A few months ago I was having drinks with a blue pill friend who thinks he's red pill (the worst kind of blue piller). He had asked me how things were going with the girl I was seeing, and I told him they were going pretty well- that she seemed to have good values, that we had great chemistry, and that the sex was great. All but the third item on the list seemed to be a foreign language to him. He then started asking me about the different forms of entertainment she liked- even thinking this matters is a hallmark of blue pill thinking. And, knowing how my friend was going to react, I got a kick out of telling him that she liked the typical lame girl stuff- you know, Grey's Anatomy, the flavor of the month reality shows, Netflix, "the radio," girl movies.

He scoffed with superiority and said, "well, I guess I'd just rather date a cool girl" (This same blue pill motherfucker walked out of the theater loving "Terminator: Genisys," BTW).

This made me laugh the kinda laugh a long-time red piller knows all too well whenever their blue pill friends try to act superior, or smarter, or, god help them, try to give relationship advice.

Why? Because cool girls are a fraud.

Before I continue, I'll state two general premises: a) Everything a person does is a sexual strategy, even if this strategy is unconscious, and b) the vast majority of people try to sexually succeed by disqualification.

With that said, here is the story of my friend Christine- the cool girl.


“Those other girls aren’t real.”

Christine went to great lengths to convince someone that she wasn’t like those other girls. Her experiences had greater depth, her thoughts were more developed, her interests were more artistic, and her feelings were more genuine. Christine had esoteric qualities that made her special and unique, while those other girls were basic and shallow. Christine also had a bigger waist and fatter thighs than those other girls.

She wasn’t fat, but Christine was conscious of her limitations and adjusted accordingly. If she couldn’t compete with those other girls, Christine would attempt to hijack and redefine what it meant to win and then try to convince men that what they thought they wanted was all wrong.

The blonde cheerleader with the big chest wasn’t cool like Christine. She didn’t like indie music, nor artsy movies, she didn’t read interesting novels, she didn’t have an ironic taste in fashion, nor would she be happy having a night-in drinking beers and playing Mario Kart. She wasn’t real, and Christine was; real is what you should want.

The results weren’t very interesting. Christine was able to be promiscuous with high-value men who probably would have fucked her anyway regardless of her advertised depth. She had beta-orbiters who masturbated her unique identity, but probably would have orbited her anyway. And, she had doofus boyfriends who respected her esoteric thoughts and opinions, but probably would have liked her regardless.

Christine thought she needed to leverage authenticity, in the form of a meticulously sculpted identity, to compensate for not being as aesthetically competitive as higher-value women. Christine thought that with enough salesmanship and authentic performance, she could trick the high-value male interested in her for easy sex to relinquish his commitment.

We are primarily animals who want to fuck and this is sexual strategy.

Traditional sexual strategy for women involves those cursed beauty standards which keep feminists up at night. Girly hair and make-up, a charming feminine demeanor, and a sexually alluring body-type which may necessitate trips to the gym or a reasonably controlled diet. Not foul-language, not cigarette smoking, not beer swilling, nor an ego-obsessed girl bent on proving how cool and smart she is.

When women aren’t aesthetically gifted enough to attract high-value men they attempt to change the parameters by-which men are attracted to women through trickery and sophistry. They redefine attraction and attempt to sell the redefinition. Women assume that since authenticity and identity are important qualities which attract them to high-value men, in the name of universal equality, these things are at the forefront of what will attract a man to a woman- if only she can convince him that bikini-model measurements are embarrassing and unsophisticated.

Sex-positive women, or sexperts, attempt to swing their promiscuous behavior into the realm of intellectual sophistication. Of course, the difference between a dumb slut and a sex-positive sexpert is defined by the latter; a man should not want the unintelligent, unsophisticated dumb slut. Her promiscuity is inauthentic, she probably has self-esteem problems, or daddy issues; therefore the sex she provides is undesirable. Wait, what?

Modern female sexual strategy is intended to garner committed interest from high-value men, but end-ups only serving to coddle the woman’s ego and feelings; she’ll still have the same promiscuous sex with attractive men, have the same beta-male orbiters, and date men who exist somewhere between the two.

FULL BLOG: The Cool Girl and the White Knight: Sexual Strategy and Identity