Was watching a Netflix documentary about a kidnapping case from the 1970's and the parents of the girl kidnapped are being interviewed at different parts of the documentary (separately; they are no longer together). Amazingly, both of them had relations with the man who ended up kidnapping their daughter. And when they both talked about it on camera all that we talk about here in terms of the differences of men and women was on display:

The man broke down crying and said that he did the worst thing imaginable, breaching the trust and fidelity established in his marriage. (He gave the guy a handjob after the guy drove him to a remote location and pressured him to relieve him because his wife wasn't having sex with him and he was desperate).

The woman? Smiled as she remembered the feeling of the guy's hands on her (they got hot and heated at a trip to the mountains) and downplayed her actions with selective language and rationalizations. Said the man was more handsome and charismatic than her husband. Said her husband was boring.

It's just too perfect. The hamstering, the lack of caring or guilt, the rationalizations of the woman vs the regret, guilt and talk about fidelity and loyalty and trust of the man. He legitimately looked broken about it even fifty years later. She was still tingling just thinking about it.