters
I dont get your comment. You really need to work on your sarcasm, or you're just stupid enough to be serious?
Either way, get out
It was sarcasm, that is the hamster rationalizing her actions.
"You really need to work on your sarcasm."
How ironic.
His sarcasm was clear to me.
I'm also getting some "men are the real romantics" vibes from this.
That's because most of the time it's the truth. One of my biggest TRP awakings was coming to the realization that men are the true romantics in most cases. She wants to marry him because he will make her look good - it's got nothing to do with what she will or can do for him.
And in most cases a guy getting married knows he has to provide for her and their children.
In most cases a husband is a fashion accessory they can show off to the rest of the world "see what I have"
Feeling more and more like giving up women
I'd rather have conniving pussy than honorable dick.
Men are pretty shameless pathological liars when they want to get some pussy. We will fake the entire relationship, say any bold faced lie to even a long time friend just to tap that shit once. #notallmen of course, but to me it's more of a general weakness in people that forces lying and cheating. Men lie about feelings to get some pussy or to maintain a relationship; women want to maintain the beta relationship and get the good dick on the side, like this chick was doing. Both are pure weakness. No guy who's worth a shit will need to lie about having feelings or even his income.
Dude, you got it all wrong. Faking feelings is the least effective method of getting pussy. You can fake confidence, arrogance, superiority, you name it and it will always be more effective than faking cuddly emotions. If "i love you" got people laid there wouldnt be so many thirsty betas out there.
How do I have it wrong? I wasn't advocating lying in any way. I'm just describing what guys do.
Its not that black and white, I seen alpha lie to get pussy, and beta tell the entire truth and the girl still chooses the alpha. Sure it is weakness, but I think a better would be "Using"
Technically alpha lying. Now I'm not saying you can't make yourself look better than you are with exaggeration but straight up lying doesn't really make you alpha. Part of being alpha is to also be able to back up your talk. If you can't, you're just another beta isn't it? So a beta who lied and a beta who told the truth to the girl. The girl chose the liar because he "appeared" more alpha because she believed the lies. Now if it's alpha lying about commitment and shit. Good job is all I can say
If you have to lie to get pussy, you're beta.
I'm not really a Getaway driver but when they get in my Hellcat their panties drop.
What can I say I like to Role play.
Dodge Hellcat. The one car all beta's I know drive to try and get girls.
The Challenger is a bigger pussy magnet then my Gixxer was.
Women fantasize about the blue pill idea of rose pedals, and candles and shit like that. I think some even like it in real life, but only so they can go brag to their friends about how they were romanced or some shit. Women bragging to other women about romance would be like a man bragging to another man about how powerful he is in his life. Romancing a women is like bending your knee to their authority over you. Once you have romanced them they have conquered you, and then they get bored.
Romance for me is I keep wet naps on the bedroom dresser for women to clean up with after sex...I think the box has a heart on it or some shit.
Isn't that the same with guys??? Boys!!!! This head fuck games shite confuses me... I just want to love someone who loves me. I nearly give up.
This is what immediately came to mind for me. She didn't even seem phased by the candles, the note, and everything involved in this romantic gesture. Fuck, if there was that level of lack-of-enthusiasm for something as small as going out to a nice restaurant for an anniversary or something it would probably make me think twice about the relationship.
I wanna be thw kid riding into the sunset with a pink dildo rofl
What about Chad Thundercock?
I felt for the guy until I saw the chick.
A full tattoo sleeve and tattoos on her feet... He handled it like a boss but everything about that chick says impulsive behavior.
the second I saw the tats I no longer had as much sympathy for him. The flags were there.
Exactly.
Generally, I find tattoos to be masculine. That's why women like them on men because they show a sense of defiance... Well until they became so mainstream.. Tattoos represent a state of mind or a view that you may not always hold as you go through life. For many women, tattoos show their "hardships" and allow them to celebrate their poor decisions by rewriting them as significant milestones. They don't have enough confidence in who they are as people to have someone find them unique on personality alone. So they need things permanently placed on them so that they are always getting some type of attention. The more noticeable the tats the more you should be cautious. And let's be honest, some people are kind of excited in some morbid way when they are close to a tragedy. Because then they have a reason to broadcast their tragedy and express to others that they are tough or hardened. They now have their reason to get that cool meaningful tattoo.
If this dude thought this woman was marriage material I can only imagine his track record with women. He probably met her at a club or rave, had sex with her the first night and felt they had something special.
notice the disgusting tats on chicks arm. They like to mark themselves as damaged goods, pay attention.
I think it's safe to assume that each tattoo a female has is at least equal to one premarital dick.
Can confirm: Ex got a tat after we broke up
I'd say 6-7 premarital dicks per tat, and at least 1 postmarital dick per tat as well.
It's the female version of a fighter ace painting kill markers on his plane.
Today on drugs there was a post about some guy getting cheated on by his gf. There was a comment about the redpill and it got upvoted! I didn't believe my eyes. I mean drugs isn't the most SJW/blue pill community but still
My previous post got deleted because I refereed to drugs as / r / drugs... wtf?
You can't link to other subs here. It's to prevent this sub from being banned for "brigading". That's been a rule here for well over a year now. That's why all links to other reddit posts are archive links.
Oh okay I get that, I read trp but never post
Make another account you are posting on your main one which could be linked back to you.
Haha thanks, my whole main account is a throwaway. I only use reddit for gaming subs, drugs and trp
Interesting that this rule is in place, and yet linking to other posts is the ONLY function of ShitRedditSays.
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Their purpose is to maintain control of "the narrative". By downvoting non-conforming opinions they promote reddit's political agenda. They're a lot like the violent elements of Islamic societies: the non-violent elements are able to legitimately deny involvement while still benefiting from their actions.
They're like the Borg-Virus of the internet.
"Guys! This post right here is so thought provoking and its forcing me to re-examine my view on things which I don't like. Can you please help me hamster this away!"-SRS
you are allowed to link if you don't brigade, problem is brigading is impossible to prevent even with archiving so you need a policy that you can hide behind.
Correct, it has happened to me and the autobot explains what got your post deleted but not why.
I use archive.is, but isn't there a method that looks something like
I've seen that but not figured it out
We tried, but that still got whiners bitching and moaning about brigading so we just nipped it all in the bud with zero linking via the bot.
That was me, and the comment I explicitly mentioned TRP in was downvoted to oblivion, as it was x-posted to TBP. It now sits on -20 and burried at the bottom, despite my best attempts to provide insight (which I knew from the beginning would be futile).
You weren't the one I was talking about but thank you for destroying your Internet points for the cause! Those people at tbp are delusional as fuck lol and they feel that they should judge us... fucking laughable
oh shit, i'd like to read the one you were talking about then! but yeah i acknowledge that it's a satire geared sub, but they see things so black and white, without realizing that everything here and there is much more nuanced.
I was talking about some guy who only put a link to trp in his comment but your is older than his and much more documented. As always as long as it's not us brigading it doesn't seem to be a problem
Why would we give a fuck about them to the point of brigading? We're her for self improvement, learning how to get laid (or helping others to that end) and the Phyrric victory we'd get is nothing useful to us.
Those people think they are somebody because they can ruin imaginary Internet points. They're the epitome of small minds.
I didn't mean we should be brigading lol I don't give a fuck about karma. I mean if ever some rper were brigading the sub would be instantly banned when those fucktards can brigade all they want without fearing consequence.
If you're going to mention TRP, say it and have done. Never defend it, even when the replies are all heavily upvoted for attacking it. They can downvote you, but they can never force you to apologise, and unapologetic bluntness is anathema to the sleeping world.
Mos likely that they're open to new things and ideas, and being heavy drug users or interested in drugs, they're used to having society hate them at large.
Not surprised people who are open minded enough to experiment with drugs aren't opposed to viewing the world from a different perspective than mainstream blue pill. Most people have it hammered into them from a young age that drugs all drugs are bad and will have detrimental effects. Same as blue pill mentality.
Personally I agree but I saw a lot of redpillers not being really keen about drugs
Drugs are a double-edged sword.
Drugs like alcohol and marijuana I don't care for because they dope your mind and slow you down. Drugs like coke and speed can be useful if you have to get something done, but they're addictive and expensive.
I limit my drug use to only when it's necessary, but by that same token, I won't hesitate if it is necessary.
Oh yeah, and never fuck with heroin, no matter what.
I don't really like "pure hedonistic drugs" like opiates. I prefer weed and psychedelics before they make me think. Each to their own anyway.
Eh, if you can fake an ADHD condition you can get a cheaper, weaker (and much safer) version of those drugs like Adderall and Ritalin.
See, the thing is, with this particularly brand of skank, she probably HATES the fact that he went through all this dopey romantic shit. I know the guy's intent was to show her all the "emotional investment" she was going to be missing out on. On some girls that "slipped up" that might work. But, you can see from the look on her face when she first sits down, she is thinking "I actually have to read through all this shit and put up with this nonsense just to get the ring?; ughh, whatevs" All she cares about is the money and status. She seems precisely like the kind of demented ho bag that is going to retaliate and try and ruin this guy's life now, all the while enjoying tom rue.
She will be more pissed about cleaning the glitter and having to find a new BB than anything else. She certainly won't be SHAMED over this.
If the guy really needed to "get back at her" for his own emotional/personal closure/development, he would have been better off doing something in front of her friends/family--i.e. doing something that would affect her social status.
Pretty sure she's about to become Internet famous which will blast a hole in both her social standing but also that of any alphas she's more secretive with than Thomas.
Her life is about to be fucked and she deserves every second of it.
This will make the Daily Mail. England is still surprisingly traditional--she'll probably have to move. Edit: aaand it made the Daily Mail.
Good. Cheating people should have to move.
My name is TRPidation and I support this message.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3337537/Is-best-dumping-set-Man-fools-cheating-girlfriend-think-s-PROPOSE-drop-bombshell-knows-s-to.html
yea, but he couldnt have counted on that happening when making that whole 15 minute video.
to me, this just seems like blue pill revenge porn that shows exactly how ignorant the blue pill mind is regarding the nature of women.
PS: not all porn is "fake". What I mean is this is entertainment especially catering to blue pillers who have ever had a bad relationship with a typical basic bitch.
It's not revenge porn. Porn is fake. This is real.
What you're witnessing is a man still stuck in the bluepill social conditioning finding his testicles and, instead of pleading with her and negotiating for her affection at his own expense, sticking it to the bitch exactly where women are most vulnerable: societal approval.
I feel like several members of this sub have this tendency to forget where we all came from. Within the BP mind, this is a massive first step.
I dont disagree that this is a big first step for him, but he seemed to completely misunderstand women to the point where you wonder if it was his first step into TRP or his first step into another bad relationship.
I say this because he tries to hurt her with things he thinks women care about. ie the romance, glitter, romantic music, poems
He is still a romantic at heart and I bet he will be a BB for another girl within the year.
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there are gradients.
western women are the worst when it comes to whorishness while those from collectivist cultures tend to not be as much.
I sincerely doubt your perceptions match reality. women are social animals, they know how to act socially. look at the video on the front page about the guy who broke up with his cheating gf. without knowing she cheated, you would never have guessed she did based on how she acted around him. in my opinion, your friend's relationship is a ticking timebomb waiting to go off.
women simply differ on how much their suppress that side of themselves and in how honest they are with society about their whorishness (you would be surprised how wild many "proper" girls can be)
Seems like it was purposely taken to the extreme bp type shit to build it up more, and make it seem genuine or whatever. I can't really describe it but the somewhat elaborate setup seems like the best way to do such a thing, and lol glitter never goes away.
Much better than just filming him saying caught you or Iknow who tommy thunderoo is or whatever.
but he could have just broken all contact like a real redpiller
doing all this shit just showed that he ultimately cared. based on her reaction to the whole thing, I think he cared more about it than her even as he was driving away.
this wasnt some Machiavellian mind game bs, it was a dude that was hurting enough to seek revenge in such a ridiculous manner. seriously, if he were this mastermind, he would have gotten her to put on the nose.
You don't think that the whole situation is a parody of that fantasy?
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are you new to trp?
have you read the entirety of the sidebar?
Speak for yourself. We all didn't come from being Beta.
Congratulations.
That's what this subreddit is for.
I see a lot of guys engaging in a cock-measuring contest on here nowadays, much like college frat guys trying to out-alpha each other.
We must never forget that one of this subreddit's primary purposes for existing is to save beta males from the venus fly trap they're heading into.
*Watches cool Brit dude creatively break up with his ho and filming it for thousands to see
-"Nah real men would just pick up a hotter sloot off the street, its obvious Brit dude is nothing but pure pathetic beta"
*eats a handful of doritos *chugs it down with Mtndew *scratches neckbeard
(BTW what language was this filmed in? Can anybody add some English subtitles pleeez?)
I think what he did was fashionable. Straight up dope shit, who cares about how the bitch feels. This doesn't read like vengeance to me, it is more like a bad ass dump for his sake and I enjoyed it.
With age comes perspective. My 25-year old self would agree, as I did something very similar with an ex-fiance, although not as elaborate, at that age. I had a great need for vengeance.
Today me would just be like, fuck it, get out, bye.
I wish I could say I would do something like this, but I just don't give a fuck anymore either. I guess as you hit your mid-30s, you just lose tolerance for bullshit and elaborate fuckery.
I think part of it is value of time. Other part is just being hardened to the shittiness of people and the world.
Exactly. If you are spending that much time thinking about someone unworthy, you've already lost.
I just turned twenty and I already don't give a fuck.
Send her more glitter in the mail
There's actually a website for that. Send your enemies glitter. That shit never fucking goes away. Haha
Women care about shame. But I see what you're saying, if he didn't record it, she wouldn't have given 2 fucks. But this is gonna go viral, and she doesn't want to be a cheating cunt on viral.
Really puts a wrench in the works for her if her tactics are made public knowledge.
It's why so many hate TRP; it shines light on the cockroaches that thrive in the darkness of ignorance at others expense.
The other thing that people are missing is that this viral video shows women what could happen if you cheat on your boyfriend/soon to be fiancée. It also shows men that your partner could be cheating and not to take it laying down.
doubt it, some chumpster will manage to convince themselves she's a unicorn
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It is on Youtube... Even her mother will likely see this video.
Ok, may be generational difference then. Being an old geezer, I, perhaps underestimated the exposure the video would get.
I don't ever watch people's private channels on youtube except when linked on reddit.
So, if this is the modern equivalent of dropping pictures of your finance in bed with someone else during the engagement dinner party with family and friends, I stand corrected.
It's much worse. A lot of tabloid sites grab popular stories from Reddits front page and report them. This is exactly the kind of story that's viral enough to gain a lot of clicks, so it'll be reposted by these sites a lot. Especially British ones. Her whole family will very likely see it.
Well one thing is for sure, everybody on their social circle will see it. That's enough to do her some social damage.
Everyone will likely see the video since it went viral, but most youtube videos have something like 5 views. This will definitely be seen by everyone because people will want to know why the wedding is off. I'm confused as to why the proposal was after the wedding planning, but he clearly said she was cheating on him while planning the wedding, so family and friends will want to know what happened, and this video will be front and center.
With the amount of views this video has, I'm positive all her family and friends already know about this video.
You get it.
She really gave zero fucks about the whole thing.
What do you expect from a sloot de la sloot?
That was my thought exactly as I was watching. She's not crying, she never said, "I love you," "this is so sweet," "I'm so excited," etc... The only thing she had a real reaction to was seeing the setup initially and then seeing the trip. Reading the letter she looked straight up bored, if not annoyed that she had to read such a long letter. She looks like a slutty soccer mom before the kids came along.
She will be inconvenienced by this. Her friends and family will find out she was cheating and she'll be upset that she was the one who ended up with a viral youtube video. She'll even feel sorry for herself.
I agree. Her reaction to the "who the fuck is Thomas Roo" bit looked more like her face was saying "and? What does that matter?" rather than the face of heartbreak or shock.
Also note the fact that he says at the beginning that he has had this happen to him before with "Becky"
The real sad part is that this guy is probably going to have it happen again if he thinks candles, music, rose petals, and love poems is what makes women swoon.
It'll make her swoon... if other women are jealous of it.
"Never cheat on me; just tell me to walk away, like Becky did, and I won't cause you any hassle. And I haven't done with Becky. I haven't spoke to her for two year - bless her - still love her to bits."
This guy's love life is way too complicated.
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I got the impression that this was basically just throwing it all in her face. He goes through it all clearly knowing it's over-the-top and ridiculous, talking about "glitter and shit" everywhere. He made her wear the antlers and nose to look stupid. She clearly wasn't into it, and she straight up refused to wear the nose.
I thought he made it so disgustingly romantic to fuck with her.
People are starting to wake up.
Edit: Video in question can be viewed without login by adding "nsfw" in front of youtube and after the "." like so
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Ah, the drunken rant. A reddit classic.
TRP is a philosophy without flexibility because it's much better for these guys to hold themselves in high regard to the point of fault than their previous inclinations. To go from niceguy to healthy, first you must pass through the eye of the needle; you must address your lack of self-worth and your pedestalisation of women. TRP does that well. Once guys start getting laid off TRP they mellow out to a nice medium. That's the transition from the anger phase to the acceptance phase.
paraxology. not philosophy
And you're thinking too much. It's just men swapping notes, comparing problems, and more importantly solutions, with none of the hamster involved (ideally)
yes it is, but for a man to accept that he's been told a lie about women by society, and that his dream will never be fulfilled, he's going to be filled with grief/anger and must go through the stages. The understanding is written down here, the journey of the individual mindset is the hard part.
And my use of "philosophy" as a wording was based off of the previous poster's. I would generally suggest TRP is a community around a mindset, or personal philosophy, rather than a general philosophy.
This is the only part I disagree with. That's the 100% reason anyone should be here. Only a dream based on womens imperative is ruined, but that wasn't really a mans dream anyways.
A mans goal is easily obtainable, when it's his own true one IMO.
Hell, since starting my journey, I've gotten the CL-S acting right. Left a toxic career, have up to 2 years to rest if I need (but am persuing my goal) traveling the world again...
Goals are easily obtainable, if you disregard that bullshit you've been fed about what 'everyone else wants'
I think thats why I never had the same anger phase as many in here, it was like a weight, lifted off my shoulders. It's not longer a relationship of equals, its a captain and first mate (much easier for a sailor to adapt to) it's no longer a race to money, it's opportunity costs. It's femenism running rampant, but most of those problems involve some kind of opt-in from me. Without a marriage, marriage and kids, or the need to fuck college gender studies majors. removing value leeching people from my life, even though you are 'supposed to ... whatever'
It was freeing. Hell, I'm drinking the bubbly right now. Half celebrating my dogs successful surgery, but I'll tip a glass for a pragmatic view of the world and it's people.
Everyone knows the rules now, theres no reason to be angry
Agreed - replacing society's pre-made dream with your own, constructed from self-understanding, is part of the journey. The dream that goes unfulfilled is the fairytale "and they lived happily ever after" dream, which was really only meant for the girl all along. But the number of guys holding out for their perfect princess who'll complete them is staggering.
The word is praxeology. If you're going to correct someone at least be correct yourself.
thanks for the spell correction
You'd be an idiot to believe this
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He is amazing. Documenting and pointing out there's no damage anywhere, leaving his key, blowing out the candles. His ass is covered.
What about that drink he gave her? Just playing devil's advocate.
Heh, she could claim that she passed out due to him spiking the drink.
The thing that stood out to me was the other comments in the thread. Most were about glitter or other bullshit, and not even commenting on what a total whore this girl was. Reddit being unplugged? I'll hold my breath.
Just looking her up and down gave me the skank vibe.
Shitty arm tats. Not pretty and knows it.
Yeah, really. Not sure why I don't see more of this in the top comments. Her character is quite apparent based on her appearance.
It's funny. You and I can see that straight away (I mean, the eyebrows alone!), but why is it so many other men can't see it? The guy seems like a typical British working class guy, so I guess he's grown up surrounded like girls like that. I don't know, I can't figure it out.
You cant be creative stating the obvious...
The total whore part was obvious and everyone agrees
That was great. Laughed my ass off. Sure maybe he Invested a bit much into doing it but personally I think he handled it well. None of that beta frame breaking screaming and crying.
did you hear his voice quivering while reading the poem?
doing this shit was tearing him up inside.
edit: how can you guys agree that he didnt let his pain show after I gave an example of him showing his pain and especially after the entire video which could only be orchestrated by someone hurt enough to do it. anyone who gets revenge is showing their pain.
The guy is still human. A quivering voice doesn't mean he didn't handle his shit. It means he handled the breakup in a stoic and civil manner. Being RP doesn't mean u don't get hurt; it means that u do ur best to never let them (women) see you hurt, never let women see you vulnerable.
Throwing away a multi year LTR because your woman is a whore hurts; it hurts all of us, no matter how much you wanna fling your dick around, puff out your chest and pretend it doesn't. The difference is that a BP man seeks solace and sympathy from his mother and other women who say "it's ok the right woman is out there". The RP man seeks advice from his brothers on how not to get ass-raped again.
EDIT to /u/cynicalprick01's edit: Did his voice quiver? Sure it did, though I don't think it was that bad. But did he do what most men do when they find out their woman is a cheating whore? Did he go into a whipped up frenzy of:
He didn't throw a temper tantrum, he didn't emasculate himself by "promising to be a better boyfriend" so he doesn't "chase his woman into the arms of another man", which is the typical justification other women use to excuse a woman cheating. He handled it as best he knew how without a full understanding of TRP and the true nature of women that we preach here.
tl/dr, if a quivering voice was the full extent of his frame fissure, he could have done a whole lot worse.
Hopefully someone puts this dude onto TRP.
He sounds like he is pretty RP already, except for LTR'ing a skank.
The arm sleeve tattoo gave it away immediately that she was a skank.
and no one is arguing this point.
the person I responded to said that he "handled it well", which I disagreed with. based on your post, I don't think you would agree that he "handled it well".
Like this came as a surprise to him? Just look at her face. She's obviously a whore. Thousand cock stare.
Seriously, so many guys, especially when we're young, go into the "how could you do this?" rant. I was guilty of it when my first college girlfriend cheated on me, but a good bro of mine (who slept with a lot of women) smacked me back into shape. I went back to end things and did so with a solid frame. She was begging me to take her back by the end of it.
This guy held solid frame, but honestly I think he would've been better off without the stunt. No matter how you slice it, he went to considerable effort to cause her pain. Regardless of whether or not it's justified, the act itself is a break of frame since it acknowledges that he was hurt enough to shame her and then share it with the world. He's still miles ahead of most guys, and the video was entertaining as fuck, but she would've been more hurt if he discarded her and moved on quickly.
lol no. she would've forgotten about him in 2 days. you think this skank can have feelings? the only thing women can't handle is consequence and this video is consequence.
But he stuck it out anyway. At any time prior to her coming home, he could have called the whole thing off. I know he had to have a stomach ache, shaking fingers, the whole thing.
He chose to follow through.
You don't have to LIKE what you're doing; you just have to do it.
but he didnt have to do any of that.
the fact that he went through the trouble of doing that whole thing is nothing to be proud of.
in this subreddit, we dont praise men for doing petty bs in order to appear alpha or whatever. we favor stoicism. so, why are we praising this guy for doing this petty bs then playing with dildos afterwards when he could have just moved out without saying a word?
I think it's about style. He did what he wanted to do and didn't get walked all over by a whore. He wanted to fuck with her and he did then he left. I wouldn't have done it and I can certainly see how you could call it childish. I guess what I'm trying to say is I don't really have a problem with revenge even if it's petty. That woman will never suffer any consequences for her shitty behavior so it feels nice to manufacture your own karma sometimes.
look, all I am saying is getting petty revenge is in no way "alpha" and has nothing to do with TRP philosophy.
I expect this behavior to be praised in the videos subreddit, but that is not TRP. In TRP, we dont hold up blue pill behavior as praiseworthy.
Dude did you see how much glitter was in that carpet. That shit is hever ever coming out.
Totally pro revenge.
I have read some of your posts on the video and I think you are taking TRP philosophy as black and white. Its not. It is situationally dependant. One of the things I picked up on was what he wanted his frame to be during the event and after. Hence filming the property is in good nick before to returning the key and driving off at the end. He was controlling the narrative of the situation throughout whilst at the same time shutting down any possible social recourse she may attempt in the future. She had already shamed him, he knew it, so controlled the ending of the relationship as he saw fit to his situation. Might nit be my cup of tea ir yours but certainly he has more facts on the situation than you or I. He had a goal and achieved it. Nothing wrong with that.
On breakups TRP advises in a nutshell to get your shit in order, protect yourself going forward then gtfo. He did that. The semantics of how are moot.
I dunno man. Maybe I'm just not as alpha as you. I'd probably do the same shit he did, petty or not. It'd feel good.
Yet he didn't let it show. Trust me I've seen guys find out the girl was a slut and then go batshit. Scream, break shit, and even hit her. It doesn't end well. Even when it does end well she somehow reverse shames him and hes the one apologizing or she ruins his reputation.
Many men would have handled it in a childish non stoic manner. Not stating that this was completely stoic or even the best way to handle it but still better than a lot of men.
Even hit her. In lots of Latino countries, the guys have murdered their women once they found her cheating. This guy handled it like a boss, and decided to make it entertaining. Most of all for himself, I suppose.
eh, that's not saying much
I honestly dont think his behavior is anything to be proud of.
very childish for a man his age.
edit: not saying he handled it in the worst way possible, but are we really praising men for not freaking out or getting their reputation ruined during a break up now?
I think he invested as much as was necessary to achieve his catharsis.
The guy isn't a trained actor, im sure that was genuine nervousness. Lots of planning and time invested was on the line.
love the "it must have been love" song in the background
god, you can tell the dude is hurting deep down from all the little touches.
I feel for the guy.
The red pill isn't news to anybody. It's such common knowledge that the world has to try HARD to act like it doesn't already know it. The only shock is that we're actually saying what we are, instead of arguing that rape should be legal.
I think it is news.
Everyone I know is acting like they're in blue pill la la land. Every time a guy gets screwed over, everyone (including the guy himself) just says "I haven't met the right one yet". Guys believe that money is attractive to women rather than useful. The merit of being in shape is not even acknowledged ("grown up women see beyond the superficial"). It's all about "finding my soul mate" and crap like that. The nature of female attraction, manipulation, opportunism is not addressed. The destructive-to-attraction nature of commitment isn't even on their radar.
It's possible that they're all pretending (in order to fit in) while in reality think otherwise... but the guys actions are all blue pill as fuck as well as their words. My friends are either looking for a unicorn or married or being loyal to crazy disloyal ho's.
Everyone seems to be playing this BP game, and women are creaming off the profits of course. Obviously women know the full depths of all the TRP truths, which is why they fight so hard to present their disney dreams so damned hard.
Blue pill men know what's wrong. They're just afraid to say it and afraid to think it. They're not as nuanced in their ideas as red pillers are, but they know that they're not having as much sex as the women, not getting the free respect they were promised, and they're jealous of the women for the lives women get to live.
I think men know something is wrong... they're unhappy, not getting what they want. But what makes me think they don't have a clue is that they just double down with the blue pill nonsense and start treating women even better, to their own detriment.
I talked to a guy last night, bemoaning Tinder because it removed the friendship element from dating. The rest of the room agreed, and most of the men thought friendship was an excellent start to a relationship ("why wouldn't you want to date your best friend?"). After I scoffed (noone else dared speak up), the women eventually agreed that friendship should be a big part of a relationship, even though the relationship can't be based on that (none of them are going to say the friendzone isn't a thing). Blue pill faggotry examples were proffered to support their viewpoints, including "They were friends for 5 years and then they got together" (yeah yeah, I bet they did... step up Mr Beta, it's your turn now!)
Personally I always felt something was deeply deeply wrong - mostly because women acted nothing like the disney fantasies they professed to want so badly. They never kept up their end of things, and I never knew why. I always questionned this, and I was always shouted down by men and women alike. Total emperor's new clothes stuff.
Most other men don't seem to even have the guts to bemoan women in private, never mind stand up to them in public. They've no fucking hope of ever knowing what's really going on, even those that are relatively successful with women. Maybe those guys even less likely, because they don't see the long term picture until its too late.
Friends for 5 years before dating? I'd put my net worth on her having more sexual partners during those 5 years than him. I'd also stake it on him looking/earning better at the 5 year mark than at day 0.
Why is the concept of a marketplace so alien to these people?
Because people are suckered into the Disney fairytale of "get a whole load of stuff they don't deserve". For women this means not having to do much to get security / commitment / support / alimony. For men this means believing they'll find their special virgin nympho who will always appreciate him for who he is deep down inside.
Everyone reinforces this for their own benefit. But the real game is always the marketplace. But that seems harsh. A market has no affection. A market doesn't fulfil people's needs to feel wanted, loved, supported, needed. It seems brutal and harsh, so they hide from it.
Also... it's MUCH easier to persuade yourself that there is a special someone out there, than it is to build yourself into something worthy of that person, so that's what people do. Delusion is easier than reality.
And in the case of men especially, they are utterly deluded about the nature of female attraction (mostly because women consistently lie about it, in order to secure their beta bucks).
as someone who has recently swallowed the pill, I certainly knew that something was wrong, but I didnt know what it was.
Like... a splinter in your mind?
no, more like a hangnail on my frontal lobes, or maybe the lead from that pencil I stabbed myself with accidently as an idiot child.
(He was keeping it in the theme of the matrix if you didn't get it)
Morpheus: I know exactly what you mean. Let me tell you why you're here. You're here because you know something. What you know you can't explain, but you feel it. You've felt it your entire life, that there's something wrong with the world. You don't know what it is, but it's there, like a splinter in your mind, driving you mad. It is this feeling that has brought you to me.
...
It is the world that has been pulled over your eyes to blind you from the truth.
Neo: What truth?
Morpheus: That you are a slave, Neo. Like everyone else you were born into bondage. Into a prison that you cannot taste or see or touch.
A prison for your mind.
I agree, it's the "splinter in your mind". You know something is wrong, you know the promises you swallowed aren't real, but you can't put it exactly into words, or act with a clear purpose. That's the magic of the red pill, everything becames clear and you are given the choice to act or not, but in a very defined way. That thing is completely missing in the blue pill mentality.
exactly.
I thought it was a personality flaw that I could never identify and therefore could never correct.
I mean, it was a personality flaw, but luckily one that could be corrected over time when properly identified after swallowing TRP.
They face social censure (gee guess which gender tends to wield social power more ruthlessly as a whole?) every time they voice even an inkling of having perceived part of the truth.
It happens often enough they stop trying to see and just try to get through the day pretending their shins don't hurt.
Well I disagree... Some BP may know what is wrong but many of us are indeed clueless. I had no idea about any of this before finding TRP.
I didn't think something was wrong, I simply thought most of them were not interested in me.
They don't always. That's the thing. I was truly clueless in high school, became more aware my first year in college after a tough break up (I was shocked she would cheat on me), and then things started to click when I joined a fraternity. RP has taken me from a point where I know what's wrong and rarely act on it to a point where actually direct my life in a meaningful direction.
However, had I stayed in that relationship and continued to hang around blue pill guys, I probably would still think that "I love you" got girls wet.
I think it depends on how naturally alpha they are. There's a difference between alpha blue pill and beta blue pill. Alpha BP are still alpha and still having it easy with chicks despite their BP programming (quite a few friends of mine fit into this category, call themselves feminists, treat their GFs very well, and pretty much just accept things for what they are). It's the Beta and Omega BP guys who really suffer - they're getting a hard time, and no one gives a fuck about them.
See: Good Charlotte - Girls & Boys
"Girls don't like boys, girls like cars and money..."
"The girls with the bodies like boys with Ferraris"
It would be great to see an Archive.is link to the reddit post, I'd love to see what all the beta morons and women are saying.
It was in the videos subreddit. Title was "the best dumping video of a cheating girl you will ever see".
This reminds me of the time my exgirlfriend told she wanted a boyfriend AND a husband: someone to take care of her and someone to have fun with.
What a terrible thing to say. But so predictable now.
Heard the best story from a customer yesterday. When his wife told him she wanted a divorce he went to his fathers place later.
His father saw his face and asked what was wrong.
Customer said nothing was wrong.
His father kept asking until his son finally told him that his wife wanted a divorce.
His father is 75 years old and from italy, tells him some old italian saying about not being able to climb a ladder with dead weight on your feet.
The son is like wtf?
'Dump the bitch' his father said.
Then proceeded with, 'son, i had to slap your mother around when you were younger. Women dont change, they were the same then as they are now. The difference today is that men are a bunch of poofters. There were times i told her to pack her bags and leave if she didn't like her life.'
I miss the good old days.
Why would you want to slap a woman? Violence is beta behavior. And it exposes you to all kinds of legal trouble.
Really? I thought submission was beta behavior.
You can't think of anything else? There are just two options? Slap or submit? Really?
Well in nature we have fight or flight, so yes, two options is rather fitting.
It didn't used to be beta behavior. Men used to slap women around to get them back in line.
Go watch Sean Connery's famous Barbara Walters interview. He admits he'd hit a woman. But has never needed to hit his wife.
See it like a 'tsst' cesar milan uses. Its to snap them out of their fit.
Violence has always been beta behavior, except for maybe at war (and even that is questionable). People used to do all kinds of stupid shit in the past, we got smarter since then. If you have to resort to violence, you've already lost your frame, you ran out of arguments, and you don't have the balls to just walk away from the stupid situation.
I see a lot of simplistic responses to this question. It entirely depends on the context and to be honest, violence has always been a trait of the alpha male. It's just that it isn't sporadic, it's controlled chaos. You gotta be the guy that can get down if he has to.
There's a big difference between self defense and attacking someone much weaker than yourself. One is fine. Another one isn't. Both legally and morally.
I also think you're confusing "alpha" with "aggressive". While they can overlap, they aren't the same thing.
Assuming women are much weaker is a pedestal, no? We dont do this here.
Wow. You really got down voted.
Funny thing is i sort of agree with you.
Hitting a woman is wrong but i don't think it's beta.
Some men are just too alpha though. Like bikers and those gangbangers and such. Im sure they've got their hands dirty a few times. Try calling those guys beta.
I have an older cousin i looked up to as a kid, and this guy is alpha as fuck. The only time he has hit women is when they hit him first. But that's his philosophy with anyone. You could scream at him and call him anything all day and he won't touch you. But as soon as you lay a hand on him, all bets are off.
It's much better to react to a woman with logic and rationality. Like the late patrice o'neil used to say.
I was just illustrating the difference between then and now.
So yeah, you're right about not hitting women, but i don't think you are beta if you do.
Maybe she was just meeting up for "some kisses".
Ok, so she touched his penis a bit too.
She had tattoo in the first place... he lost by default
So many comments about tattoos, is having tattoos a sing I'm not familiar with?
Tatoos is a flag, in the same way as drinking too much is a flag. There are some easy-to-spot indicators that a girl might be a slut.
Huge red flag. Don't go near girls with tattoos.
Girl with tattoo, especially the cheap one ( Star ) are attention whore and whore or whore in waiting. They like the lust guy have over them but their personnality are blank as fuck have nothing to bring in a man life exept companionship and sex and a nice smile. They gonna cheat on you or branch swing at the first occasion she have if you're not performing in your life.
I'm RedPill famous!!!
Cue 100 comments about people "waking up". No they fucking aren't. Everyone knows this stuff, the problem is not that women act like this, it's that men don't see the error in their ways that lead to it.
This sub has thousands of users and they are all in that thread gloating. Like me.
Schadenfreude level: Euphoric!
It would have been better if he went through with the hole wedding fiasco only to shame her at the altar in front of her friends and family.
This is a lot of wasted energy for little gain. The girl in question isn't going to care that she got caught cheating but could cause a shit storm because her identity was revealed against her will.
She'll be sucking Thomas's balls by the end of the day.
If he needed to do this for his own mental wellness, so be it. But, there is a lot of shit he's opened himself up to.
The goal isn't to keep her off Tom's dick.
The goal was to publicly shame her and prevent her from saying he beat her or some shit.
I honestly don't think he cares if she goes to Tom, nor should you.
Tom was the AF, video guy was the BB. Tom isn't gonna commit to her after the beta left. She's fucked.
She also looked like she was almost 40. No way is she getting another BB.
wrong, some other thirsty ass beta will tell her how beautiful she is, what a special snowflake she is, and rush in to fill the void. don't underestimate the thirstiness of betas.
All betas must die. They ruin the world with their ways.
Would be nice if that happened, but post-wall women are still going to bear the fruit of the beta to lock down resources for life.
Fuck off betas are needed too
Oh she will. In the UK there are a hopeless amount of men hoping to find a babe that'll just give them the time of day. It's sad being surrounded by it to be honest.
It's a desert out there, and that makes for a lot of thirsty guys.
I know. Agree 100%.
Hence I call him "not a total beta". He's somewhere in between his transformation from blue to red now. If he was red, he wouldn't have gotten married in the first place, second he wouldn't commit, third he wouldn't waste his energy on a 'revenge dump video', wouldn't bother 'making her feel guilty' about her behaviour etc.
Edit: Oh wait, a comment on the main thread says the same thing, just slightly better.
Yes but he covers his ass. Considering UK guidelines just came out which put the burden of proof on the accused to prove a woman consented, breaking up with indisputable proof that you did no wrong is not a small thing.
Is this really a thing? Fucking hell, honestly.
Yep.
The U.K., aka capital of the regressive left.
Mate, thanks for the heads up. Will now make sure i have my phone on record when needed.
No problem. Dunno if it would stand up in court, but I try to take a post-fuck selfie with the girl as some sort of insurance. It's also a nice souvenir.
Nice one mate, will do that.
Anonymous sociopath is a hero
There's a top post about white stains or whatever. He just fucks her and leaves, not sure if he even says why.
She might be sucking Thomas' balls for now, but when she has to rely on cats for companionship years down the line, you bet your ass she will remember this day.
This is a revenge fantasy. Truth is this video will be eventually taken down and everybody will forget about it, and she'll have to find a new provider. Which she probably will find.
Plenty of bitches end up with cats because they are unlovable insufferable cunts. There's no happy ever after for her. So what if she gets another dude? How long will that last until she fucks that up as well? Bitch is damaged goods, cats it is then.
I see this term getting thrown around a lot... is it supposed to mean anything? I'm starting to think it's becoming a way for SJWs to infiltrate. It's not a fantasy, I could care less, it's just how they end up.
Of course she will 3nuc. Guaranteed. But like IllimitableMan said, she is going to fuck it up. That's how these women are. Toxic. They never change. And whatever provider they have, they will never be satisfied. So even though she may not care right now, her life will be ruled by unhappiness, dissatisfaction, etc.
Have a look at the RedPillWomen - these are actually good women, and some of them are having trouble finding the man they want. You think a low quality bitch like the woman in the video stands a chance?Never gonna happen.
you can't get a video off the internet.
How does that benefit the guy?
He's gone. He's benefitted the most.
Exactly. Who cares how she feels down the road.
Oh they care.
Not because they are losing a bf, but solely because they are embarrassed about getting caught..
It's a pride thing, they think they are uncatchable
That and her newly enhanced reputation now means it will be harder to sucker a new wallet- I mean man, into committing to her ass.
you just know there will be tons of men jumping to white knight this chick the moment anyone tries to criticize her.
Yeah, that's what struck me, the wasted effort, especially since the things he wants, eg: her to feel what he feels or to get some kind of justice, just will never happen. This probably seemed much cooler in this guy's head while he was thinking it up. When he's telling her about the trip and all you can clearly hear him holding back tears, I assume he's trying to mask them as tears of joy but....nahhhhh, not to mention she gives a suspicious look at his phone when he leaves her in the room to read the letter. I imagine she knew something was up from the get go, she probably read it on his face.
The best revenge you can get on a person like that is make them think you don't care in the slightest and carry on like it's no big deal.
You have to be as nonchalant as possible, if you break down or crack, you lost. You've gotta make sure you can maintain composure before you try something like this. "Hey I saw some texts that you've been cheating on me. Wow that's new, I was gonna marry you. Good thing I found out now, I mean can you imagine how stupid I would look if I had actually gone through with it? I mean wooooooow I would feel like SUCH an idiot. Whew, thank god for small miracles though huh? High five! Hey what are you thinking for dinner?"
She'd have a meltdown and probably try to kill you, it would be hilarious. You'd probably definitely need the video if you went that route though.
Edit: This example is a better strategy. A man discovers cheating, goes immediate no contact but drops some of ex's things by her mom's house. The man makes nice with her mom but doesn't say why they broke up and just runs off the porch in tears, so that mom continually guilts the cheater years and years later. This example is better because he doesn't show weakness to the cheater and she never gets closure, he then intentionally ruins the cheater's relationship with her mother. You have to be targeted and ruthless if you want revenge on a cheating woman.
Edit2: Comment from above thread worth repeating, "The power of the high road must never be relinquished. People who make poor, scummy, idiotic, vicious, and mean decisions will forever reap the rewards of their behavior when confronted with kindness and sadness for their actions."
When I got married (yeah yeah), my new mother-in-law made it clear, in no uncertain terms that I will not come between her and her daughter; that I more or less married her too.
In a stellar moment for myself, I told her that should circumstances ever come to a point where my wife had to choose between her mother and me, I would choose for her and she would get her mother.
The MIL smiled, but that is when I told her it would be a cold, pyrrhic victory because forever after, every time she looked at her mother, she would see the woman that drove away the guy she adored.
I also made a point of reminding the MIL the marriage license said I married one woman and one woman only and it wasn't her.
It took over five years before the MIL decided to make peace with me. I was surprised to see my wife take my side and tell her mother to play nice & be nice or else she could go pound sand. Much later after the fact, I found out that my FIL was also trying to get my MIL to make nice as well.
Definitely unexpected.
It's not wasted energy if it gave him closure.
It was a serious enough relationship for him to propose to her in the first place and enough for his voice to break when reading the poem.
Taking a few weeks to plan out and execute an elaborate finale probably helped him cope with the revelation that his fiance was a whore. Something like that doesn't just sink in a few minutes after reading the text messages.
I'd wager it also helped by setting a specific finish line for him. Setup the finale, go through with the execution, reveal your knowledge and the consequences to her in no uncertain terms, do it all civilly, have some fun in the process and by the end of it on this specific date it's all over and he moves on with his life.
Once it goes viral he also has the record set straight before she has a chance to go batshit crazy. Even if the police were not going to get involved, it doesn't take much to turn the social tide for a woman when she can just mention "abuse" vaguely and from that moment on, he is the bad guy.
He knew she was volatile. What better way to ensure his and her friends/family see how it really went down rather than the he-said she-said that inevitably ensues.
I thought he did well. Really well.
Doesn't matter what she thinks after. It's about him and that released whatever shit that he went through. It's done and he can go live his life.
Little gain? This was catharsis for him. It was going the extra mile because he thought it'd be amusing.
It's an example of Black Knighting of the highest order.
He wasn't doing this to make her feel bad. Her feelings are irrelevant to him at this point. He was doing it because seeing her reaction brought him pleasure.
8mil views got to count for something
She could sue him but both her and Thomas are gonna probably hide of the manhunt that will ensue upon them. Time for him cover his ass.
That's the think, he knows the game:
He specifically counters that by videoing his escape with no rage. Then posts it online first. This makes the public side with him. Legality isn't the point, the fact that he reversed the direction of the point is the great bit.
You spoiled the end, asshole!
As did the guy who made the video.
Nobody can help caring. The trick is always choosing women that you cannot care about. But if you have to go through this, why not wait until the wedding vows?
"I loved you since I first laid eyes on you. And today was my dream since our first kiss." Pour it on...
"I have a question I'd like to ask you before we continue... I'd like you to tell all these nice people who in the fuck is Tom..." then put on sun glasses and walk.... no dildos, no vibrators. Just some paid call girl in the audience to walk out with.
Haha, blue pill as fuck but still better I think...
Edit: spellunking chopsing to choosing
Honestly I don't see a problem with how he decided to handle things. He is a man in control of his life after all.
Maybe I misunderstood TRP teachings but making your own choices instead of following what every other man does is leader like.
He got out, got revenge the way he wanted, he won. I will say a lot of dudes are getting off on this story because they're still in the angry phase which is quite funny. Nothing wrong with that, just pointing it out.
I like the way he handled it. Proper black knighting, that.
I saw absolutely no chemistry between them. If anyone believes that's what chemistry looks like, I would be more than happy to let them live in their world of blissful ignorance.
He has way too much time on his hands.
What I saw is her walk into the house and just cringe until it all ended. He probably spared her the trouble of dumping him. He also tarnished his own reputation by posting this video.
I can't speak for her, but from what I've seen, a girl in this situation completely doesn't give a shit.
What you saw was a man avoid the pussy trap. That alone should be celebrated.
What are you talking about. He was in deep. Hook, line, and sinker. He was graced with a miracle by finding the texts. He didn't even notice otherwise.
That's pretty sad.
Yeah but much like a plummeting 747, he pulled up at the last second and survived.
Imagine if the ring had slid on before he found out.
I get it, but here's the problem that I have. Just like the women who keep getting into real physically abusive relationships, he continually gets into relationships with women who cheat on him (as he stated in the video). While those women he dates are a problem for him, he is a bigger problem to himself.
Him finding the texts changes nothing about him or what got him there. It's bound to happen again, unless he changes himself. Maybe next time there won't be any texts to find. Then what?
The light bulb is realizing that it's not that she's the kind of girl who cheats--because they all do--but that you're the kind of guy girls cheat on.
Only thing you can do is learn from the experience. Hopefully this is the straw that the camel notices.
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You still believe in unicorns if you don't at least anticipate several gentlemen in her facebook chats trying to abolish your relationship.
I don't agree at all. I agree that, at the beginning, she was anxious/uncomfortable... but anyone would be in that situation. And while initially when she sees the letter she is annoyed, as ANYONE would be (not many people enjoy reading that stuff), the fact that she tears up while reading the letter is proof that there was some sort of connection there at the very least.
Judging chemistry from a video with about 1 minute of interaction, in my opinion, is sillier than just giving the benefit of the doubt.
I 100% agree that he put way too much time and effort into it, but have to admit despite that it was all masterfully executed.
I think what you are seeing is that the guy is acting in a very non stoic way, which is something to be looked down upon 'round these parts.
The thing is, if he enjoyed making that video as much as I enjoyed watching it. It say it was worthwhile. Props for driving away signing to a dildo microphone.
This is going to be a short response.
It's not him being non-stoic, it's everything about him as a whole. The same way girls can scream red flags for me, he screams a guy that will get cheated on.
I've been on his side before, and now I'm on the other side. There's no doubt in my mind that there's a pattern in the type of men women cheat on. The women really don't give a shit. They laugh about their guy, they know they are using the guy, I laugh with them.
doctorlw had some points, but I see it differently. The short version of what I see is that she's already given up with him, you can see how she carries herself around him. Obviously he's not trying to game her, but he has 0 charm. Girls tear up all the time, she forgets about chad while reading the letter, is touched by it, tears up (no one mentions the next step which is she can fuck chad the same day, I'm not kidding, try it yourself). So what if she teared up. I look at how both of them are and I can't remember the last time my interaction with a woman felt like that.
When I look at him I see what women are trying to run away from (while still extracting what value they can get). This is why they cheat, and don't give a shit. Because they lost nothing of value.
Personally, I recommend going out there and trying it. Fuck a girl who has a bf or fiance.
What the heck was with all the dildos?
I think in the original thread it was said he stole them from her... I ain't one to judge.
I agree. The look she gave him right before he bailed was a total Thousand-Cock Stare. If he had waited for her to speak, this probably would have been a humiliation video... for HIM.
Besides, nothing screams WIFE MATERIAL like sleeve tattoos. I'm really not impressed with this guy.
ETA: 90% of the video is useless. Skip ahead to the part where she arrives till she starts reading, then skip ahead to near the end just before she picks up the red heart, till he's walking toward the car.
The main thing he screwed up on was not letting her say 'yes' and come and hug him.
I would have led her on to say yes and get her hopes up 'wow I can get my BB and my AF and life is going to work itself out!!'
Gotta let her get her hope higher. Not to trash the guy. He still did a great setup.
I don't see why this is being downvoted. This is pretty accurate.
The girl has the "Oh no, please no more romantic BS" look on her face the moment she walks in.
True.
True.
True.
Stop downvoting if you don't have a good reason to back it up with.
He's got a key to her apartment, but not a single item there that he needs to remove before pulling this stunt? Yeah, I agree with you. Not much going on between them.
Whilst I'm glad he took action and it made me chuckle with the poem, it seems a little bit like too much investment.
Would of been a better story if he just said "Babe I've found out I'm actually gay, so I'm out, peace" and just leave without explaining shit.
Now he gets to live happily ever after, spinning plates and living life on his own terms as an independent man.
On a side note, Thomas Roo sounds like it could be coined to point out an Australian Chad.
He's not Australian though. Working class England Chad?
I can almost guarantee the whole time she was reading the love notes and all that shit before she got to the "I know you're cheating" shit, she never once thought about how much of a scumbag she was for cheating on this guy. I bet the only time she thought of the Thomas Roo guy during this whole ordeal was when she read his name on the heart.
I personally would have been racked with guilt knowing that I was doing someone who would go all out for me like this guy did so wrong.
I gotta say, I think this is weak behavior. You know what would hurt much more? Just tell her that her looks have gone down and you're tired of her. Then just leave. That would be much worse. Probably, when you told her that, she would then say something like "well I've been fucking Thomas!" And hen you say? "Really? I'm sorry for his loss". Then don shades and exit.
I disagree. No woman really cares about what the BB thinks, she would just think "what a douche, I'm better without him". Social shaming is huge in comparison, when a girl loses a relationship and KNOWS she's at fault as do the rest of people, her Hamster goes batshit crazy. She will eventually rationalize it as "his loss", but the mere fact that challenges that she's not a snowflake but ho drives them insane.
THIS. Hurt her where it hurts, her looks and fertility!
Today could have been Red Friday...
Tattoos are a definite red flag. Out of my own experience I can tell that this girl fucked internally. The tied up knot and pink sweater probably hints at this girl not giving a fuck how she appears towards her boy.
Women love their hair and how it makes them look pretty, the worst hairstyle any woman can have is a knot. Why do they all do it? It's comfortable and prevents it from getting all twisted. It's the female equivalent of a man just wearing socks and a t shirt at home.
Remember that the tattoos can just pop up. I knew this girl who had a tiny one when I met her. Small and subtle, of course it was about her last break up. During our relationship she got another small one and a big one on her forearm.
Then after the break up she got another one about her breaking up with me and getting pumped and dumped by the next guy. Granted, I already had a big piece on my shoulder when we met so I could have influenced her. Girl was 20, she'll turn out like this down the line if she wasn't already.
annnnd facebook ruins another relationship
No, cheating ruins another relationship.
Facebook didn't fuck Thomas Roo.
Not really. But she isn't either. He seems > 50 and she seems > 40
They're probably both early-mid thirties by the looks of them.
Link to the thread? Would be interested in reading the other comments.
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Can't link due to rules. No archives yet.
Check the front page or the videos sub-reddit for the title "the best dumping video of a cheating girl you will ever see"
Here's one.
In future, you can use Archive.is to create one yourself and link it in the main post. That's allowed.
Thanks. I scrolled through the all subreddit and didn't find it.
It's probably deleted already given the subject matter.
It's not gone.
I'm not saying you can get to the live thread by using the URL at the top of the archive. That is definitely not a way to get to it.How long does it usually take for link to get archived?
As soon as somebody bothers to do it.
I didn't even know humans had to do that, i thought reddit did it by itself. You learn everyday!
There's a difference between Reddit's "archived" pages and the one I linked.
Reddit's "archive" is for posts over 6 months old, and basically means you can't vote or comment on them.
Archives like Archive.is save a snapshot of the page at the time you input the URL, so even if it gets deleted/changed in future you can still see it as it was. These ones have to be performed manually. Some subreddits have bots that are designed to archive all submissions (especially if they link to content that is frequently deleted or changed), but TRP isn't one of them.
Archive link.
That was like a Guy Ritchie flick. I fucking love this dude.
Forget the post/video and read through comments by /u/onepostleft about what he has gone through with his alcoholic/violent mom and how little was ever done about it.
Can't link directly but it'll rip your heart out.
Who is Thomas Rue?!? Or roo
How the fuck is the so high up on all?
She'll never get all that glitter out of the carpet, he's a monster.
She looks really trashy. I wouldn't touch that with a stick.
Just wait a couple years for the rape allegation to come out
How is this "swallowing the red pill"? Is the red pill about learning that girls cheat?
That's a small part of it.
The main point was that a large amount of redditors just had their eyes opened to what a woman is capable of.
Of course, 99% of those are going to go back home to their girlfriends, still firmly resolved to propose because she wouldn't do anything like that. This is for the 1% who aren't.
Could you provide the link where the post was and the comments? Thanks
lmao I could immediately tell that bitch isn't even plate material
What a fucking savage. Handled it like a boss. The song playing downstairs was fucking perfection.
Felt so good to see him drive away with the music playing in his car. Good for him.
God I hope he does a follow up.
Videotaping the breakup is a good idea, men should also consider going to the police before they intend to breakup up with someone just to show their innocence in any future abuse claims.
why cant i find a link to original thread?
I understand that he feels hurt.
However, the whole thing comes off as spiteful and immature. There is no need to set up elaborate theatrics and makes a YouTube video. Dump the skank and work on moving on with your life.
To the general population (non redpiller) a man who seeks attention over being cheated on looks insecure. Yes, its not fair that women can do that and get no criticism... but part of being a man is adapting to your environment and that includes knowing how to utilize peoples perceptions to your advantage and not looking like a pouty child on YouTube.
What is the original reddit thread?
Can't link due to rules. No archives yet.
Check the front page or the videos sub-reddit for the title "the best dumping video of a cheating girl you will ever see"
Who's behined this party culture? The media keeps showing that fucking around is ok and cheating is funny. there is a bigger conspiracy behined all this, and it's being pushed.
The same people behind feminism, cultural marxism, the gay agenda, trannies, etc.
It's pushed heavy in popular music and movies/tv shows meant for women.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sxkzhExnvXg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6RuYFy2CuQU
I could talk about the who but that's anti-semitism. Let's just call them the illuminati.
Atheism. All major religions regulate men and women and limit their sexuality to what is reasonable assuming both parties follow it.
Yes, Mormons only keep 6 wives, Muslims only make their woman second class citizens. Christian priests only fuck little boys. "limiting sexuality"
Mormonism is an offshoot of Christianity, Islam is degenerate and unholy, while the "Catholics are child molesters" thing is a stereotype taken out of proportions. Most Catholics are not paedophiles.
Umm isn't the concept of spinning plates the girlfriend equivalent of having multiple wives?
no. having sex multiple women is not the same as being married to multiple women
Screw you buddy, I'm atheist and I have morals.
Did I offend your or something?
This is peak internet right here. Greatest thing ever. I fear that the remainder of my lifetime internet usage, it will never get better than this feeling right here, right now.
I want to throw this guy a party.
I really wish kids would stop shouting redpill everyfucking where they can.
Red pill lesson learned? How not to be a beta and post your beta-ness on you tube!!! Do I feel bad for this guy, yeah, maybe a little I guess, Er, no not really. If you are in a LTR and find it necessary to monitor all phone texts, Facebook convos, AND make films to prove you didn't destroy your house......maybe don't get engaged or otherwise entangled with this bitch?! Yay he slut shamed her on you tube, woohoo? He shamed himself more by prepping that ridiculous scenario. Not to mention singing into a pink dildo? Better if he would have let her come thru the door, threw that name at her and told her all her shit was en route to "what's his names" address, bye! Looked like a decent flat, why should HE be the one moving? Just me?
That was her dildo. What's she going to do, call him and beg for her sex toy back?
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You don't get upvotes for claiming to be a woman here.
I don't expect upvotes. I just want you guys to know I support you. I'm a piece of dirt from planet earth just like everyone else and I happen to agree with TRP and I was happy to see that video, that guy was awesome. Sorry if it sounded like I was being like one of those bitches who thinks she deserves something for having a cooter. My mistake. I'm trying to be supportive here sorry if I said that the wrong way. I'm not trying to step on any toes here. I just want to show support. I will be more careful of what I say from now on. Thanks for the criticism. I visit TRP so I can remind myself of how not to act, so thanks for keeping me in check.
We couldn't give less of a shit if we'd had an enema.
Tits or GTFO.
(.)(.) <= Ok theres your tits mr. grumpy pants can we get along now? (What is with this guy and the tits?) Always with the mean attitude.... chill out. why do you feel the need to be such an asshole? I'm not asking for a cookie, I was just hoping to avoid people like you attacking me so I was trying to say something nice.
I'm not an asshole, I'm a dick. You're the asshole.
Now be a good girl and tell me what dicks do to assholes.
If you don't understand why, you shouldn't be commenting.
Wow you are really grasping for straws. I don't quite see you being a dick, you can't achieve get the title of dick if you are devoid of any matter below the belt. You just don't make the cut, i am sorry but i have to tell people that you are a woman pretending to be a man, that's why you are attacking me because you don't want me to expose your secret. If you don't see your asshole its because its on your face. If you are having trouble finding your asshole look into a mirror. The place between your nose and your chin is your asshole. Try not to let so much shit fall out of there. Don't try to stick any dicks in your asshole if you find either one by some sort of miracle, a lot of women find it painful and you seem like such a sensitive lady.
See, I don't think that's at all RP. Hindsight being 20/20 and all, if I were still attracted I'd say "look, it's clear you don't want to commit, no biggie me neither. Do you want to stay fuck buddies or call it quits?" If she loses her shit, fine. But there's a more than a decent chance she'll agree. No lame setup, no beta moaning that you were cheated on, no pathetic video for attention from 200k internet strangers who don't give a shit about you. If she throws a tantrum, delete her phone number and walk away. That's it. No muss, no fuss.
Word gets around, and while all her friends will sympathize with her face-to-face agreeing your a jerk, 'she can do better', blah blah... but deep down they know you were the alpha dog by walking away like a boss and beat a path to your door. They know she was banging that other guy and got caught, and they will wonder what the fuck you've got that you'll just walk away without giving a damn. It's fucking ambrosia to them. Easy lays just like that.
Watching that video is just cringe worthy and I had to stop. Lame, lame, lame.
There's a reason you hard next a girl who cheated on you when you were in a long relationship.
Humans aren't meant to pair-bond, for life. Women can cheat any time they want to, all it takes is a bad week or a bad day and it's done. It's par for the course. Why get annoyed at women for just being human? Why even care anyway? What do you expect? A good woman will cook food and do the hoovering. Who gives a shit about loyalty? Women want loyalty.
Not Redpill.
Redpill would be hard nexting a cheating girlfriend/wife by going No Contact the moment you got your stuff from her apartment.
This guy could have been at the gym, or working on his small business, or fucking a new plate instead of bothering with a video.
Also, as a Black Dragon Blog fan, I'd like to remark that even granting a woman monogamy UNLESS you're planning on using her as a brood mare for your children is BP to begin with.
My plates can't cheat on me unless we're playing cards between rounds of hiding my sausage.
I think we need a new pill. Red pill is the departure from social norms to pursue one's self interest. Blue pill is the subjugation of one's self interest, counting on the charity/compassion of third parties to fulfill needs. This is neither. Orange pill?
I think that maybe you should come off the pills. Or start taking more.
Ultimate proof that 99.999999% of LTR's don't work.
99.999999% chance of getting your heart broken and feeling like fucking shit for weeks if not months.
How can anyone get in a relationship with this 99.999999% chance of being cheat on just because she feels 'excited', 'wants to try something new', or 'bored'.
NEVER get into LTR.
I dare someone to come up and say that I'm wrong.
This is like saying you should never buy a car because it will always break down in the end. Let's ignore the utility it provided in the mean time.
What utility does an LTR have?
Obligations, dependence, social burdens, meet the family, disagreements, maintenance/problem solving. LTRs are nothing but a long sequence of issues. The same pussy every day.
The only point in a LTR is the understanding that it's there for life. If it doesn't last a lifetime, then there was no utility.
So, fuck your analogy.
He should have just given a salute to the sloot and just left instead of all that elaborate shit. As a matter of fact, we all should. Take some time off of your regular day to give a salute to the sluts around the world for their efforts of securing beta bux while getting that good alpha fucks on the side.
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Red Pill = accepting reality.
MRA = complaining about it.
MGTOW = ignoring women because of it.
Because you guys are all little bitches still sad that a girl hurt you :(
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My life is fucking amazing. I make six figures and have a wonderful partner. I did all of this without demeaning women and being spiteful.
Edit: Every downvote is another one of you jelly boys. Maybe if you thought of women as people your life wouldn't suck?
Here comes the troll brigade aha
Nice I hope you don't walk into your wife riding on tommy roo's dick
a person who has to present his salary in every argument is at least depressed or completely narcissistic.
btw 6 figures in 2015 is as much as some subway engineers make. Nothing to boast about.
Who says I'm boasting? I'm happy enough to not have to go on the internet and cry about women that were mean to me :(
And yet here you are
Too bad you have Cancer. Or are you just telling that to people on Reddit?
Lols that took you a while to reply. Read the thread, it's about people like you that give me cancer.
Women are so fucking manipulative.. she fucking planned to keep that other guy on the side while marrying another guy ONLY FOR MONEY (which is why she kept fucking the other guy).
I wouldn't be surprised if she planned to divorce him and take half of his shit as well. Have you ever in your life seen a man doing something like this? Marrying a girl ONLY FOR MONEY while fucking another girl?
Actually yes. I have quite a few friends that understand marriage is nothing but a business deal nowadays, so they decided to marry up.
Latest one got caught up and her father made him sign a prenuptial. Dad was keen to the plan, and wanted to protect his baby who was a doctor with several properties already. He knew to expect it. Of course she "was against it", but he didn't care cause it was part of the plan.
His words were too bad the prenuptial covers divorce. Doesn't limit what happens during. Well low and behold he was right.
She got him connected to a field he had zero knowledge in. This connection more than tripled his salary within a year. Still less than her so he's already ahead and knew that. She then bought him a new 35' Bluefin with trips. Already been repowered too on her dime since he blew them.
This then proceeded to the house they were in wasn't the best, so they needed to get a 4k sqft condo on the water, with a lift, to store the nice new expensive boat they have.
Latest venture is they now need to get a vacation home they can get to by water so they can relax every few months with zero distractions. So, yes some men do realize this, and capitalize upon it. This is all while he still sees others during his "trips".
I was just reading that thread and the second comment you showed doesn't mention the red pill. I guess he edited it.
I'm so mad, I came here to post this... oh well... fucking loved the video.
If he had monetized the video, I would have some respect for him. But this looks like a waste of time and energy. Yes it was smart of him to tape the fact he hadn't beat her or destroyed her house but there were other ways of doing this.
Maybe he feels good about this and sometimes one's own amusement is all that matters to one's self, but then why post it on Youtube.
Still, good for him, for catching her. Handling it with a bit of grace and humor and walking on to bigger and better things.
probably couldn't monetize it because of background audio infringement.
I can really tell you've never had a LTR from this comment alone.
So now a bunch of women know he's a sappy pussy who couldn't keep a girlfriend. Not sure how's that supposed to work out for him.
That comment which supoosedly mentions TRP doesn't mention TRP in the real thread. The guy never posted in TRP either