I don't know why this is happening, but I have some theories. Maybe some seventeen year old is telling his little Call Of Duty friends to check out the Red Pill. Maybe more boys are finding out about the Red Pill because of Rooshgate. Maybe the Trump candidacy has shifted the overton window, bringing more men to the politically incorrect side of the internet. I can't say for certain. All I know is there has been an uptick in what I presume to be ADHD millennials making Hey Guys I Just Wanna Get Girlz posts.
A I Just Wanna Get Girls post is somewhat analogous to a turd sandwich. It has some good ingredients: crisp lettuce, fresh tomatoes, mustard and toasted whole grain bread. Unfortunately the turd in the middle of the sandwich ruins what would otherwise be sublime and begs the question; who is creating this abomination and why? Like most TRP posts, IJWGG posts are built on the assumption that the west is gynocentric and favors women over men. However rather than being filled with delicious TRP self improvement beef, it's filled with Give Me A Pussy Plan turd.
If there is anything that betas love its procrastination. The luxury gym chain Equinox understands this phenomenon and monetizes it. The personal trainers at Equinox are not allowed to teach their healthy clients barbell squats right off the bat. Instead they spend months taking them through extraneous progressions. They start off with wall squats, proceed to TRX squats, then Bosu squats, then BBC squats and after 6 months and $3300 finally teach their client barbell squats. Equinox intentionally retards it's client's progress in order to milk them for the maximum amount of cash possible. Pick up artists employed a similar system of tiered seminars to milk their betas. Betas like to be babysat. They love personalized attention and they fear rapid progress.
The Red Pill adamantly refuses to offer a Pussy Plan. Instead it explains the rules of the sexual marketplace and tells you to create your own masculine self development plan. Because at the end of the day there is nothing I can type into my keyboard that will magically make you not a bitch. The only person that can make you develop confidence and charisma is yourself. The only way to do that is through painful trial and error. In fact if a girl calls you an awkward nerd go ahead and use that to develop your frame. After all, it is the very possess of undergoing stress and subsequently becoming anti-fragile, that turns boys into men.
We are not here to coddle you. We are not here to string you along with illusions of unicorns, leprechauns and pots of gold at the end of a rainbow. The Red Pill exists to offer you a general framework of the sexual marketplace and a couple thousand data points. Pussy Plans don't exist and the people selling them are con men. If you don't like the taste of our Red Pill beef, go back to eating your turd sandwich.
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TRP is not a road map to get you from point A to point B, it is a course in navigation. Because not all journeys go to the same destination, and if you're too lazy to navigate, you're too lazy to hike.
When you say "Tell me specifically what to do.", you are asking to be led. You are asking how to get what you want without changing who you are. You are asking how to emerge from your cave, get the girl, and then go back to playing World of Nerdcraft.
In order to achieve what you want to achieve, you must become the sort of man who achieves it.
There are many different sorts of man to choose from. But "exactly who I currently am" is not one of them.
I said it before and I'll say it again: seddit is now a complete joke, and we've become the new seddit somehow. Like you, I'm also curious about this influx of the root of this, but I have some theories.
When I first started lurking here nearly three years ago, every post had some ultimate message behind it that told me I had to improve myself or I would fall behind. I was 21 and had been actively addicted to the seddit side of self-improvement for the past year or so, but wasn't buying into the whole heavy peacocking, pay a PUA to learn shit side of things. Those issues have only grown since then over there, but I digress. Even still, I started going for wacky openers to stand out at college parties, and was having short term success. I could get laid, but it was short term, because the women quickly sniffed out the facade, and left to go find a real chad.
On the other hand, here was this subreddit finally giving me answers. Real answers about society and the ugly truth I didn't want to believe. So I forced myself to swallow it, and things began to change. For the first time, I cared about myself and not chasing average looking tail while dreaming about hotties. I finally started lifting for the sake of me and my rugby program instead of half-assing it as a status symbol so sluts would come home with me. I grew up, and grew big. I carried around a fucking ball to get better, and I actually gave a shit about classes. Although I already knew this subreddit had explained the truth about society better than anything had before, I wasn't sure if all the dating advice was going to be correct. Until it was. I ended up briefly seeing the hottest girl at my entire university thanks to a mutual female friend, and I wasn't even expecting it. I messed that up because my newfound success hadn't caught up to me yet; I was so distracted by self-improvement I didn't notice the 180 from a large majority of the female population about me. After her came a woman who was the best for me girl I ever dated, and for the first relationship in my life I never broke frame. Go figure, we never argued once, and things ended because we were graduating and moving different places. My first healthy break-up.
Since then, I've broken my collarbone (twice), and dropped from 205lbs to 145lbs. I almost gave up because I couldn't figure out what happened; I was still acting like the 205 lb successful guy in the real world and couldn't figure out what people didn't see. Then I came back here and took a real look in the mirror and realized a simple truth that is thankfully still the core philosophy around here: "you already know the rules of society; as a result, you have no one to blame but yourself." Im back up to 185. I've put on 15lbs, the majority of which has been muscle, in the last 12 weeks (now that my collar bone allows me to lift things again), by going to the gym for PT and weightlifting 15-20 hours a week. Sure enough, the society opinion of me is coming back, because my physical appearance has been returning. I've also gotten a promotion in those 12 weeks, because I'm finding success in every aspect of my life currently.
I've gone from spinning 2 low SMV plates at ~160lbs to spinning 2 medium and 1 high SMV plates in the last twelve weeks. You don't have to go lift to get laid, but it sure as fuck makes getting hot girls easier.
The reason I mention all of this though is because this post, my life recap, is what TRP used to be about. Self-sacrifice to generate self-success. Not just with women, but with everything. This subreddit was basically titled: "guidelines to becoming a 10% man." After all, that's why we have SO many categories of posts that are up at the top. I didn't come here to read field reports about your recent threesome, I came here to read some self-improvement story. I don't care about you banging two chicks, because caring about something that I'm not doing is about as blue pill as it gets. Save that shit for seddit. This reddit is for explaining everything you did up to that point, including lifestyle changes that potentially happened years beforehand. Not about the end result beyond a sentence or two. I come here to discuss female vs male psychology, lifting tips, dieting tips, lifestyle tips. To provide advice to new guys and soak in advice from the endorsed and vanguards. Always have.
I think a part of this dynamic shift in trend comes from the mods decision to make this primary focus of TRP primarily about sexual strategy and getting women that was made fairly recently. Guys like me and many other vets understand that getting pussy and higher quality pussy is part of the deal regardless. That part should be fucking obvious to everyone on here. However, I'm concerned this potentially confused new guys and recently new lurkers into thinking this is the place where you go to get instant success with pussy, failing to understand that blood, sweat, and tears that go into real success. You become a dark triad trait using alpha male, you will get women. More than you probably want. You'll chase unicorns until the real meaning of AWALT finally sinks in. Yet you'll still be so much farther than the men who just dream of ever getting laid more than once a month married and wasting away while people like us fuck their wives in cheap hotels.
We don't need every post here teaching you how to fuck Tom's girlfriend/wife. That should be obvious; go be Chad, go say hi and flirt with her a lot. Go be in a different tier of man then Tom. If you've done everything right, she'll likely come around. If not, who cares, don't get oneitis about a plate you don't even have yet.
If you need to learn how to say hi and how to flirt, that's what seddit is and always will be for. We aren't here to hold your hand because you grew up autistic. If you don't know how to be flirty with a woman, you aren't ready to be flirting with that woman.
New guys see this new policy and think that this is where PUAs meet up and go to get laid. This is not that place. It has a section for that, sure, but let's work on shifting back to that just being a section. This is a place where people come to vent about their wives cheating, where men who repaired their marriages by making their wives work to make them proud come to share their success, where men teach you the benefits of lifting, meditating, being friendly, being social, being dominant, steering a conversation, not watching porn every night before bed. Where red vs blue pill is depicted clearly in the media. This is where you wake up to the world around you. This is not where you come to get easy sex. That's the bar, or if you're smart and dodging rape allegations due to lack of commitment, that's an escort. Having success with women is just an additional perk, because you're finding more success at everything.
It's the journey, not the destination. Up vote to you sir.
Indeed. I think the biggest shame is that so many of the newer faces around here believe that their destination is putting their penis in a wet hole, when men are capable of infininetly greater things than our lowest common biological function/ desire/ denominator, sex.
Sex is retardedly easy to get once you've got your life together. Want a challenge? Marry an old party slut who used to let people like me drill her ass whenever I called her, and spend your entire marriage without her cheating on you once (I'm talking actually cheat, not just the stuff you find out about). Now that would be a real feat worth bragging about.
Brian Rose: It's about the journey!
THE END OF WHITE MASCULINITY. Soon white men will me made fun of their penis in open.
In the 1970s, scientists wanted to know if they could condition a sexual reflex in men. First they got volunteers and hooked them up to a device that measured tumescence. Then they showed the men slides. The sequence of slides was always the same - naked women, and then boots. Naked women, and then boots.
After some time, the scientists were pleased to see that the men responded to pictures of boots without ever seeing the naked women. Some of the men even showed response to sandals and high heels. They managed to instill fetishes in human beings. It would be interesting to see how deeply the fetishes "took." Was it specific to time and place, or did the scientists engineer a lifelong fetish in people?
Now imagine sites like"MOM GOING BLACK" and "BLACKED" and" WATCHING MY DAUGHTER GO BLACK" being constantly promoted.
Imagine the impact on a 16 year old white guy over prescribed with "ADD/ADHD" 'mental disorder' watching that stuff and if he gets caught his social life is going to be ruined for life.
And if he tries to reason on it with school officials am quite sure he is going to be identified as a transexual.
Further own brain works by connecting images.
For example:when someone say There is a blue river flowing by the red house.
Our brain forms the image in our mind and thus we are able to understand the meaning of the word.
Our brain also starts collecting other images that could be linked with the word "river" like "water" "river banks".
Likewise when i someone says or we see "black guy" Our brain automatically start connecting other things we know about them them.
like when we see "black guys" our brain connects "masculine""strong" "big dick" with it.
All this is because of porn we see nowadays where there is "bbc""blonde" but nothing for white men" like "RED NECK HUNKS" or something like that.
This is why cuckold porn is going to bring the death of WHITE MASCULINITY.
It has already started.
Some of the White men should take the initiative to produce big dick white porn other wise all will be lost soon.
Dont beleive me. see it for yourself.
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These are not ugly white girls. Soon its all over.
This. TRP isn't a sexual strategy to get laid (although applying it can get you laid). TRP is about accepting the dynamics of the sexes and is a strategy for life. Turning it into "getting pussy" just makes the whole thing lame, and I for one am not surprised at the influx and increase in shit posts.
Please please for the sake of Annubis, stop insisting that "TRP is about X" or "TRP is about Y"
You're projecting every time you do that, you say TRP is about what YOU picked up from it. There is no single thing that encompasses TRP, whether it's spinning plates, gaining financial success or self discovery. It's about ALL these things together. Everytime you try to reduce it to a single, atomic phrase, you miss the point. All those things in parallel are achieved trough the toolbox and the praexism TRP offers, but with so many people that have so many opinions and perceptions, none can be determined as the sole purpose. Only nominated for such.
From the sidebar. Not only that, my post is essentially saying what you're talking about, so maybe you're agreeing with me?
I was about to post something similar. Good luck fucking high grade pussy being a regular guy without success in any department (Money, Power and Body). Even if you succcessfuly pulll the I'm an alpha having regular grades at college, and a 150lb body, you will hardly pull anything better than 7 (Unless God tier face genetics). I think games help, but there is a climax point, where improving your game does too Little to pick up girls.
Sure! If you are socially retarded improving game will harvest a lot of results... But for you are average collegue student, investing hard in yourself is the best kind of game you can get.
Solid post. I feel similarily about the quality of posts: the vast majority of them used to be on point with a powerful message. I can't say it's the case anymore, but this is unavoidable with all the new members of this community. Good thing we only have text posts now, this would've gotten out of hand. And, as a sidenote, I feel like the mods are doing a terrific job at keeping a decent standard.
Your post got me thinking about my progress since the journey began, something I haven't actually written down yet and although I still have a long way to go, it's always good to think back and realize how far you've come. Plus, if it can offer something relevant to somebody, then good, but I'm mostly writing this for myself.
I first discovered TRP about two years ago and rapidly became quite interested in it. First, skepticism and confusion, but the more I read the more it made sense. Now at that point I was 19, was a virgin and had never so much as kissed a girl. I wasn't unattractive, but had zero game and was quite skinny and unimposing. A Nice Guy™, although certainly not the worst of the kind. At that point in my life I'd left behind the heavy gaming that occupied the vast majority of my time in the years prior, and was studying science while in my free time sometimes experimenting with drugs, the rest of the time reading about them.
Slowly but surely, reading about game, intersexual dynamics and gender differences, along with other TRP topics, took more and more of my time. I ended up moving out to live on my own for just a month to see what's it's like and did Monk Mode while I was there. A great time of my life. Then I started gaming this chick I shared a few courses with. I found that I could actually do it with surprising ease and that I really enjoyed playing with her. Interacting with her taught me more than anything else that specific lines or techniques are never half as effective as a good, proven mental paradigm. Few weeks later I kissed her after a good half-hour of being paralyzed by fear of rejection (should I do it, should I wait...) when she was clearly waiting for it. Made out for a while. Didn't get the close. I never pushed for more as I wasn't very physically attracted to her, but her drama helped me internalize those TRP principles and get good practice at dealing with women. Through it I learnt how powerful amused mastery was for my game and how well it fitted with my personality.
I have quite high standards with women (at the beggining, certainly unjustifiably so as my SMV was way low) and so wouldn't game any girl I didn't find particularily attractive, which probably hindered me but it's good for the ego I figure. I started lifting and seeing gains within months. Some months later, I started seeing IOIs in this chick I was working with. Lovely pear-shaped, 8. She was quite shy and insecure but very playful and feminine. I ended up taking her on a few dates, then we ended up at her place. A great twentieth birthday present that was. I then proceeded to discover an amazing part of life: sex, and managed to keep it casual with her despite her wanting more. That lasted for months, until I left the country to go live abroad for a year, in the fall of this year. Since then I've grown considerably, have had practice at holding frame in social situations (something I still struggle with; with women I can do it but with men it's not as easy) and managed to raise my count to 3, the last of which was smoking hot, easily an HB9.
Still have a long way to go. My game lacks finesse in some ways I feel, and I still struggle with cold approaches; I need more practice. I also need to work more on stepping outside the boundaries of what my ego will accept.
I realized that as I was dared by a chick to obviously and explicitly hit on this lesbian girl she lived with. I accepted on the spot and when I met her, realized that I'd never actually done this kind of explicit, obvious game before. I failed the dare miserably, but at least it got me thinking and I'll work on fixing that.
Right now I'm just psyhed for the future. I really feel like I'm on a good path, with studies starting in Fall, good job opportunities to make some money during and before Uni, making steady progress with mindfulness meditation and going towards the uncomfortable (although inconsistantly). Not to mention working on treating my acne and getting built. And I know deep inside that I won't have to be sexless for extended periods for the foreseeable future. Amen.
I agree 100%. I wasn't excited about seeing the post saying TRP is only sexual strategy, not self-improvement. I laughed because what that post said is exactly why I joined TRP like a year ago because I thought reading it would get me easy pussy. But then I realized that TRP is mostly about improving yourself and your life. Yes the sexual strategy is in there, but you're right, it's implied and that's more about working on your game.
But the 90% bulk of getting women is the self-improvement stuff. It's being physically fit, not for them, but for you. Being smarter, to achieve more, to dream broader, and to create better. Being sure of one's self, so that one knows who they are in this world and where they are going. Having the confidence to go after huge goals, having the balls to face the chance of rejection, and having the ability to set boundaries where they are needed.
Well said sir.
This is my impression as well, that it's less about understanding the sexual dynamics (for the first time in many men's lives here), and more about a strategy to get laid. Funny thing is that you will get laid as much as you want once you understand how it all works, and the getting laid part just happens all by itself, because you've become a man that women are drawn to. It's like driving a car in a race, the end goal is to win, but what you are doing is changing your driving habits, modifying your car, just improving yourself and almost by luck you start winning races. But as anyone who took the red pill knows over time luck has nothing to do with it, a lot of hard work does though. Work that isn't cool or immediately gratifying.
What I really liked about posts here were the ones with insight on a certain aspect of red pill, and discussion afterwards. I would read these now and then and really think about them, sometimes comment on them or ask questions. It wasn't just go lift, or don't get oneitis.
I don't have an answer. But if I were attending a stadium full of 80,000 men, I would not expect just anyone to be able to walk up to the microphone and speak. I want to hear from someone who knows his shit.
This is the perfect post to start my day.
I was thinking before logging on that if there is a single take away you can get from the Red Pill it's that:
At the core of Red Pill is Frame and Game.
Frame means you set ego boundries that define who you are as being distinct from the overall herd.
Game means you use your own mixture of logic and intuition to exercise your 48 Laws of Power to influence the world to your benefit.
In both of these concepts there is no following.
Masculinity is leadership... of yourself and of women.
If you chase pussy as a slave you aren't leading.
I have been on this sub for almost 2 years. I think everyone should take a break from this sub to truly understand what it means not to follow. People always want to be told what to do, instead of making their own decisions. I used to be one of those guys, but after internalizing TRP principals, and understanding that it is a philosophy to enrich my life, I needed a break to actually implement that philosophy. I started doing things on my own terms, and not what some guy in the internet said I should do. I started creating goals that I wanted to accomplish, not what some guy on the internet told me I should do.
Use TRP to create your own lives for the better, but don't follow someone elses live, because you read it on TRP.
The Red Pill should help you to create better questions not provide specific answers.
The Blue Pill is about imitation...
The problem with most of these fockers is that they think this shit happens in isolation. That you can spend 10 hours slouched over your computer playing Call of Duty, eating junk food, jacking off five times a day to midget porn, doing the bare minimum, and then just walk out of your parent's basement and go apply the three-point plan that you saw on some PUA forum and get laid.
It does not work that way; and anyone who claims otherwise is just trying to take you for a ride.
And if that particular PU technique didn't work, surely the next one will
Just to be sure, try them on 50 women for each technique!
To be fair, regardless of technique, trying anything on 50 women would be the quickest way to boost confidence and getting it done.
Also a huge fucking waste of time if you don't have good SMV and good game.
Do you think some people are born with game? And if you're not born with it you might as well stay in your parents basement jacking to midget porn? I'd say even with low SMV and no game, hitting on 50 women would be a learning experience.
If the hypothetical person was working on his SMV while approaching 50 women, all the better.
Thats where I disagree, the best way to learn game is by being out and working on it, not reading about it in a book or online.
Nah, there are people who will just ask everyone in the bar/event to leave with them until they find one. Your chances increase the more times you ask (different chicks, of course). You must first lack all standards, but hell, it works if that's what you're into.
how do you get good at game then?
I don't understand why these youngins can't accept choosing to find their own workout, washing their own ass, and developing their own genuine positive outlook.
yes. yes, fuck yes. absolutely a million times yes. i've just learned this recently. it hit me like a sack of bricks, the realization that i actually need to change my life and form NEW habits. i realized im fully addicted to my computer and the internet. it was devastating, that realization fuckin floored me dude. now i force myself to never stay on the computer for more than 30mins and so every 30mins i get up and do something, even if its doing dishes or cleaning the yard. i cannot, i absolutely cannot, continue my same old routine. it's got to fucking change, no two ways about it. it takes work, lots of fuckin trial and error and not to mention a whole lot of just doing it.
I know a guy who claims he used to jack off 5 times every single day during any time off he had. I wasn't sure what to make of that or why he was even telling that.
Maybe his arm was tired and was hoping you would help him.
if he's telling him with sincere look in his eyes, then probably he wanted help.
I was drinking whiskey when I read this. Do u know how painful it is to have whiskey shoot out of your nose! Asshole.....
I did that kind of stuff as a teenager, that was years ago now haha.. damn that teenage libido
It's because we grew up playing video games.
Your perception of reality is seriously fucked when your main source of gratification and self worth comes from being good at a video game. You suck at a game? Want to get better? Don't worry! Just keep sitting on your ass for hours every day and you'll improve! You get a huge psychological reward for the small amount of effort you put in.
In the real world you actually need your get off your ass to get girls. You can't get bigger muscles, develop your wardrobe or increase your charisma by sitting down in front of a screen pushing buttons. You have to put in a shitload of effort and you still won't have girls handed to you on a platter.
They know this.
And it's really fucking painful to realise that every hour you spent staring at that screen could have been an hour you spent doing something that would make you more attractive. To imagine what you could be right now if you hadn't wasted thousands of hours in your bedroom.
So, in desperation, these kids reach out hoping that there's another way; some way that doesn't require them to acknowledge that they wasted thousands of hours doing meaningless shit.
People really don't like hearing this advice. Gaming is painfully hard to give up. It's perfectly cocktailed to drive modern men to addiction.
You can get so much shit done when you give up gaming, or even just reduce it substantially. Clocking 100 hours in a game isn't hard. Putting 100 hours into a new skill is somehow seen as daunting. And yet the rewards are vastly different.
Can confirm, quit 2 years ago after a 15 year hardcore run. I don't have enough hours in a day to learn all the shit I am trying to learn right now which boggles my mind, how I could find the time to game literally all day. That shit is the ruiner of lives.
Literally. Psychologists on staff at the big companies.
Wish I could get my brother to game a bit less, and create a bit more
IMO virtual reality is a gift that could be the answer to problems haunting us for eons. Indeed games teach you certain skills, you develop reflexes and all that in the perfect safety of your own home, even when experiencing the most dangerous scenarios.
We could use games to teach people skills that would take much more risk in real life. VR for telepresence and combat training. One day, instead of burying people, we could just upload them inside a computer. There is so much potential for this technology.
But nah, mindless shooting and grinding for imaginary items. SMH.
It sucked at first but I gave up gaming for coding. It's very rewarding and I'm landing job interviews st 4 months in. It's the most challenging and frustrating shit ever. But god damn is it rewarding and worth all my efforts.
I go to Equinox, and although it's overpriced as hell (a bit less painful with a company gym subsidy), the best part about it is the clientele is completely the type that shuns the power rack / squat rack. In addition to what you mentioned, people don't want to believe that the basics can give them great results - they want to feel like they are doing something "extreme and different". They believe the pathway to getting better results than your average person is to do more complicated, "secret" things that will confer them some trump card.
The PTs always turn the sessions into cardio-resistance circuitry with needless variations because you're "toning and shaping the body while building muscle and burning fat" all in 1 hr using elite strategies. You're doing things that the average gym-goer doesn't know about, so surely you'll get results that others would think are impossible. Women in particular lap up this kind of thinking, which is why Equinox trainers and classes are pretty much full of milfy women.
Likewise, guys on here are in disbelief that the basics of game, SMV, and social skills are all you need to start fucking; the rest is just getting out and doing it. These are guys who have felt disadvantaged in getting girls their WHOLE life, so they think the remedy is to stay out of the arena until they can go in with some special toolbox, some elite strategy known only to PU sages and RP senseis. See, if the basics were all they ever needed, that would mean they were a chump ass bitch for never having figured it out on their own. So they have to believe that getting laid comes from successful application of high level "DT" strategies and becoming an expert at push/pull and learning sequences of lines.
I think if guys want help figuring out their weak spots and why they aren't getting laid, fine. Along with their post, upload two things - a picture of their shirtless torso and an honest description of how often they've gone out in the past month, how many girls they've talked to, and how many girls they've actually tried to close. 90% of people's pussy plan at that point will be to fix their skinnyfat betabod and set-up their life so they get more opportunities to talk to women, both through social game and through stranger game. Improve your aesthetics, lifestyle, and social game... and actually try to close the women in your life. That's your universal pussy plan, and you need very little theory or knowledge to get to work on it.
When you focus on a woman and try to get laid, you won't get laid
When you focus on yourself and don't try to get laid, you'll get laid.
There it is, youngins.
This is why a large portion of TRP doesn't agree with pick up artist. The method is proven to work, but getting laid doesn't make you a better man, but becoming a better man will get you laid.
This. And I hate how some guys come on here and talk about how they got laid, and how it proves how awesome and alpha they are. If you're alpha, you wouldn't think getting laid meant shit, and you certainly wouldn't pin your self worth and validation on what some floozy thinks of you.
I see this a lot GLO not just here. Hell 20 years ago I was surely one of them. Men are logical and analytical, we need systems, formulas, tools. Some guys just want the magic words and motions to get what they want, younger ones are especially thirsty for instant gratification as that is how they were raised I think. I think this is why nice guys and covert contracts are so common. If I do X I will get X. Well I guess that is kind of accurate in a way but the formula is much bigger and more complex. I can tell you younger guys trust me there is no magic trick to hack pussy except self-improvement. I know rich businessmen that have such bad game or style vapid gold diggers wont even fuck them. When you raise your SMV and social skills you can get women and make it look like you are a pussy hacker instead of a pussy beggar but you have to put in the work to get there. Nothing worthwhile in this world comes without hard work and effort to get it and/or keep it. The confidence and motivation you get from investing in yourself and making progress even if small steps pays off in dividends not just in relationships but career and friendships. Life is a lot more certain and enjoyable when you know you have your hands firmly on the reigns of you life and know you can handle it because you do it everyday. I know men who have bought into the PUA seminars and books and they showed them to me and described the courses, all of it is here for free with less BS fluff thanks to good mods. Put in the work it's more than worth it and don't get discouraged or think you could never make it. Life is a work in progress until you last breath so get the most out of it you can.
They don't want to be coddled. They don't even want a Pussy Plan. They want a pussy cheat sheet.
And a fast one, because they wanna get laid THIS WEEKEND.
They're millenials, for heaven's sake. They're not gonna do some old timey 'development' thing. That sounds slow, like something you did before the internet, when dinosaurs ran around in the streets.
Come on now GLO, post the bullet points to getting laid, but pls no more than three steps in the process. Three is hard enough.
Nowadays everyone wants a cheat sheet for everything. Maximum gain, minimum effort.
The red pill is the antithesis of this mindset. Greatness is achieved through blood and sweat. In order to get what other people don't have, you have to do what other people are not willing to do.
I want this, but I'm mature enough to know that the "minimum effort" required for a goal may still be a significant amount.
To be fair, people have been trying to get rich quick for literally all of human history.
Even worse. They want that cheat sheet in order to finally get into the panties of their oneitis, or they want it to fix the relationship with their basic bitch, which they screwed up beyond repair with their insecure behaviour.
Alllright allright here is my millennial bullet point ultimate pussy plan.
*Wear at least 7 pieces of flair. This is called peacocking and is a PUA requirement. Eyeliner is a must.
*Initiate all sets with Cocky and Funny Neg openers. "Hey girl is it hot in here or is it just me?"
*Repeatedly punch yourself in the dick so you don't reproduce.
Back in a sec, punching myself in the dick.
Wait you mean we werent supposed to do that after joining?
The instructions were very, very clear.
You know who else had pieces of flair? the Nazis, they made the Jews wear pieces of flair. Don't be a flair Nazi.
How do you get a Jewish Girl's number? .. Roll up her sleeve!
Your humor is so dark it started picking up cotton
Office Space, welcome to TRP!
To be fair to Mystery, you talked about doing your own thing. Mystery did his own thing and he was damn good at it. Would it work for me to put on the same clothes as him? No way. Would it work for me to put on stuff that makes me stand out of the crowd? Probably.
Having a fit body, some crazy t-shirt, an all white suite, some really cool glasses that goes well with your face, a necklace/ring/bracelet/whatever with a story behind it. As long as you rock what you are wearing, it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter what it is, but having something that separates you from the crowd will get you attetion.
You yourself look like a bodybuilder. When you enter a room, everyone will look at you. Your thing is being strong, knowing how to eat, train methodically, dicipline etc...
I've read the book, he has some good points but he also has a lot of jibberish in his book. Mystery actually promotes the "practice makes perfect"-mentality and a lot of his views are fundamental in TRP commity.
He is not my type of guy, but I respect him for being one of the best of his trade, even though he went/is/was batshit crazy.
Mystery is the Grandfather of the Manosphere which makes him our grandfather. Our eyeliner wearing, magic trick doing, emo goth grandfather. That being said he milked a lot of betas.
Every successful man eventually begins to understand he can sell his slice of success to those who don't have it. If he didn't milk a lot of betas, he would have set a shitty example and we wouldn't want him as family. At least now we get to be like "oh yeah, that's Grandpa Mystery.... He's.... eccentric"
Man - thinking back to my brokenhearted PUA days and remember some of the mystery videos I watched there is still one technique that I still love and do. It was his buddy that did this on video. But you end up asking the girl if she believes in astrology and palm reading and tell her that "like.. 60% of women believe in something like that." whether she says yes or no just say "look!" and grab her hand and start looking at it all puzzled like. Then in a few seconds Say something along the lines of "Holy shit, do you know what this line means?" (while dragging your finger across the palm of her hand, of course.) and for good technique just stare at her for a second and wait for her to genuinely respond. One girl I did this too actually started going off about what I was referring too and turned out to be wiccan and hipster crazy, so I broke off the tech and actually just started inquiring about all that. But anyway, pause.
She probably won't know what you are getting at and look at you with a big :WTF: on her face. Then you just plop her hand down and say "That's the retard line, it means you are retarded." and then you pat her head or shoulder or something.
Not going to lie, out of all the techniques and stuff - that one I think is actually really great and does a lot to gain rapport with girls.
Out of all Mystery's shit. That little tech. is the one I really actually remember and apply very naturally now.
I genuinely think it's fun so it helps a lot with self amusement, and if you do it early on it sets you up as the leader of conversation and immediately gets her talking. No girl, not a single one, has let me just call her retarded and pat her head and let me walk away. Not all of them had great things to say, but it really creates conversation and if you are smart about you can work with whatever they do next.
PUS really has it's place. But I do agree that place is not here. And I noticed this place was a lot different after I took my break from TRP to go apply and stop reading. It really was shittier to a degree but I saw it being attributed to more newcomers as a byproduct of it becoming a bit more popular.
I can't talk too bad about PUA stuff though, and I don't see a lot here doing it either, because a lot of it works to some end and does some good to make some of it natural. Basic stuff like posturing and vocal tonality etc. are things I learned from PUA that I would never, ever have even thought about had I not come across it there. Those things are good to know about.
As a manager as well, PUA tech, works on rank and file workers. Simple things like turning your audiences attention towards you and then getting your back to a wall as opposed to somewhere open with stuff going on behind you is something I learned from PUA that I do all the time as well, it's just become habit. A lot of it is just effective communication and body language. Something that anyone who took more than comms. 101 probably knows about. But knowing those sorts of things and ingraining them into you to the point that you just do it naturally all the time sets you miles above most people in the world. In fact so little people do things like that, that I get a little giddy if I see other people in (relative) power doing similar things. Most people don't even realize what the do not know, if that makes any sense. But once you learn about those sort of things and apply them consistently, tada - machiveliniasm and dark triad and all that suddenly makes a ton of sense.
So it would be wise to look into both, but it is necessary to create an unambiguously discerning line between the two. And no, I don't think as a community we are succeeding in that regard.
But that's okay. GLO started the train for sure. I believe the sub will turn around a bit and trend more to the idea that people need to take the opportunity to discern for others the difference between PUA, Improvement, and tried and true sexual dynamics.
We'll see. I'll be sure to make more of an effort to draw that discerning line for newcomers as well.
Edit: Don't all y'all start using that palm reading shittily thing and fucking ruin it for me.
And turned Style in a sex deviant. I think he was happier as an incel.
Directions unclear, dick stuck in Peacock.
Absolutely sublime, the efficency of that plan can only be improved by one alternative. Large caliber bullet through the brain stem. A self inflicted gsw, or perhaps castration.
Can confirm this. Nothing is sexier to women that a gun shot wound to the head/ neck. Then they can go on and on about how great it was to be with you.
Far sexier than hanging yourself.
I dare you to say that to all the women who bang themselves to David Carridins memory.
Even with the strangulation boner?
You forgot about milking attention and sympathy for the next 5 years because "my boyfriend killed himself."
These days, I hear that and my next thought is "So dating you is that bad, eh?"
And if he doesn't die from it... she will leave him in a hot second because he's so "needy"...
Hey, it worked for Tyler Durden.
Seppuku is the only accepted form of suicide for an RPer.
Fuck off
I accept death only if it involves EXPLOSIOOONS
I was more thinking of the lines of
*Just be yourself
*Always swipe right
*Most important be confident
Most useless advice ever. The people taking the advice ARE being themselves and their self is a shitty person who can't get laid and is very sexually frustrated. Better advice is to be the best version of yourself, Elliott Hulse anybody?
Wow GLO you changed my life with that advice. I would like to give you gold because I am a retard.
I thought the cheat code goes something like
"X, X ,Y Y , up, down, X, X"
Dammit
Choking on my coffee... too funny
Superb. Absolutely superb. Where can I buy a T-shirt?
Here it is
i'll ''defend'' my crowd here , more so give an explanation of why we are a fucked up generation
Millennials are the childrens of the Contraceptive pill the torn offspring to the ''sexually empowered '' womyn and beta bitches of this world we were raised in a world with participation medals with our parents telling us good job you sucked less than the suckiest kid. This is our reality this is our normal our ''matrix''.
Most families are single parents households, Single mothers, we've been told to go to school thousands of years because we'll end up homeless , no alternative be smart or flip burgers.
Our lifes are nothing more than a mere exercise no harsh truth no reality check we've been living in cotton candy land all our lives.
Nothing prepares us for modern '' real life '' we are just a bunch of highly-educated never field tested individuals. We're entering the job market when the population is shrinking when entry level jobs need 10 Year experience and for every 2 job there was there is now one.
We are being raised on the whole SUPER blue pill women are so awesome because they are women. Be nice to everybody fighting is not a solution , don't do this or that it's dangerous some kid in the 80' died because he played hockey. We are the leftist perfect little dumb ass soldiers protesting every single thing in the streets.
I believe that the red pill is that much harder to swallow because we're beta bitches trough and trough from the bluest of blue and not a sign of Red on the horizon
Don't take this as an excuse, I'm not advising the Victim mentality it's sink or swim for everybody NO EXCUSES.
Just a little microscope on our generation of idiots
Yall aren't highly educated, ur highly programmed. It's been like this pretty much since just before WWII, which was an engineered conflict that normalized a military state and martial law, worsening progressively with each generation.
While millennials got it the worst in terms of overt brainwashing, you also have it better because of access to enormous amounts of information that you can use to break free from the programming.
The rest of us had to learn the hard way, slowly over time, through trial and error. Much more efficient to learn from the mistakes and triumphs of others. Yours will be a generation of great division. People very awake and aware mixed in with some of the most brainwashed incompetent chumps ever seen in the USSA.
I love a good conspiracy as much as the next guy but I'm gonna pass on this one.
This is what I'm talking about when I say programmed and brainwashed. You (and apparently [some] others here), have no real study behind your ignorant opinions, other than what was spoon fed to you at
indoctrination campschool by the same group of men who enabled the rise of feminism, Communism, and fascism in the western world today. The thought of challenging those opinions is so emotionally damaging and painful for your ego that you dismiss them out of hand, and use mockery in place of logic, JUST LIKE A FEMINIST.The great depression was caused by "first inflation then deflation" just like Jefferson said bankers would do. It created the conditions ripe for fascism to arrise, where it came both to Germany AND the USA. The bankers then funded both sides of the conflict as usual, with GM, Ford, JP Morgan, and Bush being notable collaborators, tho there were many others. Compounding (or initiating) the push and execution of war was the desire of zionist globalists (who are interwoven with bankers) for a Jewish state on the geography of historic Israel/Palestine and to
forceencourage Jews to relocate there.Then after the war, operation paperclip brought the Nazi scientists to Amerika where I'm sure no ill thought was conceived nor action taken. Wake up people. You rail against the feminist programming of society and schools while simultaneously believing everything they taught you about history.
YOU MUST CHALLENGE EVERY BELIEF AND EVERY THING YOU WERE TAUGHT BY THE GOVT. Take nothing for granted.
I'm going to consider your point of view just because of the fact you know about the monetary phenomenon that of "first by inflation then by deflation". I don't know much about history or what data to trust, but I've done some personal research on economics. So many idiots, even idiots with PhDs think WWII got us out of the Great Depression. Broken window fallacy is econ 101.
"What is history, but a fable agreed upon?" - Napoleon
You might be interested in reading "The Creature From Jekyll Island" which talks about the creation of the Federal Reserve. The most evil institution in current existence that most people are unaware of. Manipulating the market by setting interest rates. If people were able to comprehend how devastating the Fed has been to the economy and our standard of living, their would be a revolution tomorrow to end the Fed.
I know the joos are bad, but there's no way i'm going to blindly believe a random anon on the internet telling me ww2 was an inside job.
Who is your drug dealer and can I have their number?
You realize even without bankers, any monetary system will be subject to inflation, right? Go back to the gold standard? Well look at 1700 Spain. They inflated themselves into an economic crisis by mining all of the gold out of Latin America. Any good you use as Fiat currency can have it's production increased, resulting in inflation.
People have always used inflation as a means of control, and even if you kill all the bankers and reset the whole world, there will still be people in the future that use inflation as a means of control. If you're really an anarchist go live in the Wyoming mountains by your self like the Uni-bomber.
You left out the part about operation Snake eater and the Philosophers' legacy.
It was engineered by reptilian illuminati banker jews, obviously.
Wow, ur so cool with ur A&A, and expert use of mockery to attack an intellectual position.
Ya, the feelz aren't good on that. Better to stick your head in the sand than do any research.
Some people actually think wars are about preserving freedom and honor and all that other bullshit.
It's about control and dominance like anything else.
yes and yes. I feel so blessed because of the internet, but honestly it's not easy to find the right info.
It can be difficult to avoid information overload and ascertain the truth. You need strategies to process, challenge, interpret, compare, analyze, etc etc.
You must entertain ideas without being beholden to them.
You must challenge everything you were taught, especially what you were told by official sources (govt, school, media, doctors)
You must become as experienced and educated as possible to develop perspective.
You must identify when your ego and emotions have a vested interest in maintaining a particular viewpoint.
You have to hold LOTS info and ideas in a sort of nebulous cloud where you can play with it, giving it new forms and shapes to see what comes forth, much like cloud gazing.
You must learn to meditate, which means first becoming present and aware of the immediate moment (the now), and then calming the mind to stillness. This is where insight, creativity, and life originate.
You have to look at most things in terms of probability rather than absolutes. As you build models and probabilities of the data you have, points of commonality and clarity begin to emerge.
You must develop principles by which to navigate and interpret. Most decisions are interactions of various principles at work.
Your existence IS. You have life. And degrees of freedom. And the highest claim to your body. These are self evident, absolute, truths. We can derive further truths from these, but I know of few to no things more certain than these.
Here's a good article on analyzing the news
I totally agree with you. Being critical has never been my weak spot though, what i found to be hardest, and what can fuck you over the most (the greatest danger for literally anyone), is not finding the different ideas, not being exposed to them means you basically have to come up with ALL OF THEM on your own, and then have EVERYONE tell you that you are wrong, and if that happens, you truly don't know what to believe. Say if i never found TRP, i would have never in a thousand years came up with, not even the fundamental/basic knowledge from here. I could be critical of ideas presented to me and such but without a wide perspective (which society as a whole tries to stop you from being exposed to) you are doomed to drown in self-doubt about your knowledge, and you can even come to doubt your very own ability to reason, it's like gaslighting. Hell, even if you are confident enough in your own ideas, you may be ostracized from society if your ideas fall outside of the overton window, which really sucks because discussion is necessary to breed great, robust ideas.
The USA never left a wartime economy, and never gave up wartime emergency powers, after WW2. The USA is still in a declared state of emergency.
I wish more people knew this.
I'm glad to stand on the correct side of that line. The biggest mistake I ever made was wasting time trying to get those on the other side to look around and understand. They have to want to wake up themselves.
Your generation wasn't the first to witness all those things. It's been like that for a couple of generations now.
Yeah, don't kick yourself too hard.
In the U.S. and in Europe (Eastern and SE Europe included) every generation since the end of WWII has had it easier and, as a result, has become softer.
I too am 'softer' than my dad, and he is 'softer' than my grandfather, who witnessed two world wars firsthand - one as a kid, one as an adult.
But the softening process is now going to extremes, especially in the U.S., so you guys are not entirely to blame.
I guess I should feel proud that I'm not softer than my dad. That's the direction it should go.
As much of a BP pussy as I've been most of my life, also harder than my dad. All my siblings harder than my dad. Thanks for being such an obvious example, dad, that we could work against.
LOL @ this shit.
i started working in tech when i was 14 years old. i didn't even have my learner's permit, so my fucking mom drove me to and from my first job after school, where i basically shoveled digital shit installing software for developers until 2 in the morning. <3 u mom.
back in those days we didn't have virtual disk imaging, automated software updates, fucking three dozen different scripting languages to automate installs in, easy to use package managers, or any of that shit, installing software was the shittiest job in tech you can possibly imagine.
when i entered the job market at age 21 after college i already had 7 years of experience, because i also worked a series of shitty tech jobs throughout school, even though i didn't need to. i had to pull shit OFF of my resume because it was too long and looked ridiculous.
whenever i hear someone at age 21 wondering why entry level jobs need years of experience i just laugh. if you didn't start working when you were a teenager, you're at a disadvantage because motherfuckers like me are out there. (or, would be, if i didn't have my own thing going on).
fucking kids these days.
Tell that to a 22 year old upper middleclass princess who just graduated with her liberal arts degree, and went straight from mommy and daddy's house to an upperclass university comfy campus/party life for the past 4 years.
"I can't find a job because I don't have experience, and can't get an entry level job because I'm over qualified"
"Well you're 22 fucking years old and have NEVER had a job...."
yeah i wouldnt either.
Why the fuck should you get a job if you are not qualified and your parents pay for everything.
i grew up upper middle class in suburbia, my parents bought me a nice car, i had other nice things, never had to do chores, etc.
i was just born with drive and a natural intuition for getting a fucking job, when most people are not.
most successful people i know have a very similar story. i know people who worked in ice cream shops when they were teenagers whose parents were worth a lot of fucking money. people like my parents worked for people like their parents. rich people are not all the same. i would say the spoiled dickheads/bitches are actually in the minority of families worth $millions.
Wow. That's an interesting point. I always thought I'd been handed opportunities, but reading your life story... it pretty closely mirrors mine.
I was a tech geek at 10, teaching other kids how tech works as an actual neighborhood class, coding my own databases and projects at 12-14, working an actual retail job at 16, holding down two jobs at once before 18, put myself through college...
It must be all that white male privilege.
well, i'm not white, so it definitely isn't.
Pussy cheat sheet.
Lifting begets confidence, Confidence begets game, Game begets alpha mentality.
This may sound reductionist but really, it's that simple.
They could easily (just play the numbers game), but they don't want to leave their comfort zone.
For me it turned out to be really easy to get laid once I just tried, but you'll cringe left and right constantly. Many (I'd say most) men simply aren't made to deal with this.
I just don't want to live that life. I would literally have to dedicate my whole life to getting that routine down. I mean fuck work and everything else, to get laid I would have to go to the red pill university and work on that shit alone like it's the cancer for cure. I don't want to live my life revolving around trying to get laid. It's sounds exhausting and shallow.
A lot of BP friends say "Yea I could do that if I had x". When that thing is willpower, and they have none. That is a fundamental part of you, and it must change in order for shit to get done.
I say its always the following thing, from a guy who never got laid at all
Lift weights - Girls like muscles. Muscles take time to grow. Finding a program that works for you can take YEARS. There is no quick way for some people. I've been "lifting" for years, but I've only been LIFTING for the last few months with progressive overload. (aka I'm gradually increasing my lifts on specific weights).
Tinder etc - Tinder if used correctly (good photos, good game) you can bang longest within 2-3 months. Thats the LONGEST. So no excuse if you can't close in 12 weeks max from any dating app.
Facebook - Actually got with two girls this year from randomly chatting to them on facebook. Complete strangers.
Work/Lifestyle - I'm my own boss. I drive a nice-ish ride. I know where I'm going, and how I'm getting there. Girls have often told me "you're so driven" love it.
Bars/Clubs - Whilst I personally am not much of a fan, on saturday I went to a club, and almost pulled a 9, (i was too drunk and couldn't find her after we chatted and flirted etc) but these venues are always there. But you gotta look good, go in for the kill, and just just go for it.
Even if you focused on just ONE of these things. You'll get "girlz" ha.
Imagine excelling in all? Thats the what TRP is all about.
Too drunk to pull a 9? Then you have to watch this recruitment ad from Heineken on how to be a 'hero" as her white knight saviour...
A beer commercial suggesting that drinking beer might not be all that cool. Much edgy
Lift.
Lift, you motherfucker.
Don't skip the leg day.
They should start click those "hot singles in your area" ads instead of coming here.
They want the answers to the test - they don't want to understand or learn anything. And they think once they get the answers all of their bad behavior will go away.
You hit it on the head UrsusG
Oh look, another guy in his 40s complaining about people younger than him on the internet. After all, I'm sure a guy at his stage in his life spends time with these people all the time, and isn't just making assumptions based off an article he might have read somewhere.
This right fucking here.
Look, 95% of the PMs I get are great. They're good questions from good people who want to learn, improve their individual situations, and do better generally. These people are fantastic and some of them have become good friends of mine. They're great. Then there's that last fucking 5% who are just awful. They ask these questions like "Hey, I understand TRP sooooo well but there's just one thing I don't get: How do I sleep with women?" Not even a strawman. That's what they ask.
What we do here is set up an advanced curriculum. If I write 700 word essay on just one red pill topic, what the hell makes you think I can give you a 50 word summary? Why wouldn't I have written a 50 word post if the idea could be written in 50 words? And if it wouldn't help people generally reach their goals then I don't know why the fuck I would have even written it in the first place. These people fundamentally misunderstand what we do here at The Red Pill.
This isn't Ikea crap where you just follow instructions and shit falls into place. People and situations differ, but they differ within understandable bounds and if you understand those frameworks then you can do really well. PUAs are Ikea instruction people. The Red Pill is like giving you an engineering degree so that you don't need those instructions. We set up a deep and advanced curriculum so that you can really be an expert. Professors love when an interested and motivated student comes to their office hours, but they'll throw you out if you show up just looking for some basic stupid answer or trying to get them to give you the Sparknotes version of a class you missed.
Unfortunately most people want something like this - and it's not just TRP. They want a guide from A-Z with detailed steps along the way: "Master Guitar With [Online Course] within 6 weeks" springs to mind.
Endorsed Contributors have written specifically about this (/u/whisper) phenomon.
I think it boils down to not being able to see and plan accordingly long-term. This is for example why you end up with Paralysis by Analysis. They are afraid of investing time and energy into an activity that might not pan out the way they expected. So as long as he's not investing any time in it, there is also no way he can fail. This in turn preserves his ego.
It's the classic "If I studied I would've passed this exam with an A instead of a D" excuse.
The problem is that PUA shit is stupid. Every minute you save not learning theory, you waste on endless approaches. I'd HATE to spend a day wandering around my city trying to convince women to give me their numbers. I've got shit to do. Quick fixes yield bad results.
To clarify, and not to be facetious, you mean approaching within the means of your time and interest with slow progression is the most effective
I'm not a pick up artist, unless a situation reaaaaallly presents itself to me and is handed to me on a silver platter, I'd never cold approach a chick on the street. I do it at bars but it's really just not my style to use the sidewalk as a nightclub or to beg women to have sex with me. I don't really want to try and overcome the awkwardness of approaching women that I don't know when I have nothing to say.
I'm a pretty conspicuous person in real life. I say and do very noticeable things very frequently and a lot of people know me who I don't know. It's not hard for me to just meet new people. If approaching women on the street is your thing then go right ahead, but if I'm walking somewhere then I've got somewhere to be and if I'm not walking somewhere then I've got a purpose for being where I am. I'd really rather just let shit come to me and that hasn't so far been an issue.
A breath of fresh air for guys who've brainwashed into thinking cold approach is the best method for getting some ass. Cold approaches always seemed kinda off to me, especially in streets. Although doing it in bars and/or going indirect is more natural and yields more results. But, if I see a girl on the streets just standing over, looking into my eyes and smiling at me, hell I'm gonna go and say hi.
I understand now, thanks for the perspective
What do you mean by you doing and saying very noticeable things in real life?
PUA
Men masquerading that they are indifferent to pussy while dedicating full time to chasing it
Some men simply don't understand or have a hard time understanding how to create their own masculine self development plan. So it's clear why you would get questions like: "How do I get this girl to like me" or "How do I get this girl to sleep with me."
As redpillschool explained in his thread about trolls; TRP is just a toolbox. What you do and how you use it is wholly dependent upon you.
When I first came on TRP, after reading the side bar I honestly still was stuck with the same question: "So what the fuck do I do." It wasn't until I realized I needed to implement the knowledge in my own way would I be successful.
I am hearing more and more redpill chatter amongst gamers these days. Presumably after too many turd sandwiches they'll get bored and find ways to better their meat. The best place to start would (of course) be the sidebar.
Can't really get upset over Equinox or PUA's that coddle their audience as the whole point is to make money. Anyone who's ready to swallow would be able to do research for themselves and wake up to the fact they're being milked. The same thing can be seen in coaching for literally anything. Most won't take a handbook or crumble when you tell them to form their own plan, even if you give them the resources to do so. It's just what most of this generation was taught to do.
Well I guess that partially solved GayLubeOil's Turd Sandwitch mystery
As for Equinox its very frustrating not to be allowed to help your paying clients and be forced to jerk their dicks. My friend really hated it.
The Equinox thing baffles me. Not the "slow progression as a cashgrab", that's obvious. I just don't get how they can succeed by delaying squats.
Anyone who can wear a backpack can squat an empty bar, and after that it's just adding weight. Surely even the most cowardly clients can work that out? (well, apparently not, but...)
Good capitalists know to fill in demand to make a profit. I don't personally fault someone from making a legal buck.
The old adage is always relevant, if it's too good to be true it probably is. No shortcuts in life.
I'm a millennial. Can you please post a TL;DR cause I didn't take the time to read your post and I didn't see any bullet points either. I'll go eat Cheetos and drink Mountain Dew while you edit your post thanks.
On a more serious note: becoming a man is hard. Things that are hard to do offer the most satisfaction. I believe that one of our faults as a group is believing the good will of people who say they want to change. In a lot of cases, the actions taken by a person that says "I want to become better" don't actually reflect what is expressed.
As a fellow millennial, Mountain Dew would pair better with a nice zebra cake or goldfish.
If becoming a man was easy, women would do it.
I think the worst posts are those of guys trying to keep girls they cheated on. Their warped oneities is so crippling they really cannot see the table has already been cleared. Also, I saw an ad for planet fitness on the TV the other day. Fumed at myself that I never thought about creating a gym like that. It shows only a few in shape fitness models on treadmills while the rest is an empty gym. Shows no heavy lifting and offers a "safe environment." People will sign up and not go. God its like the perfect business.
Agreed. I hate planet fitness as a gym goer, but as a capitalist I respect the owners. A $10 monthly fee means if people go twice a month, or never, they don't feel bad about it. But it is so cheap, that they feel bad for canceling the membership. It enables gym procrastinators like nothing else.
They also market to the people insecure enough to care about their bodies, but not confident enough to do much about it, thus keeping their gyms empty and able to sell more memberships. (Safe place, judgment free zone etc.)
The way I see it a tenner a month for hot showers in a nationwide chain isn't a bad deal for someone considering road trips or extended travel.
If you go six days a week, you'll make the money back on your water bill alone just by showering there. Plus, at a gym like that, you won't have to knife your neighbor to get a squat rack. Let the old men and the dolled up harlots in full-on make-up and dangly earrings fight over the last elliptical in between spinning classes while you saunter up to your big-ass weights and get done in an hour.
I was under the impression that Planet Fitness has neither squat racks nor big boy weights.
Yeah. I've realized just how pathetic my generation is. Since I've started the redpill life. Its been a complete solo journey.
Friends will see my results and want to follow suit. (Gym results mostly) but when it comes down to it, they simply don't try as hard. They are used to giving up. They believe there is some secret to being ripped or being rich. In reality, the secret is that there is no secret. Hard work is what is required. I went to the gym with a friend one time and his goal was to lose some weight and gain muscle. He spent the entire time on the elliptical (the bicycle thing, don't know what its called I never do cardio). At the end It said he burned 400 calories. I planned to go to subway for a foot long after the gym as im planning to bulk. He decided to get one too. I told him he would be consuming double the calories he just burned off. He still ate anyways.
Honestly, what's the point in trying anything if you aren't going to give it your all?
My generation is weak.
The closest thing to a Pussy Plan to have ever existed here (594pts, 92%). Squeeze out as many bangs as desired and prove TRP accounts to yourself, then move on. That's it.
If that does not help in any way, you are hopeless.
92/92, The most bang for you buck.
I think you hit the nail on the head right there. "ADHD" is used by millennials as an excuse for not having the discipline to study/focus/work for extended periods of time. They take a pill and magically, they are more productive.
They hear about The Red Pill and think its everything they ever wanted: fuck around on the internet for a few hours, and their never-used dick will magically be awash in high quality pussy.
I look at the Red Pill the way I do a mental/learning disability. It doesn't make anything easier, it only helps you realize how much harder you have to work.
I have a bonified case of adhd, the trick is to harness it and use it for good. I can multitask like a mofo, it affords me a very quick intellect that i also use to buffudle and amog others, i hate the adhd bs excuse for failure.
Personally I've found the most important aspect of TRP to be Frame adjustment. Maybe more of the newcomers need to read the sidebar (all of it). I was already "alpha" in the business/money sense before I found TRP but this posts (https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2ykmhu/the_guide_to_accepting_yourself_even_when_women/) had a dramatic effect on me.
I find I'm much more relaxed with work, which allows me to be more productive and sleep a lot better!
My point is I don't feel that TRP is just about women, because just being a real man makes you so much happier and acts as a platform to continue from.
I thought it was already established by GayLubeOil like literally 6 months ago that the vast majority of people here aren't those call of duty nerds that you are all running your mouths about right now?
Well written article, full of the typical motivation that is to be expected from anyone in the business of motivation (GayLubeOil is a personal trainer) but these articles are, in my opinion, all of the same shade and indistinguishable from one another. Starts off with some kind of complaint, goes on to call you a pussy, then goes on to tell you to man up and stop being such a pussy, the end.
GayLubeOil has been in the same relationship ever since he started coming here, why do you all respect him so much? Because he AMOG's you all over the internet?
This subreddit's sole premise revolves around sexual strategy, as stated by the creator, redpillschool, himself. The creator of this subreddit was a beta himself before he himself discovered the benefits of focusing on himself rather than focusing on the female. So why are we hating on beta's that come here? It makes no sense.
Write something new GayLubeOil for once.
I wouldn't call this a motivation article. It's an explanation of how and why Betas get milked for cash, with a very good practical example. In fact it can also be read as a guide to monetizing betas.
Also I never said that TRP is COD Nerds I made the claim that a bunch showed up. Finally my prior post was about the Refugees in Europe so my articles have substantive breadth.
In conclusion you have retard level reading comprehension. I'm sorry you lack the intellectual capacity to enjoy my content. I would personally like to recomend Pat The Bunny as it is intellectualy more suitible for someone of your level.
I'm not about to go through your history and I'm not here at TRP every damn day to see everything you write. Every article I have seen from you reads the same.
Interesting how you allow yourself to show to me that what I wrote bothers you so much that you felt the need to brake frame and insult my intellect. Should have just left it at the first two paragraphs homie.
Also, by your logic, anyone that buys your shit is a beta you're milking for cash. IMO it should be illegal for you to plug your shit here.
Well if you don't read what I write how do you know all my articles are the same? Sorry but Im an inherently antagonistic person and I just can't help but draw prima facie retarded statements out of my haters. It's one of my simple joys.
Why did you have to post the pic of that fucking bunny? I want to touch it now and using the cursor isn't even helping.
Do you want to know why GLO is so respected around here? No because he's a personal trainer. Not because he hawks his shirts. Not because of anything like that.
It's because time and time again he adds content that is of substance. Content that is useful to new members and veterans. Content, like the above, that adds value to this sub.
You're free to disagree with me and GLO. I would like to see you make a post of value. You don't like/respect GLO? Fine.
Add something to this sub that will help me, and the next guy, and the next guy. Come up with, what you feel is a better post than this. By all means.
GLO is respected because he, like others, contribute quality to this sub and it helps myself and others become better, Red Pill men.
The best thing about TRP is it isn't a quick fix. It is the tortoise that beats the hare. It gives men the discipline to carve themselves out of stone rather than of butter.
Grab a hammer and a chisle. And start chipping away.
antifragile is a good book btw. economically the guy who wrote it is a rockstar.
Right on. To me redpill showed me how the world worked. I used that information to realize how blue pill I was and change. Being someone that women want to fuck is better than tricking women into fucking you.
Sometimes it seems like all the advice on hear could be summarised into Be confident, don't give a fuck, grow a pair, and fix your own life first. A woman ain't gonna fix shit.
Welp, time to kill myself then.
Still better mindset than "just kill me know", at least you want to do something by yourself.
I've come to see a lot of it has to do with just not completely swallowing the red pill. They've read the sidebar and they "get it" but they still grew up being fed all this bullshit and they haven't regurgitated it yet.
In other words, they still think if they can get a girl to spend enough time with them the girl will find out he is a good guy and therefore they will be attracted to them somehow. Because they've heard girls their whole life say, " I just want a nice guy".
They never remember the simple fact that you CANNOT negotiate desire.
I notice a similar mentality a lot on AskTRP.
"I have problems with this one girl".
The problem is always "this one girl is treating me like a beta without options".
The solution desired is always "I want this one girl to treat me like I'm Chad, what trick do I have to use from the TRP playbook to get this result?"
It's like they believe in the Red Pill, but want to just dip in, pull out the solution, and then get back to their monogamous LTR with their soon-to-be-cheating ho LTR and believe that while we sort of have a point, in their case they can just use a TRP trick or two to keep their disney unicorn in check.
TL;DR: You can't just lick the pill and hope to get all the benefits of swallowing.
Listen up, if you're here "just to get girls", I suggest you unsubscribe from this sub and go over to r-seduction, or find some Pickup Artist forums instead. Red Pill is a sexual strategy that revolves around permanent self-improvement.
This needs to be a presidential campaign slogan or something.
This sort of thing comes back to a root cause that, as a millenial, I see becoming more common in my own generation.
People want an easy way to get to something, without putting in the work.
They're not willing to face up to reality and own their own shit.
To borrow a phrase from Ayn Rand: "Nobody stays here by faking reality in any manner whatever". What we ultimately do here at TRP, each to the best of our ability, is to confront and deal with reality, based on our own perceptions.
This is why I think there should be age flair or something so we know what generation experience we are dealing with.
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Within the first few words, even.
Great post, while I am only 19 and I never made a post like what you are citing, this hits home with a younger me. I could see myself pulling shit like this.
This is like telling a spiritual guru "I just want to be happy."
Absolutely lost it at "BBC squats"
I died a little reading the part about the gym...
I don't remember how I found TRP, but I am sure glad I have all of these organized essays and stories at my disposal to gather knowledge from. Reading can only do kids so much, they have to go out and try these things for themselves. Go talk to that girl you see in class, go hit on the random groups of girls at the mall. Don't just read about it and pretend you know everything. Blanketing the acronym AWALT over everything you read and write about on here is the big mistake most red pillers make.
That's some fucking bullshit with Equinox. I had no idea. $3k+ can get a good rack and iron inside your house. WTF.
They charge between 50 and 100 per PT session
The Red Pill is what you make it out to be. It's a way of life, that a man carves out of the information provided by all the myriad of Red Pill material floating around here and elsewhere in the manosphere. It is definitely a self-help booklet for many things, but what it should not be limited to is getting laid.
Cheers
This is probably your best post ever, GLO. Bravo
Potentially a bit late to the party but you have to understand OP, so much changes in terms of game advice. First PUA was the whole big deal, just cold approach and talk to girls despite being a nerd who is 100 lbs overweight. Then we realized that a lot of that was a scam so we moved on to other methods.
The truth is, accurate game advice keeps on evolving over time as the market changes so guys want answers. Guys want to know the right answer to get what most guys want, sex with lots of different girls.
There is no "10 minute Abs" redpill. Instant gratification does not exist here, girly boys. Saddle up. It's time to start living.
In case of girls, it just feels that there is some magic pill since you see people who get laid regularly and realize there's just nothing special about them, so you generally think that there must be a few things that you need focus on and when they do get solved you'll drown in pussy like your friends. The worst part about that is how media/TV shows portray colleges etc. and lives being like American Pie.
Add to that the beta mentality of believing that a girlfriend is a solution to all your life problems and the depression you've been facing. She'll fill that empty hole inside you! This is what most of the mainstream media teaches you; and that's why subs like trp do the opposite-put the pussy on an even higher pedestal than it should be (any publicity is good publicity).
Thanks a lot for this paragraph man, I intend on taking it to heart.
I'm near the start of the Millennials generation (born 1985). The Millennial generation ends at right around the year 2000 (the Millennium).
It's 2016 ... that's a 16 year difference (the math checks out). So the kids your talking about are not Millennials.
BURN post part 2
part 1:
Funny, depending on what scale you use, I'm either the oldest millenial, or the youngest gen X er.
Only difference I see is one who is woefully ignorant to manhood in the 21st century, and one who is woefully incapable of staying focused enough to achieve it.
I lifted yesterday. Squats, bench, barbell rows, all 10 sets by 5 reps, 1 minute rest in between. Then I did burpees and mountain climbers for cardio. Spent. Couldnt get out of bed this morning. But I look at my pathetic skinnyfat 25%bf bag of shit body this morning and could only think of one thing.
More.
This is just the beginning. I would rather lift than go on a tinder date. I would rather sleep with my phone on airplane mode than be up at 1am replying desperately to a late night text. I would rather do my Sunday meal prep than be jerkin off to porn.
Teach a wise man one lesson, he will learn ten. Teach a fool ten lessons, now there's two of you.
Lift. Hold frame. DGAF. Start from there. There is no easy way, no god mode here.
Improving your body is about consistently more than than it is doing amazing on any one day. It's Marathon not a sprint.
I think the cardio at the end tipped it over. Still figuring things out.
I have a Perfect Pussy plan...that is guaranteed to get you pussy,all of you folks that is in dry spell for too long...just 3 meet up's with any kind of girl, with 5 minutes maximum time of encounters. With a single requirement first and foremost...Get Ripped First.
edit: can i also promote my shirt design here?
The barbell squat is a complex movement that requires a good amount of mobility and stabilization to be done properly, especially for the P.T. market, which tends to be de-conditioned. In addition to that if you are a personal trainer, you are held liable if your client injures themselves, that being said. I think 6 months of preparation for a de-conditioned client to do a proper barbell squat is reasonable
I had a feeling these so called PUA tricks and tips weren't viable for long term success. As someone who has been working towards a red pill life the past few months, the one aspect always stumping me was game. It's the only thing I felt was lacking. I consistently work out, make small talk when possible (not many girls around here in Scumter S.C. ) go hiking, cooking, etc.
However whenever I am referred to a "system" something inside me tells me it's pretty much B.S. and the end result that really develops out of it is the actual confidence doing all of that stuff with complete strangers actually gives you. I still find the need to improve my "game" but in the end, I think if I consistently work out, do interesting things, and just talk to people whenever possible I'll eventually get there I hope.
I'll be going to college soon so the "do interesting things" part might be seriously dampened by lack of funds unfortunately.
"There is no amount of text I can type that will make you not a bitch."
Nice
At the end of the 3rd paragraph you said that betas fear rapid progression. Isn't that something they would really like instead? I'd love to hear why
I'm a simple man, if I see Frank Yang mentioned in a post, I upvote.
I've always loved Frank but I swear ever since finding TRP my respect for him has just shot through the roof. He is in my eyes the pinnacle of alpha, the perfect alpha. God bless you Frank Yang have my children
This doesn't really have anything to do with your post, but do you still help people w/ diet&nutrition? I sent you a pm recently. Thanks!
I can see your posts, but not your comments for some reason. I pm'ed you Monday evening. Do you need me to send again, or you'll just get to it when you're able?
I can only Skype people with extensive TRP histories because of reasons.
I really wish we had a FAQ for asktrp that we could refer guys to that can't bother to read the side bar.
There is a good start with the sticky post but part should read like the questions that constantly get asked like:
How do I get this one girl?
I just wanna get girls, how?
How do I do tinder?
How do I get my LTR back?
Should I take my LTR back?
I'm depressed, what do?
How do I do TRP when I'm old/young/ethnic/ugly/short/bald/whatever?
I got this girl home but she wouldn't go all the way, what do?
What kind of job should I get, where should I move, other off-topic question.
I'm pretty sure increasing SMV answers almost all of those.
I sure do love it when people generalize millennials like me who would never make a post like this
I agree with what you're saying, but the way that you talk down to the newbies is pretty disgusting.
Boo hoo internet commentators hurt my fee fees. Get the fuck out
I'm not hurt, I just think that, for a whole subreddit of people that strive to be the best men they can be, this is childish.
At least they learned a new SAT word: Analogous. TRP turning boys into men and men into legends.