Helped out a guy I've known for long time and he hooked me up (pun intended) with a high-class escort girl he knows. Spent five hours with her where we went to dinner, had an interesting conversation about RP-topics and then did the deed. Just thought I do a quick writeup about my encounter here while my memory is still fresh.
FYI: Only expense I had was the dinner, the girl was paid for by my friend. Her rates started at $2.5k for 2 hours and $8k for a day (excluding flights, restaurants, requests like threesome etc.)
Before the meetup
I was shown the girl's website where she basically listed her rates, had a bunch of picture sets (nude/clothed), her body stats and an about me section where she described what she is into inside and outside the bedroom.
It was basically an honest tinder profile without the cringey quotes, bad photoshops and pictures taken five years ago before the woman decided she identified as a land whale. It was refreshing to say the least; pic-wise and from her description the girl sounded like a straight 10, not gonna lie here folks.
A day before our meet-up I called her on the work phone to check some formalities. She was accommodating and eager to please. It was a friendly and no BS approach from her part. She asked me what I wanted her to wear, if i had any special requests (e.g wig, special nails or even a butt plug), if it was a formal or casual dinner or if we were going to an art exhibition or some other social gathering.
I told her under which name I booked the table and that I would meet here there at 7pm; to test if she was actually committed to the whole thing I requested her wearing natural makeup, french nails, a tight black dress and high heels;
At the restaurant
I chose one of my favorite restaurants in the city for the date. A place I've been frequenting for years now and where I know all the waiters and even the owner; where I can come in on a Saturday evening and still get a table. If I wanted to to close the deal with a woman I'd always take her there. Being greeted on a first name basis and having a chat with the owner or getting an amuse-bouche from the chef has never failed to impress any girl; it shows social status and makes you interesting.
The restaurant was a semi-upscale place but not pretentious. I'm talking proper shoes, pants and a shirt but nothing over the top. The girl described herself as 'cultured' and 'well-mannered' so it seemed only appropriate to put those qualities to the test; after all, I'd say 90% of the women I've been dating so far have struggled with proper table manners and how to use the right piece of cutlery for every course, despite being self described 'foodies that love eating culture'.
I arrived at the restaurant at 7pm sharp and she was already seated. To my surprise she was exactly as advertised. It was probably the first time in my life where the pictures actually didn't do her justice - funny because usually it's always the other way around, either with height, weight, skin and whatnot. Those girls you meet in bars, clubs, on tinder & OKcupid are always very underwhelming compared to their instagram pages.
When she saw me approaching, she smiled, got up and gave me a hug and a kiss (on the mouth). It was all very natural and to observers we probably looked like a regular couple. I guess that's what they call the 'girlfriend experience' where those escorts actually make an effort to be caring and attentive - opposed to the ever increasing starfish experience you get these days. She also had thought about my requests wore the black dress, shoes and french nails.
To tell you right away, it was probably the best dinner date I've had to this day. There was no BS 'flirty' talk and negging to keep the girl entertained with the hopes to get laid, nor her being on her phone (actually she didn't pull it out once) or talking about pointless shit like 'finding herself' or those 'horrible men' she always came across.
You tend to underestimate it but the thought of guaranteed sex at the end of the day, no matter what, is just relieving. Not only do you make sure you don't waste time, effort and money but you can also enjoy your fucking meal without the usual and pointless chit chat that just makes my brain bleed. I guess you get what you pay for, eh?
We talked about a variety of interesting topics - red pill and random - and it was a very pleasant experience over all. She obviously knew how to keep a conversation going - on of the perks of being an escort I bet ;).
Interestingly enough, the girl also stated in the bio and interest section on her website that she's an admirer of a certain classical composer. Coincidentally, I went to a Conservatorium with a heavy focus on classical music for 7 years and put her knowledge to the test. Turned out you could actually have an in-depth conversation about said composer with her. So she didn't lie there either.
Some of the RP related things we talked about (her answers as I remember them are in italic)
...on other girls and the social dynamic of being an escort
-when men learn about my job they are usually curious and want to know more, when women do, they try to brand me as a whore and slut. They often feel threatened at my very presence, shun me and try to ruin my reputation among all of their friends. When I tell them that I don't fuck sleazy guys in nightclubs every weekend for free, but instead travel the world and can pick my clients who treat me well they usually just reply that 'its just college and everybody is partying'.-
Yes folks, we knew it all along. Nobody sluts shames as much as women, When it comes to being cruel and having a crab bucket mentality they are the champions. Even a study about misogynistic tweets on Twitter showed that over 50% come from women.
...on her type of clients
-I usually get two types of clients: happy and unhappy ones. The unhappy clients have made it in life and are established and usually 40+. All of them are married and have kids, and all of them are miserable. They come to me to forget their horrible wives that they cannot divorce for monetary reasons. Wives that haven't put out in months or even years but at the same time lust after their son's football coaches and teachers. Those men are the worst because they are absolutely broken. They have money, great business success but are always held back by their awful marriages - life ruined basically.
Then I have the happy clients that are usually in their mid 20's to 30's that don't have girlfriends and aren't married - by choice. Majority of them are eligible and successful bachelors that most women would love to put a ring on. They are't looking for cheap women in clubs nor for divorced single mothers that want another provider. They are usually fed up with the current dating market and the whole gender dynamic that we have now. They don't want to date unfeminine and entitled girls and spend a bunch of $ on them if they aren't getting their money's worth. -
PSA: Don't marry and don't have kids if you wanna be on the safe side. As a single guy with the funds that's looking for fun -- > escorts > club sluts
...on MGTOW and if that behaviour upsets or hurts women
-It doesn't hurt nor upset women at all. The majority of men are simply not realizing that most women have endless men at their disposal, literally a phone call away. In high school/college the sorority sisters on my campus used to call them 'Plan D' [wordplay from the plan B pill]. Men they would call if their main guys had a football game going and were unavailable. If those girls were horny and wanted quick sex and a free meal they'd text them.-
Yes boys, there you have it. You cannot own a women it's just your turn. And don't have your hopes up too high - the next Plan-D-guy is just a phone call away.
...on the life after being an escort (marriage/relationships) and being regarded as 'damaged goods'
-If you try long enough, there will always be men that are willing to look past this and are more to eager to get married. I don't want kids nor marriage at the moment but if I tried, I could probably get married to a really wealthy client within the next 6 months. The majority of men these days are just happy that someone wants to marry them. I knew a girl that was of Mormon faith and went to the Emirates to work in an organisation of her church. She got involved with wealthy locals and before she knew was the star at local gang bang parties. When her boyfriend at home found out she just said something about the devil and the struggle of finding back to her spirituality. They are married now with 3 kids.-
Almost spilled my drink when she told me this.... damn!
...on what it takes to be a high class escort and how much jealousy their is with other girls in the business
-Contrary to popular belief, being a high-end escort is very different from your average coked up whore. At our price tag we can't afford to be flakes or to underperform. Our clients have high expectations and want the very best. Our body is our toolkit. Staying young, healthy and beautiful is most important. Vegetarian diet, workout daily, no drugs, no smoking, no tanning, get regular health and STD checkups, maintain/wax private parts, get nails and hair done etc. Most of my escort friends need to be cultured as well. I'd say everyone speaks at least two languages and has a general understanding about higher culture such as arts, food, music. If a client wants to take you out to a Michelin restaurant and to the Opera afterwards, you need to know how to act and carry yourself.
There's no animosity in my circle of escorts, in fact we often work together if a client wants to have a three- or foursome.-
Nothing really to add except that she really had a killer body, all natural and very, very clean and groomed. Perfect nails, brazilian waxed rear and front, laser hair removel on legs, fit body etc. Most of her friends I've seen on other websites do indeed look very classy and not cheap at all.
Since this is not a porn sub, I'll spare you the details. Summed up it was a 11/10 experience. Tight body, very clean and perfectly groomed. Basically someone that put a lot of effort and work into making their body the most aesthetic it can be. She was enthusiastic and her performance was great, it's all about what YOU want. Basically you decide what to do and she'll follow orders. Want her to wear a plug or nipple clamps or certain kind of lingerie - no problem she'll do it. Want her to have a landing strip instead of a Brazilian - she got you covered. Solo performance? Yup, she'll be happy to put on a show for you.
So yeah it's just awesome what money can buy you here. Absolutely no comparison to the starfish girls, sleazy clubbers or other damaged goods you find on the regular market.
One of the most refreshing and best experiences I had with a girl ever. Straight up and no BS. Not worrying about cringey text game before to get her to reply, no weird phone calls afterwards to know what you're up to. Cultured and can hold a convo, won't embarrass you in front of strangers or friends. No worries about pregnancy or other blackmail shit from her part. A girl that you can take to a burger joint as well as to a 5* hotel or a ballet show. Knows to dress and act her part. A lady in the streets and a whore in the sheets.
If I got fuck you money right now, I'd do this every week, you'd never see me looking at regular girls again :). I'm working on that part but until then, just a little reminder that if you're successful there's an alternative to tinder, bargirls or single mothers.
Also fucking sad that nowadays, the escorts seem to be a better catch than their 'normal' counterparts. Just shows you the current state of the market really....
Anyways, hope you found it interesting and if you got any questions, ask away :)