In the movie The Matrix, a man named Neo is floating around in a giant tub of pink semen while robots harvest his asshole for energy. Neo doesn't know about the energy harvest taking place, because the assrobots have sedated him with a virtual reality called the Matrix. Neo thinks that he's working in an office wearing a suit when in reality he's a naked guy floating around getting his ass drilled by robots.
The problem is that the robots are so busy drilling everyone's assholes that they forgot to fix the glitches in their virtual reality program. Neo notices the glitches and begins to think that something is weird. Wanting to get to the bottom of the situation Neo goes to a mysterious hotel within the Matrix. There he finds a Black guy named Morpheus. As is customary among the Blacks, Morpheus offers Neo some drugs: a Red Pill that allows him to see the truth and a Blue Pill sedative probably xanex.
Neo decides to take the Red Pill and honestly who could blame him? If you are being offered free drugs you obviously go with the most expensive option. Anyway The Red Pill is so fucking strong it immediately wakes Neo up from his 26 year slumber. He sees the Real. Robots are ass harvesting everybody. It's fucking crazy as fuck. He starts freaking out and the robots get rid of him so that they can assharvest someone more chill.
This community has chosen to call itself The Red Pill. In other words by its name alone, this community is implicitly making a very big promise to its readers. That promise is to deliver truth so potent that it will wake the reader from his pink semen tub slumber and allow him to save himself from exploitation by assrobots.
Allright so how do we deliver on our promise? Every Endorsed Contributors has their own unique answer to this question. Rollo Tomassi belives that by showing men the map of the Sexual Marketplace he can help them understand what is happening and avoid the roborape of becoming a beta provider. Archwinger teaches men the micro strategies of intergender relations in the hopes that they will extrapolate up and see the big picture. I GaylubeOil have taken the classic Spartan position, that by putting a man through physical hardship it is possible to reprogram his mind. All of us have our own unique process by which we take men from one state and transform them into a stronger state. So for example if a Red Piller's girlfriend accidently on purpose sits on a strange dick, he will be well prepared. Rollo taught him the hypergamous nature of women. Archwinger taught him about the female rationalizion ego preservation tactic. GaylubeOil has given him the physique to be competitive on Tinder and the will to persevere during stress. This is our hope as ECs and this is how we justify our content as Red Pill.
Unfortunately there is another group of men claiming to be the Red Pill. Lets call them the Counterfeiters. The Counterfeiters are quick to point out whats wrong with society but at no point do they offer a solution. Being angry at society for valuing women above men as it has done since the beginning of time doesn't accomplish anything. Being angry at women for forsaking logic in favor of emotion doesn't change anything. Yelling at the ocean for being salty and undrinkable doesn't transform it into fresh mountain spring water. However, that is exactly what Paul Elam MGTOWs and MRAs are doing. The tragic irony of the Counterfeiters is that by pretending to offer a solution they prevent men from finding a real solution. Venting frustration at women is not self improvement. It's one thing to discuss flaws in female thinking with they aim of greater understanding and perhaps sexual exploitation. It's another thing complety to write off all women and live in a pleasure cave of alcohol, masturbation and self inflicted victimhood.
At the end of the day men are masters of their own destiny. If a man wants to live his life in a virtual reality of video games, alcohol and increasingly bizarre pornography that's fine. There is nothing I or anyone else can do to stop him. However hiding from reality is by definition not the Red Pill. Anyone telling you otherwise is a counterfeiter selling Blue Pills painted Red. What I'm saying is that Paul Elam wants you to get assraped by Robots and that you should buy Rollo's book and lift.
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Ok, I came to TRP via MGTOW. I remember after a breakup, I googled "can a man be happy being single?" and found the MGTOW community - but once I dug in to reading what's out in the greater manosphere, I realized that TRP is more for me.
That said... MGTOW isn't offering a counterfeit red pill, at least in my opinion. They have the same change of perception as we do... They simply calculate that the opportunity cost of improving SMV is too high.
For example - I know a musical prodigy. The man is at the level of that drummer kid in that movie Whiplash. He don't got time for no pussy, life to him is about the keyboard. He's dedicated himself to 88 keys. He might not be MGTOW in his own mind, but he pretty much has their philosophy.
Anyways, just saying MGTOW isn't "giving up" - it's coming to a different conclusion about life.
Obesity decadence and self indulgence are the symptoms of a terminaly I'll society. What MGTOWs don't understand is that by improving their SMV they improve their social standing. This isn't just about sex. Weak men are the first to get sacrificed by society.
True, many people don't really understand how different you are treated if you have good looks and have an athletic build. Almost everyone teats me nicely even when I'm being an asshole except the betas that are jealous of me. Even if you don't have good looks you can do a lot to improve men don't necessary need good looks they just need to be well kept in shape and masculine.
Muscle doesn't define class, money does.
Not class perhaps, but it does help with value. Money, Looks, Status. There are other things too but these all improve value and perceived value. That is why even those who MGTOW should improve these aspects... they do not.
Money literally defines class. If you have money you are high class if you don't you aren't. It's that simple. You aren't going to country clubs and driving a tesla if you are poor.
Yep, bet some old rich wrinkly dudes have some muscled guy doing yard work while they fuck off to the country club. Honours in the dollar.
Money does determine class. However studies have shown the more attractive you are the more you make. There will also be exceptions for the overtly intelligent or lucky but there are far more professional hockey players in the 10% than Elon Musks in this world. There always will be more opportunities for fit men.
How many overweight CEO's or even executive level directors do you see outside of the occasional CTO position?
The answer is almost none. Women respond to attractiveness. HR is driven by women. Advancement is determined by the ability to game women which attractiveness plays a huge part.
The work force climb is very much the same as the SMV ladder. Most just are blind to it.
Not money; social connections. If you have money with no social connections, you will become a target. People will steal from you, gang up on you, file law suits, or find a million other ways to force you to part way with your money.
If you have strong social connections, you could survive even if you had no money to speak of.
You must all be very strong, very rich, and very well connected.
You're right. It just determines whether your dick hangs down or goes inside of you like a turtle.
So Honey Boo Boo is immediately high class?
And muscle is nigh to useless when you're short. Short men should just kill themselves in my opinion.
Money doesnt define class. There is social class and economic class. When people usually refer to 'high class' or 'high society' its those that have the social graces and connections they refer to but not necesarily does that group have to have the money.
Sometimes this difference is outlined in the 'old money' vs 'new money' ideology.
Yeah, but attractive guys are fucking the ugly guy's wife... . Just saying.
Social standing. You mean trying to make people envious of you? How about seeking internal validation rather than external validation.
Everytime people start with those words, it's clear as fuck they're trying to rephrase what the first dude (that they're replying to) said, but with it, changing the point of his comment.
You just made a textbook example of that.
that's why I keep coming back here... gold nuggets like your comment.
GJ keeping the faggotry in check!
Where have MGTOWs said that self improvement was worthless? You do know some of the strongest people on earth are celibate right? Tibetan monks who can go near death at will, Shoalin monks, etc.
And what do you call self improvement? it seems alot of self improvement here is simple easy Western culture stuff like going to the gym and getting manicures. You are still soft and weak.
If a catastrophic event happened 99% of these self improved males would die day 1.
TRP considers social validation part of self improvement. MGTOW don't.
Everyone wants social validation. But there is a difference of being validated for being a movie star or a Navy SEAL.
Agreed, although I wouldn't phrase it as being sacrificed by society, but literally offering yourself to be sacrificed by society.
Wow. Bravo. Didn't think RP actually would admit this.
Sacrificed? so get on your knees and beg not be sacrificed? One shouldn't worry about who is getting sacrificed and just be strong. Pragmatism only goes so far until it weakens your spirit.
I feel what you mean man, i got a muslim friend. He isn't a redpill dude, but he got something he's passionate about, only thinks about school and learning about his religion. That's enough for us to respect each other, passion recognize passion. I know it's subjective but i think a part of manhood is really caring about something and working to figure it out, i think most dudes surround themselves with some sort of challenge because we can't function without. Guys i know whom don't care about school usually have some team sport they are great at and that's enough for me to respect them. With that being said too many guys just don't have a drive for something and want pussy on a platter.
I too come from a different route. You PUA guys are awesome for dealing with women, directly and indirectly. MGTOW seems to be awesome for focusing on yourself (education, goals, etc) to become truly happy without the need or want of a woman. MRA/MRM just want equality from a legal perspective. We should be united, even if every man deep down wants something different. We should not be hive mind, that's what makes men different.
As a black man, I literally laughed out loud at this. Well played.
I didn't check the author when I clicked on the post and this comment alone gave it away as GLO.
Giant tub of pink semen didn't ring any bells?
It's okay for GLO to write this because he has a friend who is a racist.
I love a man who can laugh at the stereotypes painted on his people. It shows confidence.
Hey, I'm Hindu, am cheap as fuck, have Jew gold and a average sized penis but at least I'm not taking drugs offered to me by blacks as is customary for whites.
Hey, I'm white, live in the burbs, drive a Mercedes and take drugs given to me by blacks but at least im not black
In that case, all my black friends must think Im the police.
Yeah, I kind of had a "da-fuq-lol" moment when I read that!
I'm honestly pretty disappointed that he didn't type that the robots were plundering Neo's booty.
Sadly I didn't laugh out loud.
Got anything that'll make me appreciate it more? :)
One of the great tragedies of life is that one cannot provide another with a sense of humor. A contextual explanation of the humor would serve only to strip it of its essence and a deconstruction of its construction would only drain it further. Beyond the meaning of words, the listener is on their own to shape the subjective vision of the world we all share. The best anyone can offer you is a wish of luck in a journey of a well-filled life which will lead to both an expanded selection of source material and consciousness. Sarcasm simply cannot be taught, it must be felt, while we take our contexts as we find them.
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That luck is an illusion. Some sperm must succeed eventually, the strongest one presumably does, that baby will then necessarily feel lucky even though it was inevitable and so not up to luck!
There's also currently 8 billion people alive, doesn't seem very unique to be alive either when there's so many living humans.
Consider too that we feel love and beauty and pleasure and enjoyment as biological processes, almost like automated responses. Yet we call these things good and positive, what makes life worth living, when we necessarily must see these things as positive and good not out of choice but biological instincts.
I'll stfu now and go back to staring at the sun.
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I was being melodramatic? Well alrighty. Good advice, either way.
the fuck you explaining this into oblivion for?
I laughed at the ass harvesting.
I laughed at that & other lines. This is saying something, since I think GLO is a dangerous Sith asshole. Crap, finding an enemy funny is annoying, but comes with finding worthy ones. :)
Seriously, I just took a screen shot of the entire post as it fits on my phone screen, sent it to my friend and asked 'what sentence in here stands out to you?' Hilarious.
so did I, and I'm Neo colored
I guess
Morpheus wasGLO is colorblind!This is a great post and you had me literally laughing out loud. I agree with the general thrust of your argument but there is something I disagree about.
MRAs make up a social movement, a counter-attack against feminism. As a social movement they aspire to create broad changes to institutions such as the court system. They see injustice in the fact that men are easily stripped of custody of their children, men get divorced raped, men pay alimony, men are the vast majority of workplace deaths, suicides, combat deaths, and homeless--and all of this whilst we are brainwashed to believe that this is a man's world and that women are the oppressed.
Because MRAs are a social movement your individual MRA can be a fat piece of shit with body odor. He isn't campaigning for his personal success in the sexual market, he is campaigning for social change--for more equitable treatment for all men and boys. This makes your MRA type something of an altruist or idealist.
MGTOWs, as far as I can tell, are not a social movement but rather a loose collection of herbivore men that voluntarily opt out. The lines get blurred here, however, because some MGTOWs enthusiastically use prostitutes, or engage in short term flings with women but will never commit; going so far as to get a vasectomy to prevent ever being 'trapped'. What each man does to go his own way can look quite a bit like what a red pilled man does. Some MGTOW lift and crush pussy, others look like fat smelly MRAs and dedicate their lives to video games and online trolling. It's not as cut and dry as you present it.
There is no point in shaming or encouraging someone to the RP brigade. I endorse the doctrine of "No enemies to the right." I don't have to be an MRA to see the truth of their convictions and the value of their work. Nor do I have to be a MGTOW to see the logic of their choice even if it's not my personal choice. Each additional man who opens his eyes and acts upon his convictions changes the world--if only slightly. Every man who says "NO!" to the gynocentric agenda of society weakens the feminist Leviathan a little bit more, and that is a beautiful thing.
If you read MRA's criticaly you will understand that they are not on of the Right. The repeat the same equalist humanist egalitarian bullshit leftists do.
As far as I am concerned MRAs and MGTOWs actually help feminists achieve their goal of alienating men from society by normalizing male alienation.
Victory for us is not retreating to a basement it's ruling over women and weak men.
I know you probably have some sort of financial investment in TrP, the more you push it, the more "followers" you get, the more exposure, the more money you make.
But your acting like a feminist/blue piller would towards TrP. They say all the members at TrP are mysogonist/rapists, which is stupid. While you say all MGTOWs are basement dwellers without lives, which is stupid.
I would argue that TrP is helping feminists achieve their goals more so than MGTOW. TrP is constantly empowering women by preaching to raise your value, to become what they want. They are like the puppetmasters while you all are the puppets.
While MGTOWs do what they like; some ignore women, some use escorts, the more attractive hookup through Tinder, and some are basement dwellers (probably the same number as here)
Are you actually a closet feminist going undercover?
Perhaps it's more of an issue of people not understanding the labels they give themselves. I suspect a lot of people would be in the MRA or MGTOW community simply because they are more or less unaware of TRP or something else, and identify as one of those because it is the closest-fit to their ideology, to their knowledge.
You're basically say each MRA is exactly the same politically. NAWALT does not apply to men.
Your logic is so fail it is embarrassing.
The simple fact is TRPs, PUAs, MRAs, MGTOWs, as well as many other types are viewed as part of a giant collective.
This is the well-balanced reply from an EC I was waiting for. Thank you.
I want the MRA movement to succeed. I want the laws changed. I want to see a society that doesn't prey on men.
That being said the MRA movement will never get off the ground. Feminism got off the ground because powerful good looking married women didn't oppose it. Therefore feminism has no natural enemies (besides pure logic of course).
Men in society have two enemies: women and stronger men.
There will never be a tacit support of MRA by powerful men. The powerful use whatever that can to get into and hold power and there are many powerful men that benefit from this blue pill feminist western world we've created. Men are great at forming small groups for defending camp but it takes a very very strong male personality to influence large groups of independent logical minded men.
Absolutely spot on, the more men who become aware the better the chance for change.
Lotta focus on robots drilling some dudes asshole
Take away: Don't be that dude
His ass is like a tube of circus peanuts
where do you think the Gay Lube Oil comes from?
They were in hia cgess and arms, why the focus on assraping? Maybe one time lol
I don't see it.
You trying to tell us all something about yourself subconsciously?
Allow me to be the first to ask:
Who gives a fuck? And why?
So what if there are other subs with similar and/or tangential concerns.
I for one am glad the community at large recognized the massive concern trolling from MGTOWs this summer and told them all to fuck off.
There's nothing noble about giving up and checking out of the game. That's what losers do. You keep improving yourself, and you keep moving forward. That's what men do.
Fuck MGTOW.
When the game gets hard you don't quit, you get better at it and fucking win.
Nature has no patience for organisms that can't sustain themselves in their environment. They become food for stronger organisms, more often then not.
I use those little bitches as counterweights.
MGTOW is just a fancy term for incel
Celibate is just another word for incel
What is the criteria for "winning"?
It's not about the end. It's about the journey.
At first, there is a chaos within you. You feel disquiet in your soul, YOU are your worst enemy.
You need to free your mind. Embrace the tranquility. Focus on yourself. Heal your wounds from past relationships. Find your innear peace. Workout, meditate, educate yourself. Learn to be the witty, charmful guy. Always strive for improvement. Always winning over your lazy self. There are no zero days anymore.
For me, the winning is enjoying the road. Feeling the flow. Seeing the results. I was never so calm in my life. I was never so in control. It feels so good man.
So true. Everyday is an opportunity for growth in some manner. In reality there are only two choices in life. Be lazy, stagnate in complacency, and play the role of self-perpetuated, disempowered victim or actively developing on a daily basis to extend beyond your greatest envisioned potential. There's no middle ground.
Well said. THAT is red pill. A life lived so that if it ended tomorrow, you would not have regrets. A life lived so that if everything were stripped from you, health, wealth, status, and so on, your inner strength would still prevail. I don't think anyone can get 100% there, but that's the real journey in life, in my book.
When you honestly know what you want and start getting it.
Some might say you've won when you have become the man women itch to fuck and other guys wanna be.
You're already that in the right company. Surround yourself with men who outperform you in every way, and you won't be that man. My point is, there's no winning. It's a treadmill to infinity ..
Winning is enjoying the run
This.
Narcissistically fumbling towards fulfillment through sex with women and validation from mem won't get you anywhere. There is a reason that nihilism is a philosophy, and that reason is that life is subjective; there is no end game, there is no winning. When you drown yourself in those goals, you lose sight of what really matters in life. Happiness. Go be happy. If TRP makes you happy, make it yours. If it doesn't, don't waste your time on it, you'll just be unhappy.
On the way to infinity you can do some pretty cool shit with your life. Keep moving up. Stagnation is death.
When you wake up every morning, happy with your life and proud of your accomplishments.
Most of TRP makes TRP purely about pussy.
There is little difference between the pussy starved betas, and the pussy starved TRPers. That is basically more gynocentric than the MGTOWs.
always a good question. Charlie Sheen looks like the gold plated douche when he says "winning".
MGTOW exposed me to the manosphere and to the Red Pill. It is a great bait to get more people here. We should consider trolling them, so they attack us and we get more exposure.
No, we should never troll to get our point across.
The exposure is enough for now but the minute we try to start pulling exposure to ourselves will be the minute this sub gets hit by the reddit police and its sjw following.
You are saying this on TRP on a post made by /u/GayLubeOil.
Trolling is all well and good, but red pill already has way too much exposure (hence the need for the OP; the community is heavily diluted with faggotry).
The first rule of Fight Club is: You do not talk about Fight Club.
We shouldn’t aim to get more exposure; it is up to the Neos to find us and unplug.
Don’t get me wrong: I’m not dismissing MGTOW for leading you to TRP.
MGTOW found me, I didn't go looking for answers. Reading their Facebook page's description was like a revelation. I knew those things were true since I was a child but I could never put them into words. Then came TRP and calibrated everything. Without MGTOW subs and pages going out of their way to advertise, I wouldn't have found the manosphere.
Thank you for this comment. I was subscribed to both the RP and MGTOW subreddit, but your comment made me unsubscribe from MGTOW. Time to improve and win.
Being confident in your relationships with women is definitely worth the struggle at first. MGTOW just sounds boring as fuck. What if I want a kid? What if I want sex? What if I genuinely enjoy watching women struggle as their hamster tries to figure out why they like me so much?
Plus I got in real shape for the first time in my life and I'm not stopping. TRP is just a habit, once you start it honestly seems harder to just sit there and do nothing with your life and have no interesting and beautiful women making it more interesting.
This. It pisses me off to know end when I hear that shit. It's quitting, plain and simple. No one respects quitting, yet MRAs and MGTOWs try to wear that shit like a bizarre badge of honor.
At the same time, if you value something else more than you value having sex, there's no shame in that. But it is a personal choice, and just because you made it doesn't mean others will have the same values.
I value first knowledge, second money and then my body over sex. The thing is, when you live a life of a champion. Going through the hardships, getting better everyday, sex comes alone. This year alone 3 girls offered sex to me.
This right here is true shit. Having notable status in a given realm will almost guarantee that a number of women that exist within said realm will throw themselves at you because they want to fuck your status. It's literally the "fuck me, I'm famous" rule.
So, there's some RP truth right there. If you really want to be a baller, then just "git gud" at something, especially if that something has an audience. I'm a good enough DJ where I can hook up with at least a 6+ at any given gig where I'm spinning and if I open for a major headliner that goes up to a 7.5 minimum.
This is what can happen to an average-looking guy who excels in his own realm. I've talked about Kirill before in here. Literally, all he does is take (amazing) pictures of sluts and pours champagne on their tits at outrageous parties...and photographs everything that happens...and bitches eat that shit up like it was the cure for cancer.
You ain't gotta be rich to score with women. You just have to be good at something relatively popular (which could be almost anything) and be confident about how good you are. Once people in general see how good you are at it, then the propositions for sex will come.
To clarify; it's the MGTOWs who don't want to play the game.
Most MRM guys are interested in the legal aspects of the gender wars.
But what is happening is that there is a lot of cross-pollination going on within the "manosphere." For every one of these so-called "false-flag red pillers," you have three guys who are just kind of sitting at the nexus between the three philosophies.
And before anyone else says anything, there is a rather broad common ground where MGTOW, MHRM, and RP all meet. While this is a valid concern, you need to be certain that you aren't mistakenly putting the hatchet on those people who dwell in that common ground.
You are making the mistake of thinking that others value things the same way you value them and so should make decisions aligned with your judgment.
Choosing to exit a losing hand is actually a negotiating position.
Initially I bought in to the MGTOW mindset as I thought it was a mental change where you literally do not give a fuck about women and never change your behaviours or what you want to do when around them. I thought that meant that when a woman throws herself at you, you still fuck her though but neve get into a relationship. After reading the sub though I saw that exact situation with women throwing themselves at these men, but the men would reject them outright as they are 'going their own way', WTF is wrong with them.
they don't want to deal with drama
it's the old joke, you pay a prostitute to leave, not stay around.
MGTOW is just monk mode that never ends.
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And herein lies the fundamental issue with MGTOW thought. A fat non lifting chub is concurrently seeking game advice while simultaneously saying it's not worth it.
Telling that they are out of the game always seemed like a protection for your ego more than actually giving up on women. If you say you aren't participating to yourself, you won't be hard on yourself when you don't get women.
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I agree. I think on paper MGTOW sounds great, hell if you decide not to get married and focus on your work I think that's sort of a MGTOW move. The issue is that the label becomes a honeypot for losers who want to preserve their ego and justify their failures.
Honestly most dudes don't need to be a millionaire pussy slaying machine. You just need to find what matters in your life, be game aware and fuck some girls every now and again. Accept your limitations, work to break them reasonably and feel content knowing you are doing everything you can. You don't get to decide your limitations or potential by thoughts, only through the cutting edge of your actual effort do you find that ceiling. You don't get to be standing on the ground floor looking up and estimating how high you can go:
shut the fuck up and climb.
He missed the sidebar material on the infamous 'hamster.'
That's the thing, he doesn't know what he wants. TRP made me realize how badly I wanted girls and wanted success. It also made me realize I should never feel guilty for desiring more or better women. Guilt, TRP removes the guilt of daily living by giving perspective. It's the ultimate idgaf reset, that turns into knowing exactly what you want and how to get it.
I think you are painting a broad brush on MGTOWs, when you have a pretty big beard to hide your double chins, and you claim to do roids.
Mr. GLO, I am MGTOW.
I workout approximately 1 hour a day, 6 to 7 days a week. 3 or 4 days, depending are dedicated to weights (aka Lift). I have no use or interest in women, currently as a finish my engineering degree. They are a fanciful distraction. Perhaps, when I attain my goal, I will reassess MGTOW and perhaps dip my toe into PUA territory, which is somewhat difficult as I am an introvert. I am twice divorced, in my mid 30s. So I have been with more than enough women. You guys are great for dealing with women not just in a relationship perspective, but for work, for socializing, for school, but currently, I just don't need another nagging voice trying to persuade me, I just want to go my own way, but by being awesome, fit, in shape, and educated. I use MGTOW to focus on me and mine.
If you are twice divorced and identity as an introvert I'm willing to bet you have a serious deficit of male leadership. So don't be coming here externalizing your problems because at the end of the day you are a prime contributor. MGTOW victimhood faggotry is no different than SJW Faggotry.
But honestly I don't want the next generation of men to be sad lonely and socially awkward so I have to sincerely thank you for your decision not to reproduce.
I just read his roast, yours right here is the best one
Then why the fuck are you on Red Pill, a sub literally about the "discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men?"
Because this is literally the only place where a man can find that positive identity unless they come to some ground-breaking discovery on their own. Doing everything TRP subscribes is basically self-improvement. Whether I use it to focus on getting pussy, or increasing my capital.
"discussion of strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men?"
This. (dealing with women is not always sexual, in fact, its usually not)
I'd like to think that TRP has evolved to be much then that. It's a place for men to discuss how to be their physical and mental best and on such a path women usually follow.
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When did that happen?
I symapthise with MRA'and MGTOW. But universally everyone single one of them is a loser or a grey haired old Man.
I've never seen anyone who I would want to emulate.
Thanks, i really needed to hear that.
This video beautifully illustrates my view on the entire spectrum of dating and sex. Either submit and appreciate my work ethic or fuck off. https://youtu.be/nSofun0TYE4
The next big evolution for TRP is nepotism I believe. Which will be an immense hurdle to overcome, but if done. Would have significant implications for the potential future of masculine men. But the only way to get there is for men to keep moving forward and for them to check-in and want to game the system as it exists.
The trouble is, one of the great benefits of TRP is that it's open for all. Before TRP, there was more nepotism - if your dad wasn't red pilled, you probably wouldn't be. But with TRP, the information you need to become and alpha is available for everyone, and men who are willing to put in the work reap the rewards.
Good thing most men dont want to work hard.
wut? "nepotism" = "favoritism for friends and relatives"??
nepotism (n.)
"favoritism shown to relatives, especially in appointment to high office," 60s, from French népotisme (1650s), from Italian nepotismo, from nepote "nephew," from Latin nepotem (nominative nepos) "grandson, nephew"
Originally, practice of granting privileges to a pope's "nephew" which was a euphemism for his natural son
I'm confused, are you for or against nepotism
I'm for nepotism. I've seen it in action and I participate in it with great results.
Good, I was going to say - I owe my job to it. Greek life was the best decision I made in college.
For what it's worth that's not nepotism, which is a term that involves favoring your family members.
Favoring people you are connected to socially is just normal, it's plain old networking.
Like good ol boy culture? Like if you don't conform to the group's way of thinking you will be ostracized? Like replacing objective judgment of character with aristocracy? Isn't this what feminism is trying to do but for women?
Do you read books? As in books that expose you to concepts you didn't know about before.
Why do you do that? So you don't have to discover everything for yourself from the beginning. It's a great time saver.
Why did I ask that? Substitute people for the book. When you have a network of people you know and have a higher degree of trust for, then you are relying on their knowledge of people you have not met. You don't have to do the digging on the person, or at least not as much.
Which is the point of networks. It saves time and trust. That's the point of nepotism. It saves time and trust. That's the point of patriarchy, aristocracy, tradition, etc. They're prefabbed trust systems that rely one everyone playing by the rules, and ostracizing those who don't.
They are the foundational building blocks of civilization. That's why feminism and other barbarous systems seek to destroy all trust systems in favor of naked force. They cannot earn trust, act rationally, or work within civilized cultures. They must always destroy what they cannot have.
I agree that nepotism helped build civilization but so did slavery. It might work inside corporations but I don't believe it should be sought after moving forward. The best ideas should be propped up no matter who is attached to them. Sycophants often get propped up instead.
Patriarchy is biological. Tradition is circumcising millions of boys. Aristocracy is what the DNC tried pulling during the election, a sense of entitlement just for being in the club. The dinosaurs will die and I hope good sentiments for nepotism die with them.
Lifting is my recommendation to anyone of my male friends going through anything. I figured this out at 18, ten years ago, long before i discovered the community. It just made sense intuitively, and if you think about it, it's easily the most accessible form of self improvement to men. Once I realized gains and saw the attentions of women start to change towards me, I "got it." Even men who used to pick on me in high school respect the hell out of me now. Lift gentleman. Lift. Lift. Lift.
Have a problem with your girlfriend? Lift
Frustrated at work? Lift
Family issues? Lift
Legal trouble? Lift
It's cheap, healthy, and commands respect from society. Once you reach a certain level of physique, the universe will recognize your status. People will defer to you as the group alpha at work, with friends, etc.
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That was the first inkling I had into the red pill. On my own. To see basically all women treat me differently based only on my looks. And down the rabbit hole I went.
I'll say one thing to r MGTOW: They Have solidarity. TRP in some ways brown noses these hoes, gives then what they want to get what you want. To me that's a bit of beta BS.
MGTOW doesn't play the game anymore. It's a movement to CHANGE the game. If you aren't playing that game, your opponent must play yours. You want a red pill woman? Well, some of TRPS game makes the crazy bitches we're trying to avoid; you're fucking yourself in the long run with dread game and such...why would I waste my time trying to scare a hoe??? If it's come to that let her go.
IF A BROAD IS ACTING CRAZY, NOTHING STRAIGHTENS HER OUT MORE THAN NOT DEALING WITH HER SHIT.
Women can't stand to be ignored and will change their ways en masse if men en masse don't put up with it. Have a fucking backbone before you tap that ass. Pussy is not the end all be all of life. Your grandpa knew it and checked the shit out out of women for nonsense; what do you think a spinster is? Be a team and watch your world change for the better.
Interesting view point.
MGTOW don't want to play a game rigged to fail, no matter how efficient you are in the game.
Some of TRP is a circlejerking clusterfuck. Hypergamy, branch swinging, and amused mastery were the only things I found of use.
For me TRP was "lift for yourself."
Continuing with the matrix analogy, Neo was the 'the one' because he himself was an anomaly. If we look at the humans ability to combat the AI (kung fu and all that shit), what makes one person better or worse, weaker or stronger? What makes one man's RP truth more 'right' or 'true' than the next man's? What gave Neo god status in the matrix? Prophecy and probability, was the answer in the matrix, but I don't think that's true in our reality. Those that rise to the top are those that can fundamentally shed their preconceived(taught) notions about reality. There is no prophecy here, only the understanding that the system is built on rules and because of that we can manipulate those rules to generate our desired outcome. Starve yourself of system input and you will become an independent variable capable to asserting your will on the system.
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What's stopping you from armed robbery and taking hundreds of thousands of dollars from a bank? Probably nothing other than fear. Fear that you've been taught to believe is real. Really, what are the chances anything would actually go wrong and you'd get caught, hurt or killed? Probably next to zero if you ran the numbers. This is an extreme example, but it proves the underlying fact, that we've been trained like sheep to obey. Obey what? Other men? Not likely. Not anymore.
Let's go rob a fucking bank im so pumped right now
Nice self-promo, faggot.
Get fucking real and tell us something we don't know. Goddamn shit-posters and their megalomaniacal echo chamber.
FFS, this doesn't need as many posts as it gets. Lay down the fucking law and get on with it.
Thank you! This shit is getting retarded
Rollo's book has a lot of typos
I was disappointed to not be listed among the knowledgeable few, but relieved to see I was not mentioned as a poser.
I FUCKING LOVE BEING ALIVE. Life is a whirl. I travel, I learn shit, I make love to beautiful women. I have this thing called a "job" that pays for these experiences.
YOU ARE BEING LIED TO
Getting the "good job" and buying the house next to the Jones's with the white - fucking picket fences and shit. . . JUST SAY NO!
Being the "nice guy" and sitting on your hands or bringing her flowers or being polite orbiting her. Do you how long you can orbit Uranus? It takes 84 fucking years! That is a lifetime and you can't waste your life being in orbit.
I like my porn, I like my alcohol, and I like to fap. . .all within limits. I learn, I build skillz and I really should lift more, but I am happy with the way things are unfolding.
Whatever you do, don't be a whiney bitch.
YOUR LIFE IS IN YOUR HANDS
If you are confused then go to ASKREDPILL
If you have insight then post it here.
However, I am getting tired of the fuckers who just want to bitch about bitches.
That has been so done you can stick a fork in it.
Fuck the negative: focus on the positive.
I was depressed and exhibiting negative energy between jobs. I read How to win friends and influence people 3 times (well, mostly the first half). I always thought the book was too simple and I was too sophisticated for it having been red pillled already.
Basically, be positive and smile more. Talk less about yourself, no one cares. Somehow the book manages to hammer it home. I'd add in the positivity leads to banter and an aura of someone people want to have around.
All my job interviews flipped from failures to my pick of the litter in two weeks. No joke.
I agree up until a certain point, but being someone who has only recently began coming out of the anger stage... sometimes it's easier said than done.
I've been off and on TRP for almost an entire year, and only this past month have I started to realize being angry was silly... it can be hard to accept reality at face value when you've been fed another story your entire life.
It's important to give people time to make this adjustment. If you start yelling at someone who's trying to get out of being depressed for not getting better soon enough, you're going to push them right back to where they started.
I say, let people get through the anger stage on their own terms. Don't encourage it, but some people need more time than others.
Agreed. I feel like the problem is those who literally don't crawl out the anger/depressed phase because it "makes [them] who they are". It's not a bad thing, but it can be irritating when they refuse to change and keep polluting posts with pointless comments (ignored by the smart on this subreddit).
Personally, I never went through an "anger phase". Certainly, I spent lot of time in "frustration mode" but angry, not really. Only twice in my life have I done what was close to a "hate fuck". I got better.
Other guys are different and I defend those who have to go through that process. But it has to be a process with an end state, eh? You can't get hung up on this.
I could orbit Uranus, but I prefer to fuck Her anus.
Well, to be quite honest that sub is, sadly, very low quality.
I would say If you are confused just keep reading more of the good shit we collected here.
It is kinda funny that as knowledge of the manosphere seeps into the mainstream that people confuse TRP with MRA (obviously this is mainly due to the movie). It is hilarious, we actively hate on MRAs yet the mainstream will take years to make the distinction, assuming they ever figure it out. It is very 48 laws of power. We get to be shitlord, pussy slaying, misogynists while people actually think we are weepy bitches worrying about men getting beat up by their landwhale wives. It could not have worked out any better.
"...but at no point do they offer a solution..." "...by pretending to offer a solution..."
So which one is it?
The red pill was an offer to show Neo the true nature of reality. At no point was Neo obligated to change it and there was no guarantee that he would even accept what he saw as the true reality.
The red pill is truth. Taking the red pill is being shown the truth. What men do with that truth is totally up to them and a completely different matter from taking action. Choosing to opt out of the game can be argued to be the more intelligent choice (similar to the movie "War Games": "The only way to win, is not to play."). Besides, I doubt very many MGTOWs would turn down a no-strings attached BJ, so what does MGTOW even mean?
You seem to be big on solutions, so here's my solutions:
1) Stop trying to arbitrarily exclude people. MGTOW and otherwise. I really enjoy listening to alot of the RP discussion that goes on here until some of you guys start with that "white boy" bullshit and things start to get a little to "aryan nation" and "save our beautiful blonde women" for my taste. This shit happens any time the subject of "foreigners" comes up. Stop it. We're all brothers in the struggle and stronger together. We shouldn't be using "divide and conquer" on ourselves.
2)Come up with a different name. There were other people in the Matrix that didn't choose to "fight the good fight". Some of them chose to participate by contributing somehow to the society in Zion, while others probably went their own way. Just because a man doesn't want to fucking "lift" doesn't mean that he isn't aware of red pill principles and it doesn't make him useless. This isn't a religion. Stop fucking bro shaming. If you're so gung-ho about change and you think lifting your way to an ideal society is the answer, then make your own offshoot of the RP community focused on your niche. Grow the family tree by expanding the community, stop trying to cut limbs off.
3) Deal with it. Seriously. Why do you care so much about what another man does with his life/time? Especially in the case of MGTOWs because those guys are literally over in the corner doing their own thing and not hurting anyone. Let these dudes live.
I don't understand why people are so quick to want to turn everything into a fucking religion. Can't we just sit around and talk about things without wanting to pass out membership cards and start excluding people to make ourselves feel special?
Shame is useful. I wrote about it a while back.
You fuckers just don't get it: We don't care about society. We're not out on a crusade to change it. TRP exists to give men the tools to be successful in society as it is today.
We don't give a flying fuck about growing the community, enlightening men across the globe, or being inclusive towards other men. TRP is about creating change in yourself not the world.
We don't need to create an off-shoot of the RP community because we fucking are the RP community.
So it MGTOW... Time to reflect, to self-center, to find oneself in the midst of frenetic agitation.
Hey, get a hold of yourself there. NO, you're not the whole RP community. TRP has truth. What you do with that truth is up to you.
St-Augustine said "one becomes what one fights". Choose your fights carefully. There is no fight to have with MGTOW. We're on the same boat: freedom from the bluepill world.
No, no, and no.
The fact that it's even referred to as the "RP community" indicates that, yup, TRP came first. Everything else has been a divergent off-shoot of the original RP principles, like bastard children trying to reinterpret the material. This sub, the RP terminology, all of it was created and refined here within TRP. TRP is what we say it is.
We don't want freedom from the Blue Pill world; we want to fucking dominate it. You fuckers keep goddamn thinking our goals are aligned when they've never been.
TRP is about creating a powerful sexual identity for men that allows them to dominate the game at a higher level of play.
MGTOW just stops playing the game, and then hamsters away excuses about it being more enlightened when deep down they know if they could actually achieve rock or movie star levels of SMV and have everything (the power, fame, women, money), they'd take it in a heartbeat.
That is where you're mistaken. Power and fame? I'll leave you to it. I don't give a flying fuck anymore. This is no freedom, this is ego-slavery.
Well, women? I love women. I only see girls these days. I leave you the college girls any day of the week. I've had my share, they bore me to death.
Money? At some point, when you're intelligent and you work enough, you have enough to do whatever it is you want, and you live the life you want, not this parody of life "society" wants you to live.
Anyhow, this is useless. Same as trying to teach TRP to bluepills... Have fun and enjoy whatever it is your enjoying.
You don't care about society, but you want to be successful in society. Doesn't make sense.
We don't care about changing society. We accept it as it is, and seek to thrive it in.
How is this so hard to understand?
It's not, now that you cleared up your original prose. If increasing your standing in the eyes of others is what makes you happy, then TRP is a good choice.
Well said. Even though the goal isn't societal change we would most likely have a better society with less victim mentality and more self improvement and accountability mentality.
Fucking triggered!
The problem is that what you are calling "MGTOW" is just a faded carbon copy of what it used to mean.
Being a man going his own way meant having experienced everything that the red pill preaches first hand, having acted accordingly and having found that your conclusion is to stop investing time, money, ressources and efforts into women. Before you went your own way, you had fucked armies of pussy and knew that most if not all of them where useless and not worth the struggle. You already went through all the struggle to actively improve yourself and yes, you lifted fucking tons of weights.
What it didn't mean is having read about the red pill and decided that it is a formidable excuse to not even go out and try, but to stay the disgusting, lazy and pathetic bag of fat meat that you are, playing vidya 18/7, sipping on your mountain dew and munching bags of doritos, just interrupted by posting childish rants on the internet, where you blame women and society for your failure, in the same way that the landwhales on tumblr complain about that evil white patriarchy, while you should only blame your absolutely despicable self for not getting up and taking control over yourself and your life.
Fuck all of you. Seriously. You draw so many guys away from leading a happy life and then have the balls to come here and whine that people do not appreciate you for doing so. Fucking fuck you assholes.
Holy shit, un-trigger thyself. It's like going on a 4 wheeling forum and arguing that these guys are wasting their lives because dirtbiking is much more fun. Some MGTOWs are neckbeards. Others are goal-oriented guys with their shit together. Hoes may or may not be on their radar. Some people don't want to play the game you play. To each their own.
I do agree. Heartily.
Unfortunately true. But you have to agree that TRP ALSO had plenty of guys living their happy life (even if it feels vapid to some of us).
Chasing pussy might be a worthy goal for a lot of people. Only when you've had your share can you move on, if it ever happens or if you ever feel so inclined. And it's the same with cars, money, travel and glory (ego stroke).
Stop trying to fucking reframe things. I never anywhere said that slaying pussy is the necessary endgoal of TRP and neither does any endorsed material on TRP, since it leaves your end goal up to yourself.
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The same way, some MGTOW are checked-out neckbeards virgins losers, the same way some TRP are in for wetting their dick with random hoes.
Don't tell me I misread, just say it's also diverse and people are here for different reasons.
EXACTLY. And that is why I'm saying there is common ground between TRP and MGTOW.
Self-improvement and physical exercise i. e. Lifting are core tenets of TRP and are actively shamed on r.mgtow as being useless hedonistic tasks with the sole purpose of getting in shape to attract more pussy and men are discouraged to even start.
As I said, they might be using the word MGTOW, but they do not know shit about it. They have given up on their lives and they are cherry-picking from TRP in order to justify it.
Also if you actually have no choice , you can't make a choice. It's like dying from hunger and proclaiming that you just became vegan.
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And there's nothing wrong calling those particular jackholes out over that shit. But don't put that brand on the whole MGTOW or MRM community.
can i get a participation card instead? i tried i swear i did. /s
Hey, random MGTOW guy here. WTF happened? Why you assume the concern trolls are MGTOW?
I don't understand why our differences have to make us hate each other. Do your thing, we do our thing. Constructive criticism is welcome. I think we have a lot more in common than differences.
Also, why assume all MGTOWs are fat gamers. And for the ones who are, why does it bother you? I personally don't give a fuck, pick your own poison and all that.
Because the MGTOW-sphere (primarily on YouTube) has created a virtual reality for losers to hide in and escape the Real. This by definition incompatible with The Red Pill an ideology based on embracing the Real.
Fat Gamers are the definition of people emersed in the virtual. I want the 16 year olds of Red Pill to grow up to become Dan Blazerians not Paul Elam.
That's why it bothers me so much
Well GLO I make a ton of money, lift regularly and look good. I also don't give two shits about chasing women anymore. I bathe myself in reality every day. TRP vs MGTOW isn't real vs unreal. It is external vs internal validation.
It is about have girl vs have no girl. This sub is for sexual strategy. Mgtow is not
Have to severely disagree on this. TRP encourages me to become their own source of validation through unplugging from the system and accomplishing personal ambitions whether it be sex with along of women or building a fortune 500 company.
TRP in Contrast to MGTOW is really a matter of "Self-Validation" vs Opting out of reality and giving way to sexual repression.
Let me stop you right there.
You just described MGTOW in a nutshell. Read the sidebar.
Then why the hell are TRPers and MGTOWers at odds? It seems like MGTOWers read threads from nascent users to TRP who don't read theory and judge the core of this forum based on their ineptitude and lack of understanding.
Many of the threads here impart tips on game and sexual exploit to empower deluded male users stuck in a paradigm of self afflictive social conditioning. It's no end all be all pursuit. Only newer users still influenced by the system make it out to be as such.
A woman should never be a man's goal in life. His foremost calling should be at the forefront. When a man commits to his calling it becomes the other woman all others must compete with for that man's attention, affection, and time making him more valuable in the sexual market as a result, especially if his looks, fashion, finances, and status are all well in order.
Real TRPers don't teach users to derive fulfillment from the pursuit of Booty. Real TRP teaches fulfillment through personal paradigm shifts and radical self improvement that attracts Booty as a fringe benefit. MGTOW encourages opting out of the sexual marketplace all together without the proddings of radical self improvement that TRP encourages.
Many just use it as an excuse to play video games all day and jerk off to porn and say Well the juice isn't worth the squeeze" because they're too lazy to change. This isn't defying the system. This is escapism by means of the system. The antithesis of TRP principle.
Dan Bilzerian inherited all his money, failed at doing SEAL shit, and his claim to fame is wasting his parent's money. He is the very definition of vapid.
It is not surprise that you look up to him.
Ah! Those... We downvote those guys in our sub all the time. They always try to creep in. But they rarely go above 10 points (I guess from newbs or them gaming the votes). My personal take is I despise the bullshit monetization. I wouldn't be surprised if some of them are actually escapist cucks hiding this stuff from their wives.
If they were more up-front with their $$ angle I wouldn't be as bothered. Like you do with your coaching/shirts. These guys just rip off content and make shitty videos to make money out of the community.
I don't watch any of those videos. What kind of concern trolling are they doing?
PS: have an upvote
Some people need to be cut loose.
This post sounds a lot like GayLu... Yep.
I've always been worried about being considered "gmow" but I think I just am too focused...maybe even like physcopathically so. I have almost zero intrest in women, even sexually its like a back burner thought. I spend all of my time in the gym, kitchen, studio or at my job. I put a 150% effort into all of this, where do I fit women into that? Why would I? Every chick my age (early 20's) sucks so bad, they are just annoying and boring. The only thing that keeps me motivated is the fact I know my "manhood" really blooms is in my 30's. Is anyone else in the same boat? Can I get a little guiding wisdom or reassurance im not fucking up?
You're not fucking up. Well, except when you're asking if you're fucking up.
Internal validation is at the crux of MGTOW.
Keep on doing what you feel like doing. Bang a hoe now and then and, mostly, have fun and be happy doing what makes YOU happy. And don't give a fuck about anything anyone might think of you or what you're doing. Learn, have fun, be well.
What's more is there are multiple solutions to these problems... which makes the MGTOWs and angry, whiny, bitchy little boys even more laughable. However I, nor anyone else, can prevent the stupid being stupid. (As I recall there's a genetic factor involved so they were genuinely born that way and no amount of explanation or encouragement is going to change the fact they weren't born with enough of the basics required to make the journey.) So ultimately the only reason we talk about this and tell people that we don't hold responsibility for their success or failure... is because they need to learn that they too hold no responsibility for this. Beyond that, the topic is moot.
Good shit. Dunno if I believe some of that though.
Sure, heredity effects one's gift of understanding, but I believe that outside clear bio/chem influences, our environments shape that more, and many studies point to the same answer. Not absolute fact due to that, but with the inability to know all, I choose to believe that.
Also, I believe that in some form may just be exactly what women often do. Shift blame/causes because of, (perceived to be) "innate," traits about someone. Now I'm not sayingb you're shifting blame, as it's not your responsibility to teach these ignorant people, I just think you're at worst allowing some lazy thinking (I sure fucking do) and coming to some incorrect conclusions by misattributing the source of their incompetence to an inherent ability.
I really don't believe most people are innately retards, (which is not to say I don't believe plenty of people don't act like complete idiots that are willfully ignorant) just that most people are given shit suboptimal environments to thrive in as a burgeoning conscious being. I think a lot of the willful ignorance is just a manifestation of fears, insecurities, and immature coping mechanisms learned from growing in a shit environment so they did not learn how to take responsibility and to consciously control their lives.
It's called Epigenetics. Your gene expression can change a lot without your genetic sequence changing and it is affected by environmental factors. Lifting, learning game, and being alpha will literally make you a different person. Literally bruh.
So you're saying it's not innate from birth.
From the above original comment:
..."(As I recall there's a genetic factor involved so they were genuinely born that way and no amount of explanation or encouragement is going to change the fact they weren't born with enough of the basics required to make the journey.) ..."
Yes, genetic factor involved. i.e. the complete outcome will be determined by a mixture of environment and genetics. Your conflation is similar to the arguments leveled at evo psych by calling it genetic determinism. By the very nature of the topic it is not that.
As a general rule, genetics tend to provide your limits. Mix it with your life, how well you eat, how much you study, what level of help you get etc and you'll find out how tall you are, how strong you are and how educated you are. Even in primary school, you'll see some kids get something instantly, while others struggle to comprehend that which seems simple to the rest of us. This is just the beginning of the genetic expressions.
There are people out there who are simply not bright enough to comprehend TRP in the first place. This could be down to their education and chances for intellectual growth. Within that group there will be a small number who fell at the bottom end of the intelligence distribution and it didn't really matter if they had a better education... they'd still be unable to comprehend TRP.
This is all just pedantry though since I just identify from their attitude and use of/response to argumentation, if a person is too dumb to comprehend the pill fully. As it's not my responsibility to deal with their life, I care little whether I make a mistake on this. After all... it's your responsibility to present yourself properly to others and your behaviour is on you. Not me. Anybody who shows a good attitude will get my help.
Good convo man thanks for going back and forth with me :) I think we largely agree on much of this topic. I only saw a slight connection to an often criticized mode of thought we see in submissive types/women and wanted to share, where shortcomings are excused because they're, "innate," and thus the individual defeats themselves/believes they've won before ever beginning to take initiative.
I agree we are not all equal yet special snowflakes. I do believe many individuals have more potential than they believe but had a confidence destroying environment and such atrribute their perception of things making it harder for them to break those chains and decide to excel.
There are certainly strong points of evidence for both aspects playing heavily into a person's life. It is not a zero sum in the nature/nurture dichotomy, and there's certainly some overlap of how one's nurturing is actually affected by their nature.
yes, but thats minority of those whining about it. The majority of the whining ones fully comprehend TRP and agree with it but are unable to get into "the top 20%" at any/reasonable cost.
Nature vs Nurture
Men are forged by iron, conflict, perseverance. Mental frame and physique are the tells a man has overcome. A boy is born unto the world. Weak at its very nature. While some are genetically gifted, men are born through their own nurturing. No one can lift or learn for you.
Not SO simple, genetically, we have two types of brain, some will be able to learn from whatever happens to them, and become stronger, some won't.
Both types of brains are capable but one is more predisposed to it.
There's certainly a genetic factor but it can be changed a bit. Possibly quite a bit as we don't even know much about the brain and the human body. We could possibly become super human as we have a lot of DNA codes we don't really use.
I disagree with you here. I do think that some people, no matter how much help and guidance they receive, will never change or "see the light". But to say "some people are not born with enough of the basics required to make the journey" opens up for the door to self loathing and disappointed for the "uninformed" so that they would never try to change as they believe they are just born this way and there is possibility for a change. Also I think I have a moral responsibility to try to help and inform others, and by having the thought that they are just stupid or genetically weaker, It opens up the door for me to be lazy and not try to help them.
They're 'stuck' in the anger phase, permanently. To apply TRP effectively, you MUST transcend to where what former truths made you angry, now make you laugh.
And, at some point, one can realize the game doesn't amuse him anymore. One can find it's rigged, it's shallow, it's vain. And it's ok.
Not all MGOTW are fat, neckbeard virgins. Some have genuinely had enough after having played enough. Or are stuck for a while (or for ever) in the anger phase.
There is room for both TRP AND MGTOW, without disparaging one or the other.
I agree. I have felt for a while that TRP should be split into phases as subs, leave this one for the new people still angry and finding this info mind changing. Make a new one like TRP2 for advanced theory and life stories and such for those who dont need to read beginner stuff anymore.
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Funny, 99% of the time, I do a quick submission check, and the guy 'giving up' on TRP never posts anything, and is just a value leech.
Congratulations, you're the first exception
Yeah, I've made my attempts but I've got no interest on posting about women anymore. If I post, I want it to be more existential and discussion raising.
Oh I agree, my posts are male-focused as well. CAD/Aderall put it best, the greatest thing he's recieved from this place is the understanding that women are the bottom of the priority list
Post the JGTOW, I fond the idea interesting: separating from the system, yet exploiting it.
The one I wanted to do before that on TRP was "Hey Straight White Men, Welcome To Being Jewish" and covering how irrational hate based on personal weaknesses and laziness is why straight white men are now the focus and target of hate by all other groups. And how it's best to ignore it and keep gaming the system and exploiting it through nepotism and connection building.
If you've ever worked with a Jewish Cabal of investors (which I have more than a few times and I'm finally creating one of my own). It's really interesting to learn everyone's tract to success. While lifting isn't per se in all of their backgrounds. Delayed gratification, physical investment, and success tracking and analysis is. You end up with people who know a lot about a lot and have a vast array of skills and abilities. And working with them you start to see how many Faux Alphas there are in business.
Nepotism is the biggest key to all of this mind you followed by self-dealing and seeing the outside world as a collection of fools, resources, and chattel to harvest. You can do it honest, ethical, and legal while still massively fucking over people and fucking them up. And what you'll learn. Is that you can effectively fuck someone sideways and they won't man up to come get revenge. Most of them will take it like a good little prison bitch. So why not fuck them?
interesting. please post this. would be up there with a vas corporateland post
Ah another enlightening Davidkpa comment. Thanks !
Can't tell if you're being legit or sarcastic. But I'll take it lol.
Im legitimately thanking you !!
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Hey, have a blast!
Find a girl that suits you and bread 10 kids out of her, society will thank you for your service.
Well, that's quite the summary of The Matrix.
But I got my hopes up, thought you were going to call out the trolls on this sub. But I guess MRAs are the next best target (although I don't blame them for their anger at the injustice). I guess what pisses you off is their helplessness.
However, most of my comments are political in nature as just being sexually successful does jack shit to change the world. It is my belief that we must spread red pill ideas to counter the extreme brainwashing that has been bestowed upon us by global powers. My point is lifting, being angry, living large does little to affect change. I think we should aspire to forge the world into something better rather than let it burn. But not gonna lie I do enjoy watching it burn.
Seriously this.
The incel attitude of the people here is scary. This isn't about gender roles or getting sex. This is about globalization and people, both male and female, wanting to control your thoughts and consumption.
Using sex as power is literally blue pill shit to me because it fits in line with globalists wanting us to fight with each other.
Have you guys noticed how LUCRATIVE it has become to push a blog about being manly or persuading women? Or about not being a nice guy? Cliche incoming: people here need to open their eyes and THINK.
What's the first rule of Fight Club?
Have fun living in your own matrix then.
That is such a stupid rule, joking or not.
It's not a joke rule, and if you had read the sidebar, 48 Laws of Power, or any of the recommended TRP material, you would fucking know why.
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I don't need to; it's already spelled out.
I actually think that slowly this is what redpill will evolve into; something like an MRA that actually gets shit done. When you really step back and look at things we're all in this together; but I'm on-board with improve yourself first. You really can't move onto anything else like helping others and changing society until you own your own shit. GLO won't admit it but he's done more to help men through his writing then all the MGTOWs, MRA's, and 'on the fence concern posters' put together.
The whole "MGTOW = sitting around masturbating all day" thing is getting pretty old
An excellent analysis GLO. Anger is good so long as it is useful (i.e. motivating you to lift harder and get better). Anger for anger's sake is harmful.
Red pill in matrix is trace program.
The real Red Pill is that all our problems are in the psyche of the collective mind and that the rabbit hole grows with time as the inner worlds of men and women are being manifested out into the outside world so it becomes clearer and clearer how corrupted we are as a species, until it becomes impossible to ignore for everyone.
Modern humanity has fallen asleep to the primary importance of our own psyche in creating our experience, our world and ourselves.
Interesting article, liked the above quote
Here's a little secret, any guy who emancipates himself from his Blue Pill conditioning and becomes Red Pill aware is, in a sense, a MGTOW.
You cannot become Red Pill aware and not be changed to some degree. That change means to some extent you will be 'going your own way' apart from the men who remain trapped in their Blue Pill conditioned existences. You will 'go your own way' and make a conscious effort to engage (or not) with women from a Red Pill perspective that aligns with that new awareness.
I know that's not what you're spelling out in this post, but it needs to be said that once you go down the rabbit hole there's no coming back. It's how guys choose to deal with this new awareness that's at issue with "counterfeit red pills".
William Golding, in one of my favorite essays called "thinking as a hobby" categorizes thinking in 3 stages:
Grade-three thinking is the lowest form and is really hardly thinking at all. Grade-three thinking is reliance on emotion and prejudice.
Grade-two thinking, Golding says, is the detection of contradictions. One step up from grade-three thinking, it allows the wielder to find logical inconsistencies in political systems and religions. Grade-two thinking allows for the detection of hypocrisy. However, grade-two thinking is destructive by nature. People who apply grade-two thinking enjoy dissolving arguments, calling others wrong, complaining about a movie being bad or how the food sucks. But they are unable to make a better argument, movie or food. This is the grade the average redditor lies.
And that brings us to grade-one thinking, which takes the burned-out remains of a landscape ravaged by grade-two thought and begins to try to erect a new edifice. This is hard work. Creation and construction always require more effort and energy than destruction.
You can guess on which grade a redpiller ought to be. The solution stage. Every fucking idiot can yell "but that's wrong!", "but that's bad", "ha ha this book sucks". Fewer fucking idiots, by merit of having balls, end up writing books, cook, compose or solve problems.
True red pill is at grade one. Turning your head away pretending that the rest of the world doesn't exist or expecting things to resolve on their own is grade three or maybe two. They're not solutions to the problem.
Accepting defeat is pitiful period. MGTOW should never have been an enabler for lazy and defeatist mentalities. There are voices there that are only about self-actualization. Crushing pussy, the social status ladder, all of that is ultimately meaningless if it isn't something you personally value. MGTOW can be a guy who wants to play video games for the rest of his life or a guy who sacrifices everything to build a fortune 500 company. It only depends on whether you own that choice you've made and are prepared to live with the circumstances that are result of that. Unfortunately too many champion the phrase without really living with what they are nor are they prepared to improve to change those circumstances.
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don't bother... its useless
LMAO! I am starting to reach the same conclusion...
It's ok not to date, It's not ok not to live.
"buy Rollo's book and lift" I just finished the rational male, and I have been lifting consistently for a month now, so I'm on track, but how to get the sex that I been starved of for 18 years?
As someone who has played lots of video games in his life and who has recently begun to phase them out, ill say this:
Video games fulfilled my competitive drives. With these fulfilled i had no reason to be competitive in reality. I think the same holds true to some extent for porn too. As men, one of our most potent tools we have is our competitive nature. We need to embrace it and nurture it to be our best selves. Getting stronger, more fit, or any physical activity is good for improvement sure, but it is also fuel. Fuel that feeds our innate drive to compete, whether it's with ourselves, our friends, or others. We shouldn't be improving our lifts, looks, or wealth to get more women, we should be doing them because they are good for us. They fulfill the primal drive to compete. I think one of the best parts of TRP is that it opens us up to these ideas. The modern media promotes a negative image of men. A negative outlook on being hyper competitive. A negative image of winning.
If a man approaches a woman he's creepy. If he wins a competitive match in a sport he needs to share the win with everyone because it's not nice to leave out the losers. If a man doesn't keep distance from his job to spend more time with his kids, he's a bad father. If he doesn't spend enough time working harder to get a promotion and earn more, he's a bad father and husband. If he is looking for sex more than twice a week while married and kids, he's being too pushy. The list goes on etc. TRP is a place for men to first, recognize they are valuable, and second, see past all the bs telling us how wrong all our instincts are.
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This provided no useful information and was a self promotion as always (forgot to mention you sell shirts faggot) but an entertaining read.
Your argument is predicated on an assumption that this 'whining' is futile.
It is not, or at least it is not necessarily. Your own post extols how you unplug people with information and thereby change their behaviour, the same can happen for wider society.
Our actions (men AND women) are an interplay of culture and psychology. Men's behaviour has been heavily moderated by culture (and often for the good, the near abolition of rape in modern societies has been very good for progress) whereas women's in the current climate is mostly unliberated by culture and a more primitive psychological behaviour is expressed.
MRA/MGTOW is an attempt (albeit often probably doing more damage than good) to use information to unplug society, i.e. reprogramming our culture for women. The concept is sound, the application could use some work.
At the end of the day these parts of the manosphere must be vital, as the red pill cannot work for everyone - every man unplugs?Well we can't all be top 20% can we, the system will not work! Taken to the limit we need a new system. Absolute focus on self-improvement will not achieve this.
MRAs /MGTOWs don't speak in a language that is conducive of persuading women anything. So either you are wrong and that's not their methodology or they are hopeless spergtards. Either way I can't have them polluting my pool of 16-23 year old baby Alphas whom I'm going to use to invade New Zealand and start an Alpha topia.
Liked the wording of the post :) funny.
MGTOW is mainly coward. It's a form of blue pill less evolved than blue pill itself. It's scratching the blue pill, understanding it's core is bs and staying in nothing rather than trying to at least make a new blue pill for dealing with reality their way. Don't want to take reality at all. No news.
That shit about Morpheus had me rolling.
MGTOW doesn't offer a solution for society, but it does offer a solution for men themselves - to go their own way. Many of the pursuits of TRP and MGTOW overlap - exercise, work, wellbeing.
However the "solution" that TRP claims to offer is anything but. Your claim to helping men is devoting their lives to satisfying women's sexual needs. Your claim to helping society is nihilistic pumping and dumping. You've simply replaced a box of chocolates with a box of condoms.
You are not "alpha". I'm willing to bet 99% of this sub isn't "alpha". Alpha is doing things your own way, how you want it, when you want it. Not simply submitting in another manner.
What you don't understand or more likely understand very well but refuse to accept is that women are mankind's greatest currency. By attracting women toward you, you can later use them as barter with other men.
As for me not being Alpha last time I checked I was a very muscular 225 at 6ft. Your more than welcome to look at my Twitter pictures cry and then declare that masculinity is relative.
Mankind's greatest currency is women? You are sorely mistaken. Man's greatest currency has, and always will be, knowledge.
Aien't it gold?
Gold buys you knowledge, women, comfort and even leadership...
Gold is a store of value and currency. Gold doesn't build things. Men with knowledge can be motivated by it though ..
Exactly.
It helps you buy TIME, acquire knowledge, men with knowledge and means to buy the things to do almost everything one might want.
Cool story let's see you use that knowledge to gain access to important people and power. Unless it's blackmail it's not going to happen.
The guy supplying Kennedy with Whores did very well for himself.
Personally, I already have, but that's not the point. Everything you see around you from the car you drive to the computer you use to the chemical composition of the sheet rock in your house is the product of knowledge, and that knowledge is valuable, and that translates into money/power/etc. It is a scarce and useful resource, and hence, valuable. Hoes don't even factor into it.
There must be, what, 15-20 years age difference between GLO and you (and probably me). Don't worry, he'll calm down. It takes time.
BUT DONT FORGET HOW EVIL WOMYN ARE
Many people with your physique or better claim they are alpha. They certainly look the part - until they open their mouths or do something. Then the lack of insight and life experience spills out. Rich Piana is a lot more muscular than you, Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp a lot more handsome and successful. Didn't stop them from getting divorce raped. Having some alpha characteristics doesn't make you alpha, and even if you are, you still can't out-alpha the system.
You're taking care of your body? Good for you, you'd fit right into MGTOW. We look after our bodies, our cars and our bank accounts.
Using women as currency is, among other things, inefficient. Want to know what's even better currency? Money. Power. Knowledge. Discipline. And you don't need women for any of it.
If I wasn't an Alpha people wouldn't pay $1000 a month to spend 10 hours with me. If I wasn't an Alpha this comunity wouldn't be following my advice.
As for Rich Piana iv spoken with him many times and he has read my articles. A lot of my fitness posts are influenced by our conversations.
You think you're alpha because you're popular on a subreddit filled with skinnyfat teenagers? And because you've spoken with some divorce-raped simp who's ex-wife conned for a green card?
I think that's all that needs to be said.
Rich wasn't divorce raped. His fraudulent marriage was annulled. Honestly the only people who so virulently object to physical strength as an indicator of masculinity are skinny fat keyboard warriors.
Feel free to prove me wrong by posting pictures of your muscular body.
Can confirm. Even the blue pill stalkers can't deny, the mans got mass.
He's as charming as a russian, so don't go expecting a sweet smile, or boyish good looks.
Many of the sources, such as MRAs and MGTOW are offering red pill solutions that by definition are not solutions or red pill.
For it to be a solution, it would require that it resolved some of the issues these men are facing.
Avoidance is not a solution, and engaging in Nirvana fallacies is not a solution. Avoiding women/relationships with women as per MGTOW, is simply avoiding the problem, never leaving your own comfort zone. Engaging in slacktivism to to attempt to change what stems from an underlying biological reality is the same approach feminism has been using for 30 or more years. In addition to pining to resolve an issue through Solomon's ruling, regardless of consequences.
For it to be red pill, it would require that one accepts the underlying reality.
In the case of a MGTOW, one may or may not accept the full range of red pill theory, one lives in a state of either denial, or repression. In the case of an MRA, one lives in a state of sublimation where one hopes that by working hard one can change reality.
MGTOW is a simple decision to not partake in the LTR / Marriage Game.
The sub, under same name, is a combo of newly aware males and endless ranters. Equating a disinterest in Long Term Mating Games with that sub is akin to selecting rant/venting posts and claiming that this entire Sub 'hates women'.
I game purely for sexual release. I apply this shit to ease relations with female family members and when working with women.
However, I do not plate, nor LTR, simply because I have opted out of that.
Similar would be being able to shit around with kids, laugh and play and all that, yet harbour no desire for a kid of my own.
Pretty ironic that a sub dedicated to not partake in LTR/game is so interested in it they constantly rant about it
Assimilation, not everyone gets therr
TRP solves the problem of wanting to 1) increase SMV and 2) increase social standing. For some people, those aren't problems to begin with. They focus on other things, whatever they may be.
The MRM has never offered anything that would be considered a "red pill solution" to the issues that they deal with. In fact, a lot of the social advocacy that the MRM lobbies for actually supports men's right to be as "red pill" as they want to be without social persecution because society already supports women's right to manipulate men as much as they want for their resource and sexual strategy.
What I see here is a lot of getting caught up in the semantics of labels. First off, the "Red Pill tm" is a tool or rather a tool box. You have been granted a look at what's running the machinery behind the curtain...never mind "The Great and Powerful Oz" who is standing out front with the flames and booming voice.
Going back to the whole "Matrix" reference; I totally get that some people would want to go back to the ignorance of life inside of the matrix. You have been given a glimpse of the truth...what you do with it is up to you, but don't be a skank-hater-ass bitch like Cypher. He let pussy skew his viewpoint of the real world and it caused him to betray the people who respected him. And again, he betrayed them over a woman who didn't even fuck him over...she didn't care about him either way because he wasn't The One Thundercock that The Oracle told her would give her the magical gina tingles. Again...fuck a punk ass who indulges in treacherous ass shit just because of some possible pussy...not pussy that he has actually gotten, but pussy that he has just imagined that he might or might not get if he does that heinous-ass thing.
But I digress....
The Red Pill is a toolbox that you can use or not use as you see fit. But the point is that you know. And sometimes, knowing is just enough in of itself.
If this continues at this rate, then all that is going on is mental masturbation that ends up fucking the community over in the long run.
Okay, I'm done preaching...now I'm gonna go eat some Girl Scout cookies because today is my cheat day. I might even go eat a Girl Scout Den Mother too, if she's off the rag....
This is an excellent quote.
End of the day, if youre not doing anything different, youre simply coping...
RP is not a coping strategy. What you do matters, action guides thought.
What I gather from this post is that the Mods are Black and selling drugs to rape victims.
I can't believe it, I 100% agree with GLO here.
I think that the best way to go about life as a man is to accept the harsh truths it has to offer and move forward from it. We've had neckbeards come in and say how status doesn't matter, how you're perceived doesn't matter, give the whole "be yourself and stop caring about what others think", and "Chad is going nowhere in life because he doesn't read books on a Friday night" garbage. A lot of these guy have cucked this sub and turned it from a place of self-improvement to a crying echo chamber.
We need more guys to call this stuff out so this place can be that innovative area of the web where men can get harsh truths as well as how to go about life regardless of the harsh truths being there.
I've wanted to get more talk going on social circles and meeting people but can't because the MGTOWs keep pushing the whole "oh but the lone wolf is cool you don't need people!" type of garbage.
So are we calling a ceasefire between Russia and India?
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why are there so many faggots everywhere looking for handouts to be "a part" of the community?
Finally something well written on the annoying political motivation here. Hatred of women wont fix your problems people...so will blaming your political opponents.
The easiest way to destroy an enemy organization is to infiltrate and sabotage it from within.
As with Cipher infected by Agent influence "Red Pillers" corrupted by Blue Pill influence are rampant among us. Our Red Pill Zion has been infiltrated.
However, archived posts and the Side Bar are our armoury to combat the threat. By mean of them we can restore TRP to the height of it's glory and exile the intruders. Use them wisely, brethren.
When I first clicked on this, I thought it was going to be about people who were masquerading as red pill coming in here to sew misinformation. Instead, I see a post about people that have branded themselves as MGTOW or MRA. That's not the same thing as being a fake-TRP. They are competing philosophies [improve yourself (TRP) vs social engineering (MRA) vs be content being alone (MGTOW)] trying to accomplish the same kind of overall purpose; make men's lives better. They all have their uses. If someone's ugly in a way that can't be changed, maybe MGTOW helps them lead a productive life. If they're being divorce-raped, maybe MRA will do them the most good. For everything else there's TRP.
The only point of a thread like this is trying to drive a wedge and stir up shit between men. You shouldn't need to actively attack the fat neckbeards to prove you're better than them. People should know that just by looking at you. You don't need to do it to prove you think differently than they do either. People should know that just by listening to you. You shouldn't need to draw up borders and actively try to separate yourself for people to know you're different. The rest is just posturing and it looks like insecurity.
I don't need to prove anything. MGTOWs and MRAs are leading my 16-20 year old baby Alphas toward loserhood. That's why I'm telling them to go fuck themselves.
That makes sense actually. I thought you were trying to drive a wedge as some kind of fake-internet-status thing.
One of the best posts I have read in a while. Please, keep it up.
To be totally honest, I think that the "sweet spot" is somewhere between MGTOW and TRP(as described in this sub). Both are extreme. I have no desire to be a SMV obsessed lifter but I also have no desire to never touch or talk to a woman again. Why does everything have to be an extreme, either/or, thing?
Because male competition is extreme. That's what Masculinity is.
Denigrating a gorup of men with sophistry into wanting women puts you, by behavior, right down with the feminists.
Women do not compete equally high from one men to another hierarchy of values. I'd tell you a lot of RP men are vagina chasing animals with no higher purpose and maybe that's your standard.
I do not welcome your one-upman ship, aren't you already content with what you have. Where does this desire to post this critic of others stem from? an ideal? or a personal problem? Certainly not an ideal.
So Red Pill has finally said "fuck you" to MGTOWs. I thought MGTOWs were welcome aslong as they don't whine.
My semen is pink and I am offended.
So Paul Elam is basically the traitor in the matrix feasting on steak and pulling spinal taps for the right to bang Olivia Munn in his corner office. Great post GLO, I laughed way too loud at that black man line, top notch.
I didn't know that was really a thing.
Hey, just my opinion, but I don't really think the serious guys over at MGTOW ever advise boys or very young men to take up a MGTOW lifestyle. To the contrary, they are advised to visit here, and learn from the Red Pill sub. As an alternative, a short period of Monk Mode time might be recommended.
In defense of some of the main points of MGTOW, however, many men there have the opinion that you do not need a woman to be happy. You need to be happy in and of your own self first and foremost.
When discussing sexual strategy, many, if not most of the philosophy from TRP's sidebar and some of the endorsed contributors is shared by MGTOW veterans. As well, in MGTOW's defense, many of the more serious members have decades more experience and perspective on sex, women and relationships, and life in general than many of TRP's endorsed members. No all, of course, but many.
So, all I'd say is that when casting your net, or pointing your argumentative finger, try not focusing on just the tree when you are in the middle of a forest. Men are far more sophisticated than being singled out as "Counterfeiters." That's simply an argument from the point of shallowness or weakness. It sounds good maybe. But not really accurate at all. It's more conclusory than anything. You missed the forest.
From a purely philosophical standpoint the two are completely incompatible. It doesn't matter if MGTOWs are nice guys or have more experience or whatever. People who hide from experience are incompatible with those that seek the Real.
Furthermore I don't belive in inclusivity. Bringing in a bunch of losers into your community doesn't benefit you. I don't give a fuck how it makes them feel. MGTOWs are value leachers most embody toxic negatively and they are bringing down my flock of baby Alphas.
Furthermore man needs to be unhappy there is nothing worse for a man than a state of happiness and content. Women make men unhappy which is why men need women.
In conclusion I'm going to go fuck my shit up with some heavy deadlifts now. My shits gunna be sore for days. Meanwhile MGTOWs are going to happily sprinkle semen all over their mantits and top it all off with cheasy puff crumbles.
I choose unhappiness and suffering and I hope everyone here does the same.
Wakeup!
You don't have a flock of baby alphas, and the folks reading Reddit in general, are not alphas. You have a bunch of pussy starved betas that you call alphas like a suck up.
In fact, if you were a real alpha you would actually be doing something with your life, not hawking your overpriced crappy t-shirts.
Nor would you be pushing roids because you are unwilling to put in the true lifting without juice. You're just a piece of shit heading towards palumboism.
Aye, this... One thing MGTOWs get that a lot of others don't understand is that we don't need women to define us and the second we even start thinking like they do they vacate our lives, lose all respect for us because we have none for ourselves. People take these things way too far and the more extreme borderline outliers of the people who think we don't need women at all and the people who make it there very purpose to get lots of women/the perfect woman suffer from the same problem.
YOU CARE MORE ABOUT STUPID SHIT THEN YOURSELF.
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I knew it was you from the first sentence, GLO.
It's important for everyone to remember that counterfeits only exist in the context of real currency. No one counterfeits Venezuelan money because it's essentially worthless. No one would ever counterfeit a $5 bill, because it's of way less value than a $20, $50, or $100, and takes just as much work. Conversely, the MOST counterfeited currencies are the ones that are the most valuable.
Just like no one counterfeits the Venezuelan currency, there are no "counterfeit betas". Beta strategy is comprised of ineffective bullshit, and who would imitate something that didn't work in the first place? They'd rather pretend to implement the strategy that works, even if they're just faking. The very existence of these dipshits imagining that they've swallowed the fake red pill only proves the power of the legit red pill.
Love you GLO, keep doing work and showing people that where there's counterfeit, there's real currency.
ALL Groups think they are the truth, the way, the light.
Red Pill fight to just do things within the system that exists.
MRAs fight to fix the system while fighting within the system that exists. This is both Red Pill and activism and is doing far more than just ignoring the system issues.
MGTOWs are just being bachelors because they feel that fighting within the system is dangerous they also feel that fighting to fix the system is pointless and would rather put their energies into more self focused activities.
All three are just fine. I've been banned from redpillwives because apparently they don't like realistic conversation. I've been banned from MGTOW because I disagreed with their viewpoint. I've not been banned here but have been warned because I disagree with a lot of what is said in this subreddit. I've been banned from the seduction subreddit because I disagreed with things that are said in there.
The point is that ALL these groups are trying to censor anything that doesn't reinforce their own viewpoint. I've even read today that the blue pill sub-reddit by in large is trying to get this, theredpill, sub-reddit banned from reddit all together just as they want to ban the seduction subreddit.
This censorship nonsense needs to stop. It is not at all rational and disagreeing with points of view needs to be accepted. This hivemind nonsense needs to stop.
The least these ASS robots can do is use Gay Lube Oil to ease the drilling.
They call themselves 'the black pill'. They think that TRP is the alt.non mainstream version of feminism and that an individual solution cannot exist to a systemic phenomenon. Most of them do not deny or are ashamed of being virgin(with no intention to change that) and think porn is freedom.
I thought black pill was abandonment of morals and ethics and straight devil fucking the world for gain. It's a complete disregard for the faux morals and ethics others waste time being concerned with and just getting what you can get as fast and as hard as you can get it.
Your version sounds rather sad and pathetic.
I don't want to link the site,but google black pill and i think it's the second link? But it's true that the black pill is yet to be highjacked completely.Urband dictionary says it's some sort of a conspiraciy related pill,while there are discussions about race related ideologies.
Stupid shit to dwell upon in my opinion,but the version of black pill i am aware of is counterfeit red pill.
Let's dispel once and for all with this fiction that Paul Élan doesn't know what he's doing. He knows exactly what he is doing.
"But video games are okay in moderation!!!" - 80% of users of this sub and 100% of my downvoters.
It's like saying "being a loser is okay in moderation".
You're projecting. Just because playing video games makes you a loser doesn't mean it makes everyone that plays video games a loser.
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No, dude. The way I am built and the way I was raised -- I was NEVER meant to handle drinking in moderation. I was just not designed for that. Is drinking some kind of a duty I must perform? Some routine I must stick to?
As for the other sentence, you suggest I try drinking in moderation after an AA meeting?
Sorry, dude, but I don't follow.
Looks like you're one of the "video game alphas". Maybe you should join that "voyerist alpha" club at cuckold subreddit.
"Haha great essay GLO, but of course this doesn't apply to me, I have a reason why I can't squat more than 185. But yeah, most other guys in TRP are posers."
You can push/pull a sled. Pussy. Do you think or do you just make excuses for your inaction all day?
Did you see the quotes? They indicate sarcasm here.
Ah, Pushing and Pulling Sleds is the Shit though
The Red Pill simply gives you the glitches (new dots) which permit you to see ways where the dots connect to give a solution that is real.
"Dumbing Down" is when dots are limited and you are encouraged by your programming to connect them only in "approved ways".
What makes the Red Pill great is this ability for it to introduce new ideas which get you to reconnect the dots in a Paradigm Shift.
The more original and flexible our thinking (Amused Mastery) the more it encourages self improvement in others.
Our minds are alive and awake... the beta mind is robotic and programmed.
The Red Pill drug makes our minds more aware.
The original GLO badassery, it's alllll back. And you thought you've seen it all, Samantha Bee.
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There is plenty of that going on as we speak in the comments. Hopefully the furious rationalizion will help them burn calories and delay the inevitable diabetes.
You're not fair GLO... I like you, but you're not fair. Maybe some of them, maybe lots of them, but definitely not all of them.
Learning to depend on oneself, internal validation ARE worthy goals in themselves.
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What you're describing as "real MGTOW" is exactly the situation I'm in. Without the GF part, because she hasn't earned the title yet (and doubt she'll ever).
Ohhh no! Been there, done that, bought the T-Shirt, wrote the book. I'm done. I don't say I'm not going to pursuit a pussy or two once in a while, but I'm done with tending to the whinny entitled bitches that plagued my life for 25+ years.
It's your right but it is also a skewed and limited view. The thing is... most TRP guys I read are in their 20's early 30's. Add 10-15-20 years to that, most will either GTOW or be caught with their "special snowflake" ("this time it's different" LoL) and pluck away in the plantation.
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You're free to love your life the way you see fit.
The common advice is not to get married as the risks outweigh the rewards.
The risks:
Losing leverage in the relationship
divorce proceedings and asset split overwhelmingly favoring the woman
child custody overwhelmingly favoring the woman (first hand experience - my alcoholic mother with a documented history of fuck-ups got custody instead of my hard-working father, and it took multiple drinking-related incidents to get us taken away from her)
The benefits:
a handful of tax breaks
being able to share insurance
As long as you know the risks no one here is going to dissuade you from marriage, but it's basically at your own peril.
The fact the Rollo has a "successful" marriage of over a decade and he recommends that men stay away from marriage due to the current legal system speaks volumes.
Everything is pointing to a getting back to classical moral. For example, RP men will understand at the end marriage being a good part of life (you have already the embryon now in TRP) and will begin to dissociate from hatefull bs narcissistic stuff like "don't marry" due to that being at the end kinda anti-life (especially : anti "how they understood their hapinness").
Then a new blue pill era will happen, because some will take these moral stance without the taking the "way" about how it got like that. At first they will be no problem because previous way of living will keep strong influence, then it will become really frustrating for everyone.
Blue Pill dream, mostly. And I say this as a newly married man who went in knowing the risks.
I vetted her thoroughly before pulling the trigger. I also found a woman whose hypergamous nature is kept in rigorous check by her religious upbringing, her good relationship with her reasonably traditional father, and my own knowledge/practice of TRP principles.
All this to say that I took the plunge knowing full well the risks, and took every measure I could to mitigate said risk. But the idea of a perfectly faithful woman who would never cheat on you is hardcore BP. If you falter, if you fail, if you get fat, and if you let her run all over you, she will turn on you.
There's no such thing as a perfect marriage. And unless you're a religious person (like myself), there's no practical reason to be married vs. having long-term plates. In short, it seems like you're looking to use the Red Pill to achieve the Blue Pill dream. This isn't possible. Instead, you must use the Red Pill to mitigate the destructive, in-built hypergamous nature intrinsic to all women.
This means you have to pre-screen the sluts and the bitches, no easy task. You have to always be on your game. And recognize that you could still be left with nothing. You could be on your game, shooting down shit tests, lifting 5 days a week, and have 8 women lined up, and your wife could still hop on a convenient dick. You cannot control women. You can only give incentives for good behavior.
In short, The Red Pill isn't a means to a Blue Pill Dream. It's a re-organization of your thoughts, to the point where you realize the BP Dream for what it is: a fantasy. Instead, if you choose to get married, you are entering into a game of Russian Roulette where 19 of 20 barrels are loaded. Good luck.
Damn that is bleak. How much did your religion play into your decision to get married? What are the positive aspects you experience from being married? What do you like about it that's better than being single and plating?
My religion was critical to my decision to be married. I'm a guy with a high sex drive, and I can't fulfill it and be a dedicated member of my religion without being married.
As for the positive aspects: My wife is an extremely attractive (to me, anyway, and I would say to most guys) woman, she's fun, intelligent, and loves to have sex with me. All positive things! She'll make a great mother someday, I'm convinced.
I am not the kind of guy who's really able to be single and plate. Maybe it's a remnant of blue pill conditioning, but my goal has always been to find a good woman and stick with her. So yeah I've had girlfriends, and I had sex before I married my wife, but it was always within the context of a committed relationship. shrug.
I like the stability (relatively speaking) of marriage. She's fun company, a great fuck, supportive, submissive, and helpful. I'm also the kind of guy who wants kids someday, and the best way to do that is with a long-term relationship. In my view, my marriage is the best way to accomplish that goal.
Now I also recognize that it's my job to lead, to lift, to knock down the shit tests, and to keep her emotions in check. To give her no reason on my end to stray. Her religious upbringing and the social pressure will help to tamp down her hypergamous instincts. But that doesn't change the fact that I don't control her, and if she decides to go hop on a strange dick today I can't stop her from doing it. You can mitigate the risks but you can never eliminate them entirely.
Is it hard? Yes. Will it continue to be hard? Yes. Do I think it's worth it? Yes I do.
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To you, I'd say, if your moral values don't preclude sex outside marriage, then establishing a long-term, no-marriage LTR with a dependable woman would be your best bet. You can even have children within that LTR, but marriage in the West is setting yourself up for Divorce rape. Once you make it legally binding, you have set the dominoes up for a long, devastating downhill fall, and all she needs to do is tip them over.
You can have traditional Western values, be family-oriented, and still not be married in this day and age. But having children with a woman, married or not, definitely changes the game.
I don't know anything about France's laws, but if I had to go off the general trend of Europe being even more left-leaning and feminist than America, then marriage may be even more of a bad idea. But of course, I encourage you to do your own research.
I concur with this. Can't go around whining "Wimminz bane of society." Let's remember this. Doting mothers created an era of betas and cuck pussies. And doting fathers created a generation of feminazi entitled princesses. It's not like women are solely at fault here. We see plenty evidence men are problem too. Just accept the reality and learn to live in it in ways you can be happy rather than live it in bitterness/cynicism/like a cuck
Anger is the problem, as well as the IDGAF attitude. Yes, men in general should not give a fuck about most things, but we should definitely give a fuck to things that matter.
Thanks for trying your best to make a difference.
From what I have seen- the "anger" phase is a sinister little psychological evolution. Unless it leads you to a general apathy, self commitment and love for who you are- the process of creating yourself- it will make you puke that red sweetness back up and go satisfy the blue pill withdrawals. And that is how you end up the bitter husband of a waifu, kids.
You know, I like this place. I think I'll hang around- make it reek of gun oil and canned salmon. The whole nine yards.
This is the only reddit thread that's made me crack up irl lol.
That is BS. Society needs people who are intelligent enough to pinpoint issues. That will help problem solvers find solutions to those issues.
Very interesting points but I am not convinced that MGTOW and certainly MRA is dealing a false Red Pill. Taking the Red Pill is only the awakening from your ignorance. Some men who have taken the Red Pill choose to pursue legal remedies- MRA's. Some men choose to avoid women- MGTOW. Some men choose to learn how to take advantage of the ruins of Western society and fuck as many gullible, unspervised women as possible- PUA's.
I think it is all "The Red Pill." Although this Reddit is certainly heavily geared towards self improvement as the reasonable solution to taking The Red Pill, other men see it differently. So dividing groups of men who have seen the light merely because we have different reactions is a mistake.
Bold shit naming names though.
Anyone who hides from reality is by definition not of the Red Pill. MRAs and MGTOWs have an uncanny resemblance to Warcraft Guy from South Park, which is to say they are trapped in the virtual.
It's very easy for losers to take the relativist position and pretend they arnt losers. Oh I'm just MGTOW I'm not a fat repulsive piece of shit The whole idea of MGTOW is a fucking joke they arnt men going their own way they are men sent their own way. And finally if they actually went their own way why are they still talking about women? Why do they care so much about women?
At the end of the day there are losers in this world hell bent on deluding themselves. If you belive their nonesence your retarded because even they don't fucking belive it.
I am more defending MRA's than MGTOW's. You may have most MGTOW's confused with TFL-ers although it may also be true that most so called MGTOW are actually TFL-ers: WOW playing, Cheetos scarfing trolls who pretend to hate women while obsessing about them.
Fat, drunk, and stupid is no way to go through life.
Counterfeit as in another sub or MRA's and MGTOW?
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The word marriage doesn't appear once in my essay
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MGTOWs arnt detached they are fixated on women. The more they insist they are detached the more obvious it is they are not.
GLO advice for the man who has had tons of women but older, out of shape and jaded. I've grown tired of the chase, or is it just being fat that makes me assume that? Either way, being jakked and in shape is always better, but that jaded feeling still is there. Guess I just gotta get oer it.
What you say is true and yet there is one big weakness left in the classic Red Pill way of thinking. And that weakness is that we have become stagnant in the way we administer the Red Pill. We are so convinced by our understanding of the truth that we stop looking deeper. Instead opting to harvest our fruits of labor of intensified plate sex marathons.
We say that society values women over men and that this is the truth and so we should find peace and acceptance that women have it easy and can get anything they want, regardless of how they look. As long as they are not to fat or to ugly. But what we forget is that women are still organisms, not robots. They still have to perform and therefor they can fail. They can make wrong decisions that don't end up benenfitting them and they can make correct decisions that do.
Traditional Red Pill would quit looking beyond the surface and deny this truth. That women are still in a 'yin yang' balance towards men. That this is natural law and holds true for all things. And so we teach tons of unplugged guys that even this HB5 can get fucked by Super Chad and he stands almost no chance wihout mindbending game and SMV. He will never see the truth, that she might get fucked by Super Chad but that he will never stick around.
Completely forgetting to discuss, question, debate and argue the set truth we are trying to hold on to so dearly. And so the unplugged doesn't learn much at all. For he will still fuck and date plates who are clear and obvious sluts. He will still remain loyal until cheated on. And he will still believe that everything is fixable by game and proper cold approaching. He never fixes the problems, simply arrives at a new one. We teach them to not think for themselves. Which is the essence of the Red Pill. To stop being a slave that listens to the reality of others. And instead looks for the reality of himself. Engaging in conversations with others to test his hypotheses. To learn and to teach and eventually improve. To find the truth rather than having it preached to him.
If we are to evolve beyond what we are now and avoid stagnation we need to stop the fear mongering and open the flood gates that bring forth new ideas and points of view. To truly make men free thinkers instead of labeling truths true or a counterfeit. The Red Pill doesn't follow you once you leave this website and log out of your internet. The only Red Pill that can do that is the one that you let free in your own mind. To again trust your instincts again and have confidence in your opinions and observations
On the movie Fight Club, Tyler Durden says: "We're a generation of men raised by women. I'm wondering if another woman is really the answer we need." MGTOW thought it meant to forfeit women completely. It didn't. It just means that women can't be a men's goal.
As Rollo Tomasi said on The Rational Male: "Regardless, whatever your reasons, women should only ever be a compliment to a man’s life, never the focus of it. When you start living for a woman you become that woman."
I get the point, but it isn't really helpful. The so-called counterfitters would not mind an actual helping hand instead of "buy this book".
So youre saying we need to jerk each other off?
The Red Pill was actually a program that interrupted Neo's input/output signals enough that Morpheus and his crew could figure out where Neo's physical body was, and manually hack in to wake him up.
I feel like this metaphor honestly works better. The pill wasn't the cure; it was the choice that allowed him to be saved.
My only issue with MGTOWs is that the vast majority of them are simply incels claiming to be vocels (voluntarily celibate). I can't respect that sort of sour grapes mentality.
Can't fuckin stand mgtow. they say they're goin their own way yet all their top posts are about women and how evil they are. doesn't help anything in the slightest
I'd like to add /u/thefamilyalpha here, lube. The rest of y'all are showing us how amazing life can be if we just know what the deal is. TFA has been spot on for those of us who have the expansion pack.
Thanks again y'all.
Hes great, he isnt red pill, important to make the distinction.
If you had to nerd his contribution, think batman, be the pinnacle of man, be valuable enough to minimize hypergamy.
I'm curious about what you mean by that (about TFA, if you forgot). I have issues with him as well.
no issue, he's a great author, and I'm 90% agreeing with his brand and message.
He is not red pill, he admits he isn't red pill. He is pushing the envelope on not giving up on marriage 1.0
Time will tell.
yeah, I pretty much agree with him as well, it's his hectoring style that puts me off.
Does he really? That's just semantics, my opinion.
It can be done. But I don't recommend it, like he does. Coming from me, I've been married for more than 20 years. It's good, but that's only because I'm a stud. It's a requirement.
I won't rehash the discussion, we've already had it on MRP.
What on earth are you drivelling about?
Based on context clues, maybe it's a nice way to say married or with kids?
Rollo is married with kids,
Yes. Married with kids. It's a fun analogy.
Thanks for the shout out man.
Why is this ALL gender related? Where is the real matrix awakening shit? This seems like high school pep talks when your girlfriend dumps you...
This shit, aka taking the red pill, is SO FAR BEYOND gender roles and I can't help but feel this place uses the name RED PILL out of school and completely out of context in order to further your borderline incel philosophies
Someone please tell me otherwise because I don't fucking get it.
'Truth' is a subjective word. By truth does OP imply 'happiness' or 'freedom'. Probably yes but he would be very afraid to use the these words for fear of ridicule.
It would be much better if he substituted 'truth' for 'truth about gender roles'. Then the red pill is lesser of a red pill.
Truth is much deeper. Why am I born? What is my purpose? Where did I go wrong in life?
Could tell this was faggot cream butters writing within the first two sentences. Love the humor. No homo.
GLO is on point here. MRAs have good intentions but they're not really going anywhere as activists. MGTOWs are the ultimate butt hurt "red pillers". I know some of you think your done with women and you refuse to be a part of their world, but you're forgetting one big part. Men exists to fuck women. Women exists to get fucked by men.
I also agree with GLO that venting is not a solution. If you feel the need to lose your cool for a moment go ahead and do so; however it is important for you to regain your composure and conduct yourself as a leader driven to constantly become a better man.
"Men exists to fuck women. Women exists to get fucked by men." Can't we transcend our genes need to survive into the next generation and find another purpose that isnt the basest of all? Strive to be Nikola Tesla not fucking Hugh Hefner or if that doesnt appeal to you, dont shame people that it does and say shit like this like its an priori truth.
What happens, then, when you get bored of wetting your dick (or your condom) or playing the "groundhog games" again and again?
When you've seen and lived through enough shitty moments with bitches and you realize it's not worth the trouble?
Aren't you allow to take a break? To stop playin'? (or at an healthy minima?)
I was forgetting:
Men exists to impregnate women, Women exists to get impregnated by men.
The main and fatal flow of MGTOW philosophy is their delusion that they can sign out.
No, guys, you can't. depending on the country up to 70% of your income is being taking away and distributed among single mothers. We're all cucks. If we have to pay for it, at least let's get some fun out of them.
Oh yes you can! And man, does it feel goood to be out of the plantation!
I am not angry at women.
What Evolution theory has taught me is that nature is a perpetual fight and everybody play with its own cards. Competition is everywhere and at every level, and unity is illusory, even whithin the self. At any moment, anybody can turn against you, shit, even your own cells can say fuck it and start growing into a tumor because they dont want to die for you (Dawkins' theory of the egoist gene).
Once you realize that, you will live a happy life.
note: this idea does not apply only on men-women interaction, it is much wider. I tried to explain it to people but they thought I was crazy ha.
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What lie do MGTOWs tell themselves?
Umm 100 years ago men and marriage were much different and being a men was seen as a Honorable thing.
Men's right movement is water down red pill as they still believed that they can talk and work things out.
They have made great strides and offer resources for men available no were else
Correct, but realizing the system you live in is a important first step
It's ironic because for a movement called MGTOW, they give way too many shits about political correctness.
The thing about those kind of men is that, after it's all said and done, they've swallowed the pill but crave to achieve the same as feminists did, "fight" for their rights and be applauded for doing it, they fantasize with crowds being outraged after finding out we, men, can also be victims of injustice and "unfairness".
I say fuck that, best case scenario the whole world "swallows" the pill, women turn into unicorns and what about new generations of men? They are born into a fluffy pink world and grow to be even worse than current betas, then when shit hits the fan, we are all fucked.
Good post there. The trick for finding the right woman is to find one which is, as yourself, not in fear of accepting and respecting differences between men and women.
Women are often more emotional and less rational. It doesn't help to deny it. If you can kind of accept it as part of their biology, it makes you understand her better, and it can make an argument with her and forgiving each other afterwards much easier. This is of course not only up to the man, but goes both ways. If she is bitchy, she should also commit it, once emotions are down again.
Oh boy! You're in for a wild ride!
What have Clooney taught us? The more powerful the prey, the smarter the predator. And don't kid yourself: you're the prey. Oh, sorry, the Prize.
sigh!
I just think a good balance is key. Both have to give and both have to take. But that doesn't mean that both have to do this in equal ways or in the same situations. Men and women are different. It doesn't help to pretend we are the same. The problem is that modern feminism made women believe that they are both, the same AND different, at the same time. So they are cherry picking and allow theirselves to be different where they benefit from it, and allow theirselves to be equal, again where they benefit from it. And it doesn't work like that of course.
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No. Just gay. Not that there's anything wrong with that
Personally, I have had it with MGTOWs and think they begging for handouts no different than feminists.
Yea, its fucking lonely and hard to be a man.
But when you get there its just not possible to go back and one would never want to do so
Another gold standard excellent post.
I think the major takeaway here, is that action begets results. We are agents, living in a world we can choose to effect, or choose to ignore and avoid.
Feel good words are almost always simply avoidance. The thing that sets ECS and endorsed/vets aside, is that their advice is always from a position of practical application, or deeper understanding of it.
You'll notice, reading top of all time, or going through these few individuals histories, 80%of their posts include actionable advice, about only 20% are purely theory.
Go do, after finding what type of doing works best for you.
Thx again GLO, and thx other endorsed who slaved through trying the myriad methods, then specialized in helping those who need it to use the cream of the crop.
Edit: I myself have quite a few posts in top of all time, over a few accounts, but I've noticed, the best ones are always actionable. Though I love theory, we're men, we need to do things. Not only ponder. Embrace your agency
If I ever begin submitting again, I'll be doing my best to emulate this example set.
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LMAO both the Red Pill and Blue Pill are outdated. TAKE THE BLACK PILL.
What about the kikes? What do we do about them?