Summary: My stubborn brother will not take TRP. Not even listen to it. On saturday I realised just how different we are.

I'm 28, my brother is 25. We are literally polar opposites. I stand at 5'11, I'm in relatively good shape, still long way to go, I am self employed, with ambitions to have financial freedom. When it comes to women my mindset is very RP now. In fact looking to go an entire year firmly plate spinning to improve my abundance mentality.

Now take my brother the beta. Overweight. Balding. Short, with dreadful posture. Eats crap. Works hard, however is studying to be a teacher. No aspirations. Doesn’t even drive. Stubborn. Arrogant. Know it all. When it comes to women, well need I say anymore?

I have many many times tried to show him the way of the pill. However theres a saying I swear by “if someone doesn’t admit they need help, don’t help them.” My brother is the polar opposite of me. When younger, we’d play games, watch stupid shit together, and just be a guy. He cannot do that anymore. He believes he “has to watch the news,” has to “be a teacher.” Even something like sitting down playing some PS4. He cannot do it as its “immature.” I was watching South Park the other day and he said “I cant stand that show!” Only a few years ago he used to watch it on repeat.

My brother, the beta is an example of society TELLING you what to do. He was in accounts before because it’s a “SAFE” option. The guy hasn’t taken a gamble his entire adult life. Until he quit to “do something more rewarding,” and thus he is looking to become a teacher. Nothing wrong with that, however the delusional fucker wants to be living in a big house, with a flat screen and everything, until he saw the most a teacher can earn. That dream is long gone, but once again he buries his head in the sand.

I am an investor. I invest in things, when we meet with family nobody gives a fuck about what I do. However “the teacher” gets all the questions. “Oh someone threw up in your class,” or “oh kids these days must be so fun to teach!” He loves the false praise, but I have seen him secretly pull his hair out over his “new career” He buries himself in his work constantly, on days off hes working on lesson plans, to the late hours the same thing. His social group consists of 5 friends who just go out once or twice a week to drink and that’s that.

Naturally he had gone over a year without getting any pussy whatsoever. His bitter tirade against the most minute things was hilarious. I told him “to get the girls you need to improve. You’re not the best version of yourself.” I was obviously told to “shove that hippy crap” up my backside. So I let it slide. He eventually joined tinder. Much to his anger.

Then I hear how he went out on two dates. One was with a 5/10 who I once matched with but deemed “Not hot enough.” Still knowing this, and knowing she was only DTF, he took her to a restaurant for dinner and claimed she was “amazing” but they didn’t “click” in his words.

The next one sums up the beta mentality. She is a 4/10. Shes slightly overweight, dreadful style, hardly any social skills, and amazingly they share friends in common. We were out to dinner when somebody told my beta brother “shes a sweet girl, but she has some serious issues.” The next day he took her for dinner.

Fast forward 2 months, and shes round his place. Shes out for dinner constantly. He’s mentioning how its “purely physical”

I question his mentality towards this ghastly plate and say “if this is physical, why are you buying her dinner?” etc etc to which he answers “because I am a nice guy.”

I met her 2 weeks ago, and was shocked to see how bad she really was in person. I mean BAD. I asked him WTF was he doing to which he replied, “its winter, its cold, I CBA to go out, she will sleep with me, and she will pretty much give me what I wanted.” I couldn’t argue with him there, but the settling mentality of the beta just made me almost rile up inside. Fast forward to Saturday and were at a friends gathering. Were all there, looking to hit a bar, and my brother, the beta, turns up with his 4. I was shocked. I asked him “wtf are you doing bringing her here” He goes “I am not ashamed to be out with her, we have mutual friends (shes never been invited to a party before FYI) and I am a nice guy.”

I was defeated, I sat in the corner as I saw my fat beta of a brother have his arm around his walrus of a plate/gf/wifetobe fuck knows, and saw just how far the apple had fallen from the tree.

The killer line was when friends of ours going up to me telling me how “adorable” they were together, and how “shes the one for him!” etc.

I always knew my brother would sadly never get above a 7 and I always didn’t mind that. But seeing him settle for this 4 (naturally as long as it goes he will get worse and fall for her deeply), his career that people told him to get, and watch him age at 25 into a comfortable skinny fat mess only makes me thank discovering TRP even more.