I've seen this girl a couple of times who I met a few weeks ago, who has a very skewed idea of what is classified as cheating. I knew from day one she had a bf, shit I even met him myself. He is completely BB and pays for both their rent. She doesn't even have a job, and can't even be arsed to apply for benefits which she is completely entitled to here. It's an amazing king of leech, like she wants to use him and only him.

Anyway, she'd shown many IOI's leading up to this week and Saturday she invites me to hers "to hang before going out". She wants me over at 6pm, a good 4 hours before we'd be leaving for nightclubs, and I quickly discover this was the day her BB left for a week on some work trip. Alright, cool.

 

I get there, the usual escalation occurs until we're tight together on her couch watching some shitty Disney movie. I go in for the hookup, but this is where it gets confusing. She pulls away and says "You know I can't."

Me: Why not?

Her: You know why!

Me: No, I have no Idea why.

Her: You know I have a boyfriend!

Me: Yeah, I do. What's your point?

 

She starts hamstering about cheating, so I grab her ass and ask her if she doesn't think this is cheating. Holding back her giggles she claims "Kissing makes it real." I de-escalate back to spooning for a bit, and while I try to escalate a couple more times the same excuse occurs. I eventually just leave as I was never interested in going out anyway.

I assumed that was all she wrote, but she's continued hitting me up and wants to hang out again but "no kissing." Really I should just next, and probably will unless she starts sending nudes or something. I was just wondering if this is more common than I thought, if anyone else here has had a similar experience to this, and what they did in their situation. Cheers.