funny i use the term damaged soul too. i'm not always on my best game like i don't have the time or energy to sit there and have perfect game every day and micromanage someone. i've noticed that even young girls who aren't even legal and shouldn't have any n have started gathering up addictions and bad habits like some damn feminist. they have the internet to jump start and accelerate their "education", and thanks to their degenerate parents and internment camps they call schools, they've learned to almost exclusively react based on raw impulse, and they just start following that hedonistic lifestyle and it becomes so hard to stop, it's really hard to stop chasing those highs and lows and seek balance. i learned to seek truth and balance through experience, i realized how unhappy i was, but for a woman to go through the conveyor belt the same way they end up post wall cc riders who only start to open their eyes(if you can call it that) once the cocaine they have stuffed down their throat has run out, and they realize that there's a world outside of feels.

i think anyone can be teachable, they just have to want to learn and be willing to listen. if i'm her prize and the reason why she's listening and learning, all it takes is another dude with game and me having 1 bad day for everything to fall apart. mark passio himself described hypergamy as something bad. if she's always looking to upgrade, well frankly she's always gonna find an upgrade, but i'm not cleaning up after chads mess if she decides to go that route.

when i think of good starting material i think very young girl with loving and mentally healthy parents. i strongly believe that such a family environment is very rare. she already has some sort of stable internal framework so all you have to do is show that you're not some goober and everything should work out. otherwise you're teaching a half grown child from scratch things that rewrite her reality, when her current reality is full of 555s and 666s drugging her daily, and the reality you want to introduce her to is an uphill walk where there world is basically against you. like how do you make an attention and validation junkie put it down and say no? lock them in a cage cold turkey? also if i do something less than ideal along the way, how do i hold myself accountable without looking like some backpedaling beta? from experience women hate it when you apologize to them, for anything.