How To Fuck Your Girl Rough

ex_addict_bro · 2016-06-23T04:35:17+00:00

IF YOU ARE READING THIS GUIDE AND FEEL FEAR/UNEASINESS/LOW VALUE READ HERE.

All those "rough sex guides" caused me to feel fear, uneasiness and retreat. I read them and I felt somehow... different!

How could I do such things to a girl if I really don't want to do this.

After some time I realized the problem was that I did not fuck the girl I really wanted. There was not too much of sexual desire on my part.

Why there was no sexual desire on my part? Because the girl was so-so. HB-HalfOfWhatIdLikeToFuck. HB-IllreplaceyouwithabettergirlASAP. HB-IllMakeMyselfCumThinkingAboutSomeoneElseAndThenYouLeave.

Why that girl was so-so? Because I was afraid to approach girls that I really liked.

Why was I afraid of this? Well, how can I openly approach a girl, how can I have a lot of courage inside if I know (sub)consciously that my life is a mess, that I have X and Y to complete for tomorrow, that I have not been lifting since X days, that I need to fix my car, that I need to clean my kitchen, that...

To build a desire - a desire that makes all those rough things possible - to approach a high quality girl that I feel desire for - first I needed to have my life in order.

In the past, I lied and cheated. Those are not behaviors of a high value man. Don't get me wrong, I do manipulate girls, but I don't sell them blatant lies now. And, if I am selling myself to her as a successful guy - and the reality is that I am not... you see, where it goes. Also, better girl, better shit detectors.

To have rough sex I need to feel desire first. To feel desire I need a quality woman first. To date a high quality woman I need to have my life in order first.

That's how it goes now.

So, if you're feeling uneasy when reading this "rough sex guide" - perhaps you fucking should. Don't bookmark it. Just do the improvements in your life, lift, sidebar, focus on fixing yourself. Because if you don't feel like having rough sex with a woman... don't adjust your set, perhaps this means that you should not have it.

ThrowyMcGruder · 2016-06-23T04:59:28+00:00

I have no source, so consider this anecdotal, but I remember reading something about an anonymous survey done on women asking about their biggest sexual fantasies.

The whole thing had to be scrapped because the overwhelming majority confessed to having rape fantasies.

Now, they obviously don't want to be raped by any old idiot.

They want the hot delivery guy who comes into work once a week with a paper delivery to just go for it, in a romance novel kind of way, when they're in the copy room.

Where she conveniently is during every delivery with a few top buttons opened on her blouse and some very important work to do that involves bending over to get things.

They need to cover this up because it reveals their animalistic, submissive side, and they'll claim that it needs to be covered up because chubby Dan, who works in the next cubicle, might think it's OK to rape.

Then they'll blame the whole thing on the patriarchy anyway.

mgbkurtz · 2016-06-23T16:42:48+00:00

OP is leaving out the psychological aspects of domination. Yes, my g/f and I have "rough sex" as described by OP (maybe even go farther), but the psychological play is very devastating. Denial is usually the most powerful one. Orgasm denial, even denying to punish her (when she's tied and gagged up and begging for it) is crazy good.

Afterwards, however, it's so important to have a cool down or what they call in BDSM "aftercare". Some RP'ers will disagree, but it's extremely important from a comfort and trust factor.

yizolo · 2016-06-23T14:32:40+00:00

Playing volleyball last week and the ball was hit way out of bounds. It went close to the corner one of the girls was in. I told her to go get it. She said no. I smiled like a kid who had found a new toy and told her again to get the ball. She just dug her heels in more, and another guy went to get it for her. I said, "Look what you made him do."

Later one of my plates who was there told me that girl was pissed at me. She said, "Not every girl is submissive like I am."

The same girl acts like a lost kitten around her boyfriend. Even the ones that admit it about themselves don't admit it about their gender.

Forcetobereckonedwit · 2016-06-23T06:06:50+00:00

I can vouch for every single word above.... I have been "Domming" girls for years. In fact, they come to me for precisely that reason. I call them dirty names. I am rough and demanding with them. I choke them. I slap some of them carefully...use the last half of your fingers on her cheek, do not hit her like you'd slap a guy. I get ALL of them to like anal. (that's a whole post in itself) I get them all to like being dirty cock holes for Daddy. I bind them, use floggers on them, leather shackles on wrists and ankles, vibes on clits, fist fucking most of them....the list goes on and on and this is not the place for such stories. I don't care how good of a lover you are or how well you can "make her come". They all seek a male who will treat them like a fuktoy. If you are not, she'll find me, and I will. AWALT and AWWT. I kid you not.

RPill_Clinton · 2016-06-23T06:14:16+00:00

One of my plates who I've kept for a long time loves being degraded. I can literally spit on her, call her a whore, slap her, give her a little water and keep face fucking the shit out of her until she throws up and her make up drips off her face. Then I'll rub her water throw up all over her pussy until she cums. Blows my mind.

OneInAZillion · 2016-06-23T07:42:01+00:00

Women are not some easily broken porcelain doll, they can take quite a bit and love showing it off.

As some girl once said somewhere on this site, "You're not going to break me, but it'd certainly be fun if you tried"

2016-06-23T12:41:37+00:00

It is important to negotiate these things with your partner.

For example, I got into the habit of covering a woman's mouth when their parents are home to keep them quiet and let them moan without fear of being heard. The first few women I did this with LOVED it. I don't pull it out all the time, but one time, when I was in my late teens, I had a gf who had been assaulted, and when I did this she understandably freaked out. However, I had one girlfriend in university, and when we were doing it with her roommates in the house, she expressed concerned that she would be too loud, so I put my hand over her mouth and she came almost instantly. The next time, even though her roommates weren't home, she actually grabbed my hand and put it over her mouth. Not quite the same feeling, of course, so I pulled it away and told her that I would put my hand on her mouth when I felt like it and not when she wanted it.

Some girls are into biting, some are into hair pulling (I only knew one who said she wasn't, but I had been pulling her hair during sex and she always moaned when I did it and she had never mentioned it to me until after we were done seeing each other--which I didn't think was consistent with how she responded to it when we were partners). And I have yet to meet a woman who doesn't like having her ass slapped. Slapping elsewhere is hit and miss. Some women like to be slapped across the face, or have their tits slapped. If I feel like a woman is slap happy, I might give them a light slap on the face when they are riding me and see how they respond. The mouth covering and throat grabbing can be hit and miss, but the overwhelming number of women I've been with enjoyed both. The dirty talk depends on the woman. You pull out words like 'cock' and 'pussy', it's generally a safe bet. You pull out words like 'slut', and 'whore', and 'cunt', it really depends on the trust level, and what she likes. Some women love it, but some women don't. More often, some women like it conditionally. For example, they don't want to be called 'a slut', or 'a whore', they want to be 'your slut', or 'your whore'. So while 'shut up and take my cock whore' might work with some, most would prefer something like 'your my whore', or 'are you a slut for my cock'.

And I have also had a partner ask me to put a knife to her throat during sex, which I only agreed to do if the blade side was facing away from her throat (which she did not like).

These are all innate responses. Biological. Sexually, animals want the strongest seed, so they want a show of strength during copulation. Doing a girl dogging style and pushing her down flat while grabbing her hair with one hand and wrapping your hand around her throat with the other and biting her earlobe or shoulder is akin to what animals do. There are wild cats who bite their mate's shoulder to stop them from getting away.

Still, humans are a different breed of animal. They have socially learned behaviours and you must be sure that these things are consensual, even when the thrill of them is that they are in, in play, not consensual. Make sure she is comfortable with you and trusts you, or give her a command word to let you know if she wants you to stop (like a safe word). This lets her say 'no' and 'stop' and 'don't', which can be part of the fantasy, without you stopping, but that if she pulls out the actual command word, you know to stop.

This can be fun, but you want to make sure she's having a good time. If she's not, it won't be good for either of you in the short or long term.

Il128 · 2016-06-23T11:32:05+00:00

Do not talk to a woman about rough sex! Always, always escalate rough sex until she says, no. There is nothing that will dry a pussy faster than a man asking permission to have sex.

Often times without your prompting a woman will tell you in some way she wants you to rape her. She may say something like, "You can rape me if you want." or "I've always wondered what it was like to be raped."

The first time this happened to me I was put off and confused. I'd never raped anybody and had no idea how to do it. I'm not a rapist. And at the time I had no idea what she wanted. After a couple years in the BDSM community I do now. ^^I ^^also ^^grew ^^to ^^hate ^^the ^^BDSM ^^community. ^^I ^^suggest ^^not ^^interacting ^^with ^^the ^^BDSM ^^community.

So here's a consensual rape guide:

Never "rape" your woman until she asks you to.
Do not pre plan or talk about it with her. It must be spontaneous.
Wait until she knows it's you and she is comfortable in a situation. For example, she's getting in the shower or she's getting ready for bed.
You are playing out a scene. When you approach her for this fantasy, you must be forceful and slightly scary. Initiate with this phrase, "The safe word is, purple." Command her to submit. Tear her clothes off. Be physically rough and say threatening things. Do not ask for sexual positions or acts, take them.
Go by the safe word. No doesn't mean no anymore. Stop doesn't mean stop anymore. Twist her arm. Slap her face. Choke her hard. Rage at her, "Don't scream!" etc.
The actual scene should be as rough as you and she can physically handle. The scene should be as mentally rough as you and she can handle.
This sex isn't about her, it's a rape scene. This sex is about you and taking what you want. She will cum from this, this is exactly what she wants.

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NeoreactionSafe · 2016-06-23T04:10:04+00:00

I'll add that it's at the moment of her orgasm that she needs to be given some kind of kinetic movement.

Even things as simple as grabbing her legs and thrashing them about gives her the sensation of being manhandled. Shake the whole bed if you can. Action.

Crazy?

Sure... but it's just so they can psychologically release their bodies to your control.

Oh, and if it's a low quality girl don't waste the effort. (it should be a reward for the girl that you like and behaves well)

insanity_wow27 · 2016-06-23T10:08:20+00:00

So what if you don't like rough sex. I'm meant to fuck her like she wants every time. Wheres the fun in that.

J_AsapGem · 2016-06-23T13:52:04+00:00

it's vice versa too guys, a HB whatever girl will only fuck betabob in a stupid missionary style while for the alpha she will be a dirty little whore and do whatever you please, it's all about desire, if you're not sexually craving the other person it won't feel as good as it should.

darkflame420 · 2016-06-23T14:03:36+00:00

Additional Techniques

--- Hair pulling: As stated, pull from the roots. If you have no idea what your doing doing test it on yourself. Put your hand one the back of your neck, fingers spread part. Raise your hand into your hair till your palm is full in your hairline. Simply make a fist. It's that easy. Now you have control of her head, great use for rough blowjobs too.

--- Choking: As stated top of the neck. DO NOT PRESS ON THE CENTER OF HER NECK TO START. You aren't trying to crush her windpipe. With the curve of your hand that is between your thumb and index finger press from the top of her neck upwards and have your thumb and index finger squeeze the sides. You aim for the artery to slow blood flow.

Finally. Remember the women's cunts push out babies. Its not some delicate glass flower. She want it to be abused, she wants her groin area to be red and swollen, she want to feel like she be fucked, not like she be pampered. Be a fucking man.

CaptainWasHere · 2016-06-23T12:45:39+00:00

This. Every single girl I've been with the last 10 years has wanted it rough. If I ask them about it or they bring it up or I just go for it, the answer is always the same. They want to let go of inhibitions and be ravaged.

I used to think that there was "porn sex" and "real sex". No true! They want what (at least most) of what you're jerking to.

Use your nails. Pull hair hair. Bite her neck. Slap her thighs. Tie her up!

I have toys and straps on my bed at all times. 100% of the new girls seeing my (basic) toys are intrigued. Not one has walked away.

Be. Her. Fantasy.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-06-23T17:10:55+00:00

Guys interested in this topic may also find my Field Guide to submissive women and my Bondage 101 article of interest.

Uncle Vasya’s Guide to Submissive Women

Of Human Bondage – Uncle Vasya’s Guide for Men Who Like To Tie Up Young Ladies.

You're welcome.

V/Z

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toneroma · 2016-06-23T23:01:28+00:00

If there was one valuable thing I took away from my brief foray with formal "kink", it was the idea that, if a woman wants me to "rape" her, then she has to give me explicit consent to do so, either written or texted - preferably both, followed by confirmation after the fact. The more I've participated in this, the more formal I've gotten with it - and I am not afraid to lay it the fuck out.

Seriously, if you are ever going to participate in a rape fantasy, then you should be able to show in court that she consented to being "raped" as a form of sexual play in every instance that it took place.

SpeakerToRedditors · 2016-06-23T23:10:19+00:00

I'd like to add Growling and grunting.

every women i've slept with loves if i growl or grunt as a fuck them.

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supremelummox · 2016-06-24T06:03:38+00:00

Had a girl that haven't done rough sex before and doesn't really like the idea of it? Did she start to like it?

mehdreamer · 2016-06-23T08:50:08+00:00

We need a good safeword for rape fantasies
A simple "Stop" won't do it. Also, if you have to sign an agreement paper for keeping shit legal, so be it

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What is this?

NietzscheExplosion · 2016-06-23T15:41:59+00:00

I agree with everything you said.

These days cover your ass. Get it in writing somehow (Text, email , voice record) whatever you gotta do.

BluepillProfessor · 2016-06-23T16:30:12+00:00

ironically being misogynistic themselves---the girls who want rape fantasies the most are the ones Feminists hold up as icons: the lawyers, and doctors, and Cal Tech Engineers

A very subtle irony because irony is what you would least expect. I would expect the women who most repress their natural feminity are the ones who demand hard anal and a brown sanchez.

you're fucking a ~~very unstable~~ woman so you probably shouldn't commit to her long term.

FTFY- AWALT, especially successful womyn.

ecosci · 2016-06-23T21:20:59+00:00

Yea doin it rough makes you see clearly how women really are and once you get used to rough sex and making here worship your d*ck it becomes boring plus she gets clingy and jealous and will ruin relationships with friends and family just take her when you think its ok dont have a gameplan its not primal.

chances_are_ur_a_fag · 2016-06-23T06:58:59+00:00

my recent ex of over 3 years was into all things rough, best girl I've had an ltr with as I'm into very very rough play. I did literally anything I wanted, anything. have days worth of footage and pictures (lots of that is on a tumblr blog and my fetlife). prior to her, pretty much most girls I fucked were into some sort of degradation. and it's not even that I specifically sought out girls like that, sure many yes, but others just happened, which leads me to believe that petty much all of them are deviant little sluts. if she's not like that with you then you haven't brought it out of her to be like that with you.

ingenjor · 2016-06-23T10:47:11+00:00

This here is probably the biggest truth bomb I've experienced in adult life. Ever since I started dating after my last relationship, I've met so many women who not only enjoy rough sex, they flat out tell me that's what they like. So now I believe it's the norm. Finally.

Banned_For_Opinion · 2016-06-23T18:04:44+00:00

All 50 shades of grey teaches girls is to find a rich dude and do anything you can to get him. Even if it means being tied up and beaten... All these fake kinky girls running around now saying they're freaks when they just associate BDSM with wealth and security now... COOL...

MattyAnon · 2016-06-23T19:38:50+00:00

Totally agree... dealt with this a lot from girls and it seems to be near universal and it's been a part of the sexuality of the best girls I've known. I'm now a bit wary and suspicious if this isn't a turn-on for them.

One really helpful tip to add to this article:

A big part of the fantasy/need/pleasure is the feeling of not being responsible for the sex act itself. She doesn't feel slutty if she had no choice in the matter. In fact if she actually tried to stop it, she is a pure, good, nice girl and can feel wholesome. While having screaming orgasms like she's never experienced before. The being forced can relax her concerns so much she'll come easier/faster/harder and better and verbally thank you afterwards.

But while she wants to say "no no no" and pretend to mean it, that's blurring the lines too far into a rape conviction. You can't say "Yes, I know I had consent because even though she was screaming no and clawing at my skin, deep down I know she wanted it". Imagine how that sounds in court, while the willing slut from the month before is sitting cross legged and innocent, sobbing with shame and vulnerability in front of the jury.

It shouldn't be your job to work out if "no means no or no means yes or yes means no" or second guess yourself. But it is, and that's life. You have to be realistic about this. She can and will change her mind about what really happened, especially if she falls hard for you and doesn't get enough attention.

So my suggestion on how to exploit this aspect of female sexuality for your own benefit without getting butt-raped by Bubba three times a day for 15 years in the state pen: you TALK like you're raping her, but ACT like you're not. Lots of verbal build up and touching. "I'm going to do what I want with you, whether you like it or not" ... "I'm going to hold you down and choke you while I have my way with you" ... "Are we going to have nice sex tonight, or do I have to tie you down and force you into it?" (I like asking questions where both yes and no lead to sex).

With a verbal lead up to it like that, the actual sex won't need any force at all. She'll be so turned on that the actual forcing won't be needed. It's very important that she verbally/physically consents to the start of sex before you get rough and forceful, and that you're not really raping her, especially the first few times.

Get it all on camera if you can - women can and do change their mind later in order to try to retrospectively reclaim their social virginity and you being in prison for 15 years trying never to pick up the soap doesn't matter one iota to her compared to what people think of her.

So... don't do (physical) rape fantasies without proof of your innocence the first few times you have sex with a girl... better to tease her about the possibility than to actually do it.

bountyhunterdjango · 2016-06-23T19:51:11+00:00

One of the best posts I've seen on this sub, for real I had a realisation when I was about 16 that every girl I'd been with had a kinky submissive side, now I use that to my advantage so hard and getting girls wet is a piece of cake

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Sleepless_Devil · 2016-06-23T14:58:32+00:00

If you feel uneasy or fearful about taking control during sex, you're a pussy who is apparently wanting to be fucked, not fuck girls right.

RedMoonAscendant · 2016-06-23T12:19:28+00:00

You said all women love rough sex. Then you said women that love rough sex are unstable and you shouldn't be with them. Ergo you shouldn't commit to any woman long term.

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play_time_is_over · 2016-06-23T08:39:30+00:00

good tips, especially the hairpulling and stangling. Almost collapsed a chicks wind pipe - she loved it at the time "harder harder" but after was like "I'm having trouble breathing"... not a fun day.

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deville05 · 2016-06-23T10:07:13+00:00

Check. Check. Check. Check. Check. Check. Check. 😎

Also watch this really funny movie called "the little death"

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Jaz_the_Nagai · 2016-06-23T10:02:49+00:00

No mention of consent, you guys make it too easy for blue pills....

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electricqueer · 2016-06-23T21:21:58+00:00

You state that these woman "are unstable and not to commit to them " EXCEPT RAPE FANTASIES are the no. 1 fantasy for women. Doesn't mean they are unstable. Duh.

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Title	How To Fuck Your Girl Rough
Author	TheeRyanGrey
Upvotes	861
Comments	292
Date	23 June 2016 03:48 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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